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ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?
Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

Ina kike da zama a Arewa?

Run oh, he does not love you, he only use you as sex machine

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

If the partners involved are married as husband and wife, there is nothing bad in it.
If the so called partners are unmarried. Then it is a great sin against God, your body, the future person each partner will eventually marry, against the tradition and institution of marriage.
Say no to premarital and extramarital sex.

You are satisfying him sexually he will surely care about you .. Stop giving him what he wants that's sex and see him change towards you .. Unless you like sex too you can't resist him temptation.. His feelings is lust towards you NOT LOVE ..Take care

ZaraArewa:
Like his commitment level is zero, but he's someone who cares.

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

Don’t marry him! Even if you love him.

You can see that you both have different sexual energy and not sexually compatible.

With all you stated i don’t even know why you are in the relationship, but i know women; there is definitely something keeping you there

Successsearch90:
the guy's game is tight. He don deceive am far
No be today.
May God forgive all of us

my own be say make she no come dey say all men are the same. Cause dem go open their ojukokoro eyes dey fall for the wrong guys, then later dey use am punish innocent Niggas.

Harddiskng:
Don’t marry him! Even if you love him.

You can see that you both have different sexual energy and not sexually compatible.

With all you stated i don’t even know why you are in the relationship, but i know women; there is definitely something keeping you there

at the bolded, fosho. There's something keeping her in the lopsided relationship

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

Do not have sex if he's not your husband.
Stop deceiving yourself

Truejihadistont:
Do not have sex if he's not your husband.
Stop deceiving yourself

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The lady you have been having sex with is she your wife?

ZaraArewa:
Thank you for the advise. I will give it a thought

There’s nothing to think in this matter

You have heard and seen how people engage within one week of knowing each other, nothing new or odd there.

I’ve been married for 3 years plus now and all I see in marriage is love and perseverance with a little bit of playing the part of a fool.

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

The guy is just using you to pass away time and waiting for the one who he want to marry. Constantly demanding sex daily is a red flag for you

ZaraArewa:
Trust me i am his spec

Are you very very financially stable ? Don’t think breast and yansh only constitute a man's spec in 2025

Men don't really take liability girlfriends serious nowadays. They are only good for sex while on the lookout for the very very financially stable or goal getter ladies.

ZaraArewa:
Like his commitment level is zero, but he's someone who cares.

Who Dey train goat or fowl Dey caring too but at the end na kill dem Dey kill dem chop 😂

Run oh

Harddiskng:
Don’t marry him! Even if you love him.

You can see that you both have different sexual energy and not sexually compatible.

With all you stated i don’t even know why you are in the relationship, but i know women; there is definitely something keeping you there

I thought we all agreed that what's worth fighting for is worth dying for?

Humbleself1976:
You are satisfying him sexually he will surely care about you .. Stop giving him what he wants that's sex and see him change towards you .. Unless you like sex too you can't resist him temptation.. His feelings is lust towards you NOT LOVE ..Take care

Ok sir. Thanks

ZaraArewa:
Thank you for the advise. I will give it a thought

What thought again ma ?that is the best advice run ,the man don't want you to know his family but like sex he may end up to marry another woman

ambimo:
Ina kike da zama a Arewa?

Asokoro, Abuja

theredaddy:
lolzz, its possible to love sex that much, But to have sex everyday, aunty speaking for Men thats a NO,. even God Rested

if you see he is not making ideal commitment simply make your stand known .... creat that impression he is losing you already

I

see as I dey look her. She just dey baffle me more and more as I dey read her comments. No matter how guy like sex reach, everyday? Haba. Him no get work?

You were not informed?

ibawon:
ZaraArewa. You want something serious he doesn't. Refuse him sex and watch his true intentions and colour manifest.

He will go days without talking to me

MarketDispatch:
See Pot calling Kettle black.

Nairalanders are telling you the truth that you are not his spec for commitment, but his spec for sexual fulfillment.

If you want to confirm, Let him speak to his mum on phone in front of you and tell his Mum ZaraArewa will like to greet you on phone.

A man can still let you talk to his family on the phone still not get to wife or love you

theredaddy:
lolzz, its possible to love sex that much, But to have sex everyday, aunty speaking for Men thats a NO,. even God Rested

if you see he is not making ideal commitment simply make your stand known .... creat that impression he is losing you already

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Thank you sir.

ZaraArewa:
Trust me i am his spec

them no dey advise who dey in love.(Your his spec and he isn't committed)dey play

Bukola94:
He buys you gifts and shower you with money . Cares kwenu

I don't even need his money neither his gifts. My parents can provide what ever i need

Bukola94:
You are so hot and sexy that's why, maybe you are very neat too. Start been dirty and don't dress nicely again, he will leave you alone

Smiles
You do you know?
You just described me

Dating for 1year and he has been using you to help himself. My friend can you just get sense

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

If you're not enjoying his money,you would haven't stayed with him up till now

ZaraArewa:
I thought we all agreed that what's worth fighting for is worth dying for?

Lool this one is just a weyrey troll

alphabbey1:
Are you very very financially stable ? Don’t think breast and yansh only constitute a man's spec in 2025

Men don't really take liability girlfriends serious nowadays. They are only good for sex while on the lookout for the very very financially stable or goal getter ladies.

I am financially stable compared to a grade level 9-10 civil servant, all thanks to my parents

maureensylvia:
Very abnormal

Sex should be twice or thrice at most in a week

Three times is even much!

This is for married people

Single people just like you and your partner is no sex, kissing only...at worst, smooching

Maureen
Maureen
How many times did I call you

Don't use your own standard to guage other people's sex drive. I love having sex everyday, but it has to be with someone I'm married to. Or in a relationship that is guaranteed to end up in marriage. How do I mean guaranteed? Engaged... Families know about us... Date is set...

Don't look at me with that side mirror.. that's my sexual appetite 😎😎😎