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Good day, fellow Nairaland comrades and OGs in the house!

I have this 35-year-old single mother of one who works in the same place with me that I recently started an affair with. After a while, I discovered that our perception or idea about life differs. Also, I discovered that she isn't the type I may want to decide to spend the rest of my life with. Despite being a graduate, she acts too local for my liking. Imagine girl wen go dey use bare hand dey pick cockroach for ground. Lolss. In terms of beauty sef, she's just a plane Jane. She jur get small fine shape like that, na why I say make local man dey use her hold body.

Now, it's like the affair is becoming a clog in the wheel for me to get other better chicks. As a comrade, I suppose end am once and for all and call her bluff; but on a second thought, Okafor's Law comes to mind. So, I want to ask: what subtle or decent way can I end the relationship, in which both parties can still be in good talking terms?

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Since you consider her to be too local, the question now is, are you too international?

Samantha125:
Since you consider her to be too local, the question now is, are you too international?

They say "education makes one to be smart...". As a graduate that she is, there are some things she commonsensically ought not to indulge in. That's my point of her being too local. Her demeanor falls short of a typical graduate. Like I said, I was just using her to "cure". Now, I want to end the relationship.

Tell her you want a break,she’s old enough to understand it,she’s been around the block for long to understand the game..






But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes

I didn't know a person's demeanor is determined by his or her level of education.

Okay, how do you then expect a graduate to carry herself?

Hemanwel:
They say "education makes one to be smart...". As a graduate that she is, there are some things she commonsensically ought not to indulge in. That's my point of her being too local. Her demeanor falls short of a typical graduate. Like I said, I was just using her to "cure". Now, I want to end the relationship.

Why date your coworker?

I told you to cook beans and rice,why did you cook rice and beans”just tell her this and break up with her👀

Talkisneeded:
Tell her you want a break,she’s old enough to understand it,she’s been around the block for long to understand the game..






But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes

Isn't this going to be too harsh?

Samantha125:
I didn't know a person's demeanor is determined by his or her level of education.

Okay, how do you then expect a graduate to carry herself?

I don't know about SA, but over here, your education distinguishes you from a pool of stark illiterates

labake1:
Why date your coworker?

Don't mind me. Na konji.

Dzzzz:
I told you to cook beans and rice,why did you cook rice and beans”just tell her this and break up with her👀

This na old format. Girls don bug up!

It distinguishes you how?🤷🤷🤷

Hemanwel:
I don't know about SA, but over here, your education distinguishes you from a pool of stark illiterates

Hemanwel:
This na old format. Girls don bug up!

she go still collect am so far the deed has been done.

Hemanwel
I'm very good at this. Start by not picking her calls and also not calling as usual. If she calls you this evening, don't pickup but return the call tomorrow afternoon with excuses why you couldn't pick up or call back the same day.

Start giving her excuses not to come to your house, for instance: your relatives are around and co and before you know it, she will gradually lost interest in the so-called relationship and you can still be talking to each other but be careful cos their type are evil so she don't set you up at your work place.

Meanwhile, avoid drawing a single mother close to you in the name of dating as a single man, I've written about them several times. If you can, limit single mothers relationship to a hotel, her visit to your house should be once in a while. Single mothers are bad luck to a single man. Single mothers should go to single fathers.

ediko5:
Hemanwel
I'm very good at this. Start by not picking her calls and also not calling as usual. If she calls you this evening, don't pickup but return the call tomorrow afternoon with excuses why you couldn't pick up or call back the same day.

Start giving her excuses not to come to your house, for instance: your relatives are around and co and before you know it, she will gradually lost interest in the so-called relationship and you can still be talking to each other but be careful cos their type are evil so she don't set you up at your work place.

Meanwhile, avoid drawing a single mother close to you in the name of dating as a single man, I've written about them several times. If you can, limit single mothers relationship to a hotel, her visit to your house should be once in a while. Single mothers are bad luck to a single man. Single mothers should go to single fathers.

Hmmm. I never reasoned it this way

Samantha125:
It distinguishes you how?🤷🤷🤷

Wo, just leave matter for Mathias! Sha ma wo n ti e!

Hemanwel:
Good day, fellow Nairaland comrades and OGs in the house!

I have this 35-year-old single mother of one who works in the same place with me that I recently started an affair with. After a while, I discovered that our perception or idea about life differs. Also, I discovered that she isn't the type I may want to decide to spend the rest of my life with. Despite being a graduate, she acts too local for my liking. Imagine girl wen go dey use bare hand dey pick cockroach for ground. Lolss. In terms of beauty sef, she's just a plane Jane. She jur get small fine shape like that, na why I say make local man dey use her hold body.

Now, it's like the affair is becoming a clog in the wheel for me to get other better chicks. As a comrade, I suppose end am once and for all and call her bluff; but on a second thought, Okafor's Law comes to mind. So, I want to ask: what subtle or decent way can I end the relationship, in which both parties can still be in good talking terms?

cc lalasticlala, mynd44, nlfpmod

Continue till she trap you with pregnant MUGU

So you can't even distinguish them? Clearly you don't know what you're talking about...🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hemanwel:
Wo, just leave matter for Mathias! Sha ma wo n ti e!

Hemanwel:
I have this 35-year-old single mother of one who works in the same place with me that I recently started an affair with.

This is where I stopped reading. You need koboko for neck.

NAMASTER where are you?

AllBlack:
This is where I stopped reading. You need koboko for neck.

NAMASTER where are you?

Comrade, I admit. Na konji. I want to undone what has been done.

I have never been in good books of single mothers here and in fact, I advise single men to flee from them. Everyone knows my stands on them and how I never hesitated to call their wickedness and hypocrisy out. However, apart from being local, you haven't mentioned any serious flaws of hers especially the ones we all know about single mothers. Your said you don't reason alike, is it because she is too local like you said? That she picked cockroach with bare hands is not a valid reason to look for another karishika out there. It is your decision to make but I hope you don't jump from frying pan to fire. I know in my mind that a tiny fraction of single mothers are just naive innocent women that were taken advantage of and I strong suspect your girlfriend is part of that tiny few so think well before dumping her.