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Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:27pm On Aug 05, 2025
GboyegaD:
The level of obsession about sex is alarming. If a party says "no sex till marriage", if it isn't convenient for you, let the person know and leave the relationship.
It's not about obsession but the deceit behind the mantra, some will tell u when we get married you will have sex with me anytime you want grin and boom you get married and discover it's all lies.

Irrespective of the dact I'm not s freak about sex once i hear that i automatically withdraw my resources lets know ourselves without sex and money grin
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by ericmor: 6:48pm On Aug 05, 2025
Ablesam171:
It is simple as ABC.
If you didn't meet her as a virgin, never agree to their deception.
You can't be sharing the cookies and when it gets to my turn, you're now telling me "no sex till after wedding".
It can work if that place has not been tampered.
Some of them that claim virgin these days are not really virgins, some are taking it in their a** hole yet be claiming virgin.

Bros, if you no meet her as a virgin, no pay bride price ooo.
Watin one mumu girl wan use deceive me, make I wait for something another person don chop tire. E reach my turn and u are telling me to wait. Ko le work
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:55pm On Aug 05, 2025
Ablesam171:
It is simple as ABC.
If you didn't meet her as a virgin, never agree to their deception.
You can't be sharing the cookies and when it gets to my turn, you're now telling me "no sex till after wedding".
It can work if that place has not been tampered.
Some of them that claim virgin these days are not really virgins, some are taking it in their a** hole yet be claiming virgin.

Bros, if you no meet her as a virgin, no pay bride price ooo.
How will you know she's a virgin?
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:57pm On Aug 05, 2025
Ablesam171:
It is simple as ABC.
If you didn't meet her as a virgin, never agree to their deception.
You can't be sharing the cookies and when it gets to my turn, you're now telling me "no sex till after wedding".
It can work if that place has not been tampered.
Some of them that claim virgin these days are not really virgins, some are taking it in their a** hole yet be claiming virgin.

Bros, if you no meet her as a virgin, no pay bride price ooo.
How will you know she's a vitgin?
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by duality(m): 7:06pm On Aug 05, 2025
cutecommend:
It is the appropriate to put sex on hold in a relationship before you marry; but do not be fooled when you hear such a statement, as it may come from a deceiver.

Things to note on "No Sex Till Marriage".

(1) Will the person saying "No Sex Till Marriage" be sleeping with someone else and preserving you for marriage.

(2) Is the person saying "No Sex Till Marriage" a sex addict.

(3) When last did the person saying "No Sex Till Marriage" had sex? If its a year ago, the person may be real. If its just a month ago, the person may not be able to keep it.

(4) Is the person a Virgin? A virgin may sustain such.
That's for children of God who wants to please their father.

It's not for those who don't care about living in iniquity.
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Kefo16278(m): 7:27pm On Aug 05, 2025
Nifemy4:
If you agree to this , then you should awardee the biggest fool in history, cos you are about to be played .

A girl that is busy giving out doggy and spinning for another guy is telling you that no sex till marriage .

Only on two conditions should such conditions be tenable .
1. If she’s a virgin or if
2. If the guy is a virgin

If none of the party is a virgin then , that’s a big red flag . What celibacy are you talking g about , when two persons have already been licked and sucked by someone else .
. How would you know if she’s a virginhuh?
Let’s assume she’s truely a virgin what makes you believe that she would keep that virginity till the agreed timehuh🤔
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by swimmer: 8:05pm On Aug 05, 2025
There was this lady I was crazy about who said no sex till marriage.

She used to be a very wild girl... Threesomes, aborted pregnancy and now says she has turned a new leave and has promised God not to have sex till marriage...

I freed her o
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Meedon: 8:15pm On Aug 05, 2025
Why are you fighting for Jesus the God of the Jews? Are you a jew?

simplesearch:
Of all names to mention it is none other than Jesus that caught your clownish fancy.

You guys in this generation are messed up and seriously blind to spiritual realities and eternal consequences of unguarded utterances. Better ask God for mercy!


Exodus 20:7
“You shall not misuse the name of the LORD your God, for the LORD will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.

Matthew 12:36
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.

2 Peter 2:9-12
9. The Lord knows how to deliver the godly out of temptations and to reserve the unjust under punishment for the day of judgment,
10. and especially those who walk according to the flesh in the lust of uncleanness and despise authority. They are presumptuous, self-willed. They are not afraid to speak evil of dignitaries,
11. whereas angels, who are greater in power and might, do not bring a reviling accusation against them before the Lord.
12. But these, like natural brute beasts made to be caught and destroyed, speak evil of the things they do not understand, and will utterly perish in their own corruption,
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Fantazy(m): 8:17pm On Aug 05, 2025
That can only work if the girl is a virgin! Else, NEVER!
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by agenta999(f): 8:31pm On Aug 05, 2025
No sex before marriage is meant for deceivers. Sometimes, you will see a single mom of two saying no sex before marriage. It is simply a dubious move to deceive the other partner.
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Dagger111(m): 9:02pm On Aug 05, 2025
purples25:
Well, after sex, men tell women to take a walk. When women see that men are consistently taking a walk after sex, they stop that method, because they are being cheated. Being tasted up and down in the name of tasting before marriage, yet, no marriage.

You don’t want women to protect themselves. In the name of not cheating you. Is that realistic. They can’t keep digging a deeper grave for themselves, allowing men to test and leave, building up a higher body count.

The only thing I will condemn is when the woman or man says no sex, but is sleeping around behind their partners back.
They don knack this one tire. Pele my dear.
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Ejyksneh(m): 10:39pm On Aug 05, 2025
I swear, I'm high but I no fit understand anything from the comment
Nifemy4:
Nobody on this forum understands what you trying to say
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by omooba969(m): 11:17pm On Aug 05, 2025
purples25:
Well, after sex, men tell women to take a walk. When women see that men are consistently taking a walk after sex, they stop that method, because they are being cheated. Being tasted up and down in the name of tasting before marriage, yet, no marriage.

You don’t want women to protect themselves. In the name of not cheating you. Is that realistic. They can’t keep digging a deeper grave for themselves, allowing men to test and leave, building up a higher body count.

The only thing I will condemn is when the woman or man says no sex, but is sleeping around behind their partners back.
Body count na water! grin
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by purples25(f): 11:21pm On Aug 05, 2025
Dagger111:
They don knack this one tire. Pele my dear.
Insults can never cover the truth.
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by purples25(f): 11:23pm On Aug 05, 2025
omooba969:
Body count na water! grin
I don’t understand this comment. Explanation expected…
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by omooba969(m): 11:23pm On Aug 05, 2025
agenta999:
No sex before marriage is meant for deceivers. Sometimes, you will see a single mom of two saying no sex before marriage. It is simply a dubious move to deceive the other partner.
Lone parents sef dey get standards na. grin

My own be say if we no go knack before marriage, make she forget about billing before marriage o. grin
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by ceeceeco: 2:59am On Aug 06, 2025
I can never buy a product without having a taste of it.
Now tell me, what if at the end she doesn't match my sex energy/vibes.

To me having a taste of your partner before marriage is a very important factor, except maybe she's a virgin then that can be a considerable factor.
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Dagger111(m): 6:46am On Aug 06, 2025
purples25:
Insults can never cover the truth.
Not an insult babe.
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Nnecky(f): 10:40am On Aug 06, 2025
No sex before marriage should apply to men and women who are still vrigins, if it's the woman that's a virgin that's total deception because the man is getting it elsewhere. If it's the woman that suggests such when she's not a virgin, just know that she's not into you because if she is she would want to be intimate with you. But just like the writer of this post listed out those points above, it should not be ignored because things are happening and had i know always comes at last when proper investigation wasn't carried out
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by RillJ(m): 11:10am On Aug 06, 2025
An acquittance fell for this scheme some 6 years ago and he is still somehow distressed about the outcome till date.
Dude was met the beautiful 'well behaved' lady in her early 30s who insisted on 'no sex till marriage'. Three years prior, her 'one and only boyfriend broke her hearth after 7years of dating ' hence she vowed that she will not sleep with any other man except her 'husband'
They dated for 18months and got married only for my pal to get the 'shocker of his life' when they eventually slept together.
According to him, it was a 'severely damaged..... that he wonder home he managed to get through the first and only shot. Luckily for the lady, she got pregnant with the one shot (suspect she targeted the ovulation cos she used all manners of excuses to stay off the show for 5 days after the wedding)
All pleas to my pal to forgive and move on with the marriage fell on deaf ears. They separated after the birth of their baby girl and have since divorced.

In rare cases, some men do run the script to hide erectile disfunction.
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Brahamimo(m): 11:13am On Aug 06, 2025
RillJ:
An acquittance fell for this scheme some 6 years ago and he is still somehow distressed about the outcome till date.
Dude was met the beautiful 'well behaved' lady in her early 30s who insisted on 'no sex till marriage'. Three years prior, her 'one and only boyfriend broke her hearth after 7years of dating ' hence she vowed that she will not sleep with any other man except her 'husband'
They dated for 18months and got married only for my pal to get the 'shocker of his life' when they eventually slept together.
According to him, it was a 'severely damaged..... that he wonder home he managed to get through the first and only shot. Luckily for the lady, she got pregnant with the one shot (suspect she targeted the ovulation cos she used all manners of excuses to stay off the show for 5 days after the wedding)
All pleas to my pal to forgive and move on with the marriage fell on deaf ears. They separated after the birth of their baby girl and have since divorced.

In rare cases, some men do run the script to hide erectile disfunction.
Nawa
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by Dazidon: 11:30am On Aug 06, 2025
Nnecky:
No sex before marriage should apply to men and women who are still vrigins, if it's the woman that's a virgin that's total deception because the man is getting it elsewhere. If it's the woman that suggests such when she's not a virgin, just know that she's not into you because if she is she would want to be intimate with you. But just like the writer of this post listed out those points above, it should not be ignored because things are happening and had i know always comes at last when proper investigation wasn't carried out
Whether a virgin or not ,the greater she likes you, the greater she wanna eat you

U guys should not worsen my whatever

Letz be frank with ourselves

I cant bear it again
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by TenQ: 11:40am On Aug 06, 2025
cutecommend:
It is the appropriate to put sex on hold in a relationship before you marry; but do not be fooled when you hear such a statement, as it may come from a deceiver.

Things to note on "No Sex Till Marriage".

(1) Will the person saying "No Sex Till Marriage" be sleeping with someone else and preserving you for marriage.

(2) Is the person saying "No Sex Till Marriage" a sex addict.

(3) When last did the person saying "No Sex Till Marriage" had sex? If its a year ago, the person may be real. If its just a month ago, the person may not be able to keep it.

(4) Is the person a Virgin? A virgin may sustain such.
So, what do you think s x before marriage will cure?
What problem do you think it solves?
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by TenQ: 11:41am On Aug 06, 2025
HacheNoire:
Do we still have men who breath that agree to no sex till marriage 🤣😆🤣😆

Jokers!

Just go and date Jesus if you want that kinda of contract.
I did not have sex before marriage and we dated for 2.5 years!


What else!?
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by maasoap(m): 2:44pm On Aug 06, 2025
HeatSeeker:
Or the person may just be impotent and is trying to cover up their inadequacies before caging their partner with wedding vows.
Let's use the general term, infertile as this may apply to both man and woman unlike impotence.
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by maasoap(m): 2:45pm On Aug 06, 2025
TenQ:
I did not have sex before marriage and we dated for 2.5 years!


What else!?
Well, you took chances and you were lucky. Not everyone who took such chances was lucky
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by TenQ: 7:16am On Aug 07, 2025
maasoap:
Well, you took chances and you were lucky. Not everyone who took such chances was lucky
There is a SIMPLE secret to it o: it's not just by Luck.


1. Be a man of right VALUES
2. Find a Girl of SIMILAR values
3. Due diligence to Asking the Right Questions

In Agric, if your stock is good, the produce will be good with proper management. If the stock is bad, no amount of effort will change the skin of the Leopard.


The problem is when a wrong man is looking for the right girl and vise-versa!
Re: Before You Believe "No Sex Till Marriage" In A Relationship by TenQ: 7:23am On Aug 07, 2025
RillJ:
An acquittance fell for this scheme some 6 years ago and he is still somehow distressed about the outcome till date.
Dude was met the beautiful 'well behaved' lady in her early 30s who insisted on 'no sex till marriage'. Three years prior, her 'one and only boyfriend broke her hearth after 7years of dating ' hence she vowed that she will not sleep with any other man except her 'husband'
They dated for 18months and got married only for my pal to get the 'shocker of his life' when they eventually slept together.
According to him, it was a 'severely damaged..... that he wonder home he managed to get through the first and only shot. Luckily for the lady, she got pregnant with the one shot (suspect she targeted the ovulation cos she used all manners of excuses to stay off the show for 5 days after the wedding)
All pleas to my pal to forgive and move on with the marriage fell on deaf ears. They separated after the birth of their baby girl and have since divorced.

In rare cases, some men do run the script to hide erectile disfunction.
Sex does not make the puna loose. There are just TWO things. It is biologically IMPOSSIBLE!

1. Genetics: She may have inherited it for her parents
2. Childbirth: after TWO or THREE especially when the pregnant woman is not young, the puma dilates
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