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I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

I believe African men know how to take care of women, we don't split bills on outings, I wonder why this lady does not want to date African men.

Ask her then get back to us.

Seun. Seun. Seun. Seun. Seun.

Nnamdipapa:
I believe African men know how to take care of women, we don't split bills on outings, I wonder why this lady does not want to date African men.

Everyone with the choices they make...


And what they want.

I have seen and heard black men say same thing about black women.

It's personal choice and decisions.

Nothing to see here!

There are different strokes for different folks... I've also only preferred men from certain tribes compared to the others... In fact, I've never dated men from my tribe before.

I have no issues with them and Lord knows that I love and appreciate my Pedi brothers all the time, but I've only always found myself being attracted to these other tribes.

Nnamdipapa:
➜I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men?
➜Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.
➜ Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

Nonsense! She has a right to choose whom to date or not date, same as

2. Black men make these kinds of statements all of the time; they race shame/body shame/age shame black/African women any chance they get.

3. Abeg, find yourself a better job to do; stop going around trying to genderize meaningless things. 🙄🙄🙄

The girl is not interested in African men, and it is her prerogative. 🥱🥱

Nnamdipapa:
➜I believe African men know how to take care of women, we don't split bills on outings, I wonder why this lady does not want to date African men.

Yes, we know that in fact, there are 10s of millions of Nigerian women stuck in abusive relationships all across the country, with probably over 95% of them without hope of ever escaping poverty or abuse.

Why pay attention to her She's free to date any race she wants. However, many of them black ladies only dream about getting hooked with white men. In real life, they don't because most white men don't find them attractive!

There are more white women getting hooked with black men than the other way round. So, the best thing is to ignore ladies like her and allow her wallow in her fantasy world until reality hits her hard.

You can’t force people to like what they don’t like. There’s always women who are actively looking for or prefer African men. Stop making random things look like a problem.

AndrewTate:
You can’t force people to like what they don’t like. There’s always women who are actively looking for or prefer African men. Stop making random things look like a problem.

Is that not discrimination?

If you check Twitter, you will notice that african men who find themselves abroad don't even rate black women so I wonder how she came to the conclusion that African men may be after her. Maybe she was referring to African men still in African countries who only cares about green card. For our brothers who go to Facebook to seek love, try white women and leave 'I wanna gonna women' like this one alone. They are bad market.

No issue on that

White women also openly say they prefer black guys over white guys.

Howmany black girls are even hyping white men compared the way their white women hype Africans especially Nigerian guys

We must not lament over everything abeg

Last month or so a video trended on tiktok where russian girls are hyping Nigerian men, calling them sexy.

When we insult white men and call them small dick, we don't see them cry or lament. We blacks are the main racist just that we don't have the suphiscated weapons to dominate.

Even American blacks are complaining of fellow black women chosing white guys over them recently. The world rotates, everything now is not about sex. Before, black Americans mock white men now they are lamenting

Perhaps, her experience hasn't been so pleasant with African men. Best is to let her be and respect her choice.

GboyegaD:
Perhaps, her experience hasn't been so pleasant with African men. Best is to let her be and respect her choice.

Do you agree that is a form of discrimination ?

Its like advertising to rent a house and in the advertising, I insert the clause ' I will kot rent my house to blacks"

Nnamdipapa:
I believe African men know how to take care of women, we don't split bills on outings, I wonder why this lady does not want to date African men.

It hurts, right?

I mean, considering you guys are 🔥🍰🍰

Mariangeles:
It hurts, right?

I mean, considering you guys are 🔥🍰🍰

So you are happy your brothers are being discriminated against? Thats not fair.

Nnamdipapa:
Do you agree that is a form of discrimination ?

Its like advertising to rent a house and in the advertising, I insert the clause ' I will kot rent my house to blacks"

It is but her own personal preference and it is a subtle discrimination.

She lives in the US. There are few real men from Arfika in the US. Rather, it would be that she wanted to say black people, but she disguised it a little so as not to appear racist.
No normal girl wants to be a single mother.

You are mistaking preference for discrimination.

Nnamdipapa:
I believe African men know how to take care of women, we don't split bills on outings, I wonder why this lady does not want to date African men.

It's because they don't know what they want. Take them seriously at your own peril.

She said African men, not African Americans. The two are not the same.

Same way African men prefer oyibo women.
It's aura for aura. Op stop crying please

A woman want to safeguard herself from heartache and u are complaining?

Black women prefer white men no be lie. They dont want stress and drama

Op, leave her with her choice...!

There are far more African and Black men who directly and indirectly show such discrimination against their own women.

Even most of your Black sportsmen date Caucasians...! Research this!

Victor Osimhen
Victor Boniface (heard they just broke up)
Tammy Abraham

...Just to mention a few!


If person don see better shege from his or her own race, it is natural for such mindset and general animosity to develop.

Many of you guys in this forum bash ladies from your country daily, calling them shocking names... Yet, I hardly see threads created by ladies to call out discrimination like Op just did.

Ehen. Niyen iwo na

Just safeguarding interest and being the alpha.

Different strokes for different folks...... imagine, the same black men that most white ladies are dying to have as husband.....this life!!!!!!

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! She has a right to choose whom to date or not date, same as

2. Black men make these kinds of statements all of the time; they race shame/body shame/age shame black/African women any chance they get.

3. Abeg, find yourself a better job to do; stop going around trying to genderize meaningless things. 🙄🙄🙄

The girl is not interested in African men, and it is her prerogative. 🥱🥱

Her choice.

Some black African men also do regularly say they don't want to date/marry African women.

It is her choice and her loss! we do not care....we love african ladies and we will keep loving them.

Una tears go soon turn red 😂

I thought y'all said Nigerian men are the most sort after abroad, una eyes go soon peel no worry 🤣🤣🤣