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Jman06:
There was this lady I proposed love to when I finished secondary school and was doing a small business while looking for university admission then. The lady rejected me but was following one guy who happens to be a medical doctor. I picked the pieces of my broken heart and moved on.

You were proposing love after you finished secondary school? That was not love you were proposing sir. You were proposing foolishness.

I didn't have affinity for 20s..🥹🥹...How do those ladies cope knowing fully well u are dealing with your below age mate?..😩😩

Chai....nairaland and small boys. 😆 🤣 😂 😹

destinychildolu:
Don't conclude yet. You can try to get her pregnant first. If it works, then marry her. She has realised her mistake

Are you looking for thunder to fire you this morning?

Jman06:
There was this lady I proposed love to when I finished secondary school and was doing a small business while looking for university admission then. The lady rejected me but was following one guy who happens to be a medical doctor. I picked the pieces of my broken heart and moved on.

Fast forward to today, this lady -- having been dumped by the guy and several other men, thinks I should still marry her despite the previous rejection. Of course she's now over 35. What I plan to do to her as my revenge is to give her hopes of marrying her until the very day she'll see my wedding invitation card.

Just imagine marrying such lady and inheriting the problem of infertility due to menopause, God forbid! Even the biggest simp of our last generation will not do that. She can't eat her cake and have it.

abeg epp waste additional 5yrs. By 40+ her brain go rest.

Dogalmighty17:
Are you looking for thunder to fire you this morning?

I come as a peace maker

Dogalmighty17:
Any young man who falls victim to this manipulation deserves it.

Most enter such traps tru sex.

The guy wanted to just chop and go, but the lady was smarter. Hence, it becomes difficult to escape.

They deserve each other.

Men have been marrying younger women. But its not manipulation? Una dey craze

Nobody well into their 20s or early 30s is manipulated. Most times they are just financially lazy and looking for a way out. The ladies also want their kids with one man who can pass as a "husband". In some cases, they genuinely love themselves. But none is entirely a victim.

Jman06:
There was this lady I proposed love to when I finished secondary school and was doing a small business while looking for university admission then. The lady rejected me but was following one guy who happens to be a medical doctor. I picked the pieces of my broken heart and moved on.

Fast forward to today, this lady -- having been dumped by the guy and several other men, thinks I should still marry her despite the previous rejection. Of course she's now over 35. What I plan to do to her as my revenge is to give her hopes of marrying her until the very day she'll see my wedding invitation card.

Just imagine marrying such lady and inheriting the problem of infertility due to menopause, God forbid! Even the biggest simp of our generation will not do that. She can't eat her cake and have it.

All those people you see they poor acid or pay cultists to kill this is how it starts


When you affect somebody's life in a mind bending way such that the person cries every day and every night payback must come

And when that pay back comes the person dishing it out to you will not care whether he or she lands in prison


Good luck!

ediko5:
There's an increasing trend among Nigerian ladies of 35+ years manipulating younger men into marriage with them.

A friend of mine recently told me how a lady of 38 yrs got pregnant for his younger brother who's 27 yrs and tried to manipulate the far younger boy to marry her.

What baffles me when it comes to our ladies is how they think and believe the game will always be simple and thus will always favour 'em.

It baffles me how a lady in her early, mid and sometimes late 20s will roll with men who are older than her by 10 - 20 years while calling her male age mates and 5 years older men small boys but when she gets to 33 she'll expect those same small and br00ke boys to expressly propose marriage to her.

At 33 they start getting infuriated whenever they see their male agemate get married to ladies in their mid or late 20s claiming they're marrying small girls they can control.

My question is:

What happened to those matured men they dated in their 20s and what happened to the claim that they can't date small boys but can only date men that are 10+ years older than them ?

Are they not marriage worthy to those men?

Why do they think that they are now marriage worthy to their age mates and younger men after they've been dumped by their spec and taste? Or are they big, matured and rich men not seeing them worthy as a wife?

My Advice To These Set of Ladies:

Please leave the younger men alone and focus on your spec of men for marriage - I'm talking about those men that are 10 - 20+ years older than you.

I don't see anything wrong for you to become a second wife to the man of your spec or taste.

You can't eat your cake and still have it back

The 27 year-old boy na small pikin? Let him cater to his unborn child if he won't marry the lady. Nobody manipulated anybody. These men should rest.
Tell them to remain chaste, mba.
Tell them to own up, care for and marry whosoever they impregnate, mba.
Una no dey manupulate women with "Get pregnant for me and I'll marry you," or "Build with me...,"?

We'll be all right las las. A gbalusia ngene, ekulu ñuo (After messing up the river, we'll drink from it). We'll reap what we sow.

pocohantas:
Nobody well into their 20s or early 30s is manipulated. Most times they are just financially lazy and looking for a way out. The ladies also want their kids with one man who can pass as a "husband". In some cases, they genuinely love themselves. But none is entirely a victim.

In a naija full of red pill niggaz, where men are the prize how can evening newspapers be manipulating high value alpha males who are knee deep in wiling and desperate females?

ExudeLoveToAll:
He should look the other way, them no dey use emotions with women. Women don't give a damn about men when it comes to taking decisions on relationships.

Any man who uses emotion to chose a partner in today's world is digging is own grave.

GloriousGbola:
In a naija full of red pill niggaz, where men are the prize how can evening newspapers be manipulating high value alpha males who are knee deep in wiling and desperate females?

Lol. It never happened. Manipulation talk should end at 25/26. At 27yrs, 3yrs away from 30, you cannot be claiming to be "manipulated". If he were a 23yrs old guy, I will understand. If the woman sells agbo jedijedi at Ayobo, he won't allow her manipulate him.

Bendeco02:
Enter dating groups they full there looking for any man availabe. They don't have spec again

One thing women fails to understand is that primary aim of guys/men in relationship or dating is just SEX.

When they are ready to settle down, that's when they realise that to see husband is hard.

They think because they have toto and boobs they can get anything they want even the ugly ones among them.

You will see average or ugly looking girl narrating her spec in a man, she need 100% quality man while she is below 50% rating . Men with those quality they seek can't settle for less as well.

Politician or rich man son that is handsome can't marry from poor, he can just be nacking them and when it's time to settle down he goes for his level/class.

Some of the older men they date have wife or serious partner somewhere and some without wife sees them as runs girl and can't marry them in future.

What a lot of 'em fail to understand is that men will always chase ladies even in their 50s but the motive will be different. If a single lady in her late 40s have attractive body and dresses sharp, men in 30s will still chase her but the motive will be different.

Ladies usually think that the way men flock to them in their 20s will always be the same for the rest of their life. It's worst in our current generation cos we no send you

Another thing with dating them is that from day 3 of the relationship, they will be trying everything to get pregnant for you, while tormenting you with talks and hints of marriage.



One truth, however, is that not all of them lived badly. Life happens. After all, no particular age group is perfect. Some are great people, and some are extremely terrible.

I caught my ex then taking fertility pills one month into the relationship, then later observed a pattern of giving me the best sex the day before, ovulation, on ovulation day, and the day after ovulation.

All hell broke loose when her ex of many years, whom she dumped, got married.

She became a different person, full of anger and bitterness. All her good manners disappeared.

ediko5:
There's an increasing trend among Nigerian ladies of 35+ years manipulating younger men into marriage with them.

A friend of mine recently told me how a lady of 38 yrs got pregnant for his younger brother who's 27 yrs and tried to manipulate the far younger boy to marry her.

What baffles me when it comes to our ladies is how they think and believe the game will always be simple and thus will always favour 'em.

It baffles me how a lady in her early, mid and sometimes late 20s will roll with men who are older than her by 10 - 20 years while calling her male age mates and 5 years older men small boys but when she gets to 33 she'll expect those same small and br00ke boys to expressly propose marriage to her.

At 33 they start getting infuriated whenever they see their male agemate get married to ladies in their mid or late 20s claiming they're marrying small girls they can control.

My question is:

What happened to those matured men they dated in their 20s and what happened to the claim that they can't date small boys but can only date men that are 10+ years older than them ?

Are they not marriage worthy to those men?

Why do they think that they are now marriage worthy to their age mates and younger men after they've been dumped by their spec and taste? Or are they big, matured and rich men not seeing them worthy as a wife?

My Advice To These Set of Ladies:

Please leave the younger men alone and focus on your spec of men for marriage - I'm talking about those men that are 10 - 20+ years older than you.

I don't see anything wrong for you to become a second wife to the man of your spec or taste.

You can't eat your cake and still have it back

The truth is there is a natural reverse that happens with time. Girls have the edge over boys when younger. But as boys come into their own with time, they tend to take their place as the PRIME ASSETS of society and the lead attractions for women of ALL ages.

henrycloud:
Another thing with dating them is that from day 3 of the relationship, they will be trying everything to get pregnant for you,

A younger guy dating an older lady is not a relationship. That is a situationship.

ediko5:
What a lot of 'em fail to understand is that men will always chase ladies even in their 50s but the motive will be different. If a single lady in her late 40s have attractive body and dresses sharp, men in 30s will still chase her but the motive will be different.

Ladies usually think that the way men flock to them in their 20s will always be the same for the rest of their life. It's worst in our current generation cos we no send you

So true. The saddest thing is women get a sense of entitlement which makes them presumptuous and rude from the attention they get in their youth. Mind you, that attention starts very early even from childhood (from pedoephiles). This twists the mentality of most women. By the time they reach their mid thirties they are not able to cope with the realities of adult competition and often find that they are the ones who have to chase even men they considered "small boys."

destinychildolu:
Don't conclude yet. You can try to get her pregnant first. If it works, then marry her. She has realised her mistake

Any SARS officer here please?
Arrest this guy and lock him up for at least a month 😂😂😂

OboOlora:
It's been happening for long, the margin is just closing now and are more desperate and settling for hungry younger guys.
Even Toke's sperm donor is allegedly a younger mixed race guy from a rich home.
He's 5yrs younger!

No, they're not mostly hungry but naive.
Most of these boys don't really know anything about the manipulative powers of women. Some of these boys haven't gotten any real life experience about relationship with a mature mind except jumping around with girls from 17 - 23.

Bigcowhorn:
All those people you see they poor acid or pay cultists to kill this is how it starts


When you affect somebody's life you dey mind bending way such that the person cries every day and every night payback must come

And when that pay back comes the person dishing it out to you will not care whether he or she lands in prison


Good luck!

Nansense! It's her own revenge she's getting.

softy:
She is like a live cobra or mamba snake cut in the middle.......................you wanna learn in a hard way

at bolded, for your future peace sake, for your unborn children sake, for the spiritual peace of your future wife, for continuous prosperity coming your way in the near future: LET THIS LADY CARRY HER WAHALA GO! DONT have anything to do with her, her spirit, her body, her existence. SHE is going to be the CLOG in your wheel. It is going to be disastrous at the end. Fleeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Wise advice.
Jman06 please take this advice o.
Even if you're over tempted just collect one mouth and flee or if you've collected please flee. And also don't invite her to your house. These kind of women are really damaged emotionally and mentally, so don't bring her close to you and allow her pour her frustration on you

Dogalmighty17:
A younger guy dating an older lady is not a relationship. That is a situationship.

No be small thing o! My brother!

But I have noticed that I am mostly attracted to them anyway, mostly the brown skinned ones. I can't even explain it. Maybe because 99% of the young ladies living in my residential area are into hookups and full scale prostitution. It's a university area with a few couples.

Basicend:
Most enter such traps tru sex.

The guy wanted to just chop and go, but the lady was smarter. Hence, it becomes difficult to escape.

They deserve each other.

Do you really think a boy of 27 years living with his parent will really have the guts to approach his 38 aunty for knack without the green light from the lady?

Dogalmighty17:
You were proposing love after you finished secondary school? That was not love you were proposing sir. You were proposing foolishness.

You're the one displaying foolishness here because a secondary school graduate is old enough to have a girlfriend. You think it's now that children finish sec school at 14? I was an adult when I finished sec school and I started working immediately.

softy:
She is like a live cobra or mamba snake cut in the middle.......................you wanna learn in a hard way

at bolded, for your future peace sake, for your unborn children sake, for the spiritual peace of your future wife, for continuous prosperity coming your way in the near future: LET THIS LADY CARRY HER WAHALA GO! DONT have anything to do with her, her spirit, her body, her existence. SHE is going to be the CLOG in your wheel. It is going to be disastrous at the end. Fleeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Nansense talk. Reverse the gender of the girl and myself, I'm sure you will even hail her. Y'all find your voices and condemn the man when he's the one dumping a lady. I don't bloody care all what you typed over there. If karma really exists, then I'm her own karma.

ediko5:
There's an increasing trend among Nigerian ladies of 35+ years manipulating younger men into marriage with them.

A friend of mine recently told me how a lady of 38 yrs got pregnant for his younger brother who's 27 yrs and tried to manipulate the far younger boy to marry her.

What baffles me when it comes to our ladies is how they think and believe the game will always be simple and thus will always favour 'em.

It baffles me how a lady in her early, mid and sometimes late 20s will roll with men who are older than her by 10 - 20 years while calling her male age mates and 5 years older men small boys but when she gets to 33 she'll expect those same small and br00ke boys to expressly propose marriage to her.

At 33 they start getting infuriated whenever they see their male agemate get married to ladies in their mid or late 20s claiming they're marrying small girls they can control.

My question is:

What happened to those matured men they dated in their 20s and what happened to the claim that they can't date small boys but can only date men that are 10+ years older than them ?

Are they not marriage worthy to those men?

Why do they think that they are now marriage worthy to their age mates and younger men after they've been dumped by their spec and taste? Or are they big, matured and rich men not seeing them worthy as a wife?

My Advice To These Set of Ladies:

Please leave the younger men alone and focus on your spec of men for marriage - I'm talking about those men that are 10 - 20+ years older than you.

I don't see anything wrong for you to become a second wife to the man of your spec or taste.

You can't eat your cake and still have it back

It just happened to ONLY one person you claim to know

And now, all of a sudden, it is a trend?

That's absolute bollocks

Truth is, most guys will never go for a woman that is older than them, manipulation or not

pocohantas:
Nobody well into their 20s or early 30s is manipulated. Most times they are just financially lazy and looking for a way out. The ladies also want their kids with one man who can pass as a "husband". In some cases, they genuinely love themselves. But none is entirely a victim.

You're gynocentric here.

Do you know that most men at 27 haven't gotten a real life experience about relationship except the ones they sneak in and out to do at their backyard ?

The boy in question here is from a well to do family and even has his personal car from his parent. Do you think that boy at 27 still living with his parent will approach a lady 11 years older without a very bright green light from the lady?

Anyway, it's still funny that after rolling with the matured and big boys, ladies finally want to settle for very SMALL BOYS

ediko5:
You're gynocentric here.

Do you know that most men at 27 haven't gotten a real life experience about relationship except the ones they sneak in and out to do at their backyard ?

The boy in question here is from a well to do family and even has his personal car from his parent. Do you think that boy at 27 still living with his parent will approach a lady 11 years older without a very bright green light from the lady?

Anyway, it's still funny that after rolling with the matured and big boys, ladies finally want to settle for very SMALL BOYS

No one at 27 was manipulated.

She wasn't the only one that gave him green light. I am sure even the ones of 20yrs gave him green light. So he went for the green light he wanted. If a 38yrs old stressed and unbaddied agbo seller gave him greenlight, you wouldn't be here having to defend him because he would never have responded.