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The moment you reach age 30, no woman can love you...And if you're a lady, no man can love you. You can only be needed. Surprised??

There's completely nothing attractive and emotional that will spur anyone in their right mind to fall in love with you at age 30 and above, you can only be needed for what you can offer as benefits for the romantic relationship. Once the benefits are pleasing then I work on it backwards to try find a way to make you feel loved.

If you are young, probably you have a shot on finding Love because you're definitely interesting, beautiful or sexy and the opposite sex can focus on nothing much except yourself to love you.

Once you clock closer to 30, forget about being loved. You can only be needed and if you're realistic in life, you'd be happy designing what you'll offer to interest the opposite sex to need you badly, and boom, that's the type of "Love" you'd be sure to get...

Note: This message is only dedicated to people who are on the third floor and above. As for the young, you can keep waiting on love you might be the first one to get loved without being needed.

Bullshito Brown..............Do not make blanket statements based on your personal experience.

Bsssss:
The moment you reach age 30, no woman can love you...And if you're a lady, no man can love you. You can only be needed. Surprised??

There's completely nothing attractive and emotional that will spur anyone in their right mind to fall in love with you at age 30 and above, you can only be needed for what you can offer as benefits for the romantic relationship. Once the benefits are pleasing then I work on it backwards to try find a way to make you feel loved.

If you are young, probably you have a shot on finding Love because you're definitely interesting, beautiful or sexy and the opposite sex can focus on nothing much except yourself to love you.

Once you clock closer to 30, forget about being loved. You can only be needed and if you're realistic in life, you'd be happy designing what you'll offer to interest the opposite sex to need you badly, and boom, that's the type of "Love" you'd be sure to get...

Note: This message is only dedicated to people who are on the third floor and above. As for the young, you can keep waiting on love you might be the first one to get loved without being needed.

blunt truth the benefit comes first. working on how to like the person comes second.

though thats not how it should be. it is a wrong mindset

The body becomes 1 with the pain

At 40 I am still loving my wife more than any woman on earth.

What would u call that?

ibechris:
At 40 I am still loving my wife more than any woman on earth.

What would u call that?

but you cheat on her sometimes

ibechris:
At 40 I am still loving my wife more than any woman on earth.

What would u call that?

swear what you just post is true

And this one will claim to be educated, a big adult that is supposed to have a mature intelligent brain that functions well, imagine what it came up with, a falsehood that sounds ridiculous to a sane human.

Just imagine watin this one post. And na person born this one maybe first son for that matter. Nothing meaningful here na. Oga as a man na 30 you start life.

Diamond098454:
but you cheat on her sometimes

Cheat on her with u I guess.

ibechris:
At 40 I am still loving my wife more than any woman on earth.

What would u call that?

You mean your wife your family dislike

The Op is Correct

I have a girl that still visits me without getting money in return. She comes for sex when she's in the mood. Therefore without that sex she won't visit me because she don't gain any other thing from me.

If you're not rich, a girl can only be managing you if you're good in bed and that's still a benefit to her but know that she still have other guys she flirts with for financial benefits, she can't be loyal to only you if you're not financially stable.

Those of you arguing and attacking the Op are not sincere to yourselves. Even if you're attractive without financial benefit to offer a lady, she won't stay with you for long. With time she will see you finish and that your handsomness won't attract her anymore

ibechris:
At 40 I am still loving my wife more than any woman on earth.

What would u call that?

You are loving her because she's your wife. She's invested in your future DNA. Not because you have feelings for her.

JovialJune:
And this one will claim to be educated, a big adult that is supposed to have a mature intelligent brain that functions well, imagine what it came up with, a falsehood that sounds ridiculous to a sane human.

Why are you sounding as though you are pained. Attack the message not the messenger. You may not like it but that's the truth. You may not believe if you're under 30, so wait until you climb the 3rd floor, we can have this conversation again.

BTW, do you know why beautiful unattractive saggy ladies always want to focus on building their career rather than settling down before 30? That's because they seem more attractive when they have a thriving career than when they don't.

You may not like it but that's a fact you have to live with.

Bendeco02:
The Op is Correct

I have a girl that still visits me without getting money in return. She comes for sex when she's in the mood. Therefore without that sex she won't visit me because she don't gain any other thing from me.

If you're not rich, a girl can only be managing you if you're good in bed and that's still a benefit to her but know that she still have other guys she flirts with for financial benefits, she can't be loyal to only you if you're not financially stable.

Those of you arguing and attacking the Op are not sincere to yourselves. Even if you're attractive without financial benefit to offer a lady, she won't stay with you for long. With time she will see you finish and that your handsomness won't attract her anymore

Majority of the people who disapprove this message are either under 30 or are living in denial. The message is actually broad in its term. Meaning 30 years of age is an ideal stage people usually begin to get intentional with every contact they make. Including what relationship they're getting into.

Good for you.

ibechris:
Cheat on her with u I guess.

habaaa no naaa I apologize

Nope, u re wrong

Bendeco02:
The Op is Correct

I have a girl that still visits me without getting money in return. She comes for sex when she's in the mood. Therefore without that sex she won't visit me because she don't gain any other thing from me.

If you're not rich, a girl can only be managing you if you're good in bed and that's still a benefit to her but know that she still have other guys she flirts with for financial benefits, she can't be loyal to only you if you're not financially stable.

Those of you arguing and attacking the Op are not sincere to yourselves. Even if you're attractive without financial benefit to offer a lady, she won't stay with you for long. With time she will see you finish and that your handsomness won't attract her anymore

yes what u said is true bt op is saying a different thing, he is saying that a 30yrs old adult cant fall in love or be loved, that its all abt d benefits

Bsssss:
You are loving her because she's your wife. She's invested in your future DNA. Not because you have feelings for her.

dts nt true, every one is not d same, adults stil love genuinely

Diamond098454:
but you cheat on her sometimes

Is not about cheating, you shouldn't question a man cheating, its natural, if a woman cheat amf then gives me another man kids to train hell will let loose, so women should avoif cheating

This mainly applies to Nigerians who don’t prioritize fitness. If you take care of your body and stay active, even after 30, you can still look very attractive and well put together.

While OP might be partly true, but it’s not the full story if you ask every man above 30. Many women are naturally drawn to older partners, and some even find them more appealing than younger guys and this has nothing to do with money... growing up, my immediate elder sister won't date you if you are not above 30, she believes younger guys plays lot of games and for some other weird reasons, she prefers the matured mustaches and stuffs, this my sister later got married immediately after university , she didn't even serve before the 35 year old Banker married her as a virgin.

Now, here is another surprise: do you know that some women actually find pot bellies attractive! And it’s not always because they assume those men are richer. For a few, it’s simply a personal preference, maybe a unique attraction or "fetish" that draws them to men with that body type.

Me personally, i've got more younger ladies when clocked 30 than i did when i was in my 20s, and trust me it has nothing to do with money.

nope i disagree,everyone is not the same

gregyboy:
Is not about cheating, you shouldn't question a man cheating, its natural, if a woman cheat amf then gives me another man kids to train hell will let loose, so women should avoif cheating

oooohhhh it's natural for a man to cheat? Wow, I thank God things has changed now.

Diamond098454:
oooohhhh it's natural for a man to cheat? Wow, I thank God things has changed now.

What has changed, too much western influence 8s destroying Africa, cheat if your husband nor go drive you from house

op which planet you dey live? I will just say you have low self esteem which is why nobody loves for who you are, how can someone love when you don't even love yourself .
your 30s is the most attractive period of your life as a man as both younger and older women will want to date and Marry you,I discovered that I attract ladies more now I am in my 30s that in my 20s sometimes I ask what changed.