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Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Draslo(m): 1:46pm On Apr 15
I'm not here to seek anyone's validation or anything like that.

I recently got back in touch with an ex. We spoke for less than 3 minutes on the phone and it was pure bliss. We both laughed and it felt really good mostly cause I messed up something special we had way back in 2019. We met up in less than 24 hours. We're both single now. I hadn't seen her since 2020. She looks so much better and just as beautiful if not more. Don't get me wrong, she's a hottie body-wise and upstairs in her intracranial space. I was way too immature back then to be patient to try to build something with her. We met up and even though I did most of the talking, her body language was enough to satisfy me. I apologized for being a dick before I kissed her and she kissed me back. It felt so good cos since we broke up, I'd used her as a standard for my spec and no woman has been able to meet up. She's streetwise, business-oriented, drop dead sexy, super intelligent, beautiful (understatement) and to crown it, she never uses make up. She's as real as they come.

I know people tend to see getting back together with an old flame as a bad decision but I also know that the devil you know is better than an angel you don't know. Besides, in the breakup, na me f**k up. I never really got over her and I'm presented with an opportunity my guys will never, ever, ever get.

modified; this is the first time in my 16 years of sexual activeness since secondary school that i ever got back with an ex

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by slawormiir: 1:50pm On Apr 15
Damnnn niggar
Grab my weed to read comments

Although I ain't no niggar of relationship and emotions ....
But getting back with an ex or a woman you banged before is damnnn so sweet

That is why I do advise niggars not to break up with thier girl friend in a violent way....with a peaceful break up...you can still bang them anyday anytime twice on their ovulation period..

Women are emotional being...there are some things you say to them during the relationship...then they will not see break up as a do or die affair...
You can be with her during the relationship and sometimes hold her to your body and cuddle her while you whisper something like: "baby girl..even if there is a break up due to circumstances beyond our control but i guarantee you i will be your friend till the end of time" ...
Say that to her sometimes..I assure you when the break up finally comes..she will still come around you and bang you anyday anytime

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Kriss216: 1:51pm On Apr 15
. Besides, in the breakup, na me f**k up.

This is what she made you believe. She manipulated you to believe you are the one who messed up.

If actually you know how many auxiliary gbola she don accumulate during the ghosting period, you wouldn't be saying this nonsense.

Bang her and stop talking too much. You won't be the first to bang his ex. I banged mine last week and I'll bang her again this weekend. No big deal.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 1:51pm On Apr 15
You can make up and start afresh.no biggie.since na you Bleep up before

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Apr 15
Draslo:
I'm not here to seek anyone's validation or anything like that.

I recently got back in touch with an ex. We spoke for less than 3 minutes on the phone and it was pure bliss. We both laughed and it felt really good mostly cause I messed up something special we had way back in 2019. We met up in less than 24 hours. We're both single now. I hadn't seen her since 2020. She looks so much better and just as beautiful if not more. Don't get me wrong, she's a hottie body-wise and upstairs in her intracranial space. I was way too immature back then to be patient to try to build something with her. We met up and even though I did most of the talking, her body language was enough to satisfy me. I apologized for being a dick before I kissed her and she kissed me back. It felt so good cos since we broke up, I'd used her as a standard for my spec and no woman has been able to meet up. She's streetwise, business-oriented, drop dead sexy, super intelligent, beautiful (understatement) and to crown it, she never uses make up. She's as real as they come.

I know people tend to see getting back together with an old flame as a bad decision but I also know that the devil you know is better than an angel you don't know. Besides, in the breakup, na me f**k up. I never really got over her and I'm presented with an opportunity my guys will never, ever, ever get.

At bolded... Had same experience twice and i regretted on both times. Yours might be different or maybe you will learn from experience just like me. Right now! An Ex is an Ex.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Draslo(m): 2:06pm On Apr 15
Kriss216:

This is what she made you believe. She manipulated you to believe you are the one who messed up.

If actually you know how many auxiliary gbola she don accumulate during the ghosting period, you wouldn't be saying this nonsense.

Bang her and stop talking too much. You won't be the first to bang his ex. I banged mine last week and I'll bang her again this weekend. No big deal.
I asked about people's experiences not validation or advice. Nobody's manipulating anybody. Na me f**k up. I don't need to divulge details cos then what's the point of being anonymous here. As for the auxiliary gbola, I'm not that insecure. Body no be firewood. My sexual prowess is spoken about far and wide in my city. Me sef no fit count how many times I've swam in wet flesh since we broke up. Like I said, we're both single now so whatever happened during the hiatus, I don't really care.

I'm not insecure at all. In Buju's voice--- Na your kele I go carry go, even if you get money pass me , if you're not careful

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Kriss216: 2:12pm On Apr 15
Draslo:

I asked about people's experiences not validation or advice. Nobody's manipulating anybody. Na me f**k up. I don't need to divulge details cos then what's the point of being anonymous here. As for the auxiliary gbola, I'm not that insecure. Body no be firewood. My sexual prowess is spoken about far and wide in my city. Me sef no fit count how many times I've swam in wet flesh since we broke up. Like I said, we're both single now so whatever happened during the hiatus, I don't really care.

I'm not insecure at all. In Buju's voice--- Na your kele I go carry go, even if you get money pass me , if you're not careful
How did you know you both are single now? You believed the words of a Nigerian girl? grin cheesy

You're in for a long ride, bro. Guard your heart diligently.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Draslo(m): 2:13pm On Apr 15
OnalowKey:


At bolded... Had same experience twice and i regretted on both times. Yours might be different or maybe you will learn from experience just like me. Right now! An Ex is an Ex.
I completely understand and I've always had this same viewpoint but there are some people that are worth trying again for. One single girl up there who rushed to comment here will probably spend her old age at Shiloh is calling me a simp. grin grin

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by C2Ok: 2:16pm On Apr 15
Where is damn nigarrrrr grin

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Draslo(m): 2:20pm On Apr 15
Kriss216:

How did you know you both are single now? You believed the words of a Nigerian girl? grin cheesy

You're in for a long ride, bro. Guard your heart diligently.
Bro, there are things I will never say on here but I can assure you she is in no relationship. Na normal thing say more than one guy go dey woman life, even when you're married, it can't be only you. When she shows you know you're the alpha, you got no stress bro. Besides, insecurities like that never bother me. I'm stone cold but only she melts my heart. If I'm not gonna do it with her I'd never do it with any of any of the rest, and the rest, dem yapa!

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Jeon(f): 2:20pm On Apr 15
Draslo:

I completely understand and I've always had this same viewpoint but there are some people that are worth trying again for. One single girl up there who rushed to comment here will probably spend her old age at Shiloh is calling me a simp. grin grin

u are a simp...
old age is knocking at your no wonder you crying out ur ass....

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Jeon(f): 2:25pm On Apr 15
Draslo:

Na me f**k up. I don't need to divulge details cos then what's the point of being anonymous here.

I'd used her as a standard for my spec and no woman has been able to meet up. She's streetwise, business-oriented, drop dead sexy, super intelligent, beautiful (understatement) and to crown it, she never uses make up. She's as real as they come.


As for the auxiliary gbola, I'm not that insecure. Body no be firewood. My sexual prowess is spoken about far and wide in my city. Me sef no fit count how many times I've swam in wet flesh since we broke up. Like I said, we're both single now so whatever happened during the hiatus, I don't really care.


but every woman will meet up to her as a spec when ur penis is rising..cheesy

time is running out.. LOLX why not continue with the hiatus.. moreover men are going their own way in this 21st century.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Ishilove: 2:33pm On Apr 15
Draslo:

Bro, there are things I will never say on here but I can assure you she is in no relationship. Na normal thing say more than one guy go dey woman life, even when you're married, it can't be only you. When she shows you know you're the alpha, you got no stress bro. Besides, insecurities like that never bother me. I'm stone cold but only she melts my heart. If I'm not gonna do it with her I'd never do it with any of any of the rest, and the rest, dem yapa!
You sound like you're genuinely in love. Good for you. I hope it works out, this time for good.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Draslo(m): 2:41pm On Apr 15
Jeon:


u are a simp...
old age is knocking at your no wonder you crying out ur ass....


Just went through the first 5 pages of your 7000+ posts. No sign of intelligence anywhere.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by LifestyleTonite: 2:50pm On Apr 15
The reason why she wants you back is not mainly because she never stopped loving you. It's because you proved to be different from other guys who validate her and worship her. You never validated her, which was why you left her easily. It still pains her to date, meaning she craves your validation.

Once you get back together, be careful not to fall in love wholeheartedly. Once you do that, you will see a whole new person in her. She will start to treat you like crap because she has finally conquered you. You have given her the validation she never got in the first half of your relationship. She'll most likely dump you immediately and chase after the next guy who doesn't pedestalise her.

The below video shows what guys did that immediately turned them into simps.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bpz7QIcDcok

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:59pm On Apr 15
Nothing wrong with it. If you both still love each other genuinely, fine. I hope it will be a serious one this time.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by GooodHardDick: 3:07pm On Apr 15
Since 2020 abi 2019, you still have the number of your ex? This clearly shows you haven't moved on. What a SIMP!!

That girl came back to you as a second option after exploring other dicks. She's emotionally manipulating you Into thinking you're the one who was wrong. Once you break up with an ex, delete their contact and move on. Girls full everywhere! Stop all these emotionally talks, stop being a f*cking simp

Oga, bang that girl, dump her and move on

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by GooodHardDick: 3:12pm On Apr 15
Kriss216:

This is what she made you believe. She manipulated you to believe you are the one who messed up.

If actually you know how many auxiliary gbola she don accumulate during the ghosting period, you wouldn't be saying this nonsense.

Bang her and stop talking too much
. You won't be the first to bang his ex. I banged mine last week and I'll bang her again this weekend. No big deal.

comrade. Don't waste your time advising a simp!

The simp is feeling on top of the world right now because his ex came back to him. If only the guy knows how many dicks wey that girl Don suck and collect, he won't be feeling like a king.

At the bolded, increase the volume comrade

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Kriss216: 3:22pm On Apr 15
GooodHardDick:


comrade. Don't waste your time advising a simp!

The simp is feeling on top of the world right now because his ex came back to him. If only the guy knows how many dicks wey that girl Don suck and collect, he won't be feeling like a king.

At the bolded, increase the volume comrade
The fish brain girl is coming back to him with a deep ranged slack kpekus and the mumu is happy cheesy

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Jeon(f): 3:24pm On Apr 15
Draslo:

Just went through the first 5 pages of your 7000+ posts. No sign of intelligence anywhere.

Simp...
you really felt it...

I said what I said...

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by GooodHardDick: 3:26pm On Apr 15
Kriss216:

The fish brain girl is coming back to him with a deep ranged slack kpekus and the mumu is happy cheesy


Comrade. This is why they're called simpletons!

The simp didn't tell us how much he spent on her for the pussy and the conditions the Olosho gave him in other for her to come back to him.

It is very dangerous having SIMPS like the OP as friends. Simps are worst than cancer!

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Kriss216: 3:30pm On Apr 15
GooodHardDick:


Comrade. This is why they're called simpletons!

The simp didn't tell us how much he spent on her for the pussy and the conditions the Olosho gave him in other for her to come back to him.

It is very dangerous having SIMPS like the OP as friends. Simps are worst than cancer!
To commit your delicate heart to an Ex is dangerous and foolishness. An Ex is EXample of what you don't need again.

This OP will regret his SIMPle decision, trust me.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by FanOfMyself: 3:32pm On Apr 15
Draslo:

Just went through the first 5 pages of your 7000+ posts. No sign of intelligence anywhere.
she's an Almajiri girl. Don't waste Suen's data space on her.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Afrobasic(m): 3:33pm On Apr 15
Draslo:
I'm not here to seek anyone's validation or anything like that.

I recently got back in touch with an ex. We spoke for less than 3 minutes on the phone and it was pure bliss. We both laughed and it felt really good mostly cause I messed up something special we had way back in 2019. We met up in less than 24 hours. We're both single now. I hadn't seen her since 2020. She looks so much better and just as beautiful if not more. Don't get me wrong, she's a hottie body-wise and upstairs in her intracranial space. I was way too immature back then to be patient to try to build something with her. We met up and even though I did most of the talking, her body language was enough to satisfy me. I apologized for being a dick before I kissed her and she kissed me back. It felt so good cos since we broke up, I'd used her as a standard for my spec and no woman has been able to meet up. She's streetwise, business-oriented, drop dead sexy, super intelligent, beautiful (understatement) and to crown it, she never uses make up. She's as real as they come.

I know people tend to see getting back together with an old flame as a bad decision but I also know that the devil you know is better than an angel you don't know. Besides, in the breakup, na me f**k up. I never really got over her and I'm presented with an opportunity my guys will never, ever, ever get.

I can never get back with an ex for good reasons.

Give it another six months to a year, I bet she will reactivate what ever made you f**k up in the first place.

Enjoy for now sha wink

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by GooodHardDick: 3:36pm On Apr 15
Kriss216:

To commit your delicate heart to an Ex is dangerous and foolishness. An Ex is EXample of what you don't need again.

This OP will regret his SIMPle decision, trust me.

SIMPS will never learn!

"The werey said he never really got over her and that he is presented with an opportunity his friends will never ever get". What a SIMP man the OP is!

The simp has an option to either swallow the red pill or continue simping. The choice is his!!

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Kriss216: 3:39pm On Apr 15
GooodHardDick:


SIMPS will never learn!

"The werey said he never really got over her and that he is presented with an opportunity his friends will never ever get". What a SIMP man the OP is!

The simp has option to either swallow the red pill or continue simping. The choice is his!!
grin

Sadly, the red pill can't even help him. He's beyond redemption.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Wheezdom(m): 3:40pm On Apr 15
Kriss216:

This is what she made you believe. She manipulated you to believe you are the one who messed up.

If actually you know how many auxiliary gbola she don accumulate during the ghosting period, you wouldn't be saying this nonsense.

Bang her and stop talking too much. You won't be the first to bang his ex. I banged mine last week and I'll bang her again this weekend. No big deal.
Alpha males making other men feel less.. Oboy see levels grin grin grin grin[color=#550000][/color]

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Nobody: 3:42pm On Apr 15
Draslo:

Just went through the first 5 pages of your 7000+ posts. No sign of intelligence anywhere.

Guy why you go do person pikin like this na. grin grin

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Youngpo413: 3:46pm On Apr 15
Ishilove:

You sound like you're genuinely in love. Good for you. I hope it works out, this time for good.
love ke, when he fùcks that pussÿ twice,him eye go clear.

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by talk2hb1(m): 4:14pm On Apr 15
The First Time is Free,
The Second is Earned!

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Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by Nonexisting: 4:22pm On Apr 15
You really believe you were the one that messed up the relationship before? My guy, the shock you will be in soon will be too severe that you will remember this comment. Only then will you realize why God never cautioned Even but only Adam. Women's manipulation is second to none.

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