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WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by Rubyjade(op): 12:54pm On Apr 12, 2025
WOMEN ONLY: What’s the hardest lesson a man ever taught you
Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by Balablue64: 1:19pm On Apr 12, 2025
If I can't manipulate him i hate him.
Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by Hamachi(f): 9:16am On Jul 27, 2025
The hardest lessons they’ve learned from men:

1. Love alone is not enough
"He loved me deeply, but that didn’t stop him from being emotionally immature and avoidant. I learned that love needs to come with responsibility, communication, and consistency."

2. If a man wants to, he will
"I kept making excuses for why he didn’t call, didn’t commit, or wasn’t showing up. Turns out, he just didn’t want to enough. That lesson hurt."

3. Men can compartmentalize emotions differently
"He moved on a week after we broke up like I meant nothing. That shattered me until I realized men are taught to suppress, not necessarily feel less."

4. Silence is an answer
"He stopped calling, stopped texting, no explanations. I kept hoping for closure. His silence was the closure. That was brutal."

5. Don’t ignore the red flags just because you’re wearing rose-colored glasses
"He told me who he was early — I just thought I could change him or love him enough to heal him."

6. A man’s potential is not your responsibility
"I saw his potential, supported him through everything, built him up — then he left me for someone else. I learned the hard way not to date potential."
Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by OlaOfLagos(m): 9:19am On Jul 27, 2025
1…….2…….3………

Manipulation starts

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Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by Queenserah1(f): 7:35pm On Jul 27, 2025
I have learnt not to stop loving and prioritizing myself. Don’t depend on any man’s love, time, attention or affection to be whole.

Have a life, be happy and whatever comes from him should ONLY be an extra
Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by Rubyjade(op): 10:44am On Jul 29, 2025
OlaOfLagos:
1…….2…….3………

Manipulation starts

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Are you a woman?
Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by Jesterinjay: 12:04pm On Jul 29, 2025
It's about to go down
Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by Samantha125(f): 12:06pm On Jul 29, 2025
My father taught me the following:
1. There's no honour in swearing, downgrading, maltreating, and insulting other people just because you consider yourself as pompous.

2. Sometimes silence is the answer, so rather than waste your time bickering with someone, just stand back, be silent, and let your actions speak for you... Some will confuse your silence with naivety, forgetting that there's wisdom in silence... Because some people have sharp mouths with myopic and limited mindsets.

3. To establish myself, have a career, and life of my own before committing to someone else's son.
Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by OlaOfLagos(m): 8:20pm On Jul 29, 2025
Rubyjade:
Are you a woman?
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Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by AngelicDamsel(f): 11:12pm On Jul 29, 2025
Hardest lesson:



A man who stands for nothing will fall for anything.


Meanwhile,

Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by RollinTNDA: 12:05am On Jul 30, 2025
Samantha125:
My father taught me the following:
1. There's no honour in swearing, downgrading, maltreating, and insulting other people just because you consider yourself as pompous.

2. Sometimes silence is the answer, so rather than waste your time bickering with someone, just stand back, be silent, and let your actions speak for you... Some will confuse your silence with naivety, forgetting that there's wisdom in silence... Because some people have sharp mouths with myopic and limited mindsets.

3. To establish myself, have a career, and life of my own before committing to someone else's son.
1. Cool
2. In marriage silent is not the best answer.. I have seen men die in silence
All because they wanted to be gentleman to their wife. Which always backfires.
Because women view Silence as Weakness

3. Good luck with your biological clock😂😂
Re: WOMEN ONLY: What’s The Hardest Lesson A Man Ever Taught You by Samantha125(f): 12:20pm On Jul 30, 2025
Ok
RollinTNDA:
1. Cool
2. In marriage silent is not the best answer.. I have seen men die in silence
All because they wanted to be gentleman to their wife. Which always backfires.
Because women view Silence as Weakness

3. Good luck with your biological clock😂😂
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