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Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jul 25, 2025
A Nigerian lady @Arianacrush949 have adviced men on social media not to waste their time to ask ladies who shake their bum bum on social media questions.

According to her;
Any yansh wey dey shake for social media Na for sale, price am.
No go ask am have you eaten o.
Price am straight up

Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Emmy000seun(m): 1:04am On Jul 26, 2025
She is absolutely right..💯😀..na advert now..shame no dey this Gen z body again..😂🙄😀
ediko5:
A Nigerian lady @Arianacrush949 have adviced men on social media not to waste their time to ask ladies who shake their bum bum on social media questions.

According to her;
Any yansh wey dey shake for social media Na for sale, price am.
No go ask am have you eaten o.
Price am straight up
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by flokii: 5:36am On Jul 26, 2025
Na dem dem na.. they are tired of the silly questions of 'have you eaten'. They want you to price their market straight up.
Somethink like.. Hey pretty damsel, how much for a night?
The she'd be like #500k, are you in?

Chai, this life don spoil.

To find true love go hard.
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by illicit(m): 5:53am On Jul 26, 2025
Sure


Action speaks louder than voice

That's body language
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Samakus(m): 6:51am On Jul 26, 2025
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny

Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by columbus007(m): 7:21am On Jul 26, 2025
Like how? By asking how much right?
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by AllBlack: 7:42am On Jul 26, 2025
Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny
the destiny you designed or the one that you have planned.
the way you guys throw that word about like you know the end from the beginning.
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by tanigororo: 8:06am On Jul 26, 2025
100% Right Absolutely
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by franchasng: 9:36am On Jul 26, 2025
AllBlack:
the destiny you designed or the one that you have planned.
the way you guys throw that word about like you know the end from the beginning.
You guys on this forum no get joy at all, I am still laughing in Tinubu's brown teeth laughter cheesy

Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by alpharoyalty: 9:42am On Jul 26, 2025
Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny
Why are you advertising your wife? abi.....?
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Samakus(m): 10:02am On Jul 26, 2025
AllBlack:
the destiny you designed or the one that you have planned.
the way you guys throw that word about like you know the end from the beginning.
I'm all here for the tears

Na wetin I find come
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Samakus(m): 10:03am On Jul 26, 2025
alpharoyalty:
Why are you advertising your wife? abi.....?
Exactly 💯.

I feed on tears
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Successsearch90(m): 10:06am On Jul 26, 2025
That's true. Any lady shaking her yansh online cannot be trusted. Have you eaten ke grin
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Ay04z(m): 10:55am On Jul 26, 2025
Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny
why post her photo here na... U people sha... Celebrate in silence sir
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by PerfectStranger(m): 11:45am On Jul 26, 2025
Ay04z:
why post her photo here na... U people sha... Celebrate in silence sir
Na still the advert we dey talk about, abi u wan price her ne? grin
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by PlasmaTV: 4:40pm On Jul 26, 2025
Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny
Congratulations to you and madam. Happy day for you.

Biko, take madam out for dinner. E no easy.
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by kpankpangolo: 4:40pm On Jul 26, 2025
Lol. Funny. Janemena is married, how I wan take ask am?
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by lightwind(m): 4:42pm On Jul 26, 2025
Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny
I wished i can see a wife like you and marry .

Mmmmmm
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by ussv: 4:44pm On Jul 26, 2025
True talk...... she nailed it . You actually get what you ask for when you expose body on social media.
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jul 26, 2025
AllBlack:
the destiny you designed or the one that you have planned.
the way you guys throw that word about like you know the end from the beginning.
Lolz, Na sarcasm she do oo
She posted her own picture
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jul 26, 2025
The summary of her message is:

Men shouldn't waste time toasting public market, go straight to the point, price it to the lowest possible rate and rent the product for either short time or full night 😉
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by CaptainFM1: 4:48pm On Jul 26, 2025
Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny
This is the same thing this lady is talking about that you're doing only that it's a picture.

Must you advertise your wife?

I hope you'll be happy if someone ask you "How much"?
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Celestialsword: 4:48pm On Jul 26, 2025
Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny
congratulations to her,more ink to her pen to achieve more milestones
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Celestialsword: 4:49pm On Jul 26, 2025
CaptainFM1:
This is the same thing this lady is talking about that you're doing only that it's a picture.

Must you advertise your wife?

I hope you'll be happy if someone ask you "How much"?
It's not the same thing,it's just that you have a wrong mindset .

Someone should do whatever makes him or her happy
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Chemlite: 4:52pm On Jul 26, 2025
AllBlack:
the destiny you designed or the one that you have planned.
the way you guys throw that word about like you know the end from the beginning.
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We are talking about ladies shaking bumbum, you are bringing your wife's pics; anyways, you no respect your wife.

It's likely one of those part-time programs where degrees are bought!
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Sapphire94: 4:52pm On Jul 26, 2025
Dukedarl of Lagos made this statement first on Twitter. He is the brainchild behind this opinion
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by CaptainFM1: 4:52pm On Jul 26, 2025
Celestialsword:
It's not the same thing,it's just that you have a wrong mindset
He could have avoided the thread to celebrate his wife. People like him will post his wife to celebrate her inside a thread that people died and many are still morning their dead. That's called insensitivity!

A wrong thread to celebrate his beautiful wife.

Mindset aside.
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by Hamachi(f): 4:53pm On Jul 26, 2025
While @Arianacrush949 may be expressing frustration with certain online behaviors, reducing every woman who dances or "shakes yansh" on social media to a commodity "for sale" is a harmful generalization, rooted in misogyny and lack of understanding of digital culture, self-expression, and economics.

1. Dancing or expressing sexuality online ≠ prostitution
Fact: A 2022 Pew Research study on digital expression shows that over 60% of women who post dance or fashion videos do so as a form of self-expression, fitness, entertainment, or influencer branding — not solicitation. TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook Reels are platforms built around performance, and dance content ranks among the top 3 most-watched categories globally (Statista, 2023).

Many popular female influencers from Nigeria (e.g., Janemena, Liquorose) are dancers or entertainers, not sex workers. They're building brands, not selling bodies.


2. Respecting bodily autonomy is basic human decency
Saying “price her” because she dances implies women lose their right to dignity because of how they dress or move. That’s like saying a man showing abs is automatically a gigolo.

UN Women reports that sexual objectification leads to increased gender-based violence and online harassment, especially in Africa where cultural norms are often misinterpreted.


3. Not all attention is sexual – many men and women admire, without desiring
Surveys by YouGov (2021) show that over 70% of social media users follow creators for content — not for sexual interest or solicitation. A man asking "have you eaten?" may genuinely care. Assuming that kindness is misplaced because of how someone dances reduces human interaction to transactions, which is unhealthy.

4. Economically, female influencers earn more from partnerships than “pricing”
Influencers like Papaya Ex, Priscilla Ojo, or Nancy Isime make millions of naira monthly through ads, shoutouts, affiliate links, and brand deals — not from selling sex. Suggesting that women on social media are “for sale” ignores their entrepreneurial power in Nigeria’s growing creator economy (worth over ₦20 billion annually).

Instead of labeling and demeaning women who express themselves freely online, we should acknowledge the diversity of intent behind social media behavior. Some dance for fun, some for money, some for art — but none deserve to be automatically dehumanized or priced.

Let’s move away from judgment and toward understanding and mutual respect.

ediko5:
A Nigerian lady @Arianacrush949 have adviced men on social media not to waste their time to ask ladies who shake their bum bum on social media questions.

According to her;
Any yansh wey dey shake for social media Na for sale, price am.
No go ask am have you eaten o.
Price am straight up
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by 7upnigeria: 4:54pm On Jul 26, 2025
Somebody's future wife

21 more characters needed
Re: Lady Tells Men What To Do When Women Display Their Bodies On Social Media by 7upnigeria: 4:55pm On Jul 26, 2025
Hamachi:
While @Arianacrush949 may be expressing frustration with certain online behaviors, reducing every woman who dances or "shakes yansh" on social media to a commodity "for sale" is a harmful generalization, rooted in misogyny and lack of understanding of digital culture, self-expression, and economics.

1. Dancing or expressing sexuality online ≠ prostitution
Fact: A 2022 Pew Research study on digital expression shows that over 60% of women who post dance or fashion videos do so as a form of self-expression, fitness, entertainment, or influencer branding — not solicitation. TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook Reels are platforms built around performance, and dance content ranks among the top 3 most-watched categories globally (Statista, 2023).

Many popular female influencers from Nigeria (e.g., Janemena, Liquorose) are dancers or entertainers, not sex workers. They're building brands, not selling bodies.
You took your time to write all of these?

They are building "BRANDS!". Shey na yansh be the brand?

Anybody using shaking of body/ yansh to build a brand will need that body or yansh to sustain it WHICH IS EQUAL TO PROSTITUTION.
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