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| You Can Never Gather Enough Money To Get Married by giftson102(op): 1:42pm On Jul 13, 2025 |
.No matter how much you save, it will still feel like it’s not enough. No matter how prepared you are, something will always seem imperfect on that wedding day. If you’ve ever planned an event, you’ll understand that no event is perfect. So why stress yourself unnecessarily? During our wedding, we let go of a lot of things that didn’t matter. A vendor once told us the wedding gown was N100,000. My wife looked at her and asked, “You mean rent, right?” We later got her wedding gown for about N33,000 and she looked amazing. When it came to food, vendors gave us a bill of N800,000. I just laughed. We called our aunties, bought rice, and they did the cooking joyfully. And yes, the food was delicious. Photographer quoted N200,000. We found someone who did the job for less than N20,000. Simple. Clean. Decent. The problem is, you worry too much, and that’s why you're scared to take the first step. If you truly have what it takes to take care of a woman and build a home, focus more on that than the wedding day itself. Fix a date. Agree with your partner. Talk to your parents. And move forward. Marriage is not about how grand the wedding day looks — it’s about how peaceful the home is after the celebration. Do what is within your means and leave the rest. Even if you wait five more years, it still won’t be perfect. Perfection is a myth. If you’re in a serious relationship and you both feel ready, go ahead. Set the date and watch God move. |
| Re: You Can Never Gather Enough Money To Get Married by immortalcrown(m): 1:47pm On Jul 13, 2025*. Modified: 2:23pm On Jul 13, 2025 |
The body of the article doesn't align with the caption. You got married because you had enough to get married. Otherwise, you would have borrowed money for bride price. If you didn't get enough resources for your marriage, you and your wife will be homeless and begging for food. Put the record straight. Some people have enough for marriage while others don't. Some boys that have neither a job nor even one room apartment are being pressured into marriage by some desperate girls. Will you tell such boys to go ahead with the marriage and that they can never get enough for marriage? giftson102:
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| Re: You Can Never Gather Enough Money To Get Married by Dickwahala: 2:07pm On Jul 13, 2025*. Modified: 2:56pm On Jul 13, 2025 |
Abeg check my signature o Make this bot no ban me |
| Re: You Can Never Gather Enough Money To Get Married by Letmecum: 2:19pm On Jul 13, 2025 |
Amazing we keep learning everyday. But what about renting a hall that's very important for the event |
| Re: You Can Never Gather Enough Money To Get Married by labake1(f): 3:23pm On Jul 13, 2025 |
Na you want do big wedding na |
| Re: You Can Never Gather Enough Money To Get Married by Odafe360: 6:17pm On Jul 13, 2025 |
But please make sure you at least save a significant amount to run the home before you marry. So that you won't die of depression when you marry. |
| Re: You Can Never Gather Enough Money To Get Married by Blizzy9ja: 6:20pm On Jul 13, 2025 |
You say wetin ?.... No matter how you arrange this talk, person wey dey go marry for Akwa Ibom no go gree... |
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