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Fiscus105:
Some guys usually attack ladies, that, they like bad guys, some even labelled lady at 35 that yet to married,as too choosy, While some would lament, they chat girls and not replying for days

Guys, if you are the one in which your DEMAND OUTNUMBERED SUPPLY, what will you do?

1.SELL FOR ALL.
2.SELL RANDOMLY.
3. BE TOO SELECTIVE WHO TO SELL FOR.
4. SELL FOR THE BADDEST".
5. SELL FOR THE WEAKEST.
6. GO FOR THE RICHEST.

What is difficult there to sell for just one person that truly fit the description of your kind of person, not necessarily the money?

A lady who chooses to completely avoid Toasters and Womanizers, may end up completely avoiding potential Husbands. One is found inside the other.

Gerrard59:
The very reason this "alpha male" rhetoric doesn't faze me. Men would always want the companionship of women and are willing to spend any amount to get it. The biology of men won't allow us to stay single and without sex.

I know right!

Ndi alfa meil preachers in da mud.

Maybe this will motivate me to open TikTok account finally and start my vlog, "A day in the life of Folake".

Majesty33:
Can we talk in private? I mean WhatsApp and if that won't be possible then I have this piece of advice for u. Try and cut off every guy that is not a family member and from calling you and even if they approach u on the way, ignore . Only call entertained from your boss should be strictly work related. And mind you, no cheating ooooh. I want to check something.

I'm sorry, I don't want to talk to you outside Nairaland.

Looool and who told you I entertain catcalls from men who approach me on the way? I don't even answer those ones. Matter of fact, an ex-lover had told me that if we had both met on the street, I wouldn't have given him audience which is 10000% true.

My male friends who know me very well do not call me past 9/10pm except it's an emergency, and that rarely happens too.

It's like you don't get it. The people I'm even talking about are men that I have to deal with strictly because work brought us together but now they're deviating and losing focus.

Gerrard59:
Lol

Isn't that what she is doing, except work related men whom she has to respond to their calls/messages?

I just tire.😂😂😂

Tenrack:
😭😭🤣 Guy relax. She fit no be your spec. You're getting carried away by what she said about herself. Lmao.

@ the bolded. I know right.

E just wan jump and add to list of men I ignore daily, not knowing whether I be frog or princess.

ukaface:
How many ‘ ugly’ girls have you toasted before?
Yall go just Dey talk Wetin no Dey true

Swirry, I don't discriminate neither do I look at my potential chicks faces... Just get back and front, your face doesn't matter.....


So yes, I've dated my own share of ugly girs, sometimes to pepper the fine girls wey think say na only them they suppose toast.


Satisfied now....

Fiscus105:
Some guys usually attack ladies, that, they like bad guys, some even labelled lady at 35 that yet to married,as too choosy, While some would lament, they chat girls and not replying for days

Guys, if you are the one in which your DEMAND OUTNUMBERED SUPPLY, what will you do?

1.SELL FOR ALL.
2.SELL RANDOMLY.
3. BE TOO SELECTIVE WHO TO SELL FOR.
4. SELL FOR THE BADDEST".
5. SELL FOR THE WEAKEST.
6. GO FOR THE RICHEST.

Supply of men is much at some point so the price of men is low at that point. However, she should know that the supply will reduce with time. A good business woman will select the best man at that point cheaply. However, if you buy bad market out of your choice you don't blame every other product because, by then the price of others must have gone high and you may not afford them.

Mistakes girls make is sometimes they want to choose from what is been offered to them and the one that glitters most.

Onitsha main market knows how to spray Belgium engine to look like new one. If you don't do your own due diligence, you may end up with bad market.

achimendy:
Exactly 💯....... most women go through a lot because they choose to go through a lot, and because of their big eye for material things from different men. Always making decisions haphazardly because they hardly think before making decisions, and when it fails they look for someone to blame.

Dude imagine you're walking through a chocolate factory, you're free to taste any and everyone without anybody stopping you. You might wanna search for the best chocolate but greed no go allow you see road, you go wan taste taste up and down, next moment your belly wan burst and you never see the right chocolate wey you fancy, not because others weren't sweet but because your choice is almost bottomless (until your belly wan blow).


I'm sure you know this story ain't about chocolates😁😁😁

folake4u:
@ the bolded. Says who??!!

Please speak for the women you know.

I have short attention span but since the beginning of this year, it has been worse and my WhatsApp DMs are a mess, I respond to some and ignore some. My head FULL.

I have had men start chasing me since I was in primary/secondary school, my body matured quite early which didn't help matters and till date, I am still not used to Men's attention. It DRAINS ME infact. It is tiring.

Due to the number of irrelevant messages I receive from your gender, I don't pick calls from random men once it passes 9/10pm. The exception is close family, friends, gist buddies or the LOML.

Only today, I've received numerous chats from men folks but let me show you just two examples.

The first picture: He's a professional senior colleague, an opposing counsel whom I came in contact with while representing my client. I've only met him once at the police station in course of discharging my services but since then, he has decided to be a nuisancé in my DM. Yesterday, he said he wanted to hang out on a weekend and I'm like "I can only spare 4hrs of my time" and he's saying it's small? And goes ahead to say gibberish. I simply ignored him, he texted me this morning and I didn't respond.
PS: I've warned him severally that I'm not interested but he's a phóôl. I can't even block him because I still need to work with him.

The last picture is an Alhaji in ______ Group of Companies. I came in contact with him through work. I wonder how he attained to the height of his career with his bad written English. This one sef I can't block him because I work with him. But yet he acts unprofessional.


So yeah. Not every woman desires male attention from unwanted men.

Ukaface come and see what I'm trying to say ABI.....


And who I quoted might be your average looking chick....

folake4u:
@ the bolded. I know right.

E just wan jump and add to list of men I ignore daily, not knowing whether I be frog or princess.

ROTFL. E ear stand as him hear you say you started developing early.

Tenrack:
ROTFL. E ear stand as him hear you say you started developing early.

Lol nor mind am. E wan add to my problem.

Whoever came up with this bullock deserves to go for mental evaluation.

Like, in what world will this be classified as a problem? You have a long list of suitors to choose from, yet, you chose wrongly?

Perhaps, you've made your choice but you still get harrassed daily by randy men. Again, you can't deal with that?

Women as far as I can tell have always had it good in life. In their childhood, their father is their provider & protector. In their adulthood, their partner is their provider & protector. In their old age, that responsibility falls to their children and grand children. Abeg, who has been protecting & providing for men?

Aside the loads of responsibilities that we shoulder, we're expected to not even falter or show weakness for a day. We provide for everyone but ourselves. We protect everyone and try to be there for everyone. Yet, if we try to show the human side of us, "Be a man!" they say to us.

Fiscus105:
I doubt if you understand the picture above.

Airpus o God.
O God airpus.
God airpus o.

Tenrack:
😭😭🤣 Guy relax. She fit no be your spec. You're getting carried away by what she said about herself. Lmao.

omo i am not interested in her at all. omo me i be ladies man ooooooh. I sweep most women up their feet. Check my profile and see for yourself . i am very tall ooh. Too many of them in my dm playing around

folake4u:
I'm sorry, I don't want to talk to you outside Nairaland.

Looool and who told you I entertain catcalls from men who approach me on the way? I don't even answer those ones. Matter of fact, an ex-lover had told me that if we had both met on the street, I wouldn't have given him audience which is 10000% true.

My male friends who know me very well do not call me past 9/10pm except it's an emergency, and that rarely happens too.

It's like you don't get it. The people I'm even talking about are men that I have to deal with strictly because work brought us together but now they're deviating and losing focus.

The biitter truth is that u are enjoying the attention u get from these men and thats y u brag with it. The day the attention stops, u begin to feel bad. Kiss the truth and stop forming macho here.

Majesty33:
The biitter truth is that u are enjoying the attention u get from these men and thats y u brag with it. The day the attention stops, u begin to feel bad. Kiss the truth and stop forming macho here.

Bragging? Is the attention giving me money? Am I using it to fly first class Ibom Air?

Forming macho ontop unwanted attention? Taaah! Talk better thing jare. You can do better than that.

Majesty33:
omo i am not interested in her at all. omo me i be ladies man ooooooh. I sweep most women up their feet. Check my profile and see for yourself . i am very tall ooh. Too many of them in my dm playing around

Show us screenshot of the women in your DMs playing around, leave Cho cho cho.

Simple.
Relationships have higher tolls than business.
They're two different phenomenon.

Fiscus105:
Some guys usually attack ladies, that, they like bad guys, some even labelled lady at 35 that yet to married,as too choosy, While some would lament, they chat girls and not replying for days

Guys, if you are the one in which your DEMAND OUTNUMBERED SUPPLY, what will you do?

1.SELL FOR ALL.
2.SELL RANDOMLY.
3. BE TOO SELECTIVE WHO TO SELL FOR.
4. SELL FOR THE BADDEST".
5. SELL FOR THE WEAKEST.
6. GO FOR THE RICHEST.

How can u conclude that a lady wit at least two options is going Tru alot and if another person counter ur tot u get rude with the person. How can u compare an average lady wit options wit zero income to a guy of the same specs! Ur thought alone is very flawed and unreasonable.

Majesty33:
omo i am not interested in her at all. omo me i be ladies man ooooooh. I sweep most women up their feet. Check my profile and see for yourself . i am very tall ooh. Too many of them in my dm playing around

where you mount? Pass me one nau. :Dbros...don't be greedy

blackknight:
Gbam! Couldn't have said it any better. Wish I could like this a million times. I laugh when I hear people say girls are 'going through a lot'

Hypocrisy will not finish you people in this country.

Jeezuzpick:
Do girls have an idea whet guys go through, either?

Every coin has two sides, please. No highroading is allowed.

A pretty "Sistah" in our fellowship rejected a long queue of "Brothas" (including yours truly). We all went out ways, got married, kids now quite grown.

She's still single, well into her forties.

For the life of me, I don't understand what she was doing. Well.......I still kinda hope she finds someone even now. It's not too late.

If you were in her shoes you will obviously do the same thing she did, so stop blaming her it is not easy for her. If guys get the kind of attention girls are getting especially in this shithole country where men are raving mad for sex then trust me it is either you would sleep with all the men or make wrong choice or reject all the choice is yours. and it may even shock you that this same lady in question which all of your fellowship member refusing to marry might be far more better and virtous than the ones the fellowshipmen later got married to. Men are naturally hypocrites we do not practice what we preach. and also I have seen men in a church where sex before marriage is forbidden and these men go outside to get girls who the had sex with on a regular and later got married to them, but the ladies who stayed put and keep up with the church doctrine some are over 40 now without husbands because they refuse to have sex before marriage.

fxexperts:
Hypocrisy will not finish you people in this country.

If you were in her shoes you will obviously do the same thing she did, so stop blaming her it is not easy for her. If guys get the kind of attention girls are getting especially in this shithole country where men are raving mad for sex then trust me it is either you would sleep with all the men or make wrong choice or reject all the choice is yours. and it may even shock you that this same lady in question which all of your fellowship member refusing to marry might be far more better and virtous than the ones the fellowshipmen later got married to. Men are naturally hypocrites we do not practice what we preach. and also I have seen men in a church where sex before marriage is forbidden and these men go outside to get girls who the had sex with on a regular and later got married to them, but the ladies who stayed put and keep up with the church doctrine some are over 40 now without husbands because they refuse to have sex before marriage.

I never had sex before marriage.

I have not lain with any woman apart from my wife.

Maybe you think we're talking about girls being hollered at for casual sex, well.......I'm talking about marriage, so, we're not on the same page.

Nonexisting1:
No matter how confused, her eyes will clear by the time she clocks 35 and single. They are mostly confused because of greed, nothing more. They know the right man to fall for but greed for money won't let them. Don't pity them abeg

Always talking anyhow that is what most men do. How are you sure you know the right one to marry. so many women committing paterity fraud today, were they not the so called women those men picked for marriage after passing all their screening test and the felts those women are the best thing that has ever happened after slice bread. and they were the angels on earth. so how are you sure those girls know the right man to fall for as if you are in her shoes you will know the right one to choose. let me tell you a lot of men currently are marrying olosho as wives nothing more, because they felt they cannot handle rejection from any girl in the days of our father before any woman agrees to be with any man he must have toasted her like five times in which she must have rejected his advances at least 3 to five times but today as soon as a lady say the first no we have moved on to the next one so that is the reason men are getting married to cheap oloshos now more than before.

I knew the thread would be rubbish before clicking. I was proven right. Better posts don finish for Nairaland.

Therock5555:
Dude imagine you're walking through a chocolate factory, you're free to taste any and everyone without anybody stopping you. You might wanna search for the best chocolate but greed no go allow you see road, you go wan taste taste up and down, next moment your belly wan burst and you never see the right chocolate wey you fancy, not because others weren't sweet but because your choice is almost bottomless (until your belly wan blow).


I'm sure you know this story ain't about chocolates😁😁😁

I understand the example clearly. But is foolishness and greediness that will make someone think she can taste every chocolate before getting the right one, knowing fully well the effects of each tasted chocolate to the body system.

The point is, If we are concerned about the consequences of our actions we won't be making anyhow choices or decisions.

Therock5555:
Dude imagine you're walking through a chocolate factory, you're free to taste any and everyone without anybody stopping you. You might wanna search for the best chocolate but greed no go allow you see road, you go wan taste taste up and down, next moment your belly wan burst and you never see the right chocolate wey you fancy, not because others weren't sweet but because your choice is almost bottomless (until your belly wan blow).


I'm sure you know this story ain't about chocolates😁😁😁

Knowing that the consequences of tasting all chocolates is diarrhea... I will be very careful with my choice and not taste all.

This post is not about diarrhea.

Go tell it to the 3rd Gender....

Jeezuzpick:
I never had sex before marriage.

I have not lain with any woman apart from my wife.

Maybe you think we're talking about girls being hollered at for casual sex, well.......I'm talking about marriage, so, we're not on the same page.

I am not talking about you having sex. i am talking about the burden of having to choose from multiple choices, all of you saw her as your spec, but the question you didn't ask is did she see you people as her spec, and also what happened to perseverance. Men are no longer sticking around asking the girl of their choice for a longer time than they used to before, or is it not men who said a girl who agrees to any man's advances the first time is cheap and desperate? Now she did what we are all preaching, and now we are turning around to blame her. She might end up falling for a bad guy just because the girl persevered for a long time to prove his love for her.

Unseen:
Knowing that the consequences of tasting all chocolates is diarrhea... I will be very careful with my choice and not taste all.

This post is not about diarrhea.

You're a very wise Man...

achimendy:
I understand the example clearly. But is foolishness and greediness that will make someone think she can taste every chocolate before getting the right one, knowing fully well the effects of each tasted chocolate to the body system.

The point is, If we are concerned about the consequences of our actions we won't be making anyhow choices or decisions.

Well it's called, eating your cake and having to get it back ...