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Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by nwirinedu(m): 4:39pm On Jul 10, 2025

This is a sign that she wants you to marry her sister as well.

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Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by wallrichy: 4:40pm On Jul 10, 2025

You better get used to the party... 😂🤣... That's a good fiancee you have there bro.... Never knew they still have good babe right there in Naija..... Just telling her sister things you talked about? Aaaaaaahhh, do you expect her to tell her mum or colleagues at work? Lucky boy like you, come and take ice cream..... Aaaaaahhh

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by Paut(m): 4:41pm On Jul 10, 2025

I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin.

Don't let your naive thinking ruin your trust and relationship with your woman.

Try to be contempted with what you have and stop unnecessary complains.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by ericmor: 4:41pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021. We did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month.

Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked.

Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....

I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin.

I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it.

I am very displeased.

Same with my wife. It’s normal because she and her sister are also close pal but if you are not comfortable with it, just stylishly tell her to adjust in that area. And don’t forget, u said u met her a virgin, her sister may be the one that helped her to keep that for you by her good advice anyway

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Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by wallrichy: 4:43pm On Jul 10, 2025

You too wise to be in this world now my brother, quickly die and comeback in 20 years time....Agba......ancestor....long lived....

PlayerMeji:
Don't act foolishly as if you know...

Tell her more about how you appreciate her sister and how you think she's a big influence on your wife...

You have won for yourself a support in her family who is going to be protecting your relationship and interests in her family!

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Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by RosyIsBlessed: 4:43pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
Still doesn't make sense... Her sister fit dey control am for marriage

"Fit dey..."

Meaning u don't know and do not sure if she can or not.

Must everyone be negative?

Anyway I dey blam.e op wey never enter marriage yet he's already coming online to spill things about intending marriage and seeking advice from random people.

At this point na the girl I pity. U don't deserve her. She seems good, innocent and responsible, from your description.

U complain she's telling her sister things yet u are here doing same thing u are complaining about, even worse. Online people go scatter that marriage wey never even happen yet. Continue until a better man will grab her.

Modified: I just realized it's the op I quoted. U are not yet in marriage u are already thinking negativity, when u enter how e go be? Better free that innocent girl make better man find her.

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Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by ericmor: 4:48pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
No she didn't.... But whenever we had misunderstanding her sister is the go to person she vomit everything to

That’s normal bro, in as much the sister is not a bad adviser which you should know from your experience with your woman. The only problem guys use to have with such issue is when the girl refuses to give sex, they will start thinking is her sister that advice her to lock up

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by Oluwadare316(m): 4:48pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
Still doesn't make sense... Her sister fit dey control am for marriage

I didn't expect my younger sister to be telling me everything about her life and marriage . I don't even have the time for such conversations since it's very hard to trust people nowadays. She should grow up and learn to keep some things personal. I don't know a better way to describe the situation, but it's not cool.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by Bamijoko2(m): 4:49pm On Jul 10, 2025

Why do you suddenly wants to cause problem for yourself and your relationship shebi she didn't talk bad against you, she only confided in her sister.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by Lekby25: 4:53pm On Jul 10, 2025

This is a very good opportunity for you to test her love for you. Tell her you went through her phone when she gave you for repairs and let her know what you discovered and that you are not comfortable with the fact that she discuss almost everything that goes between you with her. If she dearly loves you, she will feel sorry for that and promise to change.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by ericmor: 5:01pm On Jul 10, 2025

Badmashiii:
Guy you see this bolded? I really no expect am from you based on you be OG. As such you supposed noh sey u no fit trust any human being 100%.

Just because I’m close to you doesn’t mean I trust you like that. I have friends i hang out with and still don’t trust them on some things. The more we hang out is the more I get to know what they can do and cannot do. Nobody is perfect, we all only managing one another

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Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by BXNX: 5:13pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021. We did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month.

Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked.

Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....

I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin.

I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it.

I am very displeased.

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Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by Shimbo96(m): 5:19pm On Jul 10, 2025

If she is still dating you after all this years discussing your issues with her sister then you are lucky... Invading her privacy is another thing but I believe you are lucky.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by paragon10(m): 5:25pm On Jul 10, 2025

That's a red flag,if she tells her sister everything. Talk to her about it,is she doesn't change;start planning your exit.Relationship/marriage work best when there is little or no external interference.There should be somethings that only both of you should know and keep to yourselves. Over sharing attract negative advice that will destroy that relationship.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by iykololo(m): 5:26pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
Still doesn't make sense... Her sister fit dey control am for marriage

Exactly!

The day you have an issue with her, she will tell her sis and take her sister's advice, even if it is against her resolving it. I have seen ladies like that, and I fled from 1. I am not saying you should.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by CorperKola: 5:30pm On Jul 10, 2025

Demigod22:
To be honest, I have similar relationship with my elder brother. He tells me everything, and he takes my advice on everything. Anytime they have misunderstanding, his wife will call me immediately to explain to me, I will ensure they settle immediately.

The bond is so crazy that my brother tells me about his sex life with girls before he married, who is good in bed or bad. I open up to him about my relationship also.

When he makes money, I will be the first to know, if he wants to change his car, I will be the first to know, when he gets a girl pregnant, I will be the first to know. His wife once told me jokingly that I am the number person her husband loves so she doesn't joke with me.

Back to your feelings, you can politely tell her. Start a casual conversation with her by asking her who can she tell all her secrets without fear of being snitched on? You will tell her that for you, she is the one, then when she says her sister, tell her why she shouldn't discuss everything with her sister especially her relationship with you because you guys are a team.

This will make him seem controlling i understand its natural for him to feel naked and exposed but its her sister for God's sake. Not a male bestie
It might also make her trust you even less going forward
Whu wont you want her to run your issurs with a third party
Does he have ulterior motives or evil intentions for her
Why does he want to isolate her completely

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Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by McBishop2020: 5:32pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
No she didn't.... But whenever we had misunderstanding her sister is the go to person she vomit everything to

Be careful before you lose God's gift to you. From all indication you have a gold of a wife with you.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by amazonguru001: 5:35pm On Jul 10, 2025

webincomeplus:
The irony here is that it could be the same sister who's been guiding her and helping her to be and remain the good lady you've always known her to be.

So, tread softly over the matter.

You are absolutely right.

I have a younger friend like that.
He is abroad.
He has been having lvery rocky relationships.
He tells me everything and he doesn't lie about his inadequacies and what transpires leading to what not.

I always stay on the side of truth and never sentimental.
I tell him the truth, letting him know his wrong whenever he is the one at fault.

The spouse does not know i play this role, always having her back, scolding the guy if need be.

Well it is what it is.

Thanks be to God for the gift of good friends.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by femi4: 5:39pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021. We did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month.

Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked.

Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....

I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin.

I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it.

I am very displeased.

You have to earn it. You want to come between siblings that lived practically together for ages. If you're not comfortable, let her be. Don't be a control freak in a relationship

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by pongwa(m): 5:53pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021. We did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month.

Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked.

Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....

I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin.

I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it.

I am very displeased.

it just reflects the level of closeness between them. However, You need to confirm if she does this within her family circle and not just with her sister only (it's the norm for some families). After doing this, you need to have a discussion with her by letting her know boundaries shouldn't be joked with going forward. Watch her after this, if she does not adjust ditch her if you can't handle it.
This might not be a bad thing or could be to your advantage if you handle it expertly

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by softy(m): 5:58pm On Jul 10, 2025

[quote author=omolasho post=136022397]Oga no disturb us here o! You got VIRGIN, beauty, hardworking. What else are you looking for?; perfection; Angel right?

Na people like you go marry dey fight their wife because of how she dey press toothpaste. Make i no stone you there o!!![/quote]
i laugh in Swahili. grin

the issue could be swinged both ways, emotionally: good or bad.

OP, politely tell your spouse about your concern in a joking way and see her reaction. then be serious about if you sense negativity. this matter must be discussed before marriage and know where each of you stand.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by Konquest: 6:04pm On Jul 10, 2025

Double0h7:
I don’t see an issue here. She uses her sister as a sounding board. She probably discusses everything that she’s conflicted about with her sister. Some people need this kind of relationship for their own mental well-being. Instead of ruminating over issues, she has someone who she trusts and respects their input. You can’t tell her you’re displeased with this. Let the girl breathe.

If her sister is in fact a positive influence on her then you should trust that she would correct her sister when she’s wrong about something she brings to her.

I like the well-grounded perspectives that you being a female emphasized upon in your post right ABOVE.

In the event that a girl has NO older or younger biological sister, what's your take on having a female first cousin (or second cousin) can replace the lack of a biological sister when it comes to trying to resolve the pressures of every living?

I have only one younger sister who is doing well in her 40s and I've occasionally wondered if her being the only female ever made her lonely or affected her on a subconscious level (among her older and younger brothers, although she had our mother to have convos with).

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by MrSly(m): 6:07pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021. We did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month.

Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked.

Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....

I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin.

I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it.

I am very displeased.

When there is case one tends to make a mount out of a mole. Anyways we are not here to invent a problem that does not exist. We are here to dissect real issues and from all indication you are not are candidate. You ha e got no issues.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by MrSly(m): 6:10pm On Jul 10, 2025

Baronthecelebri:
Divorce her ASAP.
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OP the advice you are looking for bas arrived. Sheh you no want go and marry your babe in peace. Oya come gather your advice here. grin

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by AngelahFlo(m): 6:12pm On Jul 10, 2025

When it comes to matters of this nature, wisdom is the principal thing to work with.
1. She may be discussing innocent gists with her sister today but what happens when you guys have a conflict. Is this how she'll run to her sister to download the red tales to?

2. Why isn't she comfortable discussing things with you too even if it's random gists or old wives tales?

What you should do is confront her about it but do it with wisdom letting her know that you're a team and that you want you guys to operate on a platform of honesty and openness with each other. It's one of the first things I establish with all the female friends I've had. I make myself open to them by sharing parts of me with them which prompts them to share theirs with me.
I wanna ask, do you guys spend time having intimate discussions instead of just making love and being romantic. This could be the reason she's more free with the sister than you.
Being romantic and Intimacy are two different things don't let their similarity confuse you.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by DJInfluence: 6:17pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
.
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin.

Yet you went thru her phone.

People are never satisfied and always looking for what's not there.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by Double0h7(f): 6:27pm On Jul 10, 2025

Konquest:
I like the well-grounded perspectives that you being a female emphasized upon in your post right ABOVE.

In the event that a girl has NO older or younger biological sister, what's your take on having a female first cousin (or second cousin) can replace the lack of a biological sister when it comes to trying to resolve the pressures of every living?

I have only one younger sister who is doing well in her 40s and I've occasionally wondered if her being the only female ever made her lonely or affected her on a subconscious level (among her older and younger brothers, although she had our mother to have convos with).

The beauty of the human experience is that we don’t miss what we never had. She’s never had a sister so she doesn’t know or feel the absence of one.

Your sister has adapted to her unique circumstances. I’m sure she has friends, and female role models who she can bounce ideas off.
Of course, she’ll have a deeper relationship with your mum being the only girl. I wouldn’t worry about her.

Women, unlike men, prioritise their mental health. Most of us are talkative by nature so we rarely ruminate about our feelings, we talk it out.

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Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by PlayerMeji: 6:28pm On Jul 10, 2025

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wallrichy:
You too wise to be in this world now my brother, quickly die and comeback in 20 years time....Agba......ancestor....long lived....

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Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by BrickDevo: 6:32pm On Jul 10, 2025

please rest your mind, there will always be someone she tells everything, you can't change it, just live with it. if you check yourself you also have someone you tell everything.

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by Berankis: 6:37pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021. We did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month.

Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked.

Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....

I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin.

I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it.

I am very displeased.

Oga this one is not a problem. Just caution her that's all. There is no perfect woman or man anywhere, just manage the one wey God don strap you with. You will all be fine...

Re: My Fiancee Tells Her Sister Everything.... by yemmit90: 6:38pm On Jul 10, 2025

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021. We did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month.

Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked.

Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....

I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin.

I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it.

I am very displeased.

Congratulations that you know who she really is, no need to ask her anything, just don't tell her your deepest secrets henceforth.

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