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pocohantas:
Declutterdotcom
Ojbdeclutter

Na this two I fit vouch for. 🙌

ExAngel007:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/7/how-will-a-man-marry-you-nigerian-woman-addresses-single-ladies-who-stay-in-one-or-two-bedroom-flat-with-couch.html

pocohantas:
My friend rented a mini-flat and all she put was mattress on the floor. She had those small clothe wardrobe we used in secondary school and plastic baskets for her clothes. Then a tiny ceiling fan. It was my first time seeing a ceiling fan that tiny. Her sitting room was empty and filled with nonsense load. I entered her flat and I was disappointed. I asked why she is living like this and she said "Here na camp. When I marry I go enjoy".

How do you convince a man you are good for enjoyment when you have suffered all your life? Love yourself and let the man know how you love to be loved. Funny she was always giving her fake suitors gift and money, but found it hard to spend on herself.

Na me carry her to Thermocool office at Dopemu to buy fridge and AC. Introduced her to my furniture maker. Paid for her driving school. Taught her parallel parking. Introduced her to the late Gazz to overhaul her car. We even bought a big gen from him and she uses it till date. I told her "eat your money. Put on AC make e dey cool your head, see as your house hottttt. When husband come, una go discuss the way forward". Everything isn't about man and what they care about. You are not on earth for that.

PerfectStranger:
Nowadays going into marriage is just like going for warfront.

Nazgul:
She specifically mentioned couch as the major barrier to getting married. As long as you don't have a couch yet, you're still marriageable. But if you buy it, no more husband.

Esthered:
Let's assume she doesn't spend on the interior of her house,nut she buys a land, builds has funds in mutual funds, stocks and other investment vehicles, don't you think that when she looks at her networth she'll still desire a man who's on that scale or more.

I have a former supervisor whose dad refused her to rent a place or drive a car to be marriageable. She was shuttling Akute to V.I daily. My madam married late still.....

Most Nigerian men cannot tolerate a successful lady. My cousin left GSK where she was a marketer with official car and relocated to Calabar and became a teacher in the name of marriage....till date no child and at some point accused her mum one of my favorite aunt of being a witch before the mum died.

Ladies are still getting married every Saturday and other days sha...

Why should I live like a PAUPER because I want to attract a man? This life that's not promised, we're here today and may leave tomorrow so why not live it to the fullest.

Our counterparts in saner climes are going on vacations touring the world and ordinary rent of 400k and royal chair is an abomination for a single hardworking lady.

folake4u:
Lmao, no more husband for me then. 🤣 🤣 🤣

pocohantas:
My friend rented a mini-flat and all she put was mattress on the floor. She had those small clothe wardrobe we used in secondary school and plastic baskets for her clothes. Then a tiny ceiling fan. It was my first time seeing a ceiling fan that tiny. Her sitting room was empty and filled with nonsense load. I entered her flat and I was disappointed. I asked why she is living like this and she said "Here na camp. When I marry I go enjoy".

How do you convince a man you are good for enjoyment when you have suffered all your life? Love yourself and let the man know how you love to be loved. Funny she was always giving her fake suitors gift and money, but found it hard to spend on herself.

Na me carry her to Thermocool office at Dopemu to buy fridge and AC. Introduced her to my furniture maker. Paid for her driving school. Taught her parallel parking. Introduced her to the late Gazz to overhaul her car. We even bought a big gen from him and she uses it till date. I told her "eat your money. Put on AC make e dey cool your head, see as your house hottttt. When husband come, una go discuss the way forward". Everything isn't about man and what they care about. You are not on earth for that.

Nazgul:
Please in all you do, don't encourage her to buy a couch.

Nazgul:
You can still get a husband if you throw away your couch. So there's still hope.

Nazgul:
You can still get a husband if you throw away your couch. So there's still hope.

GloriousGbola:
She does not have an LG smart TV bigger than 20 gbolas yet

1 gbola is 6 inches. So When folake4u buy 120 inch TV e don be for her

Mariangeles:
People are still finding their own persons, believe me.

Anny69:
I didn't know women have to stay poor to be likable. No be una say make women hustle?

Esthered:
By designing the interior of my house as a spinster to suit my needs, it devoids me of falling in love, being a good wife, mother..... you're funny sha....

Who told you men aren't coming?

pocohantas:
Hahahahaha.
We bought it already o.
Thankfully it is not royal couch.
Na the one for peasants we do.

folake4u:
Naz, I will beat you. 😂😂😂😂

GloriousGbola:
She does not have an LG smart TV bigger than 20 gbolas yet

1 gbola is 6 inches. So When folake4u buy 120 inch TV e don be for her

Nazgul:
With what? 🤔

folake4u:
Wood.

pocohantas:
My friend rented a mini-flat and all she put was mattress on the floor. She had those small clothe wardrobe we used in secondary school and plastic baskets for her clothes. Then a tiny ceiling fan. It was my first time seeing a ceiling fan that tiny. Her sitting room was empty and filled with nonsense load. I entered her flat and I was disappointed. I asked why she is living like this and she said "Here na camp. When I marry I go enjoy".

How do you convince a man you are good for enjoyment when you have suffered all your life? Love yourself and let the man know how you love to be loved. Funny she was always giving her fake suitors gift and money, but found it hard to spend on herself.

Na me carry her to Thermocool office at Dopemu to buy fridge and AC. Introduced her to my furniture maker. Paid for her driving school. Taught her parallel parking. Introduced her to the late Gazz to overhaul her car. We even bought a big gen from him and she uses it till date. I told her "eat your money. Put on AC make e dey cool your head, see as your house hottttt. When husband come, una go discuss the way forward". Everything isn't about man and what they care about. You are not on earth for that.

Nazgul:
She specifically mentioned couch as the major barrier to getting married. As long as you don't have a couch yet, you're still marriageable. But if you buy it, no more husband.

penusturtle:
Which house rent is N300k?

Teymanhenry:
I think people misunderstand what the post truly mean. Some women with lavish lifestyles might have questionable income sources. If the boyfriend visits her two-bedroom flat and notices expensive items, he might wonder how she affords them on her salary. Worst case is if she's not working, that could raise suspicions about her financial situation. We know most of our girls na. Nobody go tell us

Nazgul:
What type of wood, plywood, dry wood, soft wood, bamboo...etc. Which one?

Gerrard59:
So what's the mentality of women who can legitimately afford a place of their own? Where does a lady who graduated from Unijos but works in Lagos (where she knows no one) reside?

bukatyne:
That is even the first question.

Decent one room apartment with bathroom is about N700k on the low side.