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Thisisa:
I am Christian I believe in Jesus.

My experience with so called Christian ladies so far haven't been so palatable.

There should be a difference between a Christian and an unbelievable but it seems this Christian ladies are actually the worse.

The are manipulative
The lack actual fear of God. ( They only pretend)
They are don't actually love you. They love what you bring to the table.

Ok, soo I used to think if you are at least a Christian lady you should know how to keep yourself sexually till you are married. But most of the ladies are the once that will even initiate the sex. At the end of the day they will feel remorse and ask for forgiveness from God.
If another opportunity present it self again they will initiate for the sex again and ask for forgiveness God's forgiveness.
Maybe it's the ladies I have met. Maybe they are just church attenders.

Thisisa:
I am Christian I believe in Jesus.

My experience with so called Christian ladies so far haven't been so palatable.

There should be a difference between a Christian and an unbeliever but it seems this Christian ladies are actually the worse.

The are manipulative
The lack actual fear of God. ( They only pretend)
They are don't actually love you. They love what you bring to the table.

Ok, soo I used to think if you are at least a Christian lady you should know how to keep yourself sexually till you are married. But most of the ladies are the ones that will even initiate the sex. At the end of the day they will feel remorse and ask for forgiveness from God.
If another opportunity present it self again they will initiate for the sex again and ask for forgiveness God's forgiveness.
Maybe it's the ladies I have met. Maybe they are just church attenders.

elipheleh:
My initial thoughts was to attack you OP.

But on a 2nd thought, I feel you said the truth with most people that say they are Christian ladies.
Don't be deceived they all almost are not Christian ladies 98% of the time. They are just church goers.

The other 2% are really weak at some times.

Its not really easy keeping oneself.

Even the men.

For example, see me, me that got married almost 4 years now. I deliberately said I won't touch another girl apart from my pretty wife.
But just last Monday, something came over me. I was upstairs in an eatery eating and relaxing while rewriting codes. And they were washing my car outside.
A girl just stepped in. Very tall, beautiful and the right configurations just like my wife is. Me, see me I was so much controlled by lust that I called her, bought her food. Gave her money there amd then to clear her debts, began pressing her breast and funding her there in the eatery. No toasting, no rapping. Straight forward flung money for her face. She agreed.
I was handling and pressing her breasts, laps, bum bum. She sat on top of my genitals. I was carried away. A 19 year old girl at that.
This is a stranger o. Public place o. Cctv everywhere o. They boyfriend works in that eatery too.
I didnt even remember I was a Christian, no rembrance of God at all. I forgot the fear of God completely.

I told her I was married and just wanted sex and promised to be lavishing her with huge money anytime she asks for it.

Money is not even my problem. I earn millions every week.

I run transfer for her. I mean there was nothing she could ask for that I couldn't provide.

She collected my number. Has been calling me since then, Tuesday o, Wednesday o.. I got fed up. Even though I already booked appointment with her today, Sunday for fornication. No love involved, no nothing.

The following days which is Tuesday and then Wednesday I went back to God, prayed, cried that God help me not to Bleep this girl. I fasted join against this spirit of lust.

By Thursday, I stopped picking her calls. She calls me every minute, missed calls. Now I have power over this lust of a thing, at least lusting after her. Today, being our appointment day, I won't go. I won't still pick any call.

This and many events taught me that I am not above the law. Previously, I used to boast in my self control as a man.
I used to brag.
I now know that its not by power or might.

By the way, I am very good looking, very rich and young too.

I just learnt that most women in this Tinubu regime would sleep with me as just intimacy gadget because of money.

But Christ has restrained persons like me.

My wife doesn't even know why I fasted and prayed against lust this last week.

She didn't know what God did for her and our marriage.

OP you see we are all weak. Just living daily by God's grace and mercy. Only God can give strength to them that have no might.

Have compassion on the weak. At times we would be worse if thesame situation befall us. We are all saved by Grace through Faith.
It is of Grace and not by works lest any man should boast in the presence of God

Paulnoma:
[/quote]Bro sin thrives in secrecy, I assure you that lady is now your albatross if you don't totally sever ties with her, please look for someone spiritually matured and CONFESS to.
Delilah's don't give up so easily, they don't mind going the extra mile.
Open up to someone spiritually matured.

Don't think because you have stop picking her calls means it's over or you have overcome her, just CONFESS it and loose yourself from the hold.
Stay strong.

elipheleh:
My initial thoughts was to attack you OP.

But on a 2nd thought, I feel you said the truth with most people that say they are Christian ladies.
Don't be deceived they all almost are not Christian ladies 98% of the time. They are just church goers.

The other 2% are really weak at some times.

Its not really easy keeping oneself.

Even the men.

For example, see me, me that got married almost 4 years now. I deliberately said I won't touch another girl apart from my pretty wife.
But just last Monday, something came over me. I was upstairs in an eatery eating and relaxing while rewriting codes. And they were washing my car outside.
A girl just stepped in. Very tall, beautiful and the right configurations just like my wife is. Me, see me I was so much controlled by lust that I called her, bought her food. Gave her money there amd then to clear her debts, began pressing her breast and funding her there in the eatery. No toasting, no rapping. Straight forward flung money for her face. She agreed.
I was handling and pressing her breasts, laps, bum bum. She sat on top of my genitals. I was carried away. A 19 year old girl at that.
This is a stranger o. Public place o. Cctv everywhere o. They boyfriend works in that eatery too.
I didnt even remember I was a Christian, no rembrance of God at all. I forgot the fear of God completely.

I told her I was married and just wanted sex and promised to be lavishing her with huge money anytime she asks for it.

Money is not even my problem. I earn millions every week.

I run transfer for her. I mean there was nothing she could ask for that I couldn't provide.

She collected my number. Has been calling me since then, Tuesday o, Wednesday o.. I got fed up. Even though I already booked appointment with her today, Sunday for fornication. No love involved, no nothing.

The following days which is Tuesday and then Wednesday I went back to God, prayed, cried that God help me not to Bleep this girl. I fasted join against this spirit of lust.

By Thursday, I stopped picking her calls. She calls me every minute, missed calls. Now I have power over this lust of a thing, at least lusting after her. Today, being our appointment day, I won't go. I won't still pick any call.

This and many events taught me that I am not above the law. Previously, I used to boast in my self control as a man.
I used to brag.
I now know that its not by power or might.

By the way, I am very good looking, very rich and young too.

I just learnt that most women in this Tinubu regime would sleep with me as just intimacy gadget because of money.

But Christ has restrained persons like me.

My wife doesn't even know why I fasted and prayed against lust this last week.

She didn't know what God did for her and our marriage.

OP you see we are all weak. Just living daily by God's grace and mercy. Only God can give strength to them that have no might.

Have compassion on the weak. At times we would be worse if thesame situation befall us. We are all saved by Grace through Faith.
It is of Grace and not by works lest any man should boast in the presence of God

elipheleh:
My initial thoughts was to attack you OP.

But on a 2nd thought, I feel you said the truth with most people that say they are Christian ladies.
Don't be deceived they all almost are not Christian ladies 98% of the time. They are just church goers.

The other 2% are really weak at some times.

Its not really easy keeping oneself.

Even the men.

For example, see me, me that got married almost 4 years now. I deliberately said I won't touch another girl apart from my pretty wife.
But just last Monday, something came over me. I was upstairs in an eatery eating and relaxing while rewriting codes. And they were washing my car outside.
A girl just stepped in. Very tall, beautiful and the right configurations just like my wife is. Me, see me I was so much controlled by lust that I called her, bought her food. Gave her money there amd then to clear her debts, began pressing her breast and funding her there in the eatery. No toasting, no rapping. Straight forward flung money for her face. She agreed.
I was handling and pressing her breasts, laps, bum bum. She sat on top of my genitals. I was carried away. A 19 year old girl at that.
This is a stranger o. Public place o. Cctv everywhere o. They boyfriend works in that eatery too.
I didnt even remember I was a Christian, no rembrance of God at all. I forgot the fear of God completely.

I told her I was married and just wanted sex and promised to be lavishing her with huge money anytime she asks for it.

Money is not even my problem. I earn millions every week.

I run transfer for her. I mean there was nothing she could ask for that I couldn't provide.

She collected my number. Has been calling me since then, Tuesday o, Wednesday o.. I got fed up. Even though I already booked appointment with her today, Sunday for fornication. No love involved, no nothing.

The following days which is Tuesday and then Wednesday I went back to God, prayed, cried that God help me not to Bleep this girl. I fasted join against this spirit of lust.

By Thursday, I stopped picking her calls. She calls me every minute, missed calls. Now I have power over this lust of a thing, at least lusting after her. Today, being our appointment day, I won't go. I won't still pick any call.

This and many events taught me that I am not above the law. Previously, I used to boast in my self control as a man.
I used to brag.
I now know that its not by power or might.

By the way, I am very good looking, very rich and young too.

I just learnt that most women in this Tinubu regime would sleep with me as just intimacy gadget because of money.

But Christ has restrained persons like me.

My wife doesn't even know why I fasted and prayed against lust this last week.

She didn't know what God did for her and our marriage.

OP you see we are all weak. Just living daily by God's grace and mercy. Only God can give strength to them that have no might.

Have compassion on the weak. At times we would be worse if thesame situation befall us. We are all saved by Grace through Faith.
It is of Grace and not by works lest any man should boast in the presence of God

Thisisa:
I am Christian I believe in Jesus.
My experience with so called Christian ladies so far haven't been so palatable.
There should be a difference between a Christian and an unbeliever but it seems this Christian ladies are actually the worse.

RenaissanceGuy:
Are you aware that anyone who goes to church is generally termed as a Christian or calls himself a Christian, whether the person is an armed robber, ritualist, male/female prøstîtüte, etc? But there's a very unique term for people who are truly Christian and it's called 'born again Christians'. So these girls you're meeting, do they tell you they're born again?? Or you simply saw them in the same church you attend and concluded they're firebrand virgins??

Thisisa:
I am Christian I believe in Jesus.

My experience with so called Christian ladies so far haven't been so palatable.

There should be a difference between a Christian and an unbeliever but it seems this Christian ladies are actually the worse.

The are manipulative
The lack actual fear of God. ( They only pretend)
They are don't actually love you. They love what you bring to the table.

Ok, soo I used to think if you are at least a Christian lady you should know how to keep yourself sexually till you are married. But most of the ladies are the ones that will even initiate the sex. At the end of the day they will feel remorse and ask for forgiveness from God.
If another opportunity present it self again they will initiate for the sex again and ask for forgiveness God's forgiveness.
Maybe it's the ladies I have met. Maybe they are just church attenders.