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Clairvoyancy:
I do not understand your comment, but it's more reasonable to judge someone from what they say than to judge from how they look....

What I meant was when people have few options they pretend and a lot of people choose their spouses because they have few options. What we can control is ourselves, by expecting less from relationships, we will be selfish with what we invest in people when we haven't tested their loyalty. The more valuable you become, your options gets better, and you will know what they offer before asking them.
I prefer relationships starting as friendship, when you ask them, you are permitted to be deceived.

starpower:
What I meant was when people have few options they pretend and a lot of people choose their spouses because they have few options. What we can control is ourselves, by expecting less from relationships, we will be selfish with what we invest in people when we haven't tested their loyalty. The more valuable you become, your options you have, and you will know what they offer before asking them.
I prefer relationships starting as friendship, when you ask them, you are permitted to be deceived.

Thats how i know my wife married me because she loves me

I met her my country being beaten by a Nigerian man, I beat him and she just stayed with me

She has a bank card linked to my accounts to use freely with no permission needed at all and she chooses never to use it, she hasn't used it once in the whole relationship or marriage

She makes her own money from some computer wizardry that I dont understand, she only works 5 hours a week and the rest of the time shes a housewife and mother to my daughter because she wants to be and she loves me for me because the second i said I wont do igbo traditions she said "ok, dont" she didn't even want a bride paid and I had to behind her back to pay it to save hassle

Clairvoyancy:
How did you know that?I'm not sure you are still referring to that same SS.... Goodnight abeg... You and K'junkie share the same mentality....

Because what you see as dependent on a man i see as a completely different thing

You see dependent, I see devoted
A woman like that will happily iron your clothes
Have breakfast, lunch and dinner ready
Will scratch your back when you cant reach
Will give you as many kids as you want
Available in bed whenever you need and all you have to do is take of her and make her happy

There is a difference between a wife and a married woman, a wife is what most men need, if you have her working then shes just a married woman and is more likely to cheat because she has more access to more men giving her more attention while she's out working

Seriously what more could you need?

And its bizarre
You are a Nigerian man living in Nigeria and you know for a fact a wedding ring will not stop other Nigerian men attempting to get a married woman into bed

Pompoma:
What exactly is she going to bring to the table?

You want a personal balance sheet and cash flow statement.

Pompoma:
We bring only pussiii and bweast. That's all. Anyone who don't like it should remain celibate.

Is the pussiii chasis or fairly used? If fairly used, how many years working experience does it have?

Zonefree:
I love her honesty.


"I don't have anything else to offer"

The first woman to attest she has nothing to offer humanity.

Hian, you have started again ooooooooo with your savage response mucheche hahaha 😂

Eyah I feel for her. She's being honest. No one knows how she's been surviving from home. She simply needs grooming. I like her honesty

Talkisneeded:
What do you expect from a student in school,do you think everyone has the ability to juggle business and schooling…
Your forefathers married full time wife,so it’s not a big deal…if it’s not your thing,abort the mission and move on,don’t come here to make it a noise

Honestly, the guy is irritating 🙄 what else does he wants from a student? Someone that is just trying to pass exams and feed okay. Questions like that should be for working class marriage ready ladies.

Clairvoyancy:
From the screenshot, it shows this one is still naive and innocent (not vouching for her tho)... It's understandable if she begs for money, cos she's a student, not all students have legit side hustles...

This girl have potential of becoming a good wife, girls like this can turn 100k capital to 300k in short period.. forget the fact that she said she has nothing else to offer, her honesty alone is an asset, she just needs someone to guide her...

For me, for the fact that she begs from family and friends alone, I can risk it all and marry her and then change her orientation.... Her peers probably have side hustle (olosho), begs from their sugar daddies, or date multiple men to earn a living an live large in school.... For me oo, I still fit risk this kain girl if all is in that SS is true...

Well said bro, her replies are pure and honest from the heart

Easily replaced by AD 2030...humanoid robots with/without artificial wombs from Tesla, with ChatGPT and Grok pre-installed.

It won't talk unless spoken to, won't give you another man's child with its built-in DNA testing...and it can discuss with you intelligently enough to positively impact your life.

Thank God for technology

Pompoma:
We bring only pussiii and bweast. That's all. Anyone who don't like it should remain celibate.

To be candid here, her replies are pure and honest from the heart!

dollypi:
Easily replaced by AD 2030...humanoid robots with/without artificial wombs from Tesla, with ChatGPT and Grok pre-installed.

It won't talk unless spoken to, won't give you another man's child with its built-in DNA testing...and it can discuss with you intelligently enough to positively impact your life.

Thank God for technology

So, basically you just told told the world you cant get laid so you are going to wait until an advance talking toaster that you can have sex with is invented

Pompoma:
We bring only pussiii and bweast. That's all. Anyone who don't like it should remain celibate.

You need an orientation

Clairvoyancy:
From the screenshot, it shows this one is still naive and innocent (not vouching for her tho)... It's understandable if she begs for money, cos she's a student, not all students have legit side hustles...

This girl have potential of becoming a good wife, girls like this can turn 100k capital to 300k in short period.. forget the fact that she said she has nothing else to offer, her honesty alone is an asset, she just needs someone to guide her...

For me, for the fact that she begs from family and friends alone, I can risk it all and marry her and then change her orientation.... Her peers probably have side hustle (olosho), begs from their sugar daddies, or date multiple men to earn a living an live large in school.... For me oo, I still fit risk this kain girl if all is in that SS is true...

And you believe her? As a beggar that she is can you also bet with your life she doesn't have at least four boyfriends servicing her for money of course? Don't take stupidly and naivety of women for good virtues. Don't accept less from women because they won't accept less from you if you are broke. Remember that after you spend your whole life slaving to make them happy and do what their papa never did for them, you are still not sure if any of what you call your offspring are truly yours and she may be secretly praying for your untimely death to inherit all that you worked for. They call them partners oversea so, it should be a partnership between the two where each partner will have their roles and duties. Don't spend your whole life trying to please someone who could carry her bag any moment. Don't let fake infatuation ruin your emotions especially while dealing with a gender who believes she's doing you a favor by offering you sex and you must spend all your energy and resources on her just because of the sex she offers and probably enjoys more than you. Our forefathers took them to farm to contribute to the family. I love women but I have simps.

Get married first, then you will understand the value of peace and joy!

Zonefree:
I love her honesty.


"I don't have anything else to offer"

The first woman to attest she has nothing to offer humanity.

Is that what the future has to offer? It was said to be a gender. Oh well.

The guy is talking to himself

Nonexisting1:
I don't know why you are complaining. If I see a Nigerian girl that will give me all she promised you, I will marry her. She said she will bring you joy and peace, give you children, be a good wife, do her rites and obligations as wife. What else do you want a woman to offer you? Men are providers so don't expect a woman to give you money but if she does, it is okay too. Brother, if she can do all that she said, then I don't see the need for your complaint.

Oga it depends on her age... If an under 25 year old tells me this I'll understand, but a 27 +year old woman talking like this is a disaster waiting to happen..

Kalulu44:
To be candid here, her replies are pure and honest from the heart!

There was no her. Same person is talking to himself

An adult male goes to chyke a student and wants to know how she feeds. How else is she supposed to feed if not from her parents? A girl of less than 25 I guess. Some of you are trying so hard to prove a point.

Pompoma:
We bring only pussiii and bweast. That's all. Anyone who don't like it should remain celibate.

What does olosho bring to business deals?

All the replies are one minute apart. Very short, response to response. This is fake. The guy used a second phone and his number to talk to himself for social media clout.

Her honesty is top notch

Fenrir:
Why are you lot so judgemental? You cannot have it both ways

You either want a woman to be a housewife and submissive OR you want her working and contributing

But you dont seem to understand if shes helping you pay the bills and contributing why would she be submissive as well? You are literally telling her you are not man enough to take care of her

mentality of a simp, she contributes, does it mean she does 50:50? Why then shouldn't she submit..

If you check the quote you will see the evidence that he is replying himself. How do you reply to someone and whatsapp calls the person You.

Nigerians be critical. You people are easily fooled.

Nonexisting1:
I don't know why you are complaining. If I see a Nigerian girl that will give me all she promised you, I will marry her. She said she will bring you joy and peace, give you children, be a good wife, do her rites and obligations as wife. What else do you want a woman to offer you? Men are providers so don't expect a woman to give you money but if she does, it is okay too. Brother, if she can do all that she said, then I don't see the need for your complaint.

Who make men the automatic provider?

Ashawoman82:
mentality of a simp, she contributes, does it mean she does 50:50? Why then shouldn't she submit..

You people don't reason at all. Na women wey dey engage una kind I dey always blame. 🙄🙄🙄

Lovelyperson:
➜Who make men the automatic provider?

Men did that to themselves! 🥱🥱🥱

Ashawoman82:
mentality of a simp, she contributes, does it mean she does 50:50? Why then shouldn't she submit..

There is no such as 50/50 one is always making more effort for the other

And there is literally no such as a gold digger or greedy woman ive said it before

All women cost money, even a woman YOU consider low maintenance is expensive to some men

Just be quiet, pick one in your price range that can live within your means, be happy and do right by each other

Not my fault you're broke fella