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I hope the bot doesn't ban me, I can't stop my thoughts from overwhelming me; so I will just use Nairaland as an outlet.

I noticed that when some young men read or hear certain stories about cheating women, their mind drifts away from the most important thing they need to fix — their finance and self improvement — to thoughts of "what if?" What if it was me? What if X? What if Y?

That is the easiest way to get distracted as a hustler. Life isn't black and white, these cheaters could end up in a better place then you in the future. So instead of throwing insults, stay focused on the grind.

I have realized and reached a sober conclusion. It is the fact that the only enemy between you and your goals or dreams is distraction. Even a tiny piece of distraction could sneak into your fortress of concentration and tear it down faster than the speed of lightening.

This isn't just about women. Distraction is like Mama Safiyat, the moment I give her a little attention, she uses Nono to grab everything.

There's no time, a 25 years old man in the year 2000 is 50 years old today. So not waste away your youth. I'm a sad old man and most times I feel like there's nothing to live for; however, thoughts like that would never distract me from my dreams of defeating poverty.

A man must do what he must do. Do not allow distractions to keep you stagnant.

Another thing that keeps most people stagnant is information overload. You have this insatiable urge to 'research,' and 'learn' bitch you never take the real action. You keep waiting for the "right time." This is one of the worst enemy of progress. It utterly paralyzes your soul and keep you hooked on that drug (seeking information) and you never take real action.

Your feets go cold whenever the thought of the real thing (action) accidentally flies into your mind. You become a nervous virG..in in the same room with a expert in bedmatics.

You need obsession. You need to think and act constantly, action should become your last name. Always take action, do not wait for the "right time." Do not give in to distractions, instead of spending time thinking about whether you could deal with "Gen Z women," focus on:

1. Getting good at what you do.
2. Understanding psychology.
3. Understanding how to take (not make) money and keep it.
3. Understanding how to make money multiply.

If you eventually find something (legit) that allows you to TAKE money, stay obsessed and focused until you have a backup fund. Yes, money isn't everything but you need it to sustain anything including your passion.

I have a dream to explore deeply into science and agriculture but I need money for that. Without money, I cannot bring to life my ideas or inventions.

So, please become focused,
once you see little consistent results,
become unbelievably obsessed.

Resist distractions with everything in you, and do not allow the knowledge or information you seek, paralyze your growth.

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Superonyi.
2025.

Your mind is your greatest weapon.

Your topic talks about people but the content of your thread talks about men. When you use people you refer to both men and women.

Preach the word bro...

Preach the word ...

Don't allow ten characters hold you....

ExudeLoveToAll:
Your topic talks about people but the content of your thread talks about men. When you use people you refer to both men and women.

All you have to do is alter it to fix your own reality. Change "he" to "she" and you have my message.

Edit: But I do understand your point.