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You mean you j intentionally sent your balance to her to see that you had some small change in order to win her heart completely then you pretended that it’s a mistake after she has seen it, then yoh went ahead to edit it I saw what you did there.

my broda run for your dear life

occfx:
Your own don be... Pray make she no be from Edo.

You carry baby mama dey Nak for free at work place for that matter. She go just kpai you if you no play your game well

if na Edo,how their women dey do?

Do you know you are gambling with your life. First you are fucking her without the intention of marrying her. Second, now she needs a financial assistance for her business, and she has discovered you have the money, and you are not ready to extend a hand of help to her. My advice for you is to run for your life before it is too late. Leave that single mother now, or else, anything your eyes see there, bear it alone oo, don't come to nairaland for any advice oo.

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

You’re lying it’s not a mistake, you intentionally wants her to see you’re doing well so you can chop as much as possible
Now she seen it and smells you only chopping her without any plans then she activated commitment card, either money or marriage cause you’re utility

It’s a game over for you, destroy the relationship while you can with your sanity since you have no future in it

Hemanwel:
Honestly, I never promised her anything... Anyways, thanks for the advice!

Pardon me for judging you wrongly.

Hemanwel:
She can't do nada!

A woman you are lashing can definitely do much after God fear women.

You are wicked!

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

Single mother?!!


Run ooo..... And I speak as the child of one.

The matter deep.

advanceDNA:
don't ever lend money to a woman u are fvckiπg.. u will not get it back ,...

One of the things Women know how to do best is equate money and sex in their head.....even if it's a 100milion dollars ...they will just assume the money is for the sex u have been having

The SIMPle man go cry

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

This is sheer wickedness. Why will you take her this long, sex her when you know you dont have plans to marry her. Why delay her destiny. There is karma if you dont repent.

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

Is this the same girl who you were talking about below

Hemanwel:
Good day, fellow Nairaland comrades and OGs in the house!

I have this 35-year-old single mother of one who works in the same place with me that I recently started an affair with. After a while, I discovered that our perception or idea about life differs. Also, I discovered that she isn't the type I may want to decide to spend the rest of my life with. Despite being a graduate, she acts too local for my liking. Imagine girl wen go dey use bare hand dey pick cockroach for ground. Lolss. In terms of beauty sef, she's just a plane Jane. She jur get small fine shape like that, na why I say make local man dey use her hold body.

Now, it's like the affair is becoming a clog in the wheel for me to get other better chicks. As a comrade, I suppose end am once and for all and call her bluff; but on a second thought, Okafor's Law comes to mind. So, I want to ask: what subtle or decent way can I end the relationship, in which both parties can still be in good talking terms?

Unlike helinues, It's obvious the op knows what he is doing.

Cold141114:
Don't embark on that journey if you don't have capacity to overlook the funds

Borrow her the money she is a nice woman I support you with my full chest, and don't fear at all to do so,moreso you can still wife her you will never regret it.

Hhh4444:
if na Edo,how their women dey do?

If she sense she no dey your plan, na inside bottle straight. You no go even know when you go fix wedding

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

Bro if u got no plans let her be, don't complicate more problems for yourself and don't forget ‘Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman Scorned', stop the deceit and false hope now

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

Ohhh what a coincidence she sees huge money in ur account and all of a sudden she has a business opportunity that requires the big money in ur account?

That is day that relationship, situationship or whatever it is will end.

This is why Geh-Geh school is open and free to attend.

Stay away from single mother una no dey ever hear.

Tenrack:
He dey type "cute konji" with smirk on him face. If that woman deal with am. Lol. I just dey laugh. oP dey play with fire.

But you were happily doing go zaddy and spending lavishly on a corper earlier this year who ate your money like crazy...maybe her big bobbi decieved you.

If you don't want the stress of chasing someone for repayment, consider giving what you can afford as a gift instead of lending. This way, you avoid potential awkwardness and focus on nurturing your relationship without financial expectations.

Something must kill a man!

Well, if the opportunity is that good, she can get a bank facility.

Personally I'll give her the funds if I can afford to after a proper agreement and refund plan has been drawn.
Or, just support with some money.

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

sign agreement. Become business partners.

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

you mistakenly sent the receipt to her abi you want to use it to lure her to fall in love with you. SIMPS won't seize to amaze me....

advanceDNA:
don't ever lend money to a woman u are fvckiπg.. u will not get it back ,...

One of the things Women know how to do best is equate money and sex in their head.....even if it's a 100milion dollars ...they will just assume the money is for the sex u have been having

Chai ! You are Blessed for this Comments. It's True... One of the things Women know how to do best is equate money and sex in their head...

If I report you to geh-geh....the flogging wey you go recieve eh

be warned... 'cos this journey will surely end in premium tears 😭

occfx:
If she sense she no dey your plan, na inside bottle straight. You no go even know when you go fix wedding

Lol...no be all men dey enter inside bottle. Person like me,those things no dey work for my body. Na good behaviour woman fit use charm me. Anything else no dey work for where I dey.

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

You initially want to impress her by sending a payment proof with out editing it, now you want to snub the offering. bro pay and have everlasting nacking

Hhh4444:
Lol...no be all men dey enter inside bottle. Person like me,those things no dey work for my body. Na good behaviour woman fit use charm me. Anything else no dey work for where I dey.

I don see hard men wey succumb... Guys wey do cult for uni come dey loyal to woman like that... I surprise ooo. Na there I fear Edo girls

Simple. Tell her the truth.