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Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Mercury12(m): 6:06pm On Aug 24, 2025
Why are you lamenting about how you spend this and that on the young man? Isn't it just money you spent? All the sex style the boy had been giving you. The millions of sperm cells lost just to satisfy your nymphomaniac desires nko? Abi no be friends with benefits una do again?
Ifa tearr u backhand slap enh
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Double0h7(f): 7:59pm On Aug 24, 2025
franchasng:
She is not a simp, life can happen to anybody, just pray that life should not happen to you or thank your God if you are happily married at the right age/time as a lady, it's not always easy for ladies especially.
Do you actually hear yourself? So if I don’t have a man I will die? Being single isn’t some disease that happens to people, many women are living their best lives by de-centring men.
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by franchasng: 8:31pm On Aug 24, 2025
Double0h7:
Do you actually hear yourself? So if I don’t have a man I will die? Being single isn’t some disease that happens to people, many women are living their best lives by de-centring men.
It's alright
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by tunapawizzy: 9:22pm On Aug 25, 2025
correct guy
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by bluefilm: 9:25pm On Aug 25, 2025
I recognize tiktok skits whenever I see it
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by tunapawizzy: 9:28pm On Aug 25, 2025
Double0h7:
Do you actually hear yourself? So if I don’t have a man I will die? Being single isn’t some disease that happens to people, many women are living their best lives by de-centring men.
grin grin grin grin grin
u go dey alright las las
una go desire men, when men no find una desirable, u go come say u dey decenter man
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Tanjiro: 9:37pm On Aug 25, 2025
All this drama is really unnecessary. Take the ring from her and propose to her instead. If Una reach house you call off the engagement. Simple!
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Nobody: 9:42pm On Aug 25, 2025
bluefilm:
I recognize tiktok skits whenever I see it
Dey play, I guess you're still a boy or you've never come across old cargos.

Meanwhile Lucky Udu don't post skits. Also I've confirmed from a friend in Awka and it's real
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by callthefred: 9:43pm On Aug 25, 2025
The guy is a thief. You're dating an older woman and accepting her gifts and all and you've always known that all she would want was to get marriage as compensation. She should sue the bastard. I'm a man and won't support this lazy bum collecting money from a woman in her desperate situation only to turn back on her. If we can praise Emmanuel for suing Jennifer and getting 450k judgement. This idiot should have his day in court.
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Guestmale: 9:47pm On Aug 25, 2025
All these stupid foreign ideas,is not for Africa.
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by aribisala0(m): 9:54pm On Aug 25, 2025
Daptboy:
Once again the phrase "women age like milk" has once again been proven..

I wish I could express the joy in my heart on seeing what this guy did.. Nnam, the brovahood is proud of you..

Now, imagine how she was acting in her 20's rejecting men and telling them you're not my class, acting upclass because as they'd always say "I no fit date my age range o"

Now frustration has pushed her to attempting to marry someone she's far older than because she wants to answer "Mrs"

It was obvious that the only thing she brought to the r/ship was money and that was all she could offer, no good communication, very dangerously terrible face card, imagine having a bad day and on getting home you meet chewbacca.. Laughs

Look at Toke makinwa first off she said, ladies don't need to marry, secondly she said, if na second wife sef, do oo, guess what folks, she pregnant now, the man is nowhere to be found... What about the ladies she's been misleading over the years?

See saidaboj now, after now you go see her for man arms cuddling and smiling...

This is a message to all so called feminists, please keep being stupid in the city while pretty village girls get married every Saturday..

Happy Sunday Nairalanders..
You have good mouth
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Asher79: 9:54pm On Aug 25, 2025
Personally, this lady obviously didn't think things through before embarking on publicly humiliating herself. You knew full well that that guy wasn't into you as much as you were into him. So, why did you decide to make such a public spectacle of yourself? How on earth did you think that you could possibly lure him into loving you back by spending your money on him? As far as I'm concerned, you were simply manipulating him. Period. So, quit your emotional blackmail. Money can't buy love.








ediko5:
A lady created a scene some weeks ago at a place known as Solution city in Akwa when she publicly proposed to his 'far younger' and the young man rejected her proposal citing age difference and also the fact that it's unethical for a lady to publicly propose to a man in his culture.

According to the lady, she's been dating the boy for 7 years.

They both shared their separate side of the story to Luck Udu experience.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5K7XOCD5DFg?si=jsMyhJ6YAHE0bIH7

Me: If I talk my own now eh.........
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Guestmale: 9:55pm On Aug 25, 2025
callthefred:
The guy is a thief. You're dating an older woman and accepting her gifts and all and you've always known that all she would want was to get marriage as compensation. She should sue the bastard. I'm a man and won't support this lazy bum collecting money from a woman in her desperate situation only to turn back on her. If we can praise Emmanuel for suing Jennifer and getting 450k judgement. This idiot should have his day in court.
That's the level of moral decadents of our time but the funny thing is that, we have seen many of our young guys marrying much older white women than this woman,is it because this one is not white or not rich enough. Though I blame the woman for her method of proposal, must she do it publicly?.
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Ay04z(m): 9:58pm On Aug 25, 2025
So 40 characters don end.. grin
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by WelcomeToBiafra: 10:00pm On Aug 25, 2025
If na 70 years old white woman from Europe bruhx for accept asap...

African women should be allowed and encourage to propose to whom they love...
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Nobody:
callthefred:
The guy is a thief. You're dating an older woman and accepting her gifts and all and you've always known that all she would want was to get marriage as compensation. She should sue the bastard. I'm a man and won't support this lazy bum collecting money from a woman in her desperate situation only to turn back on her. If we can praise Emmanuel for suing Jennifer and getting 450k judgement. This idiot should have his day in court.
Sorry the court don't work that way. And the case you mentioned is a clear different case.

If you are a good listener you should've heard the lady said that if she didn't propose to the guy then she wouldn't have known that she was dating herself meaning there was no definition of the relation neither was there any agreement of or for marriage.

It's only when there was an established agreement of marriage that she can have a case. In this case she was trying to manipulate the Youngman into marriage
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by LOVEGINO(m): 10:15pm On Aug 25, 2025
ediko5:
A lady created a scene some weeks ago at a place known as Solution city in Akwa when she publicly proposed to his 'far younger' and the young man rejected her proposal citing age difference and also the fact that it's unethical for a lady to publicly propose to a man in his culture.

According to the lady, she's been dating the boy for 7 years.

They both shared their separate side of the story to Luck Udu experience.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5K7XOCD5DFg?si=jsMyhJ6YAHE0bIH7

Me: If I talk my own now eh.........
na d lucky udu cook the content.
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by mokane28: 10:38pm On Aug 25, 2025
hhh
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by MartinsD12(m): 10:55pm On Aug 25, 2025
ediko5:
A lady created a scene some weeks ago at a place known as Solution city in Akwa when she publicly proposed to his 'far younger' and the young man rejected her proposal citing age difference and also the fact that it's unethical for a lady to publicly propose to a man in his culture.

According to the lady, she's been dating the boy for 7 years.

They both shared their separate side of the story to Luck Udu experience.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5K7XOCD5DFg?si=jsMyhJ6YAHE0bIH7

Me: If I talk my own now eh.........
Marriage is not for jokers , it's a thing to be agreed upon by the two parties, it's not something for fun city or surprises , it doesn't work that way , no body can force anyone into marriage if you succeed self you go later regret am na divorce go follow
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Kajaard: 10:56pm On Aug 25, 2025
tunapawizzy:
grin grin grin grin grin
u go dey alright las las
una go desire men, when men no find una desirable, u go come say u dey decenter man
No mind them cheesy
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by jaxxy(m):
Geh geh university lecturers should solve this one grin
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by hosemujica: 11:21pm On Aug 25, 2025
But two of them match now . Abeg make them marry joor.
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by DrMB: 11:32pm On Aug 25, 2025
ediko5:
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What do we do with children who have simply grown old? Too many of us carry emotional wounds into adulthood; wounds passed down from parents who also struggled, without realizing we need help. Though we age, parts of us remain stuck emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically, and when two unhealed inner children enter marriage, it becomes a collision rather than a partnership.
What we call love often masks a desperate search for rescue or validation, driving many modern divorces as people run from undiagnosed pain they don’t even recognize
.
Worse still, this cycle of unhealed trauma repeats across generations, with emotionally stunted adults raising emotionally starved children, all trapped in patterns of silence and hurt.
These dysfunctions make us to mistake trauma bonding and love bombing as affection.
We grow old believing this brokenness is normal, unaware that at our core we carry deep-rooted, undiagnosed emotional and psychological pandemic, and until someone breaks the cycle, the child within remains unseen, unhealed, and hurting, shaping how we love, parent, and live.
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Tukor32: 11:50pm On Aug 25, 2025
Content creator
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by Jman06(m):
WelcomeToBiafra:
If na 70 years old white woman from Europe bruhx for accept asap...

African women should be allowed and encourage to propose to whom they love...
Nobody is stopping African women from proposing to who they "love"! The question is; can they deal with rejection the way guys have been doing? Imagine this one crying because her proposal was rejected!

Again, can they foot the bills of their wedding and also cater for the financial needs of the family? It is not just proposing marriage but meeting the financial requirements of marriage.
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by mercyland93(m): 12:13am On Aug 26, 2025
Just a pity, Christianity has make men to stick only to one wife thereby making plenty beautiful ladies to be redundant without husband while time keep tickling.
Now, economic make it worse for men to ever think of being ready to get married.
God, why was Nigeria wired like this
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by DoctorStanley: 12:15am On Aug 26, 2025
ediko5:
What should I call you now?
A small boy or ......?
Anyway you never experience life reach this side sha. Personally I've come across 2 ladies like this
Besides the packaged interviews, this comment below is part of why u know 4 sure it is content

Therock5555:
On a good day, why should a responsible well thinking adult female try to propose to her man in public?
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by MrCaesar: 12:24am On Aug 26, 2025
The problem wasn't the proposal. It was the fact that it was public, and there was camera. But, why should a guy be accepting money from a girl he has no intentions of marrying for seven years?
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by ufotunang: 12:25am On Aug 26, 2025
DanseMacabre:
Bros just dey chop clean mouth. She no know say she dey date herself.
..she wasted a lot of years with the guy..7 years of dating.why should she date the guy for 7 years and all that years the guy did not propose to her for marriage ..she should had known the guy was not serious in settling down with her,..if the guy really wanted to marry her within the 2nd or 3rd year he would he had proposed marriage but she kept on wasting her time for 7 years with him use
Re: Man Rejects Public Marriage Proposal From His Older Girlfriend In Anambra by ufotunang: 12:27am On Aug 26, 2025
She was too desperate to marry the guy
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