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marlow1962:
Absolutely true. Females hate a good man, but wants a good man.

uchennamani:
It is not true in some cases; it is true in all cases.

Samantha125:
In most cases, it is true... I don't know what is it with some of my gender and their love for toxic men.

Like as for me, I'm tired of always backing up these ladies since they obviously enjoy toxicity, only for them to be coming out here playing the victim card and expecting us to be sympathizing with them as if they didn't see the red flags from the beginning but ignored them... Some of them would even go to the extent of cutting ties with their family members for advising them against such toxic relationships.

Just a couple of days ago, I got attacked by my own gender for telling this other lady how she got what she deserved for staying in an abusive relationship that nearly claimed her life.

Samantha125:
In most cases, it is true... I don't know what is it with some of my gender and their love for toxic men.

Like as for me, I'm tired of always backing up these ladies since they obviously enjoy toxicity, only for them to be coming out here playing the victim card and expecting us to be sympathizing with them as if they didn't see the red flags from the beginning but ignored them... Some of them would even go to the extent of cutting ties with their family members for advising them against such toxic relationships.

Just a couple of days ago, I got attacked by my own gender for telling this other lady how she got what she deserved for staying in an abusive relationship that nearly claimed her life.

AllBlack:
when you keep a fowl in a clean room full of corn, it MUST still come out to scratch dustbin and sand to look for trash to eat.

Is This Statement True About Ladies?

This is not totally true, but there may be some truth here.

jetguy:
Just here to learn as a single nigga...

Remain eleven character to complete

Abbeytoy:
Woman like cr@zy guys….

If you use love tone for them, they run away but if you use dirty or Sexualize them, they run after you.

Talking from experience and I can share screenshots of one now.

Abbeytoy:
Woman like cr@zy guys….

If you use love tone for them, they run away but if you use dirty or Sexualize them, they run after you.

Talking from experience and I can share screenshots of one now.

Samantha125:
I value my peace and hate any unnecessary drama, if I start seeing any signs of toxicity, I'm gonna run and never look back, because I wasn't raised in a toxic family... I'm sure you also wouldn't like it if we start generalizing all men as toxic based on some rotten potatoes.

FreeSpirited:
That is why it's very dangerous to give your woman absolute enjoyment peace and satisfaction in arelationship. Spice it up with occasional troubles and stress even intentionally. Always keep her on her toes

Samantha125:
In most cases, it is true... I don't know what is it with some of my gender and their love for toxic men.

Like as for me, I'm tired of always backing up these ladies since they obviously enjoy toxicity, only for them to be coming out here playing the victim card and expecting us to be sympathizing with them as if they didn't see the red flags from the beginning but ignored them... Some of them would even go to the extent of cutting ties with their family members for advising them against such toxic relationships.

Just a couple of days ago, I got attacked by my own gender for telling this other lady how she got what she deserved for staying in an abusive relationship that nearly claimed her life.

Love800:
If the man is not providing enough(bills and basic home materials, supplies) in the healthy home, maybe she can go out to cheat.

In the opposite home, the man is financially buoyant. So why will she cheat!

Though this my answer is not the final. There are other reasons to it.
Relationship matter na very wide course. You no fit study am finish!

uchennamani:
Of course, it wouldn't make sense if we generalize and say all men are toxic. My statement isn't meant to be taken literally. With training and common sense, women could rise above the thrills of uncertainty and go for stability in their relationship.

But you have to look at the behavior from biological lens. Biologically speaking, all men are polygamous in nature. But with common sense, a little bit of morality here and there, a man could control his urges and become of the few exception to the statement.

Same thing here: women are known to crave for adventure, a little bit of toxic behaviours here and there. It is normal, biologically speaking though. It is a trait most are expected to drop as they develop and grow up. But most retained these traits and stick with toxic men.

AngelSlay:
That statement — “A female would be cheating in a healthy relationship but be faithful in toxic ones” — is a provocative generalization that reflects more about emotional dynamics than gender itself. Let’s break it down thoughtfully:

What it might mean:
1. Emotional Conditioning or Trauma Bonding:
In a toxic relationship, some women (and men too) become emotionally dependent or trauma-bonded. Despite abuse or neglect, they stay loyal, sometimes out of fear, low self-worth, or hope things will improve.
2. Taking a Good Partner for Granted:
In a healthy relationship, a partner may feel so secure or "unthreatened" that they take the relationship for granted, potentially leading to boredom, curiosity, or attention-seeking behavior — which can lead to infidelity. Again, this applies to any gender, not just women.
3. Self-Sabotage or Internal Conflict:
Some people aren’t emotionally ready for healthy love. When they get it, it feels unfamiliar, and they subconsciously sabotage it — sometimes through cheating — while staying loyal to toxicity because it feels "normal" or "deserved."

What this doesn't mean:

That all women act this way.

That healthy relationships cause cheating.

That toxicity earns loyalty.
These are oversimplified views that ignore deeper emotional and psychological factors.

A better way to say it: “Some people stay loyal to toxic partners due to emotional wounds, while sabotaging healthy love because it feels unfamiliar or undeserved.”

cutecommend:
This is not totally true, but there may be some truth here.

Please provide your contributions.

positivelord:
If the gbola is good... and I mean good, nothing you wan tell her..

AngelSlay:
That statement — “A female would be cheating in a healthy relationship but be faithful in toxic ones” — is a provocative generalization that reflects more about emotional dynamics than gender itself. Let’s break it down thoughtfully:

What it might mean:
1. Emotional Conditioning or Trauma Bonding:
In a toxic relationship, some women (and men too) become emotionally dependent or trauma-bonded. Despite abuse or neglect, they stay loyal, sometimes out of fear, low self-worth, or hope things will improve.
2. Taking a Good Partner for Granted:
In a healthy relationship, a partner may feel so secure or "unthreatened" that they take the relationship for granted, potentially leading to boredom, curiosity, or attention-seeking behavior — which can lead to infidelity. Again, this applies to any gender, not just women.
3. Self-Sabotage or Internal Conflict:
Some people aren’t emotionally ready for healthy love. When they get it, it feels unfamiliar, and they subconsciously sabotage it — sometimes through cheating — while staying loyal to toxicity because it feels "normal" or "deserved."

What this doesn't mean:

That all women act this way.

That healthy relationships cause cheating.

That toxicity earns loyalty.
These are oversimplified views that ignore deeper emotional and psychological factors.

A better way to say it: “Some people stay loyal to toxic partners due to emotional wounds, while sabotaging healthy love because it feels unfamiliar or undeserved.”