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Dzzzz:
You Dey play…This babe fit done collect one short for bathroom👀

Do you know that a woman who is sexually assaulted against her will could have orgasms. The body can respond involuntarily to stimulation against emotions and consent.

Facts

Omo no be small thing. Ordinary waist them touch you wet, it them touch bobbie by mistake no be spontaneous squirting go happen?

Lekby25:
Why are you people wicked like this. A man grabbed a woman's waist, you said she has cheated, things like that happened always suddenly, without notice and expectation, mostly from the back, and you said the woman has cheated, no now, do you think God is wicked like you humans, you want to cause confusion in the marriage of that lady, that is not fair. Lady, you have not cheated, nothing to confess, we are all humans. But possibly you don't have regular sex with your husband, i think that was why you became wet at a touch, or else its not suppose to happen suddenly like that, so please work on that to prevent temptation.

If na me call you wicked now Nairaland admins for don banned me from posting, I will just allow it slide let me pretend as if I didn’t see your message

Lekby25:
Why are you people wicked like this. A man grabbed a woman's waist, you said she has cheated, things like that happened always suddenly, without notice and expectation, mostly from the back, and you said the woman has cheated, no now, do you think God is wicked like you humans, you want to cause confusion in the marriage of that lady, that is not fair. Lady, you have not cheated, nothing to confess, we are all humans. But possibly you don't have regular sex with your husband, i think that was why you became wet at a touch, or else its not suppose to happen suddenly like that, so please work on that to prevent temptation.

You think only wen they penetrate woman is cheating? You lost it before you u even started

Read below and update your outdated knowledge. Most especially number one. Make sure you go and do more research on the list please.

Procashtips:
You can only get aroused by someone you have feelings for without penetration as a woman.

Stop deceiving yourself.

Thats not true. If you brush any woman’s nipples accidentally, she will be on fire, whether you are a stranger or not.

Procashtips:
You can only get aroused by someone you have feelings for without penetration as a woman.

Stop deceiving yourself.

And where did you get that from?

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

Avoid such guy ... probably it may be Juju at work

Wisdom is profitable to direct
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Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

you are a good woman, just set boundaries with him

Lifestone:
You have not cheated. Temptation came and you overcame it, congratulations.
Before i forget, dont tell your husband, Men dont know how to handle such truth. He wont let it go.
THERE IS NOTHING TO CONFESS

Your advice is not right. She has failed on the aspect of not reacting when the male colleague held her waist. That was an expensive joke. She failed the temptation. I'm a man, so I know it all. We men can be very tactical when we need something from a woman. The guy intentionally did it to observe her reaction. If she appears weak and condescending, he'll take it a step further.

If you're a woman and reading this, don't allow any man to get away with any acts of lasciviousness towards you except you're crushing over him or in a relationship. But if you're already married to another man, it's a no no. Your first reaction is very very important. You must set the boundaries. If you didn't react well, it gives the impression that you loved what the man did and his brain will activate the next format to actually subdue you until he gets what he wants. Again, women can be emotionally weak. Allowing certain indecent behavior from men can easily put you in a helpless situation. Like I said, unless you loved it!

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

One quick question: Does the guy know that you’re married?
If NO, WHY?
If YES, then what gave him the effrontery to approach you in such a manner? Simple. You did!
You have given him the impression that such sexual behavior is ok with you (which shouldn’t be the case).
Put A STOP 🛑 to it IMMEDIATELY!
Define professionalism and CLEAR BOUNDARIES to him…unless of course, you lowkey want him

folake4u:
Eyyyy you say what?

baby lawyer can over relate ..... Bursted 💥💥

Jesus said when a female lust after a man, she has committed an idolatry. Go and confess your sin and sin no more 😎

cococandy:
Why are your male colleagues not leaving married women alone?

Becos married women are attention starve its what they want

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

Every dance begins with a nod, tapping of the fingers, clap and then full body swivel.

It didn't just start with his holding your waste. It began with little probings on his part and your body language that projected acceptance. The inappropriate and suggestive small talks that you didn't curtail was all that led to his having the boldness to hold a married woman by the waste. It couldn't have happened without your tacit approval.

Go make confessions especially to your husband else, I see you caving to your lust in no distant time.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

For you to enable him to hold your waist without seeing anything wrong with it ...you have cheated.

2. Nothing like a little wet, cos you didn't really know when it started

You don't need to get wet to prove that you're cheating

Samantha125:
You being married doesn't mean you wouldn't get attracted to other men, what matters is how you react to the feeling.

I'd advise that you distance yourself from the colleague... Let everything between the two of you be strictly professional and only work related.

Being married means your male colleague should never feel comfortable touching your waist. Should he even be touching the unmarried women in such an area?? For him to feel bold enough to try it, it means she carries herself without the dignified boundaries expected of the married.

Keep your leopard bottled.

And what are those dignified boundaries expected of the married?

SmartyPants:
Being married means your male colleague should never feel comfortable touching your waist. Should he even be touching the unmarried women in such an area?? For him to feel bold enough to try it, it means she carries herself without the dignified boundaries expected of the married.

dollynnn:
Hmm
How do we judge this matter?
But, I would suggest you be more careful next time. Steer clear off that male colleague and never allow any male touch you in inappropriate places.

That's why it's good to be spiritual. No amount of touch will move a spiritual lady

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

What just happened is natural. That is why avoidance is necessary.
Your body reacted o don't think you cheated

destinychildolu:
That's why it's good to be spiritual. No amount of touch will move a spiritual lady

Dey Play

You are a good woman with virtues and strength. Since you don't have feelings for him you are safe. Keep strict body contact as much as possible with this colleague and other males....simple!

cococandy:
Why are your male colleagues not leaving married women alone?

Ask them. Why cant they keep their grubby hands to themselves? They are the ones who have a problem with boundaries. When people like this go to the abroad, they will start kissing their patients (like that recently jailed Nigerian nurse in the UK) under the guise of providing 'comfort'. Leave them. They will learn the hard way.

Don't tell your husband. You have nothing to confess.

Protect him by not telling him. You'll only hurt him if you do. You'll give him sleepless nights

As others have advised, put boundaries.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

Rexymania:
This girl with made up stories. Anyway, you no be stick.

Just be careful if you truly duh wanna cheat on your hubby

for this hard country na u dey imagine nonsense

Ishilove:
Ask them. Why cant they keep their grubby hands to themselves? They are the ones who have a problem with boundaries. When people like this go to the abroad, they will start kissing their patients (like that recently jailed Nigerian nurse in the UK) under the guise of providing 'comfort'. Leave them. They will learn the hard way.

Kissing their patients?

Egba mi

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

You did very wrong but you don't need to confess to your husband since he is not aware. It's out of respect and it's not a sin. Its not everything you confess to a human being but you can confess to a man. Pray to God and ask for forgiveness and don't do it again. If you tell your husband, suspicion sets in forever.

Samantha125:
And what are those dignified boundaries expected of the married?

Shutting off ANY unwarranted touches? Shutting down flirtatious conversations that make people feel too comfortable? You need me to speel these out??

Sonnobax15:

You got wet for another nigha?

Meaning if he had toasted you,who knows, perhaps he would have roasted you

Madam, you should have scolded the colleagues right there...but since you didn't,well let's say your sins will be forgiven since you've confessed

He will do it again,,, then ask her out on a date and strike her.


The chances are like 90 percent sure for the dude 😎