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Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by ednut1(op): 5:10pm On Aug 27, 2025
After calling women evening newspaper and old card. Men are now reducing their ages on dating apps and when they meet women for potential dates. grin

https://x.com/jon_d_doe/status/1960675199050744150?s=46

Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Gerrard59(m): 5:37pm On Aug 27, 2025
The age shaming go reach everybody. grin grin

Na true you talk that time. Marry early and born max two children, else 40 years go quick reach. I think the men who do so are those who aren't (yet) financially stable.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Esthered: 5:49pm On Aug 27, 2025
The highly desired gender lower their age for who.... grin
Abi Agba wants an engagement on X
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Kobicove(m): 6:16pm On Aug 27, 2025
Why would a guy be lying about his age?

Men get better with age so I don't want to believe this story grin
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by tensazangetsu20(m): 6:22pm On Aug 27, 2025
Kobicove:
Why would a guy be lying about his age?

Men get better with age so I don't want to believe this story grin
This is a lie. Men only get better with age if they have money. If you are turning old as a man and you are poor its a tragedy.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by kiddaz: 6:45pm On Aug 27, 2025
tensazangetsu20:
This is a lie. Men only get better with age if they have money. If you are turning old as a man and you are poor its a tragedy.
Men get better with age when they live healthy, mentally and physically. At my age I'm not super rich but I'm okay enough to foot my bills without asking anyone and still have to spread out to some who have not around me and a lot of people guys and babes drop thier jaws when I let them know my real age. Some still don't believe until they see someone I'm older than who confirms it.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by ednut1(op): 7:45pm On Aug 27, 2025
Esthered:
The highly desired gender lower their age for who.... grin
Abi Agba wants an engagement on X
its happening on dating apps. My female friend showed me two examples of men in their 40s claiming 30s on dating app. Dey play
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by tensazangetsu20(m): 8:02pm On Aug 27, 2025
ednut1:
its happening on dating apps. My female friend showed me two examples of men in their 40s claiming 30s on dating app. Dey play
Contrary to popular opinion most women only want to deal with men their age they would only date older men if these men are very rich which most men aren’t.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by pocohantas(f):
ednut1:
its happening on dating apps. My female friend showed me two examples of men in their 40s claiming 30s on dating app. Dey play
GenZs are not tolerant of huge age gaps.
They are more into stylish fit men. Unlike Millenials and above that can marry a badly behaved crab.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Kobojunkie: 8:24pm On Aug 27, 2025
tensazangetsu20:
➜This is a lie. Men only get better with age if they have money. If you are turning old as a man and you are poor its a tragedy.
If they are rich, you mean? 🤣🤣🤣
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by lilyheaven: 8:46pm On Aug 27, 2025
kiddaz:
Men get better with age when they live healthy, mentally and physically. At my age I'm not super rich but I'm okay enough to foot my bills without asking anyone and still have to spread out to some who have not around me and a lot of people guys and babes drop thier jaws when I let them know my real age. Some still don't believe until they see someone I'm older than who confirms it.
You are rich 🤑
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Esthered: 8:54pm On Aug 27, 2025
ednut1:
its happening on dating apps. My female friend showed me two examples of men in their 40s claiming 30s on dating app. Dey play
shocked
Does it have to do with increasing their chances in the dating pool? I'm surprised as I grew learning that men never age in the dating scene and have the upper hand therefore set the rules most times.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by kiddaz: 8:59pm On Aug 27, 2025
lilyheaven:
You are rich 🤑
Lol rich? Hmm. I know I'm not poor and I'm physically super fit by every standard, dress and smell nice, always sharp and still very up to date mentally, intellectually and otherwise with a vast knowledge on almost everything and anything. Plus my experience with life. So yeah you can say I'm rich, but not necessarily financially.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Kobojunkie: 9:47pm On Aug 27, 2025
kiddaz:
➜Lol rich? Hmm. I know I'm not poor and I'm physically super fit by every standard, dress and smell nice, always sharp and still very up to date mentally, intellectually and otherwise with a vast knowledge on almost everything and anything. Plus my experience with life. So yeah you can say I'm rich, but not necessarily financially.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by lilyheaven: 11:24pm On Aug 27, 2025
kiddaz:
Lol rich? Hmm. I know I'm not poor and I'm physically super fit by every standard, dress and smell nice, always sharp and still very up to date mentally, intellectually and otherwise with a vast knowledge on almost everything and anything. Plus my experience with life. So yeah you can say I'm rich, but not necessarily financially.
What I’m saying is that you are a rich kid.
The level you are is just a stepping stone.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Jman06(m): 11:59pm On Aug 27, 2025
No need hiding your age as a guy. Men get better with age! They are more loving, tolerant, and more financially stable as they age. This is why smart girls marry older men who would give them the BABY GIRL treatment unlike their age mates who see them as rivals.

It is difficult for older guys to divorce their younger wives because they're more gentle and forgiving such that they easily overlook and forgive their wives' shortcomings which makes the marriage more stable.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Gerrard59(m): 12:51am On Aug 28, 2025
pocohantas:
GenZs are not tolerant of huge age gaps.
They are more into stylish fit men. Unlike Millenials and above that can marry a badly behaved crab.
This is especially true as their male contemporaries are making good money at an early age. Since women are hypergamous, isn't it better to be with someone within your age range that has money than with someone way older who has similar financial stability?

The notion that a man is the prize only works when the man has money. Younger dudes also have money. So, what does the older man bring to the table? Preek wey no fit stand without drugs? shocked
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Gerrard59(m): 12:53am On Aug 28, 2025
tensazangetsu20:
This is a lie. Men only get better with age if they have money. If you are turning old as a man and you are poor its a tragedy
"It's better to be a dead man than to be a poor man" - Tensazangetsu20, 2020

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by tanigororo: 1:06am On Aug 28, 2025
I am 40,
I am Single, and I am Financially Stable.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by tensazangetsu20(m): 1:26am On Aug 28, 2025
Gerrard59:
This is especially true as their male contemporaries are making good money at an early age. Since women are hypergamous, isn't it better to be with someone within your age range that has money than with someone way older who has similar financial stability?

The notion that a man is the prize only works when the man has money. Younger dudes also have money. So, what does the older man bring to the table? Preek wey no fit stand without drugs? shocked
Most older men aren’t even rich lol. Look at the idiots crying on my Chilean thread. I am sure none is less than 40 and they are suffering in poverty
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Bendeco02:
Any man hiding his age does that because he is yet to achieve something at that age not because of women or getting a partner.

If you're doing well for yourself, you don't have to lie or reduce your age.

Even if you are 50 years and have a house/car, women will still rush you.

The poster don't know what he is saying

Any man that hide his age does that because he is yet to achieve something equal to his age not because of women or relationship. That's the difference between men and women.

My oga at office just got married last year december at 52 years and that's his first marriage. The girl he married just finished serving in the company.

If you're doing well as a man, age can't be problem for you to get a partner. If one woman rejects you because of your age, their are hundreds of women in that same town willing to marry you.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Jman06(m): 8:33am On Aug 28, 2025
Gerrard59:
This is especially true as their male contemporaries are making good money at an early age. Since women are hypergamous, isn't it better to be with someone within your age range that has money than with someone way older who has similar financial stability?

The notion that a man is the prize only works when the man has money. Younger dudes also have money. So, what does the older man bring to the table? Preek wey no fit stand without drugs? shocked
Not every older man experiences er.ectile dysfunction! There are healthy men even in their 60s who still retain natural e.rection without using drugs. Some of you just assume that once a man reaches certain age, he ceases to achieve e.rection. That's fallacious!
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by pocohantas(f): 9:28am On Aug 28, 2025
Gerrard59:
This is especially true as their male contemporaries are making good money at an early age. Since women are hypergamous, isn't it better to be with someone within your age range that has money than with someone way older who has similar financial stability?

The notion that a man is the prize only works when the man has money. Younger dudes also have money. So, what does the older man bring to the table? Preek wey no fit stand without drugs? shocked
It is not just about making money, you have to be ready to marry. If a 26yo financially stable lady is ready to marry, is her 26yo male version ready? There is also responsibilities. I had a colleague who wanted to train his younger brothers through uni before marrying. He was already 29 at the time and the last brother was just in 100L. By the time he is done, he might be like 35.

I do not buy the concept of anyone being the prize, whether he has money or not. It stems from a superiority complex that you can do anything, put in less work and get away with it. I wouldn't be with a man who thinks he is the "prize".
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by GloriousGbola: 9:48am On Aug 28, 2025
pocohantas:
It is not just about making money, you have to be ready to marry. If a 26yo financially stable lady is ready to marry, is her 26yo male version ready? There is also responsibilities. I had a colleague who wanted to train his younger brothers through uni before marrying. He was already 29 at the time and the last brother was just in 100L. By the time he is done, he might be like 35.

I do not buy the concept of anyone being the prize, whether he has money or not. It stems from a superiority complex that you can do anything, put in less work and get away with it. I wouldn't be with a man who thinks he is the "prize".
Interestingly, this is a complaint i have read [outside of this platform] about very fine women/ overly hot chicks . that they can be so spoilt by male attention that they dont put that much into their personality. and it seems this is especially the case in the other room where they now lie like an indifferent log of wood.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Bendeco02:
pocohantas:
It is not just about making money, you have to be ready to marry. If a 26yo financially stable lady is ready to marry, is her 26yo male version ready? There is also responsibilities. I had a colleague who wanted to train his younger brothers through uni before marrying. He was already 29 at the time and the last brother was just in 100L. By the time he is done, he might be like 35.

I do not buy the concept of anyone being the prize, whether he has money or not. It stems from a superiority complex that you can do anything, put in less work and get away with it. I wouldn't be with a man who thinks he is the "prize".
Men are the prize, whether you like it or not grin

Shey you have seen dwarf men get married to normal woman. Have you seen the other way round?

Any man that is not married till old age chose not to marry, that's the fact.

Marriage matters to women more. What most men need is children and it can be achieved via baby mama things.

Women can do shakara to chose men they date but when it's time to settle down that's when they understand that men are the prize. All the men chasing same girl will all disappear.

Most men are just after sex not marriage, know that and know peace
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Gerrard59(m): 10:35am On Aug 28, 2025
Jman06:
Not every older man experiences er.ectile dysfunction! There are healthy men even in their 60s who still retain natural e.rection without using drugs. Some of you just assume that once a man reaches certain age, he ceases to achieve e.rection. That's fallacious!
On average, a healthy 60 year old man has weaker erection ability compared to a healthy 30 year old man. I'm comparing apples to apples. Averages. I'm not interested in one-off cases. The average is that: the younger, the better ceteris paribus.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by pocohantas(f): 10:41am On Aug 28, 2025
GloriousGbola:
Interestingly, this is a complaint i have read [outside of this platform] about very fine women/ overly hot chicks . that they can be so spoilt by male attention that they dont put that much into their personality. and it seems this is especially the case in the other room where they now lie like an indifferent log of wood.
It would affect her view to the overrall quality of the relationship/marriage. Not recommended at all.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by pocohantas(f): 10:43am On Aug 28, 2025
Bendeco02:
Men are the prize, whether you like it or not grin

Shey you have seen dwarf men get married to normal woman. Have you seen the other way round? Any man that don't marry chose not to marry, that's the fact. Marriage matters to women more. What most men need is children and it can be achieved via baby mama things.

Women can do shakara to chose men they date but when it's time to settle down that's when they understand that men are the prize. All the men chasing same girl will all disappear.

Most men are just after sex not marriage, know that and know peace
It is not about if I like it. It is about what I can accept or take. I understand if this is what applies to your parents marriage and yours, but it is not what I grew seeing with my parents. It is also not a view Mine conforms to _thanks to his parents marriage too. Your wife is the one that needs to like it, not me. So let's all do what we want and be happy. Thank you
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Bendeco02:
pocohantas:
It is not about if I like it. It is about what I can accept or take. I understand if this is what applies to your parents marriage and yours, but it is not what I grew seeing with my parents. It is also not a view Mine conforms to _thanks to his parents marriage too. So let's all do what we want and be happy. Thank you
My parents are happily together till date. But that doesn't change the fact.

Remove emotions from your eyes and see reality. Enter dating groups and see women looking for any man available to marry, they don't apply spec again.

Women of old generation have brain to understand life, they respect men and know the value of men unlike what we have now. Women of this generation do gra gra alot and at the end they turn to feminist with bitter mind bashing men.

No matter what you chose to believe, you don't chose or go for men instead men chose and you only accept or decline. You can't marry a handsome billionaire because that's your spec instead the billionair have to see you attractive and well mannered enough before he approach you. Am talking of marriage not dating
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by pocohantas(f): 11:00am On Aug 28, 2025
Bendeco02:
My parents are happily together till date. But that doesn't change the fact.

Remove emotions from your eyes and see reality. Enter dating group and see women looking for any man available to marry, they don't apply spec again.

Women of old generation have brain to understand life, they respect men and know the value of men unlike what we have now. Women of this generation do gra gra alot and at the end they turn to feminist with bitter mind bashing men

No matter what you chose to believe, you don't chose or go for men instead men chose and you only accept or decline. You can't marry a handsome billionaire because that's your spec instead the billionair have to see you attractive and well mannered enough before he approach you. Am talking of marriage not dating
Use this energy to convince your wife. If she were any happier than I am, trust me, you won't type this epistle to sell a concept to me.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by Bendeco02: 11:05am On Aug 28, 2025
pocohantas:
Use this energy to convince yout wife. If she were any happier than I am, trust me, you won't type this epistle to sell a concept to me.
Lol

Not married but preparing.

My babe don't do gra gra. She knows what i hate or dislike.
Re: Why Are Men Now Lying about their Age? Agba John Doe Asks by pocohantas(f): 11:12am On Aug 28, 2025
Bendeco02:
Lol

Not married but preparing.

My babe don't do gra gra. She knows what i hate or dislike.
And that is what matters. Focus on her.👋
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