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As a man, you shouldn’t date broke women. Not because you’re after her money or expect her to foot the bills, but because being broke usually reflects something deeper than just a low bank balance.

* **Poor choices**: A woman who constantly finds herself broke often makes decisions that sabotage her future—spending on wants instead of needs, chasing short-term thrills instead of long-term stability.
* **Lack of discipline**: Money reveals character. If she can’t control her impulses, delay gratification, or stick to a plan, she will likely drag you into chaos instead of progress.
* **No grasp of reality**: A broke mindset often comes with entitlement, excuses, or denial. Instead of facing the world with strategy and grit, she hides from responsibility.

And here’s the hard truth: if she can’t manage her own life, she won’t be able to add value to yours. You can’t build an empire with someone who doesn’t understand the foundation of self-mastery.

Love should uplift, not drain. Partnership should multiply, not divide.
So it’s not about demanding wealth—it’s about choosing a woman who at least has the vision, discipline, and mindset to grow with you.

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saraki2019:
As a man, you shouldn’t date broke women. Not because you’re after her money or expect her to foot the bills, but because being broke usually reflects something deeper than just a low bank balance.

* **Poor choices**: A woman who constantly finds herself broke often makes decisions that sabotage her future—spending on wants instead of needs, chasing short-term thrills instead of long-term stability.
* **Lack of discipline**: Money reveals character. If she can’t control her impulses, delay gratification, or stick to a plan, she will likely drag you into chaos instead of progress.
* **No grasp of reality**: A broke mindset often comes with entitlement, excuses, or denial. Instead of facing the world with strategy and grit, she hides from responsibility.

And here’s the hard truth: if she can’t manage her own life, she won’t be able to add value to yours. You can’t build an empire with someone who doesn’t understand the foundation of self-mastery.

Love should uplift, not drain. Partnership should multiply, not divide.
So it’s not about demanding wealth—it’s about choosing a woman who at least has the vision, discipline, and mindset to grow with you.

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This your idea doesn't make sense, all hands are not equal, those you called broke has some better parts of their lives, which you that has money doesn't have

You just wakeup this morning and consult AI to help you compose this trash for public consumption!

correctyourself:
This your idea doesn't make sense, all hands are not equal, those you called broke has some better parts of their lives, which you that has money doesn't have

You just wakeup this morning and consult AI to help you compose this trash for public consumption!

His points makes sense but the word 'broke' may not be the right word to use. The correct word should be liability and irresponsible lady because these set of ladies are the real 'broke ladies' and not the ones 'legitimately' hustling to step her life up.

Ahhh he is not talking to you directly naa he is just stating facts.

correctyourself:
This your idea doesn't make sense, all hands are not equal, those you called broke has some better parts of their lives, which you that has money doesn't have

You just wakeup this morning and consult AI to help you compose this trash for public consumption!

correctyourself:
This your idea doesn't make sense, all hands are not equal, those you called broke has some better parts of their lives, which you that has money doesn't have

You just wakeup this morning and consult AI to help you compose this trash for public consumption!

If those you are advocating for think this way then it's fine unfortunately they don't think this way. How many women that are financially stable that have ever given opportunities to the group you advocate for let's assume that group are made up of men? This is why men die quick because they tend to go where they will suffer and carry burden until they are overwhelmed leading to their death.