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Pukkalolo:
The main problem with the modern man is that he doesn't truly understand the ruthless nature of females.

And because of that, he keeps getting played, used, and heartbroken… over and over again.

One of the most bitter truths about female nature is this:

A woman’s ego doesn’t crave love. She craves power over the man.

You see, brothers, the female ego wants power over you.

When she bills you, shames you or threatens to dump you, she’s trying to dominate you emotionally. When she praises you, it’s not always admiration… It's often a strategy. Flattery is the softest form of control.

Naija women are out here playing and manipulating the typical naija guy from day one…. because naija guys don’t realize for women...it about power, not love.

Women have deceived men that they need to spend money to get sex. But that’s the female ego deceiving men, and most men are submitting to the female ego.

You don’t win women's hearts by submitting. You win by challenging the female ego.

In the garden of Eden, the serpent understands this. This was why he didn’t seduce Eve with sweetness or compliments.

He didn’t sell her the fruit: he sold her the illusion of power. He told her: “Eat this… and you’ll be like God.”

He wasn’t flattering her. He was activating something deeper. It was never about the fruit. It was about giving her something to wonder about.

That was the real seduction.

Master seducers, pimps, cult leaders, expert marketers... they use the same blueprint today.

More importantly, this is how veteran pimps persuades beautiful girls to start hookup(prostitution), sleep with simp and then the money to the love-vendor.

A pimps doesn’t walk up to a pretty girl and say, “You’re beautiful and special.”

That’s what simp does. Simp flatters. A pimps doesn’t flatter: he provokes.

A pimps looks her dead in the eye and says:

“You say you love designer heels and Brazilian wigs? But you’re still chilling with those broke mumu boys who can’t even buy you puff-puff?”

“I see a star in you… But how can you become that star when you’re still living off your mama and washing plates in her kitchen?”

Every sentence is a seductive challenge to her ego.

Because the pimps knows what most men don’t:

The female ego doesn’t crave love. It craves power and becoming “more.”

And the pimps established himself as the bridge to that “more” the female ego crave.

That’s the real game. Not gifts. Not validation. Not playing Mr Nice guy.

Just Challenge her and make her Wonder.

That’s why Eve ate the fruit. Not because she was hungry. Not because it was juicy.

But because the serpent made her wonder what it would feel like… to rise… to transform… to become like God.

You see brothers, women don't want peace or perfection. The garden was perfect. Peaceful. Safe.

The female nature doesn’t want peace.
She wants challenge… she want something to wonder about.

This is why:

– You treat her like a queen, and she still cheats.

– You give her money, comfort, security… and she still leaves.

– You try to make her happy… and she still breaks your heart.

Because peace bores naija women. She wants to worry. She wants to wonder. She wants “more”

This is why you can never satisfy the typical naija woman. She’s wired to chase "more."

And that’s why even the Garden of Eden wasn’t enough.

The serpent didn’t need muscles. He didn’t need money. He just gave her something to wonder about. “Eat this… and see what it’s like to become like God.”

And that one sentence cracked the foundation of paradise. Then Eve started wondering what it would be like to be God.

That's the female ego for you. It want power and dominion. That's the Sapent nature too.

The female ego is ruthless to the nice guy... Because the nice guy gives her power on a platter of gold. He show her love, peace, devotion, and she cheat on him and dump him.

But the man who challenges her, who gives her a puzzle to solve...she follows him.

The serpent knew it.

The pimps lives by it.

And as a Man, if you’re smart, you’ll stop trying to make women happy. And start challenging their ego and make them wonder.

Preach sir, preach!

Rizzputin:
Vetting is a straightforward path with bumps along the way. They're are no bends or short cuts but the obstacles are what makes the process challenging

When guys ask me about vetting, it means they haven't asked themselves two VITAL questions: 1) Am I high value? 2) If yes, WHY?

Once you ask yourself this, it will be clear on the purpose of vetting. I've said it before you're not high Value because you're a man. You're high value because you're a man that HAS things & can DO things.

From that perspective you understand that any woman that doesn't add to your value and/or removes from it will simply not pass the vetting process.

It's important to remember that it's YOUR duty to vet her. Even though she might also assess you, the underlying frame should be that YOU are the one vetting. It is your world. It is your kingdom. If she wants to be a part of it, she has to prove herself.

Now, Before I go into a summary of steps for vetting, I want to make two things ABUNDANTLY CLEAR: 1) 80% of your vetting MUST be subtle. Meaning, you don't go about telling her "I'm watching you oo be careful" OR "I don't trust you. You have to prove yourself" Vetting is under the radar, unsuspecting. There's little room for her to pretend. 2) vetting MUST start BEFORE she becomes your gf. Guys make this terrible mistake of vetting a girl while she's in a relationship to see if she will become a wife. As you'll see in the steps, this is a grave mistake. Because a wife is just a girlfriend with a new outfit.


-------Steps in Vetting

● 1 Ask yourself: What do you want as a man?
Nothing is more important than this. Cuz if you're not clear on the kind of woman you want, you will go for anything. As they say: A man that stands fir nothing, will fall for anything.

So have a list of qualities YOU want


●Step 2: Take note of your resources. Generally as men, we have 4 resources: Money, Time, Attention, Guidance.
These are things that make you valuable. And if you're really high value, you know the work & effort to get them. So the woman coming into your life as gf or wife is someone who has proven herself and CONTINUES to prove herself. The last part is very important. There's no end to how much she should be willing to prove herself.


●Step 3. Ask yourself 2 questions. Question 1; what are the qualities of a woman that ADD to my resources. Question 2: what are the traits of a woman that REMOVE from my resources.

Then you apply the Screen in/out model. For question 1, you screen smart women, resourceful women. For question 2, screen out leeches, gold diggers etc


As you can see, it is obvious why you should be subtle when screening. If you let a girl know you're vetting her, she will act like a chameleon and blend In to who you want. That is why you can bring a woman and different men will have different versions of her "not my amaka" "not my Jennifer"

When women drop shìt tests, do they tell you they're testing you? Nope. They just test and watch you pass or fail. You can learn a lot by observing how women game. They methods they use work on them even more. That's why I encourage men to have interactions with women. It will be obvious how women play their games. Then you can use the same on them


Anyways, this just a brief overview of what vetting means. Maybe in the future I'll create deeper nuanced threads on what moments to vet and how to do it

💯 educative 👏👏👏

Rizzputin:
Lots of men have WRONG beliefs about relationships & women. From red pilers to blue pillers to normal guys.

I've met smart, rich guys who have no clue what they're doing. In fact, the "smarter" a man is, the worse he tends to do with women. Why? Cause logic doesn't mix with emotions.

And women being emotional creatures see their excess logic as boring and a sign of easy manipulation.

So it's always best to show pointers when possible

That’s true boss. That’s why I always say no one has monopoly of the redpill and I hate when someone is trying to proof he’s boss of the redpill. I like the fact you also listed redpillers up there.

Even the great rollo Tomassi still has some misconceptions about redpill and sometimes if you check their thread, you’ll see a lot of arguments there.

Just that here in Nigeria we think everything is competitive. It’s always right to put someone in the light when he’s wrong, In a correct way. Not trying to claim you have more knowledge.

Thanks boss. [color=#000000][/color]

To all men who travel outside Nigeria and leave their wives back home, how do you guys cope out there? Do you ever feel that trusting the sincerity of your wife is valid enough not to suspect that another man is shining her pink heaven or she ain't sharing nûdés with another guy?

Well, I have done shit with married women and most of their man are either in UK or Europe. Nűdës full my phone and I had to create folders....omo, I no fit advice my bro to leave his wife here for more than 12 months after he travels out, because the woman would cheat!

emmaodet:
An unsuccessful woman still gets treated like a woman.

An uneducated woman still gets treated like a woman.

A broke woman still gets treated like a woman.

But an unsuccessful, uneducated, and broke man? Nobody cares if he dies or lives.

💯

AlphaNugget:
To all men who travel outside Nigeria and leave their wives back home, how do you guys cope out there? Do you ever feel that trusting the sincerity of your wife is valid enough not to suspect that another man is shining her pink heaven or she ain't sharing nûdés with another guy?

Well, I have done shit with married women and most of their man are either in UK or Europe. Nűdës full my phone and I had to create folders....omo, I no fit advice my bro to leave his wife here for more than 12 months after he travels out, because the woman would cheat!

Crazy though

Men are the romantic ones not women,a man will see a girl he likes and been fantasizing on spending the rest of his life with her , how to provide for her needs,meanwhile the girl is thinking about getting choked and banged pretty hard.

Societal values are the reasons why many of our girls in line, most women want to practice their fantasy but because of judgemental nature of Nigerians,they just lie on the bed like a logwood, they'll Open up to their fellow women or men they're comfortable with usually male friends usually the gayish type.

They always on survival quick to jump from nigga to another irrespective of your sacrifice, beautiful outwardly but inside cold , meanwhile you are cooking up romantic situations between you are your crush/girl


What I'm trying to say is ,no carry woman matter for your head ,your focus should be your sexual needs and maybe your kids that is if you decide to have one .

Ballzproblemm:
Men are the romantic ones not women,a man will see a girl he likes and been fantasizing on spending the rest of his life with her , how to provide for her needs,meanwhile the girl is thinking about getting choked and banged pretty hard.

Societal values are the reasons why many of our girls in line, most women want to practice their fantasy but because of judgemental nature of Nigerians,they just lie on the bed like a logwood, they'll Open up to their fellow women or men they're comfortable with usually male friends usually the gayish type.

They always on survival quick to jump from nigga to another irrespective of your sacrifice, beautiful outwardly but inside cold , meanwhile you are cooking up romantic situations between you are your crush/girl


What I'm trying to say is ,no carry woman matter for your head ,your focus should be your sexual needs and maybe your kids that is if you decide to have one .

Nigerian girls are now on onlyfans

Even the judgemental nature of society is going down. We nigerians are gradually copying the west. Those social restrictions to female whoring are reducing.

ONDO STATE GRADUATE JOINS ONLYFANS

https://www.google.com/amp/s/tribuneonlineng.com/i-joined-onlyfans-to-improve-my-financial-situation-ondo-graduate/amp/

I mean that is an ondo state based lady feeling proud of her onlyfans nonsense.
Nude videos and pictires are not as shameful as before. The shaming mechanisms are going. Our ladies will soon show their true colors. In tHe early parT of this thread we said its the shaming mechanisms of a patriarchal, Conservative society that keeps female sexuality in check. Those cultural barriers are going down with westernisation

Philosopher1979:
Nigerian girls are now on onlyfans

Even the judgemental nature of society is going down. We nigerians are gradually copying the west. Those social restrictions to female whoring are reducing.

ONDO STATE GRADUATE JOINS ONLYFANS

https://www.google.com/amp/s/tribuneonlineng.com/i-joined-onlyfans-to-improve-my-financial-situation-ondo-graduate/amp/

I mean that is an ondo state based lady feeling proud of her onlyfans nonsense.
Nude videos and pictires are not as shameful as before. The shaming mechanisms are going. Our ladies will soon show their true colors. In tHe early parT of this thread we said its the shaming mechanisms of a patriarchal, Conservative society that keeps female sexuality in check. Those cultural barriers are going down with westernisation

Well said, economy hardship they break the barriers too.

Some men wake up at 18.

Some don’t wake up until life breaks them at 30.

Most… never wake up at all.

Son, no one’s coming.

- Not your friends.
- Not your parents.
- Not the system.

It’s just you your pain, your dreams, and your choices.

So wake up early.

- Fix your wallet.
- Fix your body.
- Fix your mind.

Because if you don’t fight for your life…

No one else will.

As copied

emmaodet:
Some men wake up at 18.

Some don’t wake up until life breaks them at 30.

Most… never wake up at all.

Son, no one’s coming.

- Not your friends.
- Not your parents.
- Not the system.

It’s just you your pain, your dreams, and your choices.

So wake up early.

- Fix your wallet.
- Fix your body.
- Fix your mind.

Because if you don’t fight for your life…

No one else will.

As copied

The world doesn’t hand out wake-up calls.
It sends pain. Silence. Consequences.

Some get the message young.
Others bleed for years before they see it.
Most die with their eyes open, yet asleep.

No rescues. No shortcuts.
Just your habits… or your excuses.

Fix the man in the mirror.
Or fall with the rest.

The loudest man in the room is usually the weakest.
Real men let their discipline not their wallet, speak for them.
Flashing money invites attention you don’t need.
You need silence, which builds security you’ll never lose.

emmaodet:
The loudest man in the room is usually the weakest.
Real men let their discipline not their wallet, speak for them.
Flashing money invites attention you don’t need.
You need silence, which builds security you’ll never lose.

Real power doesn’t need to be proven.
The quieter you keep it, the safer it stays.
Money loves silence.
Let them underestimate you.
Flash it and you feed egos, not futures.
Move like you’re broke.
You’ll thank yourself later.

No one is coming,
To push you.

No one is coming,
To turn your TV off.

No one is coming,
To force you to work out.

No one is coming,
To stop you from scrolling your phone.

This life is 100% your responsibility.

When a boy is heartbroken, He finds another woman.

But when a man is heartbroken, He finds himself.

I have a question for the veterans in the house. They will have many experiences in the game. Good and Bad.

Has anyone been in a situation where you entrust your business and monies with a girl you have had something with either currently or actively smashing(situationships). For example, a sales girl.

How did it turn out with finances & other aspects. Is it advisable?

Streak47:
I have a question for the veterans in the house. They will have many experiences in the game. Good and Bad.

Has anyone been in a situation where you entrust your business and monies with a girl you have had something with either currently or actively smashing(situationships). For example, a sales girl.

How did it turn out with finances & other aspects. Is it advisable?

I won't advise this tho. Remember, don't shit where you eat.

There is this familiarity that comes with having sex with a girl and as they say familiarity breeds contempt. You won't be able to correct her as a 'boss' should and that is when see finish will enter then you are finished.

Streak47:
I have a question for the veterans in the house. They will have many experiences in the game. Good and Bad.

Has anyone been in a situation where you entrust your business and monies with a girl you have had something with either currently or actively smashing(situationships). For example, a sales girl.

How did it turn out with finances & other aspects. Is it advisable?

Sorry to ask, have you done this? Or are you contemplating doing this?

Martinez39s:
Sorry to ask, have you done this? Or are you contemplating doing this?

I haven't but she offered to work. With reassurance that business is business.

We've had of situations of women using money from other men to finance other men.

I want real OGs that have experienced this first hand. Not just assumptions. How do pimps maintain loyalty from women?

KingEarnest:
I won't advise this tho. Remember, don't shit where you eat.

There is this familiarity that comes with having sex with a girl and as they say familiarity breeds contempt. You won't be able to correct her as a 'boss' should and that is when see finish will enter then you are finished.

Thank you.

Streak47:
I haven't but she offered to work. With reassurance that business is business.

We've had of situations of women using money from other men to finance other men.

I want real OGs that have experienced this first hand. Not just assumptions. How do pimps maintain loyalty from women?

This is dicey. In most cases, they won't value that and it's impossible to maintain the sales girl narrative when she has fûcked and is still fûcking you. Especially when other female customers walk and get familiar with you. It's always hard for women to remain that cool and logical when romantically involved with you.

My advice? For your own peace of mind....give her 1 month. Then decide after that. I bet she messed up. I could be wrong though

Streak47:
I have a question for the veterans in the house. They will have many experiences in the game. Good and Bad.

Has anyone been in a situation where you entrust your business and monies with a girl you have had something with either currently or actively smashing(situationships). For example, a sales girl.

How did it turn out with finances & other aspects. Is it advisable?

girl wey go work go work whether relationship or not. Girl wey nor go work nor go work weather relationship or not.

Streak47:
I have a question for the veterans in the house. They will have many experiences in the game. Good and Bad.

Has anyone been in a situation where you entrust your business and monies with a girl you have had something with either currently or actively smashing(situationships). For example, a sales girl.

How did it turn out with finances & other aspects. Is it advisable?

which ever way u choose just monitor the finance of the business.

Anenehi:
girl wey go work go work whether relationship or not. Girl wey nor go work nor go work weather relationship or not.

Which kind of mindset is this, have you been following this forum at all? You want him to gamble his future under probability;What happen to all the lessons you ve learnt so far?

Streak47:
I haven't but she offered to work. With reassurance that business is business.

We've had of situations of women using money from other men to finance other men.

I want real OGs that have experienced this first hand. Not just assumptions. How do pimps maintain loyalty from women?

Well, in the matter of money, whether you are dealing with a man or a woman, never cede leverage or trust someone when you don't have to. Protect yourself at all times. I can say more but a word is enough for the wise.

SpencerForbes:
That’s true boss. That’s why I always say no one has monopoly of the redpill and I hate when someone is trying to proof he’s boss of the redpill. I like the fact you also listed redpillers up there.

Even the great rollo Tomassi still has some misconceptions about redpill and sometimes if you check their thread, you’ll see a lot of arguments there.

Just that here in Nigeria we think everything is competitive. It’s always right to put someone in the light when he’s wrong, In a correct way. Not trying to claim you have more knowledge.

Thanks boss. [color=#000000][/color]

Yup. I like Rollo. Lots of his teachings are spot on. For example the epiphany phase is one of his most accurate works.

Hypergamy on the other hand is one of his most flawed concepts as well.

So you have to smart guy having two teachings: one is accurate and the other is wrong. That's why you must approach topics with a certain level of scrutiny so you can peel back the layers, and find out which topics are actually true.

Women are reasonably simple to understand. You just have to put in the work and keep an open mind

Rizzputin:
Yup. I like Rollo. Lots of his teachings are spot on. For example the epiphany phase is one of his most accurate works.

Hypergamy on the other hand is one of his most flawed concepts as well.

So you have to smart guy having two teachings: one is accurate and the other is wrong. That's why you must approach topics with a certain level of scrutiny so you can peel back the layers, and find out which topics are actually true.

Women are reasonably simple to understand. You just have to put in the work and keep an open mind

True. That’s why TRP is in phases just that down here we feel cos someone has some flaws in his redpill journey, he’s beneath us and we miss the whole point of teaching and learning.

That’s why we have the redpill, black pill,mgtow,patriachy and different forms of the redpill.

Tolerance of others opinions is very vital in this journey.

zenithgroup:
Which kind of mindset is this, have you been following this forum at all? You want him to gamble his future under probability. What happen to all the lessons you ve learnt.

if she wan work make she work, if she nor wan work make she dey go. In business, workers come and go, customers comes and go also, but business remain. Na simple logic bro. Any body can work under my business enterprise, either it be girl friend, sister or mother. They are also free to step down if they disobey my business policy. Stop being emotional in business, follow rules.

Simping is a disease
There are some things you see some guys do, and you just shake your head. I pray their eyes open and see the light. It hurts me to see a king act in servitude.

You are suppose to demand from her, not the other way around.

Anenehi:
if she wan work make she work, if she nor wan work make she dey go. In business, workers come and go, customers comes and go also, but business remain. Na simple logic bro. Any body can work under my business enterprise, either it be girl friend, sister or mother. They are also free to step down if they disobey my business policy. Stop being emotional in business, follow rules.

it's not as easy as you make it seems. I'm a twin, I did a business with my twin brother it almost broke our family. I have to let go, count my loses and move on. Don't do business with someone you are emotionally affiliated with in any way. Business don't mixed with blood and pleasure.
You don't also use ur business to roll dice, because it will always be to ur own loses. So why gambling with your resources?

emmaodet:
An unsuccessful woman still gets treated like a woman.

An uneducated woman still gets treated like a woman.

A broke woman still gets treated like a woman.

But an unsuccessful, uneducated, and broke man? Nobody cares if he dies or lives.

..

So, this week I entered a bank to pay for something,I walked in, and the cashier in there didn't give a fvck,even after greeting her😹.
Woow,I just noticed that a female walked in and she was validated and complimented by the same cashier,there and then I noticed that males are not welcomed..
It's all good though,cos that's what I also do..
I do t notice females,no attention, validation etc..
Cos I've seen the pains my fellow males have been through,so an eye for an eye is what I do..

Fr man,I wonder what will ever make me not to be ruthless to the other g3nder,even to fellow males..
Cos I've seen that a man will hardly help a fellow man. So everyone for themselves..
This is an animal kingdom, I swear 😹