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This should not even be discussed, my wedding is strictly on invitation, even extended family and cousins no go enter list self

Arostar2023:
Each to his own. Your fellow man recently shutdown a city, spending millions of dollars to marry his second wife...

Toor. All the best to him. It's his money and he can spend anyhow he wishes. I trust humans, they will always be available to help him spend, eat, drink and take away souvenirs. I pray the marriage last - that's the most important thing!

Negroid001:
My fiance wants the fanciest of weddings.
She said it's something she fantasized about as a child.

Don't know if I'm harsh buh i told her it's gonna be a low-key thing with few people involved. If she wants to invite the whole world she should be ready to bear the cost.


I can't have people that don't love me eating from the same table with me. If she can sponsor it. No wahala.

That is what every lady that wants to put her fiancée in Big Gbese, usually say.
Its a way of pressing your Mumu Button, as every Groom wants to make his Bride Happy but the consequences after the wedding, has scattered the marriage within a year!
How can a Child, who does not know what Sex or Marriage is, be fantasizing about Marriage?
When her Mates are fantasizing to be Lawyer, Doctors, Engineers and even Police/Soldier!

You never know who's who(frenemies)...naw person step moda kpa her stepson wife and dauta for some selfish reason....,If u lyk do ur wedding for mars,so long u invite pple,u neva can tell who bears Judas among the twelve,till after the cast....but for my wedding I only invited my parents,my six siblings,my wife's parents and four of her siblings,my crew just few of dem,her best selected friends nd dats all,no uncles or aunties,me just did transfer of cash for dem to get their things listed in d marriage list........ "EVERYBODY IS A SUSPECT"

hope4nigeria:
see one of them here, they never feel good about anything in this life, everything is bad and useless to them

Lol so why you in communication with people who dont want anything good to come from you? Another senseless post

TallNigerian:
Why have a noisy wedding in the first place?

The way I detest noise ehn! I hate elaborate weddings.

For me, some things should be private, like weddings.

Only few family members (not more than 10) from each side and not more than than 5 trusted friends from each side should witness a wedding.

Why would you need strangers to witness you exchanging vows? It's a sick mentality

I endorse your comment 100%.

Your head dey there. Kudos!

Every Tom, Dick, and Harry wants to be a motivational speaker.

Arostar2023:
So the marriage collapsed because of the big wedding at Dubai?

A very intelligent comment from you. Clap for yourself.

PastorKosi:
"Not everyone deserves an invitation to your wedding.
Some people are secretly hoping it never happens.
If they had the chance, they would convince your partner to walk away from you — not because of anything you've done, but simply because they don't like you.
To them, your happiness feels like an offense."

When asked ''Shey you no invite me for your wedding'' just apologize.. abeg no vex..

It is simply because they are bad people

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TallNigerian:
Why have a noisy wedding in the first place?

The way I detest noise ehn! I hate elaborate weddings.

For me, some things should be private, like weddings.

Only few family members (not more than 10) from each side and not more than than 5 trusted friends from each side should witness a wedding.

Why would you need strangers to witness you exchanging vows? It's a sick mentality

Omo, dem Curse you finish ooo.

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richeeyo:
Eyaa e come be like say you no too really get joy,
Sorry ooo
Ndo

Dis na where you see say the movie "Troll" dey correct. Some people dey Cursed.

PastorKosi:
"Not everyone deserves an invitation to your wedding.
Some people are secretly hoping it never happens.
If they had the chance, they would convince your partner to walk away from you — not because of anything you've done, but simply because they don't like you.
To them, your happiness feels like an offense."

When asked ''Shey you no invite me for your wedding'' just apologize.. abeg no vex..

This is true. I remember when my uncle told me somwthing related to this more than 20 years ago, he said: "Not everyone that comes to a wedding comes to wish the couple well, some are wishing to make the wedding crash, some want to come and see what is going on in the wedding..." That statement of his resonates deep into my mind.

My fiance wants the fanciest of weddings.
She said it's something she fantasized about as a child.

Don't know if I'm harsh buh i told her it's gonna be a low-key thing with few people involved. If she wants to invite the whole world she should be ready to bear the cost.

I can't have people that don't love me eating from the same table with me. If she can sponsor it. No wahala.[/quote]fiancé = male
Female fiancée
Let's educate ourselves properly

immortalcrown:
You said a lot without saying anything because you have not pointed out how we can identify those who do not want good things to come our way.

If you don't know those who do want to want good things to come your way, how do you know those you should not invite to your wedding?

If by now you don’t know or haven’t classified the people you have in your life, that is a “you” problem.

Yes, not having proper inventory of everyone in your life; thats on you.

Oga settle ur personal matter with people u think they hate u and stop posting parable issues here to convince nairalander .


In life everybody have hater , even the Dead once, just do ur weeding peaceful make people chop go back to their house.

Negroid001:
My fiance wants the fanciest of weddings.
She said it's something she fantasized about as a child.

Don't know if I'm harsh buh i told her it's gonna be a low-key thing with few people involved. If she wants to invite the whole world she should be ready to bear the cost.


I can't have people that don't love me eating from the same table with me. If she can sponsor it. No wahala.

As a man, don't tell her that if she can foot the bill or sponsor the wedding. You "no" is "NO". Tell her it is a simple wedding you want and let her see reason with you. If she can't then you have a long way to go. You guys need to agree together. The same issue related to this will eventually surface when you guys are married (little thing matters). This is why you are called "man of the house." If she's bent on having her way despite what you table down to her, that is a red flag my brother...use your discretion.

Use your tongue and count your teeth...everything must not be spelled out to you...sometimes you have to make a bold and uneasy decisions....friends(even so-called close friends),Exes,relatives...and the list goes on...people ruin beautiful things

immortalcrown:
You said a lot without saying anything because you have not pointed out how we can identify those who do not want good things to come our way.

If you don't know those who do want to want good things to come your way, how do you know those you should not invite to your wedding?

Because it's the reality. You should understand that by now

motymop:
I’ve noticed something in this part of the world
Everything leans toward the negative.
Everyone is assumed to have an enemy.
Even love is filtered through suspicion.
It’s weird. And a bit sad.

immortalcrown:
You said a lot without saying anything because you have not pointed out how we can identify those who do not want good things to come our way.

If you don't know those who do want to want good things to come your way, how do you know those you should not invite to your wedding?

he actually said alot but you are too myopic to see it

immortalcrown:
You said a lot without saying anything because you have not pointed out how we can identify those who do not want good things to come our way.

If you don't know those who do want to want good things to come your way, how do you know those you should not invite to your wedding?

Identifying those that don't like you is not hard to know only that we don't noticed or pay much attention.
Bad Belle or bad people is very easy to locate.
When in gathering their own contributions towards matter can tell much who they are.

When with you what you heard from them says much about them. The hating comments must show but we never noticed.

If any matter arises they always say things in a different way I can't explain better here.

ezra1990:
Use your tongue and count your teeth...everything must not be spelled out to you...sometimes you have to make a bold and uneasy decisions....friends(even so-called close friends),Exes,relatives...and the list goes on...people ruin beautiful things

Take your advice and use your brain. Your worst enemy might be someone that has neither offended you no shown you any sign of hate or jealousy. So, how can you identify those who don't want good things to come your way. Answer the question because you have to identify those people before you decide not to invite them to your wedding.

Wedding is only important for ladies. Real men think and care more about the success of their marriage

PastorKosi:
"Not everyone deserves an invitation to your wedding.
Some people are secretly hoping it never happens.
If they had the chance, they would convince your partner to walk away from you — not because of anything you've done, but simply because they don't like you.
To them, your happiness feels like an offense."

When asked ''Shey you no invite me for your wedding'' just apologize.. abeg no vex..

Bla bla bla bla every time....
It's very convenient for people to point accusing fingers at people , without sitting down to introspect if they're also guilty of the same crime......
My thoughts have always been that there's no one who opening admits to another person that they hate anyone and they don't wish them well and they wish evil befall them, so I ask again how do they find out that some people do this, if they do not feel same for other people ...

As for me , if I don't like you, I don't give a Bleep what happens to you, good or bad, u simply don't exist to me.......but make Una try dry admit say Una sef get some people wey Una no like , instead of always playing victim ....rubbish and ingre.

ednut1:
Mumu talk. How would you know who wishes you good or bad? Even some parents don’t like your spouse duhhh

I wonder oooo, he must have been wishing some people bad to know some people don't wish him well too, pastor my foot.

ednut1:
Mumu talk. How would you know who wishes you good or bad? Even some parents don’t like your spouse duhhh

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PastorKosi:
"Not everyone deserves an invitation to your wedding.
Some people are secretly hoping it never happens.
If they had the chance, they would convince your partner to walk away from you — not because of anything you've done, but simply because they don't like you.
To them, your happiness feels like an offense."

When asked ''Shey you no invite me for your wedding'' just apologize.. abeg no vex..

this post does not make sense at all. There is no fact in what you are saying

You get sense🧠 with full load of smartness. Don't mind those Eve's descendant 🙄😒

Negroid001:
My fiance wants the fanciest of weddings.
She said it's something she fantasized about as a child.

Don't know if I'm harsh buh i told her it's gonna be a low-key thing with few people involved. If she wants to invite the whole world she should be ready to bear the cost.


I can't have people that don't love me eating from the same table with me. If she can sponsor it. No wahala.