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which kain play way dem dey hold ur fat waist

weslay:
The fact that a male colleague will grope you-a married woman, shows that you have a problem setting boundaries.

I see this happen every day in my office and just feel sad for the husbands. Because most women today don't have self awareness, they accept anything. You see them laughing sheepishly instead of confronting the male colleague.

Why are you feeling sad for the husbands ?
Is there anything the husband is losing because his wife enjoys herself playing with other men ?

Juliearth:
That's another angle, but ovulating women don't react that way.

Eyyyy you say what?

dollynnn:
Hmm
How do we judge this matter?
But, I would suggest you be more careful next time. Steer clear off that male colleague and never allow any male touch you in inappropriate places.

this will be the source of bigger problems. Avoiding him and being conscious of him around you start getting thoughts in your head. When you get home... fire your husband till you are satisfied. You have been neglecting your needs.

Wawu no feelings for him but U don't drip finish

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

How does a guy u have no feelings for hold ur waist and u get aroused? unless ure not used to people holding ur waist.

2ndly did the guy do it with mischievous intent or unintentionally?

I'm just wondering why a guy will hold a married woman's waist?

Why are your male colleagues not leaving married women alone?

weslay:
The fact that a male colleague will grope you-a married woman, shows that you have a problem setting boundaries.

I see this happen every day in my office and just feel sad for the husbands. Because most women today don't have self awareness, they accept anything. You see them laughing sheepishly instead of confronting the male colleague.

OP do you know how many ladies make your husband wet daily?

Since no penetration you ve not cheated

Like why is he even touching her waist? Wayo guy laying trap for a married woman and acting like he doesn’t know what he’s doing

Onegai:
No you haven't. You're human, being attracted to another person will happen.

What you NEED to do now is to start treating that colleague like he has leprosy, in your mind. The devil will try and use him and he will come and be asking you "what's wrong nau, are we quarrelling?". Smile and say "no" but let that be the absolute last time you are ever alone with him or speak to him privately. I'm dead serious, don't even THINK of downplaying this and saying "there's nothing going o, let me be matured". The devil will laugh and realize you're No 2,637,879th victim he's just caught.

Go home to your husband and become playful with him. Why? Because your colleague gave you 20% of what you wanted (Playful Affection and Attention) and you're about to throw away 80% of what you have for that 20%.

And that's just bad Math for life

So go and get that playfulness from your legal man: buy some lingerie (lacy nonsense), tight mini jeans shorts, rub your body on your hubby anyhow, share jokes with him, wear perfume and lipgloss around the house.

Raph82:
He has succeeded in making the first advances on you, watch out for his next dangerous and seductive move. U need to cut all ties with him immediately and stop giving him attention. He should be able to read between the lines and step back.

And u think this is first? Maybe you don't know where she said, the guy touched. It's waist oo, before man could do that for married woman, they have been having discussions, that go beyond boundaries.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

You get wet as he held your waist, I wish he proceed further maybe you for off pant smh, for the fact that you didn’t scold your colleague for holding your waist means your mind really dey there, one day e go happen and him go knack you, cheating doesn’t mean he has to knack you first… you did cheated on your husband go and confess your sins😂💔

80% of married women who work in offices or corporate environment fv*KS dia office colleagues.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

Person who doesn't drink alcohol in dream has started drinking it in real life.

Married woman who allows suitor to grip her waist, tell your children that story..

this prospective cheater

weslay:
The fact that a male colleague will grope you-a married woman, shows that you have a problem setting boundaries.

I see this happen every day in my office and just feel sad for the husbands. Because most women today don't have self awareness, they accept anything. You see them laughing sheepishly instead of confronting the male colleague.

i swear, many women really dont know how to set boundaries. that why i jejely open shop for my wife she still show me dealer wey dey supply her goods say make them go out my woman jus jejely go look for another supplier. some men too are jus useless you know a lady is married yet you do trash

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

You need to tell your husband so that he'll bear it in his mind that sooner or later, you're going to cheat on him.

Lifestone:
She confirmed, she hasn't, i believe her. Nothing to confess. The Husband may not be able to handle it as it is. She should let it go and forgive herself

Perfect answer. If she ever make the mistake of telling her husband, she digs her grave by herself be that one. Especially if the man has trust issues.

tanigororo:
Their is nothing left, her mind is outside already, her mind don dey cheat already.

Before someone could start holding you by the waist it's not a normal play again, she has allowed it with little other acts and talk too.

That's true

I don't trust in keeping female friend at work. It had affected me before. There is nothing like bestie.

Bigchris01:
You get wet as he held your waist, I wish he proceed further maybe you for off pant smh, for the fact that you didn’t scold your colleague for holding your waist means your mind really dey there, one day e go happen and him go knack you, cheating doesn’t mean he has to knack you first… you did cheated on your husband go and confess your sins😂💔

Why are you people wicked like this. A man grabbed a woman's waist, you said she has cheated, things like that happened always suddenly, without notice and expectation, mostly from the back, and you said the woman has cheated, no now, do you think God is wicked like you humans, you want to cause confusion in the marriage of that lady, that is not fair. Lady, you have not cheated, nothing to confess, we are all humans. But possibly you don't have regular sex with your husband, i think that was why you became wet at a touch, or else its not suppose to happen suddenly like that, so please work on that to prevent temptation.

Naa, no. Just give more time, when he puts his gbola inside you kpekus then you can say you have cheated on your husband.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

What do you mean by should I confess this to my husband?
Are you normal at all?
If tides were turned, would your husband confess same to you?
Btw, someone playfully held your waist and nature, hormones in your body responded by getting you aroused, shey na u dey control hormones for your body ni? What you have control on is if or not u lie in bed with him, not one rubbish wetness you felt by him touching your waist, oya let me ask u, why do women often times feel wet, during their ovulation period, shey na touching of waist cause that one again?

Please stop beating up yourself over something u have no control over....
This is just nature taking it course..
Don't let rubbish indoctrination from the bible make u feel guilty about what nature placed in u.

In some Nigerian traditions, you have cheated on him. For a man who is not your husband to grope you around your waist without a sharp rebuke from you means u don commit adultery.
If it was discovered by traditional means, say IFA, you have to do some sacrifice to cleanse your husband and children from the consequences.

bigiyaro:
80% of married women who work in offices or corporate environment fv*KS dia office colleagues.

Probably a higher percentage sef.

Person wey don dey yanch the colleague already Dey play.
Women are even more amorous than men. The difference is that they code a lot

In some Nigerian traditional settings, you have cheated on him. For a man who is not your husband to grope you around your waist without a sharp rebuke from you means u don commit adultery.
If it was discovered by traditional means, say IFA, you have to do some sacrifice to cleanse your husband and children from the consequences.

macphilip:
This is how paternity fraud begins.
When some of us insist women should be restricted to being house wives, you will say we are selfish husbands

You funny. The difference will be that the working one is fucking in the office while the other in the house. Lol