My Virgin Wife Now Something Else - Romance (4)

My Virgin Wife Now Something Else - Romance (4) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum › Nairaland General › Romance › My Virgin Wife Now Something Else (33604 Views)

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Reply (Go Down)

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Brazino(m): 11:39am On Jul 10, 2025

Firebox123:
using fake stories to build your profile

Just lol 😂

Don't mind him.
He thinks we are deluded.

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by jmoore(m): 11:39am On Jul 10, 2025

All these fake stories to downgrade virginity.

Go to brothel and pick a wife.

Stop disturbing virgins.

2 Likes

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Watcharena: 11:39am On Jul 10, 2025

Xso666:
She has sworn with everything that she didn’t do anything with the guy. We promised not to involve 3rd party in our relationship but at this point I am thinking of doing that which is why I came here to seek advice and not to act based on emotions because I love my wife so much

you are gone.

Send her to her parent,
She didn't do any thing but she lied that she was at home when she was not
She didn't do anything but she couldn't do video call with her husband because another man told her not to.

She didn't do anything but she quickly discharged the man when she saw you.

Don't involve a 3rd party untill the entire street start pointing at you with their nose, mouth or head when ever they see you.

Your ones a woman start lieing the marriage is gone no more trust, imaging a situation where you are not at home for one week but every night you have to call her on video call to confirm she is at home.

If children are not involved let her go. She can't change. I know it's a very difficult decision but the earlier the better.

4 Likes 1 Share

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Rexymania(m): 11:40am On Jul 10, 2025

dawnomike:
If your story is true... your wife is gone!!!

There's nothing about bn a man in this matter. The right thing to do is to call her parents ASAP.

You don't need advice son, follow. You don't even need an advice. Marriage is over

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Brazino(m): 11:40am On Jul 10, 2025

Firebox123:
if Dominique mynd44 seun or any mods push this post to frontpage

Make sure they delete my nairaland account along to avoid problems

I'll provide proof and evidence where you see the post on Facebook

No be person anonymous message you com copy and paste it here

I've always known the story was fake fake and fake

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by tunapawizzy: 11:40am On Jul 10, 2025*

I have noticed that lately on nairaland, there has been a calculated attempt to devalue girls that choose to keep their virginity intact, and the people behind these we know them, It will not work, nobody force u when u dey raise ur legs, dey collect for secondary school and higher institution.
All these stories u are fabricating will not make new generation male change their mind.
Stop creating fiction to devalue virgins. No one ever said they will not come with their own problems. Even man sef get im own problems. No Worry You will still get ur own man, some men won't mind u the sexually skilled and experienced ones.

2 Likes

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by kakaaa77: 11:41am On Jul 10, 2025

Will they expecting you to have proof, some people can be so funny, are were you expecting it to happen not even talk about proof

1 Like

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Brazino(m): 11:42am On Jul 10, 2025

advanceDNA:
Ur lie lie story is truck-load of g@rba
@ge.... What do you mean by ..u feel like u already made it in life" ..because u married a virgin.....lol

U mentioned virgin like 247 times ...as in .... It's too obvious u are trying to paint an infidelity story with a virgin as the villain Of ur story.....

Sigh....someone cannot even be virgin in peace again

The story is entirely false.
Na copy and paste

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by selleniza: 11:42am On Jul 10, 2025

Your problem is your failure to satisfy your wife desire. She mostly wasn't too into you before you got married, that's why it was easier for her to be attracted to another man.

Well one thing I true, it is easier to sexually satisfy a virgin wife and more difficult to satisfy a wife how has had sexual experiences with several different men.

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 11:43am On Jul 10, 2025

She lied to you that she was at home when she was in the hands of another man, even the video call, she lied too that her phone is down....

Virgins that later became non virgins usually exhibit ignorance or boldness to speak out whenever the man that gave them the security is not visible, so they tend to have a near sexual relationship with any man that can provide that to them, but majority say 90% don't fall into it if their men can quickly reverse such pleasure and pressure...

Another thing, every virgin once deflowered will first begin to find their sexual limits and urges, so don't be surprised, soon she will be off from it...and she will know her sexual libido some even drop out once children start to come..

So to me, the guy is yet to have anything with her , but take more time, the new guy will blend her well and have her...

What you should do is to build her up, teach her boldness, take her to the man and politely introduce yourself as the husband and tell him you just wish to be a friend .....

Let your wife see the masculinity and boldness that is coming from you, then she will begin to dear your next action and cool off...

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Oyindamolah: 11:43am On Jul 10, 2025

Xso666:
Hello nairalanders, I am new to this forum and I was introduced by a friend of mine to this forum to seek advice on how to go about my marital issue.

Here is the problem, I married my wife a virgin and as at that time she was almost done with schooling as I met her when I went to stay with a friend around her school area. So we connected and then I told her I had interest in her and I would like for us to be in a relationship so she agreed and we started dating.

Fast forward to 2024 she was done with school so I went to pay her bride price and then brought her over to Lagos where I stay and then we started living together as husband and wife.

Everything has been moving fine after I disvirgined my wife and I felt like I was the luckiest man on earth and I feel like I already made it in life because I believe as a man if you get a good wife then you have solved 80% of your problem the remaining 20% will be making money to sustain the family.

So of lately I notice my virgin wife became so addicted to sex that she barely can’t go a day without sex and I am ready to give it to her any day any time.

So I traveled for work sometimes around feb 2025 and I stayed 2 weeks over there so when I came back I decided to take a stroll with my wife to get something down the street so I noticed as I was getting something she greeted a guy that sells female stuffs in my street so immediately I turned to talk to her she quickly discharged the guy and then they both acted like they were not talking together well I was unbothered because I mean the guy is just a trader doing his business and maybe she bought something from him and so I suspected nothing. Not until I noticed my wife likes going out to get things and she would spend time outside and this is something she doesn’t like doing before so I thought she is getting used to the Lagos life and so she is enjoying herself now and comfortable now in Lagos. I never had any insecurities whatsoever because I don’t believe she could have anything to do with any man since I married her a virgin although I know she has high sexual drive but I still think she can’t do no such thing.

Fast forward to sometimes around June I traveled again but this time somewhere close to where I live so I told her I would be spending a week or more and so I left to work getting there we lodged and waiting for update as regards to why we are here so on the 3rd day the contractor called and said we should all go and come back that the job has been rescheduled till the next month so I decided to go back home that same day since it was not far from where I stay so I tried reaching out to my wife’s number but she wasn’t reachable so I thought her phone was off, so I boarded a bus home to relax and break the news to her only to find my house locked and my wife wasn’t home and her phone was not going through so I managed to open the door using my spare key and then went inside and took my shower then I went to the kitchen but there was no food to eat so I decided to prepare something for us to eat in the house. I tried reaching my wife again and still not reachable and it was getting late already so I was worried and was curious to know what happened to her because she’s not so conversant with areas in Lagos. So I decided to pray and take some wine while I wait to think of my next action.

Suddenly she messaged me and told me she has not been able to charge her phone and there have not been light in the house, so I asked her where she was and she told me she was in the house and then I told her to come on video call I want to show her something I got for her but she told me the ba3 will die that she managed to use this to call me so I know she’s fine well I told her there was no problem and she should do her to make sure the battery don’t die so we can communicate tonight. So I went outside the compound only for me to find my wife coming back that night with this guy that sells female stuffs down the street and she was so shocked to see me at home she shouted immediately saw me and the guy just disappeared from no where.

Till now I don’t just know what to do because I married this woman a virgin but she has turned something else and I don’t know if to tell her parents or handle this like a man within us here although she told me she didn’t do anything with him that he tried to have her but she didn’t but how do I believe that please guys help me move this to front page so I get more suggestions as I am really confused.

Here are some important thoughts and suggestions:

Immediate Thoughts

1. The betrayal is real — whether physical or emotional.
Even if your wife didn't sleep with the man, the secrecy, lies, and being caught with another man while you were away is a serious breach of trust.

2. Her explanation doesn’t align with her actions.
If she was truly innocent, she wouldn't have been that shocked to see you or lied about her whereabouts. It’s the behavior that raises more red flags than the claim itself.

3. The fact she was a virgin before marriage doesn’t guarantee future loyalty.
This is a painful truth, but it's crucial to separate virginity from character. People grow, change, and sometimes fail to meet expectations — it doesn’t mean you failed.

🧠 What You Can Do (Step-by-Step Advice)

1. Stay calm, do not make impulsive decisions.
Avoid violence, accusations, or rushing to tell people (her parents, friends) until you’re emotionally grounded and thinking clearly.

2. Have a direct, private conversation.
Ask her why she lied about her whereabouts and phone situation. Don’t focus only on the sexual angle — dig into why she’s acting differently now.

3. Consider counseling.
Marriage counseling can provide a neutral space to talk through everything and get to the bottom of her behavior.

4. Give her a chance to explain — but don’t ignore your instincts.
If her story keeps changing or lacks clarity, that’s another sign. You’re allowed to draw boundaries even if she “didn’t sleep with him.”

5. Think about what you want long-term.
Can you rebuild trust with her? Do you even want to? What will it take from both of you to restore the marriage?

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Brazino(m): 11:46am On Jul 10, 2025

gravity4:
Bro let me tell you something way open my eye. There's one married woman I met, her husband married her as a virgin, but I was surprised her strong tendency to cheat which I didn't think was common in virgins. Mind you she hasn't cheated before, but wanted to make plans with me, I had to swerve the plans way. The fact I did that, doesn't mean the next guy she will meet will.

That encounter makes me laugh whenever I hear men say marry virgin wife.

Oga, how did u know that her husband married her as a virgin?
Who discloses such info to a total stranger?
Una lies don dey too much for dis platform o

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Mcslize: 11:47am On Jul 10, 2025*

Xso666:
No, not village. I was thinking of moving to another area maybe a little far from my present one. Like I said I need suggestions as I don’t want to take a decision I might end up regretting

Our elders said that a fowl that perches in tarsh houses in the village, if taken to the city, the fowl will also look for tarsh houses to perch on.

Moving to another area won't still stop her from searching for another man to have fun with in the new area when you are away.

It takes the grace of God for a married cheating woman to change. Instead of changing, they will rather try to be extra smarter and discrete so they are not caught. It's an addiction they love enjoying.

The fun of fvcking another man who isn't their husband is an incurable fun some of them can't do without.

Find a way to catch her red handed first with verifiable proofs before taking any drastic action.

But do not sit on the bicycle 🚲 about this. Get your proofs and catch her first so that if her family or anyone asks you how you come about it, you can provide them the proofs to back up any drastic decision you might take later.

My verdict? The fact that she lied to you when you asked her whereabout, showed that she was lying to you that she did not do anything thing with the man. She actual did something with the man.

4 Likes

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by RodgersAkpafu: 11:47am On Jul 10, 2025

when you m.rons attach undue importance to "virginity"
This is what u get

3 Likes

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Insabanur12(m): 11:47am On Jul 10, 2025

Virginity is highly overrated when you forgot we're all humans with crazy hidden desires especially the female gender..

My problem is not if she got fred by the OK vendor..but if that was the case,,, understand you need to start warming up for issues in your marriage..However try and push and watch her reactions in defense of the ok vendor...

My problem is,,, why must she lie even in your absence that she's at home..
Would have been easy to say I just stepped out to get something.

Why must she come back late in company of the guy your suspecting..How or when did they get that close.

What was the time gap between when you came back before she returned and what exactly was she buying or selling,, giving or taking within that window...

Above all, understand that since you married her as a virgin,,her phone is exposing her to the life she thinks you denies her from exploring...

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by JagaLove: 11:51am On Jul 10, 2025

Though it sounds like a movie. Whatever decision that must be taken must involve your parents

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by bluebay(m): 11:51am On Jul 10, 2025

Xso666:
Thanks for your contribution, a friend suggested this too as I am thinking of changing environment I’m afraid if I still remain in this area and I leave for work it might repeat itself and this time she might be more smarter😔

Please and please . Am sure she’s not yet given you a child . Run please … Run far .

1 Like 1 Share

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Tulipbed: 11:51am On Jul 10, 2025

ALOBAM:
Trust your gut but don’t jump to conclusions without proof. Talk openly with your wife and ask her directly. Watch her actions, not just words.
Avoid dragging her parents in for now.

What kind of talk is this, someone has gone to Bleep, stayed over night, you're talking about dont jump into conclusion for a married women staying over night in an area she new to.then the husband saw her coming with same man.

They have been fucking not once and it will continue.

The guy is a fool,send her back.NONSENSE, what is don't involve third party

4 Likes

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by chris51(f): 11:51am On Jul 10, 2025

Xso666:
Hello nairalanders, I am new to this forum and I was introduced by a friend of mine to this forum to seek advice on how to go about my marital issue.

Here is the problem, I married my wife a virgin and as at that time she was almost done with schooling as I met her when I went to stay with a friend around her school area. So we connected and then I told her I had interest in her and I would like for us to be in a relationship so she agreed and we started dating.

Fast forward to 2024 she was done with school so I went to pay her bride price and then brought her over to Lagos where I stay and then we started living together as husband and wife.

Everything has been moving fine after I disvirgined my wife and I felt like I was the luckiest man on earth and I feel like I already made it in life because I believe as a man if you get a good wife then you have solved 80% of your problem the remaining 20% will be making money to sustain the family.

So of lately I notice my virgin wife became so addicted to sex that she barely can’t go a day without sex and I am ready to give it to her any day any time.

So I traveled for work sometimes around feb 2025 and I stayed 2 weeks over there so when I came back I decided to take a stroll with my wife to get something down the street so I noticed as I was getting something she greeted a guy that sells female stuffs in my street so immediately I turned to talk to her she quickly discharged the guy and then they both acted like they were not talking together well I was unbothered because I mean the guy is just a trader doing his business and maybe she bought something from him and so I suspected nothing. Not until I noticed my wife likes going out to get things and she would spend time outside and this is something she doesn’t like doing before so I thought she is getting used to the Lagos life and so she is enjoying herself now and comfortable now in Lagos. I never had any insecurities whatsoever because I don’t believe she could have anything to do with any man since I married her a virgin although I know she has high sexual drive but I still think she can’t do no such thing.

Fast forward to sometimes around June I traveled again but this time somewhere close to where I live so I told her I would be spending a week or more and so I left to work getting there we lodged and waiting for update as regards to why we are here so on the 3rd day the contractor called and said we should all go and come back that the job has been rescheduled till the next month so I decided to go back home that same day since it was not far from where I stay so I tried reaching out to my wife’s number but she wasn’t reachable so I thought her phone was off, so I boarded a bus home to relax and break the news to her only to find my house locked and my wife wasn’t home and her phone was not going through so I managed to open the door using my spare key and then went inside and took my shower then I went to the kitchen but there was no food to eat so I decided to prepare something for us to eat in the house. I tried reaching my wife again and still not reachable and it was getting late already so I was worried and was curious to know what happened to her because she’s not so conversant with areas in Lagos. So I decided to pray and take some wine while I wait to think of my next action.

Suddenly she messaged me and told me she has not been able to charge her phone and there have not been light in the house, so I asked her where she was and she told me she was in the house and then I told her to come on video call I want to show her something I got for her but she told me the ba3 will die that she managed to use this to call me so I know she’s fine well I told her there was no problem and she should do her to make sure the battery don’t die so we can communicate tonight. So I went outside the compound only for me to find my wife coming back that night with this guy that sells female stuffs down the street and she was so shocked to see me at home she shouted immediately saw me and the guy just disappeared from no where.

Till now I don’t just know what to do because I married this woman a virgin but she has turned something else and I don’t know if to tell her parents or handle this like a man within us here although she told me she didn’t do anything with him that he tried to have her but she didn’t but how do I believe that please guys help me move this to front page so I get more suggestions as I am really confused.

That's a fake virginity. I tell, it takes time for a virgin wife to get used to sex not to talk of Extra marital one.

1 Like

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by chris51(f): 11:51am On Jul 10, 2025

chris51:
That's a fake virginity. I tell, it takes time for a virgin wife to get used to sex not to talk of Extra marital one.

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by bluebay(m): 11:52am On Jul 10, 2025

If your story is true , you should have instantly collevt her phone and go through to get the answer you setting immediately. She might deny everything , you forgive her . But I bet you, you’ll never catch her again. I hope you understand

3 Likes

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Mear23: 11:53am On Jul 10, 2025

You need to summoned courage, if posible let her go immediately.

Xso666:
She has sworn with everything that she didn’t do anything with the guy. We promised not to involve 3rd party in our relationship but at this point I am thinking of doing that which is why I came here to seek advice and not to act based on emotions because I love my wife so much

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Sharpsharp00123: 11:55am On Jul 10, 2025

Xso666:
Hello nairalanders, I am new to this forum and I was introduced by a friend of mine to this forum to seek advice on how to go about my marital issue.

Here is the problem, I married my wife a virgin and as at that time she was almost done with schooling as I met her when I went to stay with a friend around her school area. So we connected and then I told her I had interest in her and I would like for us to be in a relationship so she agreed and we started dating.

Fast forward to 2024 she was done with school so I went to pay her bride price and then brought her over to Lagos where I stay and then we started living together as husband and wife.

Everything has been moving fine after I disvirgined my wife and I felt like I was the luckiest man on earth and I feel like I already made it in life because I believe as a man if you get a good wife then you have solved 80% of your problem the remaining 20% will be making money to sustain the family.

So of lately I notice my virgin wife became so addicted to sex that she barely can’t go a day without sex and I am ready to give it to her any day any time.

So I traveled for work sometimes around feb 2025 and I stayed 2 weeks over there so when I came back I decided to take a stroll with my wife to get something down the street so I noticed as I was getting something she greeted a guy that sells female stuffs in my street so immediately I turned to talk to her she quickly discharged the guy and then they both acted like they were not talking together well I was unbothered because I mean the guy is just a trader doing his business and maybe she bought something from him and so I suspected nothing. Not until I noticed my wife likes going out to get things and she would spend time outside and this is something she doesn’t like doing before so I thought she is getting used to the Lagos life and so she is enjoying herself now and comfortable now in Lagos. I never had any insecurities whatsoever because I don’t believe she could have anything to do with any man since I married her a virgin although I know she has high sexual drive but I still think she can’t do no such thing.

Fast forward to sometimes around June I traveled again but this time somewhere close to where I live so I told her I would be spending a week or more and so I left to work getting there we lodged and waiting for update as regards to why we are here so on the 3rd day the contractor called and said we should all go and come back that the job has been rescheduled till the next month so I decided to go back home that same day since it was not far from where I stay so I tried reaching out to my wife’s number but she wasn’t reachable so I thought her phone was off, so I boarded a bus home to relax and break the news to her only to find my house locked and my wife wasn’t home and her phone was not going through so I managed to open the door using my spare key and then went inside and took my shower then I went to the kitchen but there was no food to eat so I decided to prepare something for us to eat in the house. I tried reaching my wife again and still not reachable and it was getting late already so I was worried and was curious to know what happened to her because she’s not so conversant with areas in Lagos. So I decided to pray and take some wine while I wait to think of my next action.

Suddenly she messaged me and told me she has not been able to charge her phone and there have not been light in the house, so I asked her where she was and she told me she was in the house and then I told her to come on video call I want to show her something I got for her but she told me the ba3 will die that she managed to use this to call me so I know she’s fine well I told her there was no problem and she should do her to make sure the battery don’t die so we can communicate tonight. So I went outside the compound only for me to find my wife coming back that night with this guy that sells female stuffs down the street and she was so shocked to see me at home she shouted immediately saw me and the guy just disappeared from no where.

Till now I don’t just know what to do because I married this woman a virgin but she has turned something else and I don’t know if to tell her parents or handle this like a man within us here although she told me she didn’t do anything with him that he tried to have her but she didn’t but how do I believe that please guys help me move this to front page so I get more suggestions as I am really confused.

so we're u expecting your wife to tell u they did something?

grin

U laid so much emphasis on virginity, u never see anything.

Your wife go collect from virtually every guy on that street cos the update go quick spread n u will b suspecting this guy but na others go dey run things

1 Like 1 Share

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Sharpsharp00123: 11:57am On Jul 10, 2025

Xso666:
She has sworn with everything that she didn’t do anything with the guy. We promised not to involve 3rd party in our relationship but at this point I am thinking of doing that which is why I came here to seek advice and not to act based on emotions because I love my wife so much

the reality is that she will still go back but this time she will b smarter n plan many defence mechanisms n skills

1 Like

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Donbabaj: 11:57am On Jul 10, 2025

Your wife is not something else! See, in this life, every "human beings" whether man or woman likes sexual adventures. It could be out of curiosity, hallucinations and the likes and that is because we all have varying degrees of adrenalin in us. While some have hot sexual drive some are low.

Unless you have God in you. Sometimes you decide, I will never do it again and later you find yourself doing it. My brother, e no easy but Cheating should be out of it completely.

3 Likes

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by joshmanbaba: 11:58am On Jul 10, 2025

I can't even tolerate lying talk less of cheating. My advice to you is to let go of her otherwise you are gonna

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Emeskhalifa(m): 12:00pm On Jul 10, 2025

Xso666:
She has sworn with everything that she didn’t do anything with the guy. We promised not to involve 3rd party in our relationship but at this point I am thinking of doing that which is why I came here to seek advice and not to act based on emotions because I love my wife so much

Person wey lie to u say she dey house when she know dey house na hin u dey believe

Ok fine, she nur do anything, why the guy disappear?

Omooorrrr you get mind sha. Person wey supposed don dey her P. Man house already.

4 Likes

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by kenn4rill(m): 12:03pm On Jul 10, 2025

Xso666:
I really do love my wife and I prayed before I got married to her so I see nothing bad in magnifying the woman in my life

You have learned and unfortunately you learned the hard way.
You better call her people and inform them about everything because she will still cheat again.
Even the Bible advices for a man to divorce his wife is a case of adultery.

2 Likes

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by kenn4rill(m): 12:06pm On Jul 10, 2025

luminouz:
Are you wise? Nope

You are clearly reinforcing what he is trying to sell...that virgins are not what any man should look for...but boreholes.

That dude just socially conditioned you and you didn't even know..

I wish you well in your search for a virgin wife above character.

1 Like

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by SeriouslySense(m): 12:07pm On Jul 10, 2025

Its up to you but trust has been broken, and what else can be broken, what if the men she is moving with are crimminals.

Its up to you to decide what you want, no one can decide what you should do, you are the man, but you have to decide if its worth it for you at this time, in the future you may change it.

Your wife may want to explore the world, she may not appreciate your value yet, and it seems she may be naive and immature, and just want to see the other side and at the same enjoying the stability you bring.

Her sexual drive is everyday, which means she is not satisfied or she is hyper sexual now. And even curious about what is outside.

If she admits she is hypersexual, maybe she should go for counselling, if she wants to change. But if she is not ready, you can find your way.

1 Like

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Wallade(m): 12:09pm On Jul 10, 2025

Xso666:
Hello nairalanders, I am new to this forum and I was introduced by a friend of mine to this forum to seek advice on how to go about my marital issue.

Here is the problem, I married my wife a virgin and as at that time she was almost done with schooling as I met her when I went to stay with a friend around her school area. So we connected and then I told her I had interest in her and I would like for us to be in a relationship so she agreed and we started dating.

Fast forward to 2024 she was done with school so I went to pay her bride price and then brought her over to Lagos where I stay and then we started living together as husband and wife.

Everything has been moving fine after I disvirgined my wife and I felt like I was the luckiest man on earth and I feel like I already made it in life because I believe as a man if you get a good wife then you have solved 80% of your problem the remaining 20% will be making money to sustain the family.

So of lately I notice my virgin wife became so addicted to sex that she barely can’t go a day without sex and I am ready to give it to her any day any time.

So I traveled for work sometimes around feb 2025 and I stayed 2 weeks over there so when I came back I decided to take a stroll with my wife to get something down the street so I noticed as I was getting something she greeted a guy that sells female stuffs in my street so immediately I turned to talk to her she quickly discharged the guy and then they both acted like they were not talking together well I was unbothered because I mean the guy is just a trader doing his business and maybe she bought something from him and so I suspected nothing. Not until I noticed my wife likes going out to get things and she would spend time outside and this is something she doesn’t like doing before so I thought she is getting used to the Lagos life and so she is enjoying herself now and comfortable now in Lagos. I never had any insecurities whatsoever because I don’t believe she could have anything to do with any man since I married her a virgin although I know she has high sexual drive but I still think she can’t do no such thing.

Fast forward to sometimes around June I traveled again but this time somewhere close to where I live so I told her I would be spending a week or more and so I left to work getting there we lodged and waiting for update as regards to why we are here so on the 3rd day the contractor called and said we should all go and come back that the job has been rescheduled till the next month so I decided to go back home that same day since it was not far from where I stay so I tried reaching out to my wife’s number but she wasn’t reachable so I thought her phone was off, so I boarded a bus home to relax and break the news to her only to find my house locked and my wife wasn’t home and her phone was not going through so I managed to open the door using my spare key and then went inside and took my shower then I went to the kitchen but there was no food to eat so I decided to prepare something for us to eat in the house. I tried reaching my wife again and still not reachable and it was getting late already so I was worried and was curious to know what happened to her because she’s not so conversant with areas in Lagos. So I decided to pray and take some wine while I wait to think of my next action.

Suddenly she messaged me and told me she has not been able to charge her phone and there have not been light in the house, so I asked her where she was and she told me she was in the house and then I told her to come on video call I want to show her something I got for her but she told me the ba3 will die that she managed to use this to call me so I know she’s fine well I told her there was no problem and she should do her to make sure the battery don’t die so we can communicate tonight. So I went outside the compound only for me to find my wife coming back that night with this guy that sells female stuffs down the street and she was so shocked to see me at home she shouted immediately saw me and the guy just disappeared from no where.

Till now I don’t just know what to do because I married this woman a virgin but she has turned something else and I don’t know if to tell her parents or handle this like a man within us here although she told me she didn’t do anything with him that he tried to have her but she didn’t but how do I believe that please guys help me move this to front page so I get more suggestions as I am really confused.

Do you have kids?

If you don't, that makes it easier.

I am not going to say this over and over to you: never forget that I said it.

QUIT THAT MARRIAGE NOW! IT IS VERY DANGEROUS FOR YOU TO REMAIN IN THAT MARRIAGE!

1 Like

Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by Deon28(m): 12:13pm On Jul 10, 2025

U should know that anything that has advantage also has disadvantage. I never pray to marry any virgin as a wife. My wife must pass through life and life also pass through her so that when married, life won't be anything to her again.
Ur virgin wife haven't pass through life, and is likely what she wants to do now, u can't stop her.
All u need is wisdom to follow her, changing of environment won't do u any good cos she will still do what she wish to do.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Reply

36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) • My Virgin Wife And DNA Saga • I Saw Pregnancy Test Result In My "Virgin" Girlfriend's Handbag • 2 • 3 • 4

Fellow Nairalanders You All Are Specially Invited To My Wedding • Photo: Guys Which Would You Pick? • Boyfriend Discovers Girlfriend's Cheating Through Phone Call