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Jeweltz:
Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

advanceDNA:
I've seen someone hvrt badly for this same move..........You don't date your close friend's ex....unless you are not close at all.....

this is a street thumb rule, especially for you women that sometimes dont let go 100% ....even if u ain't dating a guy anymore you still him to be all over you so you can feel good about how u have his mumu button any day

By the way... you suppose know say this may likely go south....... You are not his spec from the start .....he chose ur friend even though you were there ...the guy will just, chop & clean mouth....
.........see as I dey look your egungun wey don nearly reach express

Nelito1472:
Not like you have big ass and big that now. Na Brain Jotter for help me answer you

Samantha125:
1. You don't eat your friends leftovers unless you're ready to part ways with them... It's either them or him.

2. You're obviously just a second option to the guy and not really his heart desires... He already told you the type of women he likes, and judging from your post, you don't fit that criteria.

3. Had things worked out between him and your friend, I'm sure he wouldn't even look your direction.

4. To you it might be love while to him it could be just lust... He's probably using you as a distraction.

Next thing when things don't work out, you'll be saying "men are trash", when you'd have ignored the red flags by allowing yourself to be trashed.

ediko5:
For the fact that a guy tells you he only likes women with big ass and the rest doesn't mean that he's gonna stick to that criteria when choosing someone for a relationship that may lead to marriage (If that's what they doing except just normal piping things). I'm also that kinda person, I like 'em big behind for piping but that doesn't mean that's my top criteria for a partner. (Besides big ass ladies too dey quick get health issues - talking from experience)

Jeweltz, shebi your friend said he's arrogant, then why she come dey para ? Make she park oneside make the guyman collect your own and if unalike unaself, carry go.

Meanwhile, did your love for him increased because of his travel/relocation to the western world?

Jeweltz:
You have a crush on me. Just say it.

Samantha125:
I don't get it, why quote me instead of just posting your own opinion for her to decide?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.