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I tire oo, this always leaves me wondering the how twisted they are to expect such

BodyCount:
I wonder o
IT'S FOOLISHNESS
A successful man is not made for one woman.
It's not fair to just have one honestly.
-They'll not accept you when you're broke.

-They'll broke-shame even though you're likely doing better than their father and brothers

MOST PAINFULLY, THEY'LL EXPLORE ALL THEIR OPTIONS, RIDE WHOEVER THEY WANT, DOUBLE DATE, GATHER BODY COUNT, MANIPULATE YOU ETC

- They never stay faithful and loyal to you ALONE. But the moment you start doing well and can now have options too, THEY'LL START COMPLAINING AND EXPECT YOU TO STAY COMMITTED AND LOYAL TO THEM ALONE.
Especially when they're becoming old, in their decline and don't have much opinions again.

Many will even date married men join, and when they now marry, they'll expect their own husband to stay loyal to them alone...

God forbid, I'LL USE MY OWN OPTIONS TOO AS MUCH AS I COULD.

UNA GO CRY TIRE

All those simps opposing this needs their heads checked..

All this single women raising boys instead of men, tueh

luminouz:
Are you living under a rock?

Look around you and see if society is not shaping your very existence

I'm incharge here, bro—not some society.

After reading this post and i have gone through some comments bro, go and watch " TO KILL A MONKEY". Oboz wife is the kind of wife every man should have not Efemini wife.
May God help us to marry right because if not bro, your own don finish....

Rapmoney:
I was just pondering why society should expect faithfulness from young men who toiled so hard to get to a commendable level in life. This same society has made it clear that men are nothing without money. That their value only lies in what they can provide financially and materially. That is why that girl you are dating has many friends with benefits that you are not aware of.

Why do you think you can tame men on both sides? You expect them to stay out of relationships because they cannot provide your material needs, but still want them to be faithful when they have toiled hard to attain success unsupported. That is unrealistic.

The ideology of our modern society: Men should not date when they are not financially buoyant, women can date as many men as possible no matter how broke they are. Men should be faithful in relationship irrespective of finance. What a joke!

Many guys these days do not care about relationships or romance. They are focusing on their success. But make you nor expect faithfulness from them wen their hand touch money, or else you go cry nwii for inside Nnewi.

when you and society hold meeting and it told you all you just said?

what has having money got to do with not being faithful in relationship?

if you want to be promiscuous, why are you now trying to blame society?

if you do not have self control, do not blame society for it. blame yourself.

ZeemsPropeties:
And the funny thing is, no matter how much you provide, the woman will most likely cheat on you for the few things you can't provide. Society is rigged against men. Do what you can to enjoy life as much as possible but stay within the law. Don't let anyone dictate what you should or shouldn't do.

are you the one that rigged society against men?

do you not think you are now sounding like women who complain that because they are women, they do not stand a chance?

On point

OP na man you be..Me self I no go lie this thing has been on my mind lately....

pocohantas:
I am with a man who I believe is successful and he gives faithfulness. He doesn't see it as a herculean expectation. It is his personal choice and respect for himself and his body.

If you want to be a community gbola, feel free to do so. Society wouldn't stop you. Many men have done it and none has been jailed to the best of my knowledge.

..... After all ur men are scum, u still went ahead to date a man
..... Na WA oooo .... Men are the price!!!!

pocohantas:
I am with a man who I believe is successful and he gives faithfulness. He doesn't see it as a herculean expectation. It is his personal choice and respect for himself and his body.

If you want to be a community gbola, feel free to do so. Society wouldn't stop you. Many men have done it and none has been jailed to the best of my knowledge.

Yeah he's just addressing some ladies that demand what they can't give.
To the best of my knowledge I don't think you belong to this category except I'm wrong.
People believe a broke guy don't even need to be in a relationship, there's nothing like let love lead and let's see how things go.
It's always money! Money!! Money!!! Money bouquet, cash gift material things when she knows she also broke.
That's rubbish lol.

ideatoprince18:
..... After all ur men are scum, u still went ahead to date a man
..... Na WA oooo .... Men are the price!!!!

Are you sure she use to do that?
I must have mistaken her for that other nairaland lady Omo-tolongbo.
Tolongbo is an hardworking exceptional lady

ideatoprince18:
..... After all ur men are scum, u still went ahead to date a man
..... Na WA oooo .... Men are the price!!!!

Show me one men-are-scum post from my moniker and I will transfer 500k to you this minute. I didn't just date a man. I married him. I hope you can do same to a woman and she speaks well of you like I just did.

tollyboy5:
Yeah he's just addressing some ladies that demand what they can't give.
To the best of my knowledge I don't think you belong to this category except I'm wrong.
People believe a broke guy don't even need to be in a relationship, there's nothing like let love lead and let's see how things go.
It's always money! Money!! Money!!! Money bouquet, cash gift material things when she knows she also broke.
That's rubbish lol.

The second you choose to be married, faithfulness is not negotiable. You have the option of staying single, having a longterm partner or letting know the woman know from the onset you would have more wives.

Men are highly favoured in Nigeria to be creating whiny topics like this.

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I don't need your money miss.... Have u been talking down on men or not in this forum or not??

pocohantas:
Show me one men-are-scum post from my moniker and I will transfer 500k to you this minute. I didn't just date a man. I married him. I hope you can do same to a woman and she speaks well of you like I just did.

tollyboy5:
Are you sure she use to do that?
I must have mistaken her for that other nairaland lady Omo-tolongbo.
Tolongbo is an hardworking exceptional lady

... She is the one

Don't mind the hypocritical society op!

Ladies want to cherry pick the traditional aspects that fit into their selfish agenda. That is why they're quick to remind us that traditional men are meant to provide for their families but fail to also realise that traditional men are free to have multiple wives and concubines!

That is why I call Nigerian ladies pseudo feminists! Because when it comes to who provides for the family, they go traditional and remind us that men should provide but when it comes to any aspects of traditional men -women relationships that favours men, they contest it with feminism.

I have always said that any man who toiled and passed through the humiliation of ladies rubbing it on their faces that they are not worthy to even have an e....rection when they're broke, does not owe his wife faithfulness in marriage. He's very much free to use his money and acquire as many women as he wants. After all, even the holy books recognise and support polygamy and men having multiple women.

ideatoprince18:
I don't need your money miss.... Have u been talking down on men or not in this forum or not??

ideatoprince18:
See ehn any guy wey get money escape Naija like this no dey ever look back to marry Naija babes. They know most Naija babes are blood suckers and live to suck and leech on man's money .... Nothing else!!!!

This is you with the moral standing to question me? You need to get your head checked, bro.

pocohantas:
The second you choose to be married, faithfulness is not negotiable. You have the option of staying single, having a longterm partner or letting know the woman know from the onset you would have more wives.

Men are highly favoured in Nigeria to be creating whiny topics like this.

How are men favoured?
You don't have to dictate how what a rich man does in his marriage. He's free to have a concubine.
How does Nigeria favor men?
Is by sending us urgent ₦2k?
Someone up there corrected me that you're from the category of men are scum just like candid lady

tollyboy5:
How are men favoured?
You don't have to dictate how what a rich man does in his marriage. He's free to have a concubine.
How does Nigeria favor men?
Is by sending us urgent ₦2k?
Someone up there corrected me that you're from the category of men are scum just like candid lady

Oh well, I didn't dictate.
Some men just respect themselves and understand what true leadership is.

Let's say I am indeed in men-are-scum-category. I have gotten a non-polygamous man and the non-feminist women have to pick from the rest of you here.

pocohantas:
Oh well, I didn't dictate.
Some men just respect themselves and understand what true leadership is.

Let's say I am indeed in men-are-scum-category. I have gotten a non-polygamous man and the non-feminist women have to pick from the rest of you here.

I don't even have problem with feminist. I like feminist alot.
Just that you must remain feminist in all instances, I might subsidise your feminist load as a husband so we'll do 60/40.
But being a feminist you'll need to prove your worth.
You're lucky tho. The thing is, ladies will always be lucky because they'll come back to their senses and lower their pride and feminist vibe when they see a man they can't afford to loose.
The ones that loose guard will keep regretting how they lost a good man due to advice from feminist. 😁

tollyboy5:
I don't even have problem with feminist. I like feminist alot.
Just that you must remain feminist in all instances, I might subsidise your feminist load as a husband so we'll do 60/40.
But being a feminist you'll need to prove your worth.
You're lucky tho. The thing is, ladies will always be lucky because they'll come back to their senses and lower their pride and feminist vibe when they see a man they can't afford to loose.
The ones that loose guard will keep regretting how they lost a good man due to advice from feminist. 😁

I don't care if you do. My husband doesn't want me to subsidise his load. Like I said, he is successful and very capable. When you marry your own, do 60:40 with her. Let her prove her worth to you.

pocohantas:
I don't care if you do. My husband doesn't want me to subsidise his load. Like I said, he is successful and very capable. When you marry your own, do 60:40 with her. Let her prove her worth to you.

I don't need you to care. You're not a feminist, you were just a feminist wannabe before returning to default settings.
Happy married life

tollyboy5:
I don't need you to care. You're not a feminist, you were just a feminist wannabe before returning to default settings.
Happy married life

If that makes you sleep better at night.

Even the dregs of the society will also think they have the authority to have an opinion on rich men and their lifestyle

That said, any man that thinks the amount of money he has determines the number of ladies he can conquer with his gbola, is not only a poor man, but also poor in heart, mind, spirit, body, and soul, which will ultimately be his downfall.

lexy2014:
are you the one that rigged society against men?

do you not think you are now sounding like women who complain that because they are women, they do not stand a chance?

Accepting the reality is the same as complaining? No one is complaining about anything. I'm saying accept the reality and plan around it.

TempUser:
It's quite appalling that society expects men to be faithful to one woman, known as the wife, when about 99% of the so-called wives had squandered their prime and were just lucky.

Yet, when they get to animal husbandry, theyd pair a male animal with five females or more...



https://www.tiktok.com/video/7516242205359525125/

Seems this one want to be an animal, there are options o, enter zoo and strip naked, female animals will gather with the speed of light

😂😂😂

Rapmoney:
I was just pondering why society should expect faithfulness from young men who toiled so hard to get to a commendable level in life. This same society has made it clear that men are nothing without money. That their value only lies in what they can provide financially and materially. That is why that girl you are dating has many friends with benefits that you are not aware of.

Why do you think you can tame men on both sides? You expect them to stay out of relationships because they cannot provide your material needs, but still want them to be faithful when they have toiled hard to attain success unsupported. That is unrealistic.

The ideology of our modern society: Men should not date when they are not financially buoyant, women can date as many men as possible no matter how broke they are. Men should be faithful in relationship irrespective of finance. What a joke!

Many guys these days do not care about relationships or romance. They are focusing on their success. But make you nor expect faithfulness from them wen their hand touch money, or else you go cry nwii for inside Nnewi.

Faithfulness should depend only on the man since he is nobody without money...he should see reasons why he should remain with a single woman..

ideatoprince18:
..... After all ur men are scum, u still went ahead to date a man
..... Na WA oooo .... Men are the price!!!!

I keep hearing men are the price, pls explain in details, cos last I checked, man are the ones doing all the work to get married, they do the asking out, going on dates, spending money on gifts, then wedding arrangements with finances, even in marriages the spending doesn't stop, all we do is sit pretty and enjoy the benefits with little bits of discomfort now and then.

Some of you even go as far as marrying second wives, another expenses, then side chicks, more expenses, in fact, looking at it logically, your whole existence is actually to be at our beck and call, even this thread is a testament to the fact that you all go out there to work hard, earn money, and spend it all on women

So how exactly are men the price 🤔 😆

pocohantas:
I am with a man who I believe is successful and he gives faithfulness. He doesn't see it as a herculean expectation. It is his personal choice and respect for himself and his body.

If you want to be a community gbola, feel free to do so. Society wouldn't stop you. Many men have done it and none has been jailed to the best of my knowledge.

You don't have a man

Rapmoney:
you go cry nwii for inside Nnewi.

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyy God 😂😁