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Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Eriggadune(op): 2:35pm On Jul 18, 2025
Hello nairalanders, I hope y’all doing well? I really want to appreciate every nairalanders for their contributions about my last post on my nasty breakup with my ex, the breakup really hit me hard but I just had to let her go after getting some very beautiful advice from nairalanders, I moved back to my Father’s compound and began staying with them, whilst working out every week and jelqing too, reading and smoking weed secretly though, and through this period of over 6 months I began self learning crypto and with the help of my weed, I aced it and now at peace financially I really feel like I need a lady to date again and I did approach a few whenever I fancy and did vibe with some but always end up disinterested not long after but one did catch my interest but the problem now is she is the daughter of a separated couple and on the first date she had so many unkind words about her father and she’s still bitter towards her father.
She still wants to go back to school and doesn’t see anything bad in her guy sponsoring her to school. I mean with the way my last relationship ended, I don’t want to feel like a girl loves me for what I can provide.
Now I’m confused cos I really like her but my only concerns are what I listed above, please I need advice.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Pupanchie: 2:46pm On Jul 18, 2025
Do not go beyond what you have just said, you will regret either by sponsoring her to school or for you loving her, I can't say more than what I've told you cos it's an experience, all you need is just to try and keep getting money, u need no woman or lady for now, when the time comes you will know
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by FitCorper: 2:55pm On Jul 18, 2025
You are doing well op. Aside d weed I wish u to keep getting money and banging dem hoes, men dont catch feelings, except it’s for pets, kids or immediate family.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Talkisneeded(m): 2:55pm On Jul 18, 2025
Went through your breakup post and I’m so glad you’ve decided to turn a new leaf and get yoursel a decent crime-free life…
About the relationship game,good girl still exist,but to find them is like looking for a needle in a haystack…

The one you are currently seeing looks like a bag of redflag,someone that hates her father will forever see other men with the lens she viewed her father..,
You are going to need to do a lot of convincing and a lot of love,plus don’t forget love to in this generation is defined by the insane amount of luxury you can bring to the table….

I foresee one end in your potential relationship with her,but what do I know,way crazy has happened my bro..,

So I wish you Goodluck, because you’d need truckload of it…







But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Samantha125(f): 2:59pm On Jul 18, 2025
With the help of your weed? I give up...😒😒😒
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Eriggadune(op): 3:04pm On Jul 18, 2025
Pupanchie:
Do not go beyond what you have just said, you will regret either by sponsoring her to school or for you loving her, I can't say more than what I've told you cos it's an experience, all you need is just to try and keep getting money, u need no woman or lady for now, when the time comes you will know
Thanks so much for your advice, although I didn’t offer to train her to school, I just felt uneasy with her views on that topic. I just need a lady that will give green flags and be consistent throughout so I can commit, I’m not a kid anymore.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Eriggadune(op): 3:07pm On Jul 18, 2025
FitCorper:
You are doing well op. Aside d weed I wish u to keep getting money and banging dem hoes, men dont catch feelings, except it’s for pets, kids or immediate family.
No bro, for 8months I didn’t release any seed, once I started smoking weed it drew my attention to lack of discipline and I am glad to say thank God I am now more disciplined than anytime in my life. I just need the right one to start a family with, not interested in sleeping around.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Eriggadune(op): 3:09pm On Jul 18, 2025
Talkisneeded:
Went through your breakup post and I’m so glad you’ve decided to turn a new leaf and get yoursel a decent crime-free life…
About the relationship game,good girl still exist,but to find them is like looking for a needle in a haystack…

The one you are currently seeing looks like a bag of redflag,someone that hates her father will forever see other men with the lens she viewed her father..,
You are going to need to do a lot of convincing and a lot of love,plus don’t forget love to in this generation is defined by the insane amount of luxury you can bring to the table….

I foresee one end in your potential relationship with her,but what do I know,way crazy has happened my bro..,

So I wish you Goodluck, because you’d need truckload of it…







But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes
Thanks so much for the words of encouragement brother. I will heed your advise.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Eriggadune(op): 3:10pm On Jul 18, 2025
Samantha125:
With the help of your weed? I give up...😒😒😒
Yes my love, weed helps to detach you from things which is the important if you want to learn trading. Insightful
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by FitCorper: 3:14pm On Jul 18, 2025
Eriggadune:
Yes my love, weed helps to detach you from things which is the important if you want to learn trading. Insightful
I will advise you keep some things private. Never forget “your secret is your success”. Enjoy life bro.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jul 18, 2025
FitCorper:
You are doing well op. Aside d weed I wish u to keep getting money and banging dem hoes, men dont catch feelings, except it’s for pets, kids or immediate family.
pray your sister don't fall victim to the advise you gave him
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by FitCorper: 7:46pm On Jul 18, 2025
Firebox123:
pray your sister don't fall victim to the advise you gave him
Why the senseless comment from u? Did anybody e force u to post something?
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by labake1(f): 8:52pm On Jul 18, 2025
Weed? I no dey donate money for kidney surgery
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Nobody: 10:25pm On Jul 18, 2025
she is the daughter of a separated couple and on the first date she had so many unkind words about her father and she’s still bitter towards her father
This is not just a red flag, it's a hellfire flag. Run brother run.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Sirchiboy: 4:23pm On Jan 10
Eriggadune:
Hello nairalanders, I hope y’all doing well? I really want to appreciate every nairalanders for their contributions about my last post on my nasty breakup with my ex, the breakup really hit me hard but I just had to let her go after getting some very beautiful advice from nairalanders, I moved back to my Father’s compound and began staying with them, whilst working out every week and jelqing too, reading and smoking weed secretly though, and through this period of over 6 months I began self learning crypto and with the help of my weed, I aced it and now at peace financially I really feel like I need a lady to date again and I did approach a few whenever I fancy and did vibe with some but always end up disinterested not long after but one did catch my interest but the problem now is she is the daughter of a separated couple and on the first date she had so many unkind words about her father and she’s still bitter towards her father.
She still wants to go back to school and doesn’t see anything bad in her guy sponsoring her to school. I mean with the way my last relationship ended, I don’t want to feel like a girl loves me for what I can provide.
Now I’m confused cos I really like her but my only concerns are what I listed above, please I need advice.
Can you teach me how to make money trading
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by The10G: 5:13pm On Jan 10
Nothing dey street
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by bigpriik: 6:45pm On Jan 10
Op, you dey find another girl abi? Get ready for suffer them go too show you shege especially if you no guide, this period social media don spoil everything.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Mikocake(m): 7:52pm On Jan 10
Another heartbreak loading
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Diamond098454(f): 10:03am On Jan 11
FitCorper:
You are doing well op. Aside d weed I wish u to keep getting money and banging dem hoes, men dont catch feelings, except it’s for pets, kids or immediate family.
Are you for real?
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Diamond098454(f): 10:08am On Jan 11
Talkisneeded:
Went through your breakup post and I’m so glad you’ve decided to turn a new leaf and get yoursel a decent crime-free life…
About the relationship game,good girl still exist,but to find them is like looking for a needle in a haystack…

The one you are currently seeing looks like a bag of redflag,someone that hates her father will forever see other men with the lens she viewed her father..,
You are going to need to do a lot of convincing and a lot of love,plus don’t forget love to in this generation is defined by the insane amount of luxury you can bring to the table….

I foresee one end in your potential relationship with her,but what do I know,way crazy has happened my bro..,

So I wish you Goodluck, because you’d need truckload of it…







But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes
So you agree with me that every man needs a woman
In his life

Bedmatics is very important to men
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Diamond098454(f): 10:09am On Jan 11
Eriggadune:
Thanks so much for your advice, although I didn’t offer to train her to school, I just felt uneasy with her views on that topic. I just need a lady that will give green flags and be consistent throughout so I can commit, I’m not a kid anymore.
Smile smile smile smile smile
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Diamond098454(f): 10:15am On Jan 11
Eriggadune:
No bro, for 8months I didn’t release any seed, once I started smoking weed it drew my attention to lack of discipline and I am glad to say thank God I am now more disciplined than anytime in my life. I just need the right one to start a family with, not interested in sleeping around.
Not interested in sleeping around? A man not interested in sleeping around?

You haven't meet erotic girl
When you do

Then, I will know what to tell you.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Eriggadune(op): 1:07am On Jan 12
Diamond098454:
Not interested in sleeping around? A man not interested in sleeping around?

You haven't meet erotic girl
When you do

Then, I will know what to tell you.
Don’t joke with a man who is focused. Didn’t Jo reject Potiphar’s wife.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Diamond098454(f): 5:38am On Jan 12
Eriggadune:
Don’t joke with a man who is focused. Didn’t Jo reject Potiphar’s wife.
Joseph is of the Bible

When you see a dangling nipples your third leg may not survive it

Diamond stop talking nonsense
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Eriggadune(op): 12:37pm On Jan 12
Diamond098454:
Joseph is of the Bible

When you see a dangling nipples your third leg may not survive it

Diamond stop talking nonsense
Getting aroused from see the unclothedness of a woman is normal, that infact shows my system is working fine. But no where is it mandated I must act on it.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Eriggadune(op): 12:39pm On Jan 12
I feel drained mentally whenever I go out on dates. Too much talk and most times I gats high before I go out if not these girls fit confuse person brain. If there are other easy ways to go about this I will be grateful. Make nairaland females help me size wife to marry.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me. I’m Getting Back In The Dating Anew. by Diamond098454(f): 1:04pm On Jan 12
Eriggadune:
Getting aroused from see the unclothedness of a woman is normal, that infact shows my system is working fine. But no where is it mandated I must act on it.
smile smile smile

I gat you
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