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purples25:
Even when nobody calls out men, they still look for how to clear themselves.

ediko5:
You thought you could eat your cake and have it? 😂 😂

Una never see anything. You liked your papa mate in your 20s and in your mid and late 30s you're suddenly in love and want your younger brother's age mate to marry you

CaveAdullam:
Ask yourself this: if she sees a better man than you, will she stay or leave?

Ok, let's continue.

1. You have no business being in a relationship with a woman older than you.

At this phase of her life, she sees you as her retirement plan or last card since she couldn't bag a man for over 10 decades since she started menstruating.

2. If you're not ready for marriage before 2025 elapses or at most 2026, there's no need to add blocks of chats, feelings, and romance to the relationship. You'll end up making her a villain towards you.

3. You don't need to do too much "shalaye" like I'm doing now.

Once your rent expires, make sure you disappear. Tell her you're going far away and don't know where the road will lead you. That you don't want to waste her remaining youthful days with the hope of a happily ever after.

Make this known to her with your eyes wide open throughout that day and make sure your bus is ready to move in the next few hours.

4. If you don't see her as a mother for your kids with her current virtues overriding her vices, show no pity. Exit the union asap.

5. However, it is men like you that eventually turn many women into villains by stringing them along with the illusion of a happy marriage while you're just there for sex and cruise when you know from the outset that you just want to "chop and clean mouth". Godforsaken foolish men.

Anyway, life is a game. If you don't know how to play, you'll get played.

Thanks.

purples25:
Unstick yourself, before you go ahead with a pity relationship. Before you start crying, day and night about how she blocked you from dating younger girls. Before you diminish her because your eyes are still outside.

A breakup is better than the humiliation you’re going to be giving her.

underpinna:
This lady mounts me like a cultist. Omoh, I don't even know who supplies her with info.

bigpicture001:
This is very very true... She doesn't love u one bit... Sh only needs marriage...

Ladies are very very senseless and believe they can always eat their cakes and have it back...

Plenty of them old pigeons are in my matter .. ppl dt won't even look ur way had they been younger ..

Build together is the language they hate the most.. now they are ready to build together.... Yeye ppl

ediko5:
Well said bro.
Seun bot removed my first response to you where I further analysed their strategies

bigpicture001:
Sorry Abt the BOT bro... As for the ladies.. but for scarcity of husband .. they would be flying high into the heaven and take men as nothing...

God really arranged this world

ediko5:

What baffles me is how the big boys and matured men the ladies rolled with during their 20s suddenly become 'not husband material' to them while the small Bois and br00ke boy back then suddenly become their qualified husband candidate

bigpicture001:
It's not them that rejected the big boiz . It's the big boiz that rejected them..

See, men with money dnt do love...

purples25:
Call a mature and responsible person that will help you explain and beg after you tell her your intentions, let it be a very private three person meeting, after which you have your bags ready and leave the apartment forever, immediately after.

If she is too violent by nature, wait till you have secretly left, then text or call about the breakup and try to apologize and be courteous.

Personally I don’t believe in all these statements where it just looks like the lady suddenly got obsessed. I think you silently allowed her to assume that things were serious through somewhat romantic gestures.

All in all, no relationship at all, is better than a pity relationship

underpinna:
The only bad thing is that she may go spiritual as she believes in that.
For now, I am cool and haven't heard from her.
I've always told her that I'm not interested in marriage. I don't know why she was hell bend on ending up with me.

underpinna:
The only bad thing is that she may go spiritual as she believes in that.
For now, I am cool and haven't heard from her.
I've always told her that I'm not interested in marriage. I don't know why she was hell bend on ending up with me.