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Marry the girl plus marry her fibroid as take away.

For your information every woman has a fibroid

Well.....I did. Had her first surgery a week after our wedding. It came back after few months. She had a second surgery just above a year after the first surgery.
God gave us a son less than 2 years after the second surgery, the surgeon did a fantastic job during the procedures.

Fast forward to 3 years later, we now have a baby girl clocking 1 year next month.

So yes, I can.

Fibroid is not a death sentence neither will it prevent you from having kids.

Make sure you seek proper medical counsel and surgical procedure if needed.

Most importantly, never doubt the power of miracle in God.

All the best!

She should do surgery na. In few months after the surgery She will be healed up although the surgery is a bit expensive..

ufotty2001:
I met a girl and we love each other. I want to marry her but One thing led to another, We went for a scan and they told us that she has a Fibroid..

Should I go ahead with the marriage or not ? Some people adviced me, I should get her Pregnant first.. getting pregnant with fibroid sometimes is risky if she take in.

The answer you are looking for lies in something called "Role Reversal Logic"
If you had low sperm count OR lost your potency, would she stay with you?
Ask yourself this question and tell yourself the truth.
Life is short. One day and very soon too, you’ll be 70, looking back. There's no point sacrificing for someone who wouldn’t do the same for you.
But there’s great honour and peace in standing by someone who would also stand by you..
The real dilemma is this: How do you know who would truly sacrifice for you?
That’s the question you might have to ask the gods
In fact, maybe open a new thread for that one

ufotty2001:
Can someone with fabroid give birth normally.. I mean virg*Ina birth

Yes na

MufasaLion:
The decision should be a personal one. You don't need anyone's counsel. People will give you advise based on their own perspective and not your reality.

In the multitude of counsel, there is safety... Don't mind anyone telling you that you don't need advice. They want to push you into what they don't wish for their own blood.... Here is my advice, get her pregnant and do only Traditional marriage. after she don born like two or three kids for you, you can go ahead and formalize it.... Women are very calculative, you as a man too needs to be calculative too....

Nairaland is any ANTI-solution forum.

If you bring a solution that can help the woman now.

Next thing, they ban you.

So I've decided to keep my solutions to myself.

My advise, if u want solutions to ur predicaments in life, go on Facebook. Leave Nairaland.

May God help her.

This 1 Na rubbish talk ...

E2000:
Fibroid is a sign the lady has had several abortions or at least one abortion most of the time. So a piece of the baby is mistakenly left behind and starts growing over time.

Wetin be fibroid abeg?
Am a jjc and curious to know.

Yankee101:
Fibroid is very common among black women and it can be treated

You’re lucky she already knows and told you because you might dump her and marry someone that didn’t know or refused to tell you

Go to the hospital with her and evaluate it. If it’s not very serious, she could still have kids without it stopping her from getting pregnant and having a successful birth

It's never completely removed . My mum removed hers before having her 4 children ... But it's still the fibroid that killed her ... It got cancerous

ericmor:
My ex had it at the age of 20 or so and got it removed

Jesus!

Are you being serious here?

E2000:
Fibroid is a sign the lady has had several abortions or at least one abortion most of the time. So a piece of the baby is mistakenly left behind and starts growing over time.

Between the both of you, i dont know who to believe!

Am not mocking any of you sha, just suprised at the comments!

Blitzking:
Not true a woman who has been pregnant severally rarely gets fibroid...not getting pregnant is actually a risk factor for fibroid...pregnancy hormone doesn't favour fibroid growth..that's why our mothers who gave birth to 11 children rarely had fibroid cos their child birth started at 17 to 20yrs

Love800:
Wetin be fibroid abeg?
Am a jjc and curious to know.

Growths in the uterus that are noncancerous
Some can be so big as to prevent pregnancies

Okay.

Very simply put.

I appreciate so much.

Yankee101:
Growths in the uterus that are noncancerous
Some can be so big as to prevent pregnancies

Can't it be removed by surgery?

tiamiyukunle69:
Well.....I did. Had her first surgery a week after our wedding. It came back after few months. She had a second surgery just above a year after the first surgery.
God gave us a son less than 2 years after the second surgery, the surgeon did a fantastic job during the procedures.

Fast forward to 3 years later, we now have a baby girl clocking 1 year next month.

So yes, I can.

Fibroid is not a death sentence neither will it prevent you from having kids.

Make sure you seek proper medical counsel and surgical procedure if needed.

Most importantly, never doubt the power of miracle in God.

All the best!

Wonderful

ufotty2001:
Can someone with fabroid give birth normally.. I mean virg*Ina birth

Yes my wife has given birth normally with fibroids. She has even given birth to twins normally with not just 1 but 2 fibroids. We have 3 kids now.

I am even surprised reading this post. I didn't know people actually fear fibroids like this.

ufotty2001:
Can someone with fabroid give birth normally.. I mean virg*Ina birth

I bet they can if the fibroid is not obstructing the birth canal. I had my sons through CS, however I am planning to have my third naturally

DeoGratias1:
Yes my wife has given birth normally with fibroids. She has even given birth to twins normally with not just 1 but 2 fibroids. We have 3 kids now.

I am even surprised reading this post. I didn't know people actually fear fibroids like this.

Some fabroid bad oohh.. am saying this out of experience.

Bettergoat:
It's never completely removed . My mum removed hers before having her 4 children ... But it's still the fibroid that killed her ... It got cancerous

are u serious but they say it's not cancerous..

JoeRizzla:
You already know what to do, you're just looking for someone to tell you. Anyways put yourself in her shoes and think of what she would have done the moment she finds out you're impotent or has prostate issues then you'll advise yourself.

Ps it's has a cure tho but suit yourself

Ufotty2001 thank isJoeRizzla his advised is golden.

If you like go ahead and Shawn is advised you are in your own.

E2000:
Fibroid is a sign the lady has had several abortions or at least one abortion most of the time. So a piece of the baby is mistakenly left behind and starts growing over time.

Choi🤦‍♀️. Why display full ignorance like this nau

ufotty2001:
Some fabroid bad oohh.. am saying this out of experience.

Guess our case is not like that. No complications at all.

That's what they say ... But my mum died of it . Since I knew my mother the fibroid always disturbed her .. when she went to take it out they said the cancer spread into her blood really fast . She lived with it for over 40years

ufotty2001:
are u serious but they say it's not cancerous..

ufotty2001:
I met a girl and we love each other. I want to marry her but One thing led to another, We went for a scan and they told us that she has a Fibroid..

Should I go ahead with the marriage or not ? Some people adviced me, I should get her Pregnant first.. getting pregnant with fibroid sometimes is risky if she take in.

Here is what you should do. Tell her you just went to hospital and discovered you are impotent or have prostate issues. But the main idea is you can't impregnate a woman. Act it all up, fake a cry if you have to.

But tell her you love her and you want to spend the rest of your life with her?

Now with a tearful eyes or sad face, ask her this; "it doesn't change anything right?" That you both can always adopt a child right?" Then observe closely her reaction to it.

Please Don't just judge her right there. It okay for her to feel sad or disappointed at that moment.

You have to give her days to give you her final decision or thought about the fate of your relationship.

Don't just ask her would she accept you if you were impotent. She would always say yes. Claim to be in the situation.

Don't joke with this tip I just gave you, some men in search of good women do it without issues like this, God has given you the opportunity to easily do it and know who you are actually dating better. It will either save you a lot of headache or make you cherish the gold you found more.

If you decide not to now, that fear you have now might still turn a reality tomorrow. The decision is yours to make man. Goodluck. 🤞🏽

E2000:
Fibroid is a sign the lady has had several abortions or at least one abortion most of the time. So a piece of the baby is mistakenly left behind and starts growing over time.

That's a fallacy.

Are you a doctor? If no... SMH for you.

been there, done that. we have a baby boy

ufotty2001:
I met a girl and we love each other. I want to marry her but One thing led to another, We went for a scan and they told us that she has a Fibroid..

Should I go ahead with the marriage or not ? Some people adviced me, I should get her Pregnant first.. getting pregnant with fibroid sometimes is risky if she take in.

get her pregnant first else oyo is your case

ufotty2001:
Can someone with fabroid give birth normally.. I mean virg*Ina birth

Very well. I gave birth to two boy through virginal delivery. The size and the position of the fibroid matters.