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Bigcowhorn:
I heard that problem with olosho but never betting

Everyday a different woman. Some days three different women. Money never lasts in my hand and when what I have finished I steal to rush and Bleep

Today I'm a satisfied business man with a young wife




Until you say enough is enough you won't stop and it will destroy you

whaoh glory to God !

tunnyl:
Have you tried God?. He will fill that incomplete hole for you.

have you tried common sense?

To quit these habits you must replace them with the following;
1)Think of your losses so you can quit betting
2) resort to masturbation so you can quit carrying oloshos it may sound weird but body nor be firewood
3) Block all those loan sharks app if possible change your number and start your life afresh

ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start

SocialJustice:
Abeg rest, what will God do? The millions of people starving everyday, what has prayer solved? Even you typing, when was the last time you ate good food? What has God done for you?

😁😁😁

Go jail first before you come out at least after 2 years ur head go correct

tobore4u:
Don't ask Nairaland members for contact details (email, phone, bbpin) or investments.

I don't understand. When did I ever ask for any of that?

Tekashi89:
To quit these habits you must replace them with the following;
1)Think of your losses so you can quit betting
2) resort to masturbation so you can quit carrying oloshos it may sound weird but body nor be firewood
3) Block all those loan sharks app if possible change your number and start your life afresh

bro you don't even know anything about addictions just stop abeg

Chickensoup:
I don't understand. When did I ever ask for any of that?

your comment up there made alot of sense.....I just wanted to quote it but Nairaland 40 words rule just won't allow.

So sorry.

Na hypnosis them Dey use treat ina type

RavinWolf:
Ah my guy, e be like say you don chop life for front and life dey drag you for back now! But no worry — as e be say you still dey alive to type this message, hope never lost. 😅

See ehn, I go yarn you something wey go clear your head small:


Since 2015 you dey bet like say na Bet9ja go carry you enter Forbes, oloshos don dey dance shoki for your head since 2022, loan sharks dey pursue you like say you na meat for soup. Bro, na movie wey Netflix never get budget to produce! 🎬😂

But hear this:

🗣️ Wanda bata ji tsoron ruwan sama ba, zata yi wanka da safe!
Person wey no fear rain go baff early morning.

You don start the cruise, na to dance the music remain.

🗣️ Ti eniyan ba subu, ko maa wo iwaju, kì í maa wo ẹhìn!
If person fall, make e dey look front, no be back.

My brother, the shame no dey back, na tomorrow fit shine like new iPhone. 📱

So here be my funny but solid advice:

Bro, enter lowkey mode like snake wey just chop goat. Block all loan sharks like say you dey do ‘social media detox’. Avoid olosho like malaria mosquito. Na time to change password to ‘NewLife2025’ and press reset.🔄

And if dem ever catch you? Just pretend say you be motivational speaker wey dey study ‘financial trauma for self-growth’ — e dey work! 🤓

No forget, No be who chop pepper soup first dey win drinking competition. 🐟

Gather your life like garri for bowl before water soak am finish. You fit still turn this script to testimony.

I dey your back like MTN network, small small, we go dey alright. 😎💪🏾

You wan make I help you draft fake apology message to one of the loan sharks or oloshos wey still dey disturb you? 😂

Try dey comment without Chatgpt sometimes. Don't become an AI addict

tobore4u:
your comment up there made alot of sense.....I just wanted to quote it but Nairaland 40 words rule just won't allow.

So sorry.

Oh that's ok. They should remove the 40 words rule since I find no reason for it. I believe if the algorithm shows people's distaste for such, they will eventually remove it. Good morning and have a lovely day.

ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start

If you care, I can be of help, send me a pm or drop your WhatsApp number, let me chat with you.

tunnyl:
Have you tried God?. He will fill that incomplete hole for you.

you don’t try God you serve him with all your heart❤️, God is not a politician

tunnyl:
If you don’t see my answer as adequate or valid then God will answer you in heaven when we all meet him. No stress me abeg. I know prayers works thats all that matters.

My friend shut up!

Once logical and empirical explanation is required of you folks, you divert with the "don't stress me abeg" excuse.

ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start

You need absolute self control and determination.... Nobody can help you if you're not ready to help yourself, Heavens help those who help themselves according to una bible and Qura'n....Think about this very well especially at night,as k yourself your age and is it how you want to continue your life ?

tunnyl:
Imagine! Problem wey u no fit see or touch aren’t you supposed to know it requires communication with the unseen realm to deal with it! There are so many people with this issues and they like to argue a lot.

He has seen the problem already he just need to work on himself

ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start

You seriously need to talk to someone

SocialJustice:
Abeg rest, what will God do? The millions of people starving everyday, what has prayer solved? Even you typing, when was the last time you ate good food? What has God done for you?

Really Your venting from a place of limited understanding and projected igno*ance (no pun intended). We all have our journey and phases. Even the men after God's heart in the Bible went through their own phases. Even the son of God was persecuted.

tunnyl:
Have you tried God?. He will fill that incomplete hole for you.

Best advise, yet.

SocialJustice:
Answer my question and stop giving the usual religious useless answers.

Poverty just wear you iro & buba. Sorry, e go better.

SocialJustice:
Abeg rest, what will God do? The millions of people starving everyday, what has prayer solved? Even you typing, when was the last time you ate good food? What has God done for you?

must everything be Joke... Pls stop

AngelicBeing:
1)Because FAITH WITHOUT WORK is Dead

2) FAITH standing alone without corresponding ACTIONS is Dead

3) Prayers without Action is dead

4) You can be Religious( prayerful )and not be righteous or Void of the Fear of God and it leads you to a Dead end

5) Faith without corresponding ACTIONS, like Works, Love for one another, Fear of God, , thinking SMART and working hard is DEAD


6) God has given us Brains to think so that we can allow him to rest


7) God is tired of useless prayers void of Mercy, godliness, Fear of God, love your neighbor as you love yourself, work and THINK SMART, leave your Comfort Zone to Solve problems of people that will bring wealth and money into your hands etc as long as you keep doing some of what l enumerated above, you or the Nation will start seeing changes otherwise FAITH WITHOUT WORK IS DEAD......





Hahaha 😂

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I like your optimism. You believe that God is tired of useless prayers while I belong to the school of thought that God had removed Nigerian sim card and flushed it down the toilet a long time ago. He can't call Nigeria and his number is not reachable by Nigerians.

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InvertedHammer:
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I like your optimism. You believe that God is tired of useless prayers while I belong to the school of thought that God had removed Nigerian sim card and flushed it down the toilet a long time ago. He can't call Nigeria and his number is not reachable by Nigerians.

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Huh 😜, Hian Hehehe

I hope and pray you see my post for you.

You need to believe what I'm going to tell you because I was in your exact situation. The difference was that instead of olosho, I had girls I slept with! Mind you, I'm married.

There's no kind of money I didn't bet with. Funny enough, it was all on my ohone. I never went to a betting shop. I placed bet with my rent, customers money, money meant for business and money that could change my financial situation.

I couldn't pay my kids school fee, we got evicted from the house, I ran my wife's business down. I ran my life down. I lost customers trust and ran into severe debts.

At the same time I was a chronic masturbator for over 20 years! I felt terrible, useless and worthless. It was evident all over me, my handsome Ness started to disappear and I lost sleep.

The turn around: as cliche as it may sound. Disregard all enemies of God saying what can Jesus do for you or how can God help you. Your effort can't help you get out bro. Start my telling Jrsus te help you. Trust me. He hears you. Don't read memorize psalms 121 but find a Bible to always read it till it occupies your mind. Psalsm 46 is a big deal. God delivers. He set me free and I'm still healing from the scars. Shalom.

ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start

lizychimamanda:
must everything be Joke... Pls stop

I wasn't joking. What made it seem like a joke to you? No one has ever challenged God in front of you? The God you know is one type, there are other forms of God in other religions. In other religions there are Gods who only love no matter what you do, no blackmail, no promise of hell fire, no big man sitting on a throne.

The only reason you are Christian is colonisation. Your God is not bigger than other Gods out there.

Hotguy27:
Betting is a big problem. I was introduced into it by a colleague in the office in 2017 or so.I was earning over N400k then as monthly salary. I lost over N500k to it. I took a bold step to delete my betting account and that was how I stopped it.

Fast forward to 2024 another colleague in the office showed me his small small winnings and before you know it, my old habbit came back. I created a betting account and within a year I lost over N7m. I was betting with N200k or N300k so that I could win big but nothing.

I took another break for about 4 months but each time I remembered the total amount I had lost, it would pain me. In May 2025, I started again but I was lucky to win N15.3m with N240k.

I feel happy now that I have gained something from these terrible gambling companies

I do not advise anyone to go into gambling. It has evil spirit that won't leave you once you go in there. Unfortunately, over 99% of gamblers will never recover their money "invested" in it.

good to know.

Do well to live within your means

What takes me back then, when I have a need

Money might come into my hand, let's say 80k and I begin to think of all the things I need to do if I could increase it. Or I pinch from money that's not mine and think bet can solve it. That's where the problem lies. Or going there when bored or need to charge.

I envy you who have a companion and something to start with. Do tread cautiously henceforth and let the past deter you. Experience is the best teacher. Despite your role as head in the family, submit to your other half as it relates to financial matters. Having someone help you plan can go a long way. At times, addicts like me keep to ourselves when having to make a financial decision, that's where the problem lies

Even when I win, lust takes me back.