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Esthered:
My hairdresser survived domestic violence and left after 5 years with 2 children this year.

Should she have stayed and died because of people like the OP?
The man beat her almost on daily basis and one day beat her (she was pregnant) that she passed out and was hospitalized and she eventually left as he wasn't responsible for the children's upkeep while the marriage lasted.

Let's not use one person's opinion to conclude that they're all bad people. Osinachi would have still been alive if she left with the children

Which other excuse does divorced single mothers have except domestic violence ? Will they say the man sent them away after he found out about the adulterous lifestyle ?

There's a single mother of children I was piping back then, I told her clearly that we are not doing anything like serious relationship and she said yes and later she started acting funny when she see me with my girlfriend and started talking about serious relationship and bla bla bla.

She usually talked about how her ex husband used to maltreat and abuse her bla blah blah but one day she told me that she's really the cause because she and the man barely knew themselves when she got pregnant for humans the man clearly told her that he's not interested in marriage and she should abort the baby or be ready to be a single mother.

She manipulated the man to marry her using the guy's family member and you know when two Waring adults sleeps on the same bed for some days, intimacy will definitely talk place and that's how she gave birth to another one even when the guy was still contemplating whether to fully marry her or not and later gave birth to another one.

Most of them manipulated men into marriage but e no dey last.

Meanwhile you single mothers should go for single fathers, widowed or divorced men and leave single young men alone because you know that your manipulative strategies while hardly work on the former you now target the latter

Tenrack:
were refering to those who birth children out of wedlock...what you highlighted up there is a totally different case. Please don't misunderstand us. Nobody is supposed to remain in an abusive marriage. Women gan would open their koro koro eyes and go for terrible men...and make another man suffer for the transgressions of these randy men.

Baba, the domestic violence Na their main scope. Out of wedlock and out of marriage Na the same thing o.

The only difference is a widow

Goo0dHardDick:
A single mother will never allow her single son to marry a single mother. What then are you doing with a single mother?

LMAO!

ediko5:
Which other excuse does divorced single mothers have except domestic violence ? Will they say the man sent them away after he found out about the adulterous lifestyle ?

There's a single mother of children I was piping back then, I told her clearly that we are not doing anything like serious relationship and she said yes and later she started acting funny when she see me with my girlfriend and started talking about serious relationship and bla bla bla.

She usually talked about how her ex husband used to maltreat and abuse her bla blah blah but one day she told me that she's really the cause because she and the man barely knew themselves when she got pregnant for humans the man clearly told her that he's not interested in marriage and she should abort the baby or be ready to be a single mother.

She manipulated the man to marry her using the guy's family member and you know when two Waring adults sleeps on the same bed for some days, intimacy will definitely talk place and that's how she gave birth to another one even when the guy was still contemplating whether to fully marry her or not and later gave birth to another one.

Most of them manipulated men into marriage but e no dey last.

Meanwhile you single mothers should go for single fathers, widowed or divorced men and leave single young men alone because you know that your manipulative strategies while hardly work on the former you now target the latter

So you used your experience to conclude that they claim DV....

What's your PROBLEM that you address me as a single mother in your last paragraph?

Can't you type respectfully? If you can't express yourself without being condescending, please don't engage me on this platform.

ediko5:
Baba, the domestic violence Na their main scope. Out of wedlock and out of marriage Na the same thing o.

The only difference is a widow

Lol. You get point. I just tire for that gender and lack of accountability.

Tenrack:
were refering to those who birth children out of wedlock...what you highlighted up there is a totally different case. Please don't misunderstand us. Nobody is supposed to remain in an abusive marriage. Women gan would open their koro koro eyes and go for terrible men...and make another man suffer for the transgressions of these randy men.

She said she didn't see the signs. All mothers without a husband are called single mothers. Till we know their story, we don't know those who had children out of wedlock or widows.

Esthered:
She said she didn't see the signs. All mothers without a husband are called single mothers. Till we know their story, we don't know those who had children out of wedlock or widows.

she didn't see the signs. Lol. It's all right.

Esthered:
My hairdresser survived domestic violence and left after 5 years with 2 children this year.

Should she have stayed and died because of people like the OP?
The man beat her almost on daily basis and one day beat her (she was pregnant) that she passed out and was hospitalized and she eventually left as he wasn't responsible for the children's upkeep while the marriage lasted.

Let's not use one person's opinion to conclude that they're all bad people. Osinachi would have still been alive if she left with the children

The Beating has been going on when they are dating ... but the Lady refuse to move because of what she will gain

As long as a HONEST POLITICIAN doesn't exist, a GOOD WITCH is unheard of. There can never be anything called a GOOD SINGLE MOTHER.

I've said this countless times, the very moment a single guy marries a single mother, even the devil will automatically leave him alone.

Know this as a guy and know peace!

#End_Of_Discussion

harjay1986:
The Beating has been going on when they are dating ... but the Lady refuse to move because of what she will gain

Not really the reason some women stay in toxic marriages not relationships.

Esthered:
Not really the reason some women stay in toxic marriages not relationships.

Okay , you see staying in toxic relationship for what exactly, that the man will change ? Hell no... one of the promise i made to myself sometime ago is that anything that make me slap a woman I call a girlfriend that day is the end of our relationship, I'm a cool type but this statement have make me to avoid two different ladies, because once I slap a lady because of misunderstanding and we laugh it out and let it slide any other mistake will bring up the slap and beating ... even now that I'm married have made a vow any argument that lead to slapping my wife next is to divorce..... but I thank God so far we have Mark 10years still counting .... in all as a lady once your guy slap you during courtship and you wave it my sister once you enter properly no dey tell us story again ooh just face am or divorce

Tenrack:
Thanks man. I no get business doing anything to do with them again. I am not even interested in dating anymore. It's a waste of time and resources on the part of the man

So, when are you coming out and how do you identify now?

Damaged men full romance section 🤕

SisterAnn:
So, when are you coming out and how do you identify now?

OK

Esthered:
My hairdresser survived domestic violence and left after 5 years with 2 children this year.

Should she have stayed and died because of people like the OP?
The man beat her almost on daily basis and one day beat her (she was pregnant) that she passed out and was hospitalized and she eventually left as he wasn't responsible for the children's upkeep while the marriage lasted.

Let's not use one person's opinion to conclude that they're all bad people. Osinachi would have still been alive if she left with the children

She neglected the signs during courtship. This things are not rocket science. Osinanchi the same thing. Sit this one out bro

Esthered:
So you used your experience to conclude that they claim DV....

What's your PROBLEM that you address me as a single mother in your last paragraph?

Can't you type respectfully? If you can't express yourself without being condescending, please don't engage me on this platform.

You sounded like one anyway.

But if I may ask:
Is single mother no longer a code of honour according to you guys?

So it's now an insult to call someone a single mother?

What happened to ' I'm a proud single mother? 'Single mum's are strong' and co ?

SisterAnn:
Damaged men full romance section 🤕

😂 😂 😂 😊
See them, when their manipulative strategies is no longer effective on men.
Una go cry blaad. Men of our generation is no longer naive as the men of old.

Before now damaged ladies go to religion centres especially church to get innocent and good men but now men have understood the code and the game no dey enter again 😁😁

Tenrack:
I shared her story and pics on Nairaland some weeks ago. Removed it to avoid legal issues. She stole from me and blocked me. Was still acting the victim. All my sacrificed didn't mean shit to her. She went ahead to steal from me thrice and then had me blocked. She felt no remorse about it and was still claiming right. Omo story long jare.

I’m so sorry you had to go through all that. They don’t care about the sacrifices

ediko5:
You sounded like one anyway.

But if I may ask:
Is single mother no longer a code of honour according to you guys?

So it's now an insult to call someone a single mother?

What happened to ' I'm a proud single mother? 'Single mum's are strong' and co ?

Since you've concluded that I'm a single mum, no wahala. You should be happy rn.

Have a great weekend and don't quote me

Adexgentle005:
I’m so sorry you had to go through all that. They don’t care about the sacrifices

Thanks man. I'm sorry I learnt too late. Imagine this girl telling me that she couldn't wish for the kind of life I lived lol. Person wey I dey send money for everything even her sanitary pad. And every month I pay for that. Women are really really audacious sha. A single mom who isn't productive and adds nothing of value to my life. Smiles. It is well sha. Like I told her, na God do am for her.

Tenrack:
Thanks man. I'm sorry I learnt too late. Imagine this girl telling me that she couldn't wish for the kind of life I lived lol. Person wey I dey send money for everything even her sanitary pad. And every month I pay for that. Women are really really audacious sha. A single mom who isn't productive and adds nothing of value to my life. Smiles. It is well sha. Like I told her, na God do am for her.

Move on bro and gently look for a young single and productive girl if you're looking for a wife to marry. Even with the single lady avoid an unproductive liability as a partner. Also and most importantly avoid old cargo left over that have been used, re-used, over-used and discarded by many old men, married men, ritualists and co

ediko5:
Move on bro and gently look for a young single and productive girl if you're looking for a wife to marry. Even with the single lady avoid an unproductive liability as a partner. Also and most importantly avoid old cargo left over that have been used, re-used, over-used and discarded by many old men, married men, ritualists and co

Thanks man. When I'm ready I'll set so many rules, if you no like am you can scram. Number one is I'll always have access to your phones. You must be productive. No be me go carry your financial burden for head I no be your papa. These ladies could kill you.

Adexgentle005:
Leave single mom alone as a single guy. Look for a single girl to marry. End

Should've dropped the kid off with her dad and gone on a date with the simpstep-dada/current hubby

Stuff like this is why smart men run away from single mothers lol😐

Sirianese:
Should've dropped the kid off with her dad and gone on a date with the simpstep-dada/current hubby

Stuff like this is why smart men run away from single mothers lol😐

she doesn’t respect the current husband

Adexgentle005:
she doesn’t respect the current husband

Yeah because he's a simp

Ladies treat simps worse than garbage

Dzzzz:
I’d rather marry hookup babe than carry single mother put for house..

funny thing is most of the hookup babes are single mothers

gentlegiant95:
funny thing is most of the hookup babes are single mothers

Na “Most” you talk..