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I heard a story how a man returned from a journey without informing his wife and met the wife with a man on their matrimonial bed. When he threatened to divorce and expose the wife, she immediately connived with her man friend to terminate the husband's life and they took his corpse to the road side so it will appear like a robbery.

There are similar cases like this which were never discovered and may never be known.

Any woman who can bring a man to your matrimonial bed can unalive you without thinking twice.

How to be safe when you find yourself in this scenario as a man:

1. Be calm: Don't over panic and don't raise your voice when you're in the same enclosed room with them. Make sure to stand at the door and don't move away from the door.

2. Don't Threaten to Expose or Divorce Her: Be calm and diplomatic. This isn't the time to threaten to lose hell fire.

3. Locate Any Available Weapon and Stand Close to it: If You're a real African man, you should have at least a machete in your house, stand close to your machete or gun in case of any wrong move but don't be the first to engage them in a fight while you're still alone in the house. If you can lay hold of your weapon, find your way out of the house immediately.

4. Raise Alarm for Witnesses: Raise alarm and inform few or trusted neighbours to come and witness it, you can then descend on them depending on the kind of environment you live or call the police to pick them up so she can explain what they were doing in your matrimonial bed.

Note: Settlement is never an option for any wife who can bring a man to your matrimonial home.

ediko5:
I heard a story how a man returned from a journey without informing his wife and met the wife with a man on their matrimonial bed. When he threatened to divorce and expose the wife, she immediately connived with her man friend to terminate the husband's life and they took his corpse to the road side so it will appear like a robbery.

There are similar cases like this which were never discovered and may never be known.

Any woman who can bring a man to your matrimonial bed can unalive you without thinking twice.

How to be safe when you find yourself in this scenario as a man:

1. Be calm: Don't over panic and don't raise your voice when you're in the same enclosed room with them. Make sure to stand at the door and don't move away from the door.

2. Don't Threaten to Expose or Divorce Her: Be calm and diplomatic. This isn't the time to threaten to lose hell fire.

3. Locate Any Available Weapon and Stand Close to it: If You're a real African man, you should have at least a machete in your house, stand close to your machete or gun in case of any wrong move but don't be the first to engage them in a fight while you're still alone in the house. If you can lay hold of your weapon, find your way out of the house immediately.

4. Raise Alarm for Witnesses: Raise alarm and inform few or trusted neighbours to come and witness it, you can then descend on them depending on the kind of environment you live or call the police to pick them up so she can explain what they were doing in your matrimonial bed.

Oga na which woman do you this thing?

All your threads and post here only have one thrust - attack women.

Your interest with this has reached an alarming level which borders on obsession!

Wear a hidden camera and approach the scene. That all you need.

After they have seen you, congratulate the man and tell him you are happy he's gotten a new wife and leave.

Your silence would speak volume.

Just keep fvcking..

Then finally divorce ..

Nothing like forgive here...

Silentgroper:
Just keep fvcking..

Then finally divorce ..

Nothing like forgive here...

Never try that o
Never have anything to do with a WIFE you've caught cheating as an African man not to talk of your matrimonial home. She can poison you so you don't expose her

SamuraiXXX:
Oga na which woman do you this thing?

All your threads and post here only have one thrust - attack women.

Your interest with this has reached an alarming level which borders on obsession!

Is that all you have to say about this wonderful thread? Tomorrow now, you will be in joromi page to tell 'hide my identity' stories but someone is giving you free education on how to defend yourself against the evilness of Eve's daughters, still you will not learn. Okay.

Nonexisting1:
Is that all you have to say about this wonderful thread? Tomorrow now, you will be in joromi page to tell 'hide my identity' stories but someone is giving you free education on how to defend yourself against the evilness of Eve's daughters, still you will not learn. Okay.

A very brilliant response to the organic SIMP.
It's people like him that finish last and always learn the hard way.

I believe he also fall among the category of men that follow women to their matrimonial home when their husband isn't around.

Instead of the man to just ask for Tutorial from the co-husband how e dey go, get them cold water to drink, then tell her to call when they are done.
Life 🧬 no hard

Omor if I come back house, jam my wife with another man for bed, Naturally I'll be pissed off but ain't gonna give her that pleasure to know.

Just strip off in their presence and change clothings then walk out like a Boss.


Definitely person wey marry me would know that kind of psychopath she's with, so someone with full understanding would have fled with all her properties before I returned.


I'll never call her papa or involve my self inside any reconciliation meeting, that's my deal breaker and even Bible supports me.

If you like carry divorce papers come give me to sign, my own be say I don delete you from my existence, if you no gree bring the papers come, you go remain permanent married woman for her papa house while I continue to Obleee Obleee.



Seriously, I've promised myself that if I ever keep woman for house, I'll never cheat on her and I'll never forgive her if she cheats on me...


Pickim... Packam...

Be calm and walk away. For the lady, 15 minutes is enough her common sense to kick in to know she ought to start parking up her bags.

I will wait for them to finish and will have a deep discussion with her about the future of the marriage.

Nnamdipapa:
I will wait for them to finish and will have a deep discussion with her about the future of the marriage.

omoh...........no talk wetin u no fit do.

omoh..........be lyk na simpson full here oooh

Illegal1:
omoh...........no talk wetin u no fit do.

I am not the jealous type, I allow my wife overnight parties alone, I even asked my friend to take her and her friend to clubs. Life is too short and sweet to fight over kpekus.

Nonexisting1:
Is that all you have to say about this wonderful thread? Tomorrow now, you will be in joromi page to tell 'hide my identity' stories but someone is giving you free education on how to defend yourself against the evilness of Eve's daughters, still you will not learn. Okay.

There is nothing wonderful about this thread because he is not the first to write on this topic.

The guy has a psychological problem otherwise I don't understand his obsession with creating multiple threads here to denigrate women.

If all the women in his family and in his life are shit it is not like that in other people's families!

Nnamdipapa:
I am not the jealous type, I allow my wife overnight parties alone, I even asked my friend to take her and her friend to clubs.
Life is too short and sweet to fight over kpekus.

She should rather be alone than be with you.
You don't deserve her.
It's not her all along, it's you.
You're bland. Cold.

There's something you're lacking in your spirit...I can't find the right word. 🤔
Like, you've lost will.

Mariangeles:
She should rather be alone than be with you.
You don't deserve her.
It's not her all along, it's you.
You're bland. Cold.

There's something you're lacking in your spirit...I can't find the right word. 🤔
Like, you've lost will.

Hahahaha. My dear sister, why you dey para nau.

I am always busy with business with my plates full. I hate noise, music and parties while my wife loves them. She loves to dance and I despise dancing. I can't stop her from enjoying herself because marriage is not bondage where the couple wear the same type of clothes, share same friends, eat in the same plates.

You see what I mean.

Nnamdipapa:
Hahahaha. My dear sister, why you dey para nau.

I am always busy with business with my plates full. I hate noise, music and parties while my wife loves them. She loves to dance and I despise dancing. I can't stop her from enjoying herself because marriage is not bondage where the couple wear the same type of clothes, share same friends, eat in the same plates.

You see what I mean.

EwooO! Na you busy pass.
You no fit whyne me.

If you wanted to, you would.

Mariangeles:
EwooO! Na you busy pass.
You no fit whyne me.

If you wanted to, you would.

I am not interested in some of her activities and cannot stop her from enjoying herself. A lot of my own stuff I love doing, she has no Interest and I cannot force her.

Life should be very easy.

What Would I Do If I Caught My Wife in Bed With Another Man?

These days, we’ve heard it over and over — people sharing how they caught their partner, even on the matrimonial bed, with someone else. And almost every time, the relationship breaks.

So if you ask me, “What would you do if you caught your wife in bed with another man?” — here’s my answer.

First, let me make one thing clear: I’m not insecure. I don’t measure myself by other people’s standards. I don’t project insecurities that I don’t have. I’m a secure person. So my response isn't coming from fear, jealousy, or wounded pride — it's coming from principle and self-respect.

Now, for most people, catching a partner cheating stings deeply. Not just because of the act, but because of what it represents — that you weren’t chosen, that you weren’t enough. And then the mind begins to wander: Is the other person richer, better-looking, more confident, or more “satisfying”? But honestly, those details don’t even matter.

Because for me, it’s about trust.

If I were to walk in and find my wife with someone else, I don’t think I’d argue or shout. I wouldn’t even ask for explanations. I’d just walk away. Because once trust is broken like that — not just in secrecy but in intimacy — the bond is already gone.


Look, nobody’s perfect. No one can meet every single need of another person. We're human, we evolve, we get tired, and sometimes our desires shift. That’s understandable. But that’s why we talk. That’s why communication exists. If something isn’t working, speak up. That’s what builds trust.

But if you can’t talk to me — your partner — and instead you sleep with someone else behind my back, then that tells me all I need to know. You don’t value the relationship enough to protect its core: honesty.

So no, I wouldn’t want to know why. I wouldn’t care if it was “my fault.” Because if something was wrong, you had the option to be open — and you chose betrayal instead. And for me, that’s where it ends.

Where trust dies, love cannot survive. And no matter how secure I am — and believe me, I am — I will never stay in a space where deception is normalised, and dignity is compromised.

So, yes. If I caught my wife in bed with another man, that would be the end. Not because I feel inferior — but because I know my worth.

SamuraiXXX:
There is nothing wonderful about this thread because he is not the first to write on this topic.

The guy has a psychological problem otherwise I don't understand his obsession with creating multiple threads here to denigrate women.

If all the women in his family and in his life are shit it is not like that in other people's families!

Firstly, my post has never denigrate women rather to reveal the manipulative strategies of women to innocent men and also to deliver organic simp men like you.

I've gotten testimonies from about 9 men here on Nairaland PM how my posts helped deliver them from the bondage of SIMPing

ediko5:
I heard a story how a man returned from a journey without informing his wife and met the wife with a man on their matrimonial bed. When he threatened to divorce and expose the wife, she immediately connived with her man friend to terminate the husband's life and they took his corpse to the road side so it will appear like a robbery.

There are similar cases like this which were never discovered and may never be known.

Any woman who can bring a man to your matrimonial bed can unalive you without thinking twice.

How to be safe when you find yourself in this scenario as a man:

1. Be calm: Don't over panic and don't raise your voice when you're in the same enclosed room with them. Make sure to stand at the door and don't move away from the door.

2. Don't Threaten to Expose or Divorce Her: Be calm and diplomatic. This isn't the time to threaten to lose hell fire.

3. Locate Any Available Weapon and Stand Close to it: If You're a real African man, you should have at least a machete in your house, stand close to your machete or gun in case of any wrong move but don't be the first to engage them in a fight while you're still alone in the house. If you can lay hold of your weapon, find your way out of the house immediately.

4. Raise Alarm for Witnesses: Raise alarm and inform few or trusted neighbours to come and witness it, you can then descend on them depending on the kind of environment you live or call the police to pick them up so she can explain what they were doing in your matrimonial bed.

U seem to be a violent person.Did d man rape ur wife?
I feel sick wen people like u are not ashamed to say this.Imagine d cutlass talk.if i find a man wit my wife i wont do a thing.I will jst ask her to park n go.i will lock my home n go on a holiday to cool down n forget.

bdon123:
U seem to be a violent person.Did d man rape ur wife?
I feel sick wen people like u are not ashamed to say this.Imagine d cutlass talk.if i find a man wit my wife i wont do a thing.I will jst ask her to park n go.i will lock my home n go on a holiday to cool down n forget.

You're an organic simp and also a dummy if you don't know that under the laws of Nigeria that the man have committed an offence by committing adultery with your wife in your matrimonial home.

You mean, you'll thank the man for coming into your house? Catching your wife in a hotel with a man is different from catching her with a man in your house.

Besides if you're a sensible person you should've seen I was talking about the safety aspect of it

bdon123:
U seem to be a violent person.Did d man rape ur wife?
I feel sick wen people like u are not ashamed to say this.Imagine d cutlass talk.if i find a man wit my wife i wont do a thing.I will jst ask her to park n go.i will lock my home n go on a holiday to cool down n forget.

Most of these men foaming in the mouths have side chick's and the wives have never packed out of the marriage. I will forgive my wife if I catch her with a lover and no big deal.

Na to just dey calm ask them to leave your house, but you must be ready to defend yourself.

Nonexisting1:
Is that all you have to say about this wonderful thread? Tomorrow now, you will be in joromi page to tell 'hide my identity' stories but someone is giving you free education on how to defend yourself against the evilness of Eve's daughters, still you will not learn. Okay.

Why not talk about men issues too?

I'll bring out my phone and snap enough pictures then record the whole event cos women can lie. Then I'll send the pictures and videos to her people and divorce her.

But I don't pray to experience such, cos it can really be heartbreaking.

Probably do nothing…to avoid prison or death sentence

That number three may or might drag you to life in prison if use perfectly or wrongly. Baba best thing to do in that situation is to secretly take pics and jejely run for your dear life