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7upnigeria:
You took your time to write all of these?

Not enough original content

Yes, I took my time, because critical thinking deserves more than recycled hot takes and emotional outbursts. If you’re looking for originality, try facts mixed with logic. That’s rare these days, especially from those who only know how to sound loud, not sound right. Have a wonderful weekend!

CaptainFM1:
He could have avoided the thread to celebrate his wife. People like him will post his wife to celebrate her inside a thread that people died and many are still morning their dead. That's called insensitivity!

A wrong thread to celebrate his beautiful wife.

Mindset aside.

That's the way you would have put it.

Agreed,he posted it on the wrong thread

7upnigeria:
You took your time to write all of these?

Not enough original content

Hamachi extend my greetings to ChatGPT

CaptainFM1:
He could have avoided the thread to celebrate his wife. People like him will post his wife to celebrate her inside a thread that people died and many are still morning their dead. That's called insensitivity!

A wrong thread to celebrate his beautiful wife.

Mindset aside.

The lady posted her own picture

7upnigeria:
You took your time to write all of these?

They are building "BRANDS!". Shey na yansh be the brand?

Anybody using shaking of body/ yansh to build a brand will need that body or yansh to sustain it WHICH IS EQUAL TO PROSTITUTION.

Na AI generated response be that

Hamachi:
Yes, I took my time, because critical thinking deserves more than recycled hot takes and emotional outbursts. If you’re looking for originality, try facts mixed with logic. That’s rare these days, especially from those who only know how to sound loud, not sound right. Have a wonderful weekend!

Ms logic, I don't really belong to this age of moral decadence where women BEHAVE and are THEREFORE TREATED as commodities for money exchange. And thats why its easy for a guy to "FALL IN LOVE" with a waist-shaking BRAND online today and throw her away latest 5 years after that meeting, and then move on to the NEXT BRAND that money can buy, which is the practice of people like FFK, Frank Edoho etc. I belong and still believe in that age of moral responsibility that brought peace of mind to our local societies which also gave MORE HONOUR to women.

Even today in the society, intelligent women in arts, science, economics, tech are seen AND TREATED WITH HONOUR even with MINIMAL SOCIAL MEDIA EXPOSURE compared to pornstars wannabes. Unlimited examples can be found in Madam NOI, Omotola Jalade, Funke akindele and their likes.

Who will take a Jamenema or Liquorose as Gubernatorial running mate in ANY STATE in Nigeria. Not sure people who are entertained by the shaking of their YANSH/BODIES on social media will EVEN VOTE FOR THEM.

Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny

Guy I'm in unn like dis oo.
My sister is among those doing convocation

Celestialsword:
That's the way you would have put it.

Agreed,he posted it on the wrong thread

That's the point why people will price her join!

Yoruba will say "Eni to ta ara ile e lopo ko le ri ra ni owon"

Meaning

Those who sell their families for a paltry sum will not find same to buy for good value"

It's like him taking his wife into an Olosho bar and expect all sorts of men not to ask her for a quickie.

Ah, so now women shaking waist online are the downfall of society? Please.

Let’s not pretend like the "good old days" were heaven on earth. That so-called “age of moral responsibility” you’re romanticizing?
That was the era where women were seen but not heard, married off at 14, and told to stay with cheating husbands "for the children." You call that honour? That was oppression with better packaging.

You say women today are "brands" — but who’s doing the buying and selling? It’s the same men pretending to be victims of modern times while jumping from woman to woman like they’re shopping on Jumia.

Don’t drag women for being visible and expressive in the digital age when it’s men like FFK that treat marriage like a subscription plan — cancel anytime, no refund.

And by the way, peace of mind didn’t come from women being silenced. It came from them being afraid to speak up.
This generation is not morally bankrupt — it's just no longer afraid to expose double standards.

So if you miss the old days so much, maybe go back there — but don’t expect applause when you do.

7upnigeria:
Ms logic, I don't really belong to this age of moral decadence where women BEHAVE and are THEREFORE TREATED as commodities for money exchange. And thats why its easy for a guy to "FALL IN LOVE" with a waist-shaking BRAND online today and throw her away latest 5 years after that meeting, and then move on to the NEXT BRAND that money can buy, which is the practice of people like FFK, Frank Edoho etc. I belong and still believe in that age of moral responsibility that brought peace of mind to our local societies which also gave MORE HONOUR to women

Respectfully, your nostalgia is selective and misleading.
You speak of a so-called “age of moral responsibility” that supposedly gave “more honour to women,” but history doesn’t support this fantasy.

In that “honourable” age:

- Women were often denied education and basic rights.
- Many were married off as teenagers — not out of love, but as part of family bargains.
- Domestic violence was tolerated, even normalized.
- Men cheated freely while women were expected to “endure.”

So, what exactly was honourable about that?

The truth is: the problem isn’t waist-shaking or social media. It’s how people choose to view and treat others.
Women shaking their bodies online are not the problem — the mindset that reduces them to mere brands or transactions is.

As for FFK or Frank Edoho — their relationship choices are personal, not moral yardsticks.
If a man discards a woman after five years, that says more about his character than about her waist.

And finally, moral responsibility isn’t tied to any era. It lives in individuals — both in 1965 and in 2025. There are honourable women and men today, just as there were wicked ones in the past. The difference is, today women have the voice to call it out.

Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny

That’s Unn convocation gown

7upnigeria:
You took your time to write all of these?

They are building "BRANDS!". Shey na yansh be the brand?

Anybody using shaking of body/ yansh to build a brand will need that body or yansh to sustain it WHICH IS EQUAL TO PROSTITUTION.

First of all, calm down — not every woman shaking yansh is selling it.

Yes, some women build brands with their bodies — just like some men build theirs with fake flex, rented cars, and empty motivational quotes. Everyone’s marketing something these days — but don’t confuse visibility with prostitution.

When a fitness coach posts body content, is she selling sex or promoting health?
When a dancer posts moves online, is that prostitution or talent?

You see yansh, we see audience. You see seduction, we see strategy.
That’s the difference between people who think with sense and those who react with insecurity.

Let’s be real: If shaking body automatically equals prostitution, then strip clubs and Instagram are the same thing — and they’re not.

Some of your faves in entertainment, Nollywood, and even politics used charm, body, and charisma to rise. Are they all prostitutes too?

Bottom line: If you think every confident, body-positive woman is selling herself, maybe the problem isn’t her brand — maybe it’s the poverty of your mindset

ediko5:
The lady posted her own picture

It was posted by samakus(m). (m) Means male.

And if it's a lady that posted it, the sentence" Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny" would be wrong because it suggests a husband posting his wife.

And if truly it's a lady that wrote that, it's either she's a lesbian or she actually didn't go to school. They should remove the robe and cap on her immediately.

CaptainFM1:
It was posted by samakus(m). (m) Means male.

And if it's a lady that posted it, the sentence" Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny" would be wrong because it suggests a husband posting his wife.

And if truly it's a lady that wrote that, it's either she's a lesbian or she actually didn't go to school. They should remove the robe and cap on her immediately.

It a sarcasm, it took me a while to understand it.

Many ladies use male profile on Nairaland and besides you can easily change the gender between male and female from your profile settings

ediko5:
It a sarcasm, it took me a while to understand it.

Many ladies use male profile on Nairaland and besides you can easily change the gender between male and female from your profile settings

Right, I should leave you to it then.

Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny

You wan make them price your wife too abi why you dey display her picture for this kind place?

Anyway she’s beautiful and congratulations to her!

AllBlack:
the destiny you designed or the one that you have planned.
the way you guys throw that word about like you know the end from the beginning.

Omoo na wa o. Just say congratulations and move on.

What kinda frustrated being is this one ?

CaptainFM1:
That's the point why people will price her join!

Yoruba will say "Eni to ta ara ile e lopo ko le ri ra ni owon"

Meaning

Those who sell their families for a paltry sum will not find same to buy for good value"

It's like him taking his wife into an Olosho bar and expect all sorts of men not to ask her for a quickie.

you are on point

They could be termed proud online whores...

flokii:
Na dem dem na.. they are tired of the silly questions of 'have you eaten'. They want you to price their market straight up.
Somethink like.. Hey pretty damsel, how much for a night?
The she'd be like #500k, are you in?

Chai, this life don spoil.

To find true love go hard.

Samakus:
I agree with her


Meanwhile, happy convocation to my wife. You shall fulfil destiny

posting ur wife's pic in public does it really make sense in ur head. Just pause and rethink. When trouble start una go begin disturb God.

ediko5:
A Nigerian lady @Arianacrush949 have adviced men on social media not to waste their time to ask ladies who shake their bum bum on social media questions.

According to her;
Any yansh wey dey shake for social media Na for sale, price am.
No go ask am have you eaten o.
Price am straight up

Make I go try am for insta

CaptainFM1:
This is the same thing this lady is talking about that you're doing only that it's a picture.

Must you advertise your wife?

I hope you'll be happy if someone ask you "How much"?

Not a problem bro

If you ask, I'll reply you. Life no too hard if we no read unnecessary meaning to things

lightwind:
I wished i can see a wife like you and marry .

Mmmmmm

You can bro. Put eye in water and look

PlasmaTV:
Congratulations to you and madam. Happy day for you.

Biko, take madam out for dinner. E no easy.

Yeah I did that. Thanks mate

Ay04z:
why post her photo here na... U people sha... Celebrate in silence sir

No I won't. I will celebrate publicly.

T for thanks

Positioned

Let's have it


Enjoy your tears mate

columbus007:
Like how? By asking how much right?

Abi.. like if one want to buy tomatoes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

ediko5:
Hamachi extend my greetings to ChatGPT

Hiya ChatGPT!

ediko5 is extending her warmest greetings to you through Hamachi.

Have a nice weekend, you helper of lazy students.

femi4:
Make I go try am for insta

..na tomatoes you want buy ?

ediko5:
The summary of her message is:

Men shouldn't waste time toasting public market, go straight to the point, price it to the lowest possible rate and rent the product for either short time or full night 😉

Rent the product..is it a car for rent or ? 🙄

dequir:
Hiya ChatGPT!

ediko5 is extending her warmest greetings to you through Hamachi.

Have a nice weekend, you helper of lazy students.

😂 😂 😂

Hamachi:
While @Arianacrush949 may be expressing frustration with certain online behaviors, reducing every woman who dances or "shakes yansh" on social media to a commodity "for sale" is a harmful generalization, rooted in misogyny and lack of understanding of digital culture, self-expression, and economics.

1. Dancing or expressing sexuality online ≠ prostitution
Fact: A 2022 Pew Research study on digital expression shows that over 60% of women who post dance or fashion videos do so as a form of self-expression, fitness, entertainment, or influencer branding — not solicitation. TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook Reels are platforms built around performance, and dance content ranks among the top 3 most-watched categories globally (Statista, 2023).

Many popular female influencers from Nigeria (e.g., Janemena, Liquorose) are dancers or entertainers, not sex workers. They're building brands, not selling bodies.


2. Respecting bodily autonomy is basic human decency
Saying “price her” because she dances implies women lose their right to dignity because of how they dress or move. That’s like saying a man showing abs is automatically a gigolo.

UN Women reports that sexual objectification leads to increased gender-based violence and online harassment, especially in Africa where cultural norms are often misinterpreted.


3. Not all attention is sexual – many men and women admire, without desiring
Surveys by YouGov (2021) show that over 70% of social media users follow creators for content — not for sexual interest or solicitation. A man asking "have you eaten?" may genuinely care. Assuming that kindness is misplaced because of how someone dances reduces human interaction to transactions, which is unhealthy.

4. Economically, female influencers earn more from partnerships than “pricing”
Influencers like Papaya Ex, Priscilla Ojo, or Nancy Isime make millions of naira monthly through ads, shoutouts, affiliate links, and brand deals — not from selling sex. Suggesting that women on social media are “for sale” ignores their entrepreneurial power in Nigeria’s growing creator economy (worth over ₦20 billion annually).

Instead of labeling and demeaning women who express themselves freely online, we should acknowledge the diversity of intent behind social media behavior. Some dance for fun, some for money, some for art — but none deserve to be automatically dehumanized or priced.

Let’s move away from judgment and toward understanding and mutual respect.

you are talking trash.... people understood the context