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BRATISLAVA:
This is quite funny. How did you get out of the fight? The pleasing part?

Lolz, don't mind correction computer. It was pleading I wrote o.
Anyways, as for what happened between me and her. It wasn't easy o. She first of all chop small beating from me before the pleading started, cus you won't believe she slapped me immediately my swinging hands touched her backside. Mehn long story

BRATISLAVA:
But she would let her hair down... and you know what happened next.

Exactly...😂😂😂
I wasn't thinking he would get my point sha.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

quick question, were you on your ovulation period?
Because the body seems to have a mind of it own during that period. Secondly what was your reaction, did you rebuke him?

Also you need to stay clear from the guy, imagine putting hands on woman's knowing fully well she is married.

Then again I don't see any reason telling your hubby except he is the type both of you share everything.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

If you still love your marriage, listen to me:

Has it taken long when you had sex with your hubby last? If yes, please do not create such gap again. If your hubby doesn't ask for it, give it to him after a while especially around your ovulation period.

I am just wondering why you could be aroused so easily when someone that you never fantasised about, touched your waist.

If you don't have any absurd thought about the colleague, just move on but be ready to warn him sternly if he doesn't that next time. Don't ever tell that your colleague how you felt about when he touched you. Also, don't tell your hubby about it. The consequence may be unpredictable

Nairaland likes cheating matter en..See arguments up up😂😂😂

cococandy:
At his big age

He learned the hard way that the things he can do and get away with is strictly limited to Nigeria. He carried his perversion to the UK and learned the hard way

pocohantas:
Exactly...😂😂😂
I wasn't thinking he would get my point sha.

Clearly didn't.

Kalulu44:
Lolz, don't mind correction computer. It was pleading I wrote o.
Anyways, as for what happened between me and her. It wasn't easy o. She first of all chop small beating from me before the pleading started, cus you won't believe she slapped me immediately my swinging hands touched her backside. Mehn long story

Lol

You are married woman. 1 Thessalonians 5:22

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

For the fact that you didn't respond with a resounding slap on his face makes me feel bad. Don't give room for such "harmless" plays because you never can tell what you are capable of doing and never rely on feelings. I would advice you strictly relate with this your colleague only on work or official matters because he is up to something.
As for your question, no you haven't but you are vulnerable.

Eniitankorede:
Thats not true. If you brush any woman’s nipples accidentally, she will be on fire, whether you are a stranger or not.

Are you a woman?

Trueprophet91:
And where did you get that from?

Tell us otherwise. You have to touch a woman sensually to feel anything for you. (That's if you even tick her boxes.

Samantha125:
You being married doesn't mean you wouldn't get attracted to other men, what matters is how you react to the feeling.

I'd advise that you distance yourself from the colleague... Let everything between the two of you be strictly professional and only work related.

You forgot to add having a private meeting with the colleague in a private place

Procashtips:
Are you a woman?

No! But that is what they all say.

You own your body so use your brain instead of coming out here asking a dumb question.
Only you and God knew your emotional state at that particular moment of craziness with your male colleague,So only God can judge that,in the interim do your self a favour and respect your self worth

princepee:
You are not attracted to him yet you got wet..
Just dey play.
That guy go soon nyash you and you will call it a mistakes.
It's either your husband is not doing a good job or you are a flert ..
You sure have feelings for the guy but denying it..
Think about your marriage and do something .
Why would someone who's not close to you hold you by the waist?

Before she wet that means the guy go touch her pass 20 minutes because he no go fit just touch her waist then she go wet once

Sermwell:
Men dey wet? Abi which kind colos comment be this?

Since you get that accident,things change for your reasoning oo..

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

That is an assault and sexualising harassment. Report to your hr and he will be fired. Then tell your husband as well after getting him fired. he will trust you more

Eniitankorede:
No! But that is what they all say.

What do they all say?

Procashtips:
Tell us otherwise. You have to touch a woman sensually to feel anything for you. (That's if you even tick her boxes.

You said she had to have feeling, now you're talking about "touch sensually".
People just come online to claim sexuality experts when they actually know next to nothing

Juliearth:
Classical oxymoron? Never had feelings for him yet the flood gates were opened upon his touch. Something is amiss. I believe you know what that is and what you must do.

She might be wet because it's been a while she had sex

Procashtips:
You can only get aroused by someone you have feelings for without deep sensual touches or penetration as a woman.

Stop deceiving yourself.

That it's wrong when a fertile woman is ovulating you can easily get wet with a touch, her waist might be her weak point

Jamsam:
She might be wet because it's been a while she had sex

I agree with you and a couple of others who commented in this line. However, a woman's body, even when she is ovulating or celibate, doesn't just react to any touch unless if the toucher is a person of interest. Remember that it was in a work space and she was not sexually vulnerable before the act.

Juliearth:
I agree with you and a couple of others who commented in this line. However, a woman's body, even when she is ovulating or celibate, doesn't just react to any touch unless if the toucher is a person of interest. Remember that it was in a work space and she was not sexually vulnerable before the act.

It's not that she love him, it might be just like or her spec

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

No need telling your husband.

You need to watch-out for yourself by yourself..
Since you have noticed that you get easily aroused when even total strangers hold your waist, then guard against such holdings from anyone with all your strength.
In fact, don't let anyone hold your hand for any prolonged time before it mistakenly turns you on, and you start to have guilty conscience again.

Just forgive yourself and avoid any situation that would bring any repetition.

Again, search yourself, if you're have any form of soft-spot in your heart or mind for that colleague of yours, then you need to do something about it.
So that you won't be here telling yourself that you have no feelings for him, whereas deep inside of you, your hear or mind really have deep feelings for him and you don't even know.

Trueprophet91:
You said she had to have feeling, now you're talking about "touch sensually".
People just come online to claim sexuality experts when they actually know next to nothing

Yes. I expanded the conditions.

Feelings first
Sensual touches 2nd.

Even a wife that has feelings for you can still not be ready for sex until you touch her not to talk of a total stranger.

Not knowing the above means you know nothing about sex and the female anatomy.

Procashtips:
Yes. I expanded the conditions.

Feelings first
Sensual touches 2nd.

Even a wife that has feelings for you can still not be ready for sex until you touch her not to talk of a total stranger.

Not knowing the above means you know nothing about sex and the female anatomy.

Please compare what you're saying now with your first post and stop deceiving yourself. I don't have time for online charlatans.
Bye

Fiscus105:
How can a man hold waist of another woman that he doesn't having relationship with? Not even married woman. And to make it worst, the woman doesn't talk nonsense to such man.

It simply means she's not telling us the full story between she and the said waist holder and soon to be waist bender

Trueprophet91:
Please compare what you're saying now with your first post and stop deceiving yourself. I don't have time for online charlatans.
Bye

The original message is there. Stop bugging.