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| I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Sirchiboy(op): 4:39pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
Earlier this year I open a pos and charging business. I spent close to 1m plus, I put the business under the management of this girl because I went for a program. We made agreement she will be sending me so so money weekly from the business. She only sent me money 3 times for the period of 6 months before this business crash. Before this business crash , she never one day told me how the business is going , If I ask she told me the business is just new and it will stand soon. Before I knew what was going on, she started telling me one excuse to another if I ask her for not sending me money weekly. Just last week , she open up and told me the business had crash. That she was lying to me not to feel bad. She employ sales girl paying her and also employ bike man , paying the bike man too. Choi, business when never stand, you don get personal bike man. I said since the business is like that and you never made one kobo. Sell everything in the shop and send back my money . She said the reason the business never make headway was because of the use of gen. That we should not sell the shop rather install solar. That solar will cost 1m. Fact about this shop , the shop has charging ,pos and selling of small phone parts. She did not make profit from pos , she did not make profit from phone parts , she didnt make profit from charging. So putting solar will make the business boom then I discover that if i ever get marry to this girl , I might regret the rest of my life. This girl is just 22 years and from igbo. She is from a very poor famili then my mind flash back may she has been sending my business money to his family |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Adexvivacity(m): 4:45pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
People that have multiple businesses putting people there are trying. It is very easy to monitor sales of goods but you see service, you will always be manipulated. She will still sell the shop below the money u are expecting. |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by DoctorStanley: 4:46pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
M.U.M.U. You have been played. Whenever u have sex or love at back of your mind when dealing with a female you're very open to being played. Don't mix business with wooing a female, AT ALL!!! |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Babangidapikin: 4:58pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
The reality is that running cost alone might be eating up the business.. how much fuel she wan buy , 5 liter per day is 4000 on the average in 30 days that is 120000 in ten months it is 1.2million .. problem is most of us view 1million of yester years to 1 million of today. To make matters worst she wants to feed herself and two people. Herself alone if she's managing will spend 500 Naira daily in 30 days that's 15000 in 10 months that is 150000 multiply by 3 that is 450000 She go need get CAC to register and POS that is roughly 75000. She go rent shop let say 5000 that is 60000 My advice POS should be addition to the business except you run it yourself in a fast moving environment. |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Nobody: 5:13pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
You are dating a highway girl. Don't get me wrong, she has great mind and good business acumen but she doesn't know how to start small which is a big flaw. With good capital, she can take a business to greater heights though. |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Sirchiboy(op): 5:13pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
Babangidapikin:That girl will ruin person life completely , I am not going for small girl again. Going for older women now, CAC reg I gave her money to do uptill now nothing , pos was included in the charging yet she useless the pos money , She was buying fuel without single profit , money budgeted for fuel got finish , she started using pos money to buy fuel. She and her sales girl will on gen from morningy to night whether customer come or not. Both her and sales girl na zero. |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Babangidapikin: 5:17pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
Sirchiboy:Just calm down, you have invested in her and she has fail , learn from it, don't use that to break your relationship. Just do your best to recover first . |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Sonnobax15(m): 5:20pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
![]() Bro,dump her sorry assss real quick,cuz she ain't gonna add any meaningful thing to your life.... Lemme tell you my story.....the truth is that I officially just opened my shop of phone pay-charge,POS and selling of cold drinks just last week.....And the honest truth is that I'm the type who doesn't stay in one place via the fact that I'm a hustler ....So,this was exactly what I did......I have full confidence in my banny cuz I tested her capability initially,which was earlier this year to know if she could run a small businesses.....I gave her the sum of 120k to start up a POS business,and within the period of 2 months,she had already made a profit of about 100k, making the total amount to sum up to over 220k......That was when and how I knew and realized I've been blessed with a business-wise banny.......The funniest thing is that she hates when I tend to spend money on frivolities,cuz I'm very good at that . Now,lemme burst your mind again,the 220k was what we used in renting the shop, thereafter I sold my Keke which had been giving me series of problems and invested the money into buying the things I needed in the shop...Right now,na she mount my shop but we dey make account of her everyday sales,cuz that creatures can behave funny sometimes .......So my brother,any banny who can't manage a small scale business can never manage a big enterprise no matter how well she may try to paint it...... Imagine her even lying to you about the whole thing since then.......I don't know if I'm the only one but I totally consider any dishonest banny as a bandit who's after my life. |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Sirchiboy(op): 5:27pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:Your shop is it gen or solar |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Sirchiboy(op): 5:32pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:The same , two gen I bought small and big. The girl get luck I no be evil pesin |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by kumancy56: 5:55pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
Lucky you Sonnobax15: |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Nicoddemus(m): 6:04pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
Sirchiboy: ![]() The girl just lack business acumen. |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Rexymania(m): 7:32pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
You're not serious |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by SisterAnn(f): 8:39pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
This Op and attention seeking ![]() Fictions made in china |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Sirchiboy(op): 8:49pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
SisterAnn:Ann so you don carry our problem enter here. Na the gurl be this OOO. Make una come see am |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Aydot99(m): 9:53pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
You don't need any advice in this case. You know the right thing to do |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by 9jaBloke: 11:15pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
Make una try de reach SS1 before una drop out na...or better still use broken. Una go use English injure person one day. |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Juliearth(f): 3:08am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Sirchiboy:Your first mistake was employing your " financially illiterate girlfriend" to run your business "in your absence". Even though this has exposed her unruly behaviour and poor financial management skills, which is a big red flag, you also share in the blame. It is always wise to start a business gradually. You ought to have started with one merchandise and if that blooms, you expand. Starting smalls helps you to understand your business dynamics and to cut losses if the business fails. Your second mistake was handing over a new business to someone who isn't business inclined or disciplined to run. You should have stayed to nurture the business before handing it over to a trusted person. Even business empires fail if mismanaged. Lastly if her report on poor power supplyn is anything to go by, then that's yet another big mistake on your part. Setting up a business that requires electricity in an area with poor electricity supply is a highway to failure. You could try again whenever you are available to run it yourself. Do a proper market survey and figure out the best location to set up, what to set up and how to set it up. All the best! |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Juliearth(f): 3:14am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Sirchiboy:Did you authorised the employment of a sales person? If you did, then I would still fault you. For a small business, employing an extra sales eorskm is a big financial mistake. Did you clearly define your woman's responsibilities to her? I doubt! |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Juliearth(f): 3:16am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:Now, this is how to run a business. |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by ukaface(f): 7:25am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Sirchiboy:wtf is from Igbo? You sef, you dense |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Houseofglam7(f): 7:42am On Aug 15, 2025 |
🫤 |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by kingthreat(m): 7:43am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Not everyone can run a business. Know this and know peace. |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by MrHandsome2013: 7:48am On Aug 15, 2025 |
ukaface:lol Una people don do the guy strong thing ooo |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by koladata(m): 8:09am On Aug 15, 2025*. Modified: 8:40am On Aug 15, 2025 |
One million naira is not a lot of money anymore, and a POS and charging of phone alone is not a sustainable business. You should consider adding another source of income alongside it, and from now on, start monitoring the business daily. Request a record of daily sales and expenses going forward and give a close monitoring. It’s possible the generator is eating into the small profits due to the current high cost of fuel. However, you don’t need one million naira for a solar setup. One 100Ah battery costs about ₦130,000 Two 150W solar panels at ₦40,000 each = ₦80,000 A small socket-type solar charger = ₦14,000 That’s a total of under ₦250,000. If you want more details about setting up solar, I can guide you for free, you’ll buy the items yourself, and I’ll simply tell you what to get and where to get them., just pay an electrician like 10k to set them up. that's all, I can also help you guide the electrician. You should also consider installing a single camera, that will cost you around 40k But before you reinvest more money into the business, monitor it closely for at least one month. Make sure you still have customers and that it’s bringing in at least 3k profit per day. That way, if you reinvest, you’re not starting from scratch, you already have existing customers and goodwill. Also, don’t end the relationship with her just because she didn’t manage the business well. If you have other reasons, that’s different, but some people simply aren’t skilled at running a business. That doesn’t make them a bad person, she might be talented in other areas. Not everyone is born an entrepreneur. If you’re the business minded one in the relationship, then you can guide her. Remember, when two people come together, they bring different strengths... and sometimes, opposites attract. Sirchiboy: |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by SisterAnn(f): 9:41am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Sirchiboy:Hahaha 😃😄 |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Baronthecelebri(m): 12:22pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
She lack home training |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by Divaan: 8:13pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
Sirchiboy:So you didn't know she was 22 years old before handing a business of over 1m to her. Foolish things people do for love. See, unless you're engaged and just about to marry, things like these aren't allowed. Even engagement gets broken. You should have put an older and more experienced family member in charge while she works alongside him/her. She's bad business. I would advice you send someone there to take stock/audit of the leftover and decide what to do next. If you like, keep pouring funds into a business your girlfriend can't account for. That business you set up is sustainable in Nigeria. She has probably been lavishing the money and can't be trusted with further funds.Next time, learn to separate business from romance. It's a different thing if it's her business or you gave her money to run her business, in which case she might be ' using' you. Get wise |
| Re: I Might Regret All My Life If I Ever Get Married To This Girl by elmagnifico411(m): 8:47pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
Sirchiboy:when you’re ready to stop fooling yourself, you’d go and monitor the business yourself.. 22yrs old girl?? Abi no be gen-z again? Those ones that love to chop life and not look back? And, which yeye program u go since wey u dey expect person wey need care to be taking care of your business? You go learn |
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. Now,lemme burst your mind again,the 220k was what we used in renting the shop, thereafter I sold my Keke which had been giving me series of problems and invested the money into buying the things I needed in the shop...