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Father4all:
✓ what you you mean by second fiddle? So, if your sister is unmarried at 40 you will be happy

Why must your sister's happiness depend on whether she is married at 40 or not, though? 🥱🥱

KingDashx:
yeah pretty much Buts it's disgusting as hell...

This is the height of immaturity right here.

Kobojunkie:
See this one? 😩😩😩

So water spirits means what? That your ancestors had their left and right figured out? 🥱🥱🥱

Wetin carry water spirits enter our discussion?

Nok was an ancient civilisation with its sophistications around the time Isaiah 4 v 1 was written.

So your own ancestors didn’t know their right from left that time abi?

OkCornel:
✓ Wetin carry water spirits enter our discussion?Nok was an ancient civilisation with its sophistications around the time Isaiah 4 v 1 was written. So your own ancestors didn’t know their right from left that time abi?

Again, Isaiah 4v 1 was spoken in reference to events to take place during and after desolation of Israel by the Assyrian army almost 2700 years ago. Your ancestors had no connection to the passage then. Neither do you know your left from their right to claim such a connection exists even today. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Why should ladies play heed to what you have to say, though? Who are you and why should they care what you had to say? 🥱🥱🥱🥱

I never said they have to subscribe to my opinion man. Party concerned you should make their choices as long as they have a personal conviction about their choice, I'm good. Freewill man.

Kobojunkie:
Again, Isaiah 4v 1 was spoken in reference to events to take place during and after desolation of Israel by the Assyrian army almost 2700 years ago. Your ancestors had no connection to the passage then. Neither do you know your left from their right to claim such a connection exists even today. 🥱🥱🥱

Ok so it’s no longer a case of my ancestors not knowing their right from left as at 720BC now that the Nok civilisation has cleared your doubts in that regard? 🤷

OkCornel:
✓Ok so it’s no longer a case of my ancestors not knowing their right from left as at 720BC now that the Nok civilisation has cleared your doubts in that regard? 🤷

Nok Civilization? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Abegi,make I waka pass this nonsense this morning o'jare! 🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
Nok Civilization? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Abegi,make I waka pass this nonsense this morning o'jare! 🤣🤣🤣

Nonsense you say?

Quite interesting.

I guess it must only be middle eastern or European before it makes sense you.

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing logical about that suggestion of yours. A woman is a woman from the moment she is born until the moment she ends up in her grave. Neither her not having a man nor having a child changes any of that.

2. Menopause is actually a blessing to women as it marks the end of the period of her life when she has to worry about becoming pregnant. Menopause for a woman means she no longer needs to worry about getting pregnant by any man she has sex with.

Philosophically, you are correct, but logically, any woman that desires a baby must not be denied that gift due to paucity of husbands. She can can allow a "good" man to impregnate her and if he's responsible enough, a plus for her, as he would be there for the child and her. That's my premise.

jchioma:
➜Philosophically, you are correct, but logically, any woman that desires a baby must not be denied that gift due to paucity of husbands.
➜She can can allow a "good" man to impregnate her and if he's responsible enough, a plus for her, as he would be there for the child and her. That's my premise.

What I said is pretty much logical and has nothing to do with desires at all.

That said, a woman who desires a child can have it so long as she submits to the terms attached. Children are, after all, produced by the union of male sperm and egg still. Even when the woman is impregnated by a man, the man has the legal right by natural law to claim shared custody of said child. Desiring a child may, in some cases, result in having only shared custody of said child, so long as the sperm used was not donated.

pocohantas:
Create a thread and tell us.
At this point I am invested. 😀😀😀

Lmao 🤣

My sister, even me sef be 45 year old single mother of 5 kids who was nacked to stupor in Ondo state 😂😂

Ishilove:
Lmao 🤣

My sister, even me sef be 45 year old single mother of 5 kids who was nacked to stupor in Ondo state 😂😂

They don't get tired, Ishi. They will keep misfiring but once they get the tiniest clue, they act like they know you more than your family. I wonder what fuels this kind bitterness in them.

pocohantas:
They don't get tired, Ishi. They will keep misfiring but once they get the tiniest clue, they act like they know you more than your family. I wonder what fuels this kind bitterness in them.

It's not hard to guess: misery. They are projecting the unhappiness in their lives. Will someone who is in a good place mentally, emotionally and financially be so vested in writing lies about a total stranger on the Internet? Doesn't it speak of deeper troubles that are hidden from sight?

Ishilove:
It's not hard to guess: misery. They are projecting the unhappiness in their lives. Will someone who is in a good place mentally, emotionally and financially be so vested in writing lies about a total stranger on the Internet? Doesn't it speak of deeper troubles that are hidden from sight.

It is mind-boggling, Ishi.
The lies especially. I have to agree with you. You cannot tell me this is cruise.

Hmmmmmm...But it's also my child.

Ishilove:
Lmao 🤣

My sister, even me sef be 45 year old single mother of 5 kids who was nacked to stupor in Ondo state 😂😂

NAck to stupor,.. nackin pass nackin,...

pocohantas:
It is mind-boggling, Ishi.
The lies especially. I have to agree with you. You cannot tell me this is cruise.

Cruise is not bitter, toxic and damaging. This is not cruise, it is projected self loathing

pocohantas:
They don't get tired, Ishi. They will keep misfiring but once they get the tiniest clue, they act like they know you more than your family. I wonder what fuels this kind bitterness in them.

Sometimes drop a tidbit of information here and there (whether true or not) and watch them act like investigators Sherlock Holmes 🤣🤣

Sicklebear28:
Bitterness is written all over you. We know your type. I will train my daughter never to follow all these feminists who have nothing to offer but being narcissist, opportunist, self aggrandisement and entitlement mentality

Do you Nairaland guys know there are other words in the dictionary besides “bitter”?

cococandy:
Sometimes drop a tidbit of information here and there (whether true or not) and watch them act like investors Sherlock Holmes 🤣🤣

Hahaha. I do that a lot already.
Then they use it to insult me. 😂😂😂

Kobojunkie:
Your story no add up at all?

The woman said she wanted the baby, not the man. He was meant to be a sperm donor and nothing more. Yet he wanted to be part of the baby's life, why? Seems her mistake was not using a sperm bank instead.

2. Trust women with what? From your story, it seems she tried to use the man as a workaround for visiting a sperm bank, and it backfired. What does trust have to do with it?

The story long, but I think she became pressured because of her status to have a husband, of which the guy refused saying marriage what not in the agreement hence the transfer and awinchi & subsequent denial of paternal custody. Also every child deserves both parents either through marriage, common law or co-parenting. It gives thr child a balance of ideas to face life.

43Ronin:
➜The story long, but I think she became pressured because of her status to have a husband, of which the guy refused saying marriage what not in the agreement hence the transfer and awinchi & subsequent denial of paternal custody. Also every child deserves both parents either through marriage, common law or co-parenting. It gives thr child a balance of ideas to face life.

Every child deserves emotionally intelligent caregivers, not just blood parents(womb or sperm-donor), abeg! Here's hoping the child will get the best of the two and not their bitterness.