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The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Adexgentle005(op): 6:11pm On Aug 08, 2025
Leave single mom alone as a single guy. Look for a single girl to marry. End

Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Tenrack: 7:08pm On Aug 08, 2025
Adexgentle005:
Leave single mom alone as a single guy. Look for a single girl to marry. End
Couldn't have put it better. I learnt this the hard way. Wasted my time and resources on an ungrateful, unapologetic, gaslighting,cheating, manipulative wicked creature. I wish I focused on my family.
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Yorubastardz: 7:25pm On Aug 08, 2025
I look a single mother in the eyes and tell her NOOOOO

Despite the tears and tears.

I still look her inside her eyes wide open and tell her NOOOO grin grin She cry no be small
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Adexgentle005(op): 7:46pm On Aug 08, 2025
Tenrack:
Couldn't have put it better. I learnt this the hard way. Wasted my time and resources on an ungrateful, unapologetic, gaslighting,cheating, manipulative wicked creature. I wish I focused on my family.
Damn! Are you for real bro? This is so pathetic. Wow!;2
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Adexgentle005(op): 8:17pm On Aug 08, 2025
Yorubastardz:
I look a single mother in the eyes and tell her NOOOOO

Despite the tears and tears.

I still look her inside her eyes wide open and tell her NOOOO grin grin She cry no be small
You are wicked o. Lol
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Nobody:
Yorubastardz:
I look a single mother in the eyes and tell her NOOOOO

Despite the tears and tears.

I still look her inside her eyes wide open and tell her NOOOO grin grin She cry no be small
As a single man, a single mother will take you to be a certified simp if you marry her because she knows very well that she's a left over.

A single mother won't allow her single son to marry another single mother. The new trend now is single mothers targeting younger men for marriage because they can easily manipulate those ones. You see a single mother of 35-40 targeting 30-33 yr old men for marriage. Single mums won't go for single dads, divorcee and widower because they know that their manipulative tears can't work on those men
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Nobody: 8:44pm On Aug 08, 2025
Tenrack:
Couldn't have put it better. I learnt this the hard way. Wasted my time and resources on an ungrateful, unapologetic, gaslighting,cheating, manipulative wicked creature. I wish I focused on my family.
Sorry about that bro. It's always good to learn from other people's experiences and not wait till you experience it yourself.

I've asked severally if single mothers have special school of manipulative studies because those ladies are top notch manipulators. That's why I won't get tired preaching and exposing their tactics.

Single mothers are mostly emotionally damaged and bringing them close to you to take care of them is like bringing a young snake or lion from the forest to your house to groom. It can be very disastrous
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Nobody: 8:45pm On Aug 08, 2025
Nlfpmod
Greetings to you
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Tenrack: 8:58pm On Aug 08, 2025
ediko5:
Sorry about that bro. It's always good to learn from other people's experiences and not wait till you experience it yourself.

I've asked severally if single mothers have special school of manipulative studies because those ladies are top notch manipulators. That's why I won't get tired preaching and exposing their tactics.

Single mothers are mostly [emotionally damaged and bringing them close to you to take care of them is like bringing a young snake or lion from the forest to your house to groom. It can be very disastrous
That's just it. I'm glad I didn't end up wifing her. My life would have been completely messed up. I am glad she showed her true nature when she did. Omo.
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Tenrack: 9:00pm On Aug 08, 2025
Adexgentle005:
Damn! Are you for real bro? This is so pathetic. Wow!;2
I shared her story and pics on Nairaland some weeks ago. Removed it to avoid legal issues. She stole from me and blocked me. Was still acting the victim. All my sacrificed didn't mean shit to her. She went ahead to steal from me thrice and then had me blocked. She felt no remorse about it and was still claiming right. Omo story long jare.
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Nobody: 9:33pm On Aug 08, 2025
Nairaland must currently be hell for single mothers.

With this trend, ultimately, younger women would be better off opting for abortions, instead of becoming a single mother. Or passing off the pregnancy to a cuckold.

Which means, as long as you didn't marry a virgin, you can never tell how many abortions she's had...

Na wa
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Nobody: 9:36pm On Aug 08, 2025
Tenrack:
Couldn't have put it better. I learnt this the hard way. Wasted my time and resources on an ungrateful, unapologetic, gaslighting,cheating, manipulative wicked creature. I wish I focused on my family.
If I had told you to leave her, would you have listened? I like how simps learn the hard way. I'm sure you're now a teacher of men. Nice one

Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Softmirror: 10:10pm On Aug 08, 2025
The so called Alpha male go about producing what the can't cope with.
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Nobody: 10:32pm On Aug 08, 2025
Softmirror:
The so called Alpha male go about producing what the can't cope with.
Meaning ?
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Nobody: 10:34pm On Aug 08, 2025
Tenrack:
That's just it. I'm glad I didn't end up wifing her. My life would have been completely messed up. I am glad she showed her true nature when she did. Omo.
Hope you now see the reason we preach regularly to expose their evil acts. With your story, one or two men out there can adjust.

So become an evangelist to help other men by preaching the gospel of RedPill out there 😁
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Dzzzz: 12:25am On Aug 09, 2025
I’d rather marry hookup babe than carry single mother put for house..
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Tenrack: 2:15am On Aug 09, 2025
ediko5:
Hope you now see the reason we preach regularly to expose their evil acts. With your story, one or two men out there can adjust.

So become an evangelist to help other men by preaching the gospel of RedPill out there 😁
fosho. Anytime I am opportuned to warn a brother I would. These women are cold and heartless.
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Tenrack: 2:17am On Aug 09, 2025
Nonexisting1:
If I had told you to leave her, would you have listened? I like how simps learn the hard way. I'm sure you're now a teacher of men. Nice one
swears I no for hear. You know we always reason that maybe the one we're with might be different. That's the mistake we always make. But I thank God sha. As for me and relationship, we no get business. Girls nowadays think a relationship is a poverty alleviation scheme
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Esthered: 6:58am On Aug 09, 2025
My hairdresser survived domestic violence and left after 5 years with 2 children this year.

Should she have stayed and died because of people like the OP?
The man beat her almost on daily basis and one day beat her (she was pregnant) that she passed out and was hospitalized and she eventually left as he wasn't responsible for the children's upkeep while the marriage lasted.

Let's not use one person's opinion to conclude that they're all bad people. Osinachi would have still been alive if she left with the children embarassed
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by AfroKnight: 7:21am On Aug 09, 2025
grin grin grin grin grin

Dem no dey tell person.

He chose to learn the hard way.
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Jozilinn: 8:01am On Aug 09, 2025
She's not serious family bond or family bond no, that husband of hers should do the needful bundle them back to him rubbish.
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Nobody: 8:13am On Aug 09, 2025
Esthered:
My hairdresser survived domestic violence and left after 5 years with 2 children this year.

Should she have stayed and died because of people like the OP?
The man beat her almost on daily basis and one day beat her (she was pregnant) that she passed out and was hospitalized and she eventually left as he wasn't responsible for the children's upkeep while the marriage lasted.

Let's not use one person's opinion to conclude that they're all bad people. Osinachi would have still been alive if she left with the children embarassed
Talking trash
Do you know how many men have died in marriage and it went under the carpet silently?
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Esthered: 8:20am On Aug 09, 2025
ediko5:
Talking trash
Do you know how many men have died in marriage and it went under the carpet silently?
You have to resort to insult in your first line to buttress your point?

Who put it under the carpet in a society where they are highly desired, lead....

Leave women alone na. You can't stay without talking about us. Can't you ignore us for a moment?
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Goo0dHardDick: 9:17am On Aug 09, 2025
A single mother will never allow her single son to marry a single mother. What then are you doing with a single mother?
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Nobody: 9:34am On Aug 09, 2025
Tenrack:
swears I no for hear. You know we always reason that maybe the one we're with might be different. That's the mistake we always make. But I thank God sha. As for me and relationship, we no get business. Girls nowadays think a relationship is a poverty alleviation scheme
Funny we have many men with this mentality on Nairaland attacking RedPill preachers.

What helped me when it comes to women is that I learnt a lot from other people's experiences and story. Most people think I've been hurt by women but NO, it never been hurt by a woman in my life because I always see the bullet from a distance and know how to dodge it due to the lesson from other people's experiences.. It's only once a lady have tried opening a small office on my head using pregnancy and I loose guarded a lil cos that was my first experience but I quickly mounted my guard due to the intervention of an older friend.

Last month, lordnkem000 talked about how he escaped the wrath of almost getting married to an older single mother which he thanked God for saving him from future disaster and yesterday I stumbled across his old post made January 2023 when he told the men to stop attacking women. I believe his understanding then was 'attack' and not 'teaching' and 'exposing'.

Women are natural manipulators and you see single mothers ? They are super manipulators please don't under estimate what a single mother can do to you. Don't give a single mother a chance to come deeply into your life as a single man PLEASE
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Apus: 9:37am On Aug 09, 2025
Jozilinn:
She's not serious family bond or family bond no, that husband of hers should do the needful bundle them back to him rubbish.
One can deduce that the step-dad is obviously being fed by the woman which is common with black-Americans. If he was the provider, the woman would not dare disrespect him in that manner. Best advice is to excuse oneself from such relationship and go build yourself or settle down with your single type.
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Remijuice: 10:15am On Aug 09, 2025
I stopped reading when I saw SUMMER...
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by pocohantas(f):
Esthered:
My hairdresser survived domestic violence and left after 5 years with 2 children this year.

Should she have stayed and died because of people like the OP?
The man beat her almost on daily basis and one day beat her (she was pregnant) that she passed out and was hospitalized and she eventually left as he wasn't responsible for the children's upkeep while the marriage lasted.

Let's not use one person's opinion to conclude that they're all bad people. Osinachi would have still been alive if she left with the children embarassed
Let her focus on healing, rebuilding, and giving her kids the best. If I am in her situation and I have 2 kids with me, I doubt I would look towards remarrying. A longterm partner? Definitely yes. So if she desires remarriage, she might find one, because in the longrun, NL is only a minute percentage of the real world and even the non-single mothers haven't been picked by these men.
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Esthered: 11:11am On Aug 09, 2025
pocohantas:
Let her focus on healing, rebuilding, and giving her kids the best. If I am in her situation and I have 2 kids with me, I doubt I would even look towards remarrying. A longterm partner? Definitely yes. So if she desires remarriage, she might find one, because in the longrun, NL is only a minute percentage of the real world and even the non-single mothers haven't been picked by these men.
She's trying to rebuild her life and focus on her business.

You're absolutely right. Thanks.
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Tenrack: 11:18am On Aug 09, 2025
ediko5:
Funny we have many men with this mentality on Nairaland attacking RedPill preachers.

What helped me when it comes to women is that I learnt a lot from other people's experiences and story. Most people think I've been hurt by women but NO, it never been hurt by a woman in my life because I always see the bullet from a distance and know how to dodge it due to the lesson from other people's experiences.. It's only once a lady have tried opening a small office on my head using pregnancy and I loose guarded a lil cos that was my first experience but I quickly mounted my guard due to the intervention of an older friend.

Last month, lordnkem000 talked about how he escaped the wrath of almost getting married to an older single mother which he thanked God for saving him from future disaster and yesterday I stumbled across his old post made January 2023 when he told the men to stop attacking women. I believe his understanding then was 'attack' and not 'teaching' and 'exposing'.

Women are natural manipulators and you see single mothers ? They are super manipulators please don't under estimate what a single mother can do to you. Don't give a single mother a chance to come deeply into your life as a single man PLEASE
Thanks man. I no get business doing anything to do with them again. I am not even interested in dating anymore. It's a waste of time and resources on the part of the man
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by pocohantas(f): 11:20am On Aug 09, 2025
Esthered:
She's trying to rebuild her life and focus on her business.

You're absolutely right. Thanks.
Best wishes to her.❤️❤️❤️
Re: The Owner Of The Well Doesn’t Queue For His Water - Learn Or Perish by Tenrack: 11:20am On Aug 09, 2025
Esthered:
My hairdresser survived domestic violence and left after 5 years with 2 children this year.

Should she have stayed and died because of people like the OP?
The man beat her almost on daily basis and one day beat her (she was pregnant) that she passed out and was hospitalized and she eventually left as he wasn't responsible for the children's upkeep while the marriage lasted.

Let's not use one person's opinion to conclude that they're all bad people. Osinachi would have still been alive if she left with the children embarassed
were refering to those who birth children out of wedlock...what you highlighted up there is a totally different case. Please don't misunderstand us. Nobody is supposed to remain in an abusive marriage. Women gan would open their koro koro eyes and go for terrible men...and make another man suffer for the transgressions of these randy men.
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