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No no no and not at all it is chop and clean mouth dating.

Hmmmmm🤔🤔🤔🤔

Let me start dating again...

Maybe after the divorce

No

Person go surfer see girl wey love and spends on him but she no go come get nyash.

Silentgroper:
Why is marriage important..



Only procreation should be deemed important...

GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER

sheedy407:
Dey play o

U never hear of chop and clean mouth abi?

Lol!

You never hear say awuff they run belle? Or chop and forget to clean mouth? You try clean the mouth and you don forget say the oil from the soup don stain mustache or beards. Chai... I know guys who tried this and got hooked

Richpet85:
My current date is a God sent to me though we had minor circumstances seems to prevent us from getting married to each other but we have overcome it based on what faith brought to us. I am father of four, she is mother of two but circumstances made us single once more. Meeting her was truly miraculous because my life has been peaceful and full of blissful and memorable moment. I can't ask God for more, she is a beautiful soul, caring, loving and most of it all very respectful. I never knew man can be honoured and worshipped until I met her. Our idea of marriage now is not making children but companionship and protection. My almost prayer is that we will continue to be to each other what we are currently for each other now without the eyes of the enemies. I will soon share our I.V and Nairalanders are all invited.

A father of four getting married to a mother of two. Single moms and dads are the best fit for each other.

Childfree men and ladies should not go ahead and marry someone with a child even if it's one. Marry someone fresh, no kids, no baby mama or daddy drama.

Bullman:
Sad thing about this generation is that the worst women now are virgins,
I have met a lot of virgins and I can tell you for free that they believe the world revolves around their virginity .. I have nothing against virgins tho but I haven’t met anyone that is resourceful, intelligent , street smart , and ready to build an empire with a man . They keep seeing themselves like one f**king trophy .
For you guys saying u can’t marry a non virgin .. when you finally find one , after the first sex you will realize there is more to life than a fresh untouched pussy .
In all you do find your self a good woman that is ready for marriage not a wedding . Find your self a partner
That believes in your leadership,
If you end up with the wrong partner even the devil won’t bother you again because e don do you freedom , he don settle you ooo

The worst women are not virgins and the best or better women are not the ones with overused p***y. A lot of factors are in play when it comes to character in women of this modern day. Know yourself before you find someone to be your partner. You can't find a good person if you don't know yourself or know where to find what you want.

Love800:
Am single till i have a good bank, i will start dating a girl i will marry.

I only have work-mates that i converse with.

All those useless date and romance when you are not ready to tie-the-knot, will only waste your resources, delay your progress and make you poorer!

Romantic relationship with women has no ROI. Best is for you to focus on yourself and always zero expectations from them. Most importantly, avoid broke, cheap, younger and uneducated women.

The future will be interesting.

No wonder, marriage party nowadays are scarce.

No

Nicoddemus:
Still wonder how people date without marriage in mind....... complete waste of time mostly for the man

For the man or woman? That's not true, whenever breakfast is served after a long relationship women feel the effect more compared to men because of age factor.


A man can get married whenever he's ready but it's not always like that for women.


I am married now but four of my ex girlfriends are still unmarried, do you think they don't wish to get married?

"If you nor sleep near fowl you nor go know say e dey snore" .......You must date someone before you know if she's good enough for marriage.

I will marry her 💯💯
Buh not yet financially stable and dats my fear coz am thinking she can't wait
We love nd communicate wit each other very well

TheLastSon:
Yes I do. I'm dating my second cousin - very distant relative. Four generations with only one ancestor.

Intend to marry soon

What do you mean by this

Yup I would
💯

Lol.

You are very correct. Girls usually know a man who is ready to settle down. But they will still fool around or eat from the other men who are not ready, just to gain from both sides. Very devilish!

My colleagues or accomplices who are females knows they can't try dat with me(to eat my finances all in the form of girlfriend).
Nobody is my girlfriend and am always formal(strict) with dem.

For the bolded, i have always put it in mind to marry a woman of substance and credibility. Even if she nor dey hardworking in full, atleast i need to see a small portion of it as to know wedar she is serious or not.

Tanks so much for dis your comment.

MufasaLion:
Romantic relationship with women has no ROI. Best is for you to focus on yourself and always zero expectations from them. Most importantly, avoid broke, cheap, younger and uneducated women.

Love800:
Lol.

You are very correct. Girls usually know a man who is ready to settle down. But they will still fool around or eat from the other men who are not ready, just to gain from both sides. Very devilish!

My colleagues or accomplices who are females knows they can't try dat with me(to eat my finances all in the form of girlfriend).
Nobody is my girlfriend and am always formal(strict) with dem.

For the bolded, i have always put it in mind to marry a woman of substance and credibility. Even if she nor dey hardworking in full, atleast i need to see a small portion of it as to know wedar she is serious or not.

Tanks so much for dis your comment.

I'm very protective of my money. I don't even make myself available for any woman to bill me. And if you bill me, I'll rather save my money than give any woman. There's no ROI in spending on women. You're not the only choice she has. Many men are in her DM simping and crediting her account. I can't join that train.

mcdokwe:
If I leave her God forbid o, oh my baby

I too love that girl

Mumu😃

Yes but I don suffer for this relationship ehn infact sometimes I will be afraid to even think I will marry her cos of fear of Dieing young via high blood pressure

ebubeson:
Is your partner hoping for a beautiful relationship of marriage, while in your mind you are just dating to pass time? Are you dating someone with the hope of marriage, while they do not see you are an eligible partner? Ask yourselves questions while dating?

Leave any relationship that has no tangible and profitable future.

Haydens:
I'm not sure if I will even marry because what girls nowadays are doing, they don't even worth dating how much more marriage.

I'll find like 3 different girl pregnant them, then settle them once my children are born. I'll be happy and eager to train my children by myself only without sharing it with anyone. I can't even trust children with girls.

3 kids from different... Nice path you're setting for them 🤦‍♂️

My only problem with the person i am dating right now is that she's heartless, she's too strong willed, she doesn't bend for my sake, what do i do

Nackzy:
My only problem with the person i am dating right now is that she's heartless, she's too strong willed, she doesn't bend for my sake, what do i do

Same with the girl I’m dating

Giftedhand47:
What do you mean by this

What do you mean

ebubeson:
Is your partner hoping for a beautiful relationship of marriage, while in your mind you are just dating to pass time? Are you dating someone with the hope of marriage, while they do not see you are an eligible partner? Ask yourselves questions while dating?

Leave any relationship that has no tangible and profitable future.

Why date when marriage isn't in view

MERCHANDISER:
Mumu😃

Them call me mumu, I be mumu for love

Nice one from you.

I so much appreciate your response.

MufasaLion:
I'm very protective of my money. I don't even make myself available for any woman to bill me. And if you bill me, I'll rather save my money than give any woman. There's no ROI in spending on women. You're not the only choice she has. Many men are in her DM simping and crediting her account. I can't join that train.

aybabz101:
I dont know why one should be dating someone you know you wont get married to.

Its an act of wickedness and time wasting.

To the ladies, please dont let someone tie you down all in the name of dating....Your timing is different from that of a guy...urs is biological, his is physical (finance)...

Ang again ladies, stay away from those i too nice guys who will always radiate around you with no intention of dating or marrying you. Though they provide you with acts of services, the problem is that they chase away intentional suitors from you.....just try to manage them very well.

So it’s only guys that waste lady’s time?… how come you didn’t advise guys to stay away from ladies that waste people’s time too ?

Everyone must not get married;


It ain't compulsory, enjoy your live 🥱😄

We got married on Sunday 20th July.

Met April 2022

Officially dating June 2022

Moved in with me November 2023

Introduction April 2024

My parent's ill health delayed my advancement but to the glory of God they are stable now

July 2025 we got married.

I can't thank God enough.

Bullman:
Sad thing about this generation is that the worst women now are virgins,
I have met a lot of virgins and I can tell you for free that they believe the world revolves around their virginity .. I have nothing against virgins tho but I haven’t met anyone that is resourceful, intelligent , street smart , and ready to build an empire with a man . They keep seeing themselves like one f**king trophy .
For you guys saying u can’t marry a non virgin .. when you finally find one , after the first sex you will realize there is more to life than a fresh untouched pussy .
In all you do find your self a good woman that is ready for marriage not a wedding . Find your self a partner
That believes in your leadership,
If you end up with the wrong partner even the devil won’t bother you again because e don do you freedom , he don settle you ooo

This message is ringing in my head