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Clairvoyancy:
From the screenshot, it shows this one is still naive and innocent (not vouching for her tho)... It's understandable if she begs for money, cos she's a student, not all students have legit side hustles...

This girl have potential of becoming a good wife, girls like this can turn 100k capital to 300k in short period.. forget the fact that she said she has nothing else to offer, her honesty alone is an asset, she just needs someone to guide her...

For me, for the fact that she begs from family and friends alone, I can risk it all and marry her and then change her orientation.... Her peers probably have side hustle (olosho), begs from their sugar daddies, or date multiple men to earn a living an live large in school.... For me oo, I still fit risk this kain girl if all is in that SS is true...

No matter the wrongness of something u must always see someone always in support of such rot ....hmmm they even try so hard to sound very intelligent but from the write up u get to see a whole lot of their inadequacies and void

Kobojunkie:
Her mentality is that of a woman who was raised to be wife material... offering up her freedoms and dreams for the sake of making a home for a husband. Isn't that what the typical Nigerian man desires?

That guy doesn't want all those things you are talking about, to him the only thing important in a marriage is money. A wife that will make him have money. Not that, that is not important, but that is not the only important thing in life. Without a good wife to give you joy and peace and happiness, even if you have billions, your billions will be meaningless

I don't know what men expect from women apart from being faithful and loyal, to be fair.

Fact, a married woman once told me that there's nothing a woman can offer me apart from being a good woman.

So if you're lucky and have a woman who's industrious, then take it as is.

Omoawoke:
What’s bad about her response ?

I am a man and that’s the duty of a woman to give you a good home and good kids..
men really underestimate these things… why no go marry man or stay single and be doing soapy

So God forbid if you kpai now, how the woman go survive and take care of the kids? She go return to begging or she go find another man to take care of things? The reason women in advanced countries advocate for self dependency is because of the many tragedies of life......Are you willing to risk the welfare of your kids on a woman that has nothing else to offer than to bear children? Reason am!

occfx:
Men are becoming lazy, the only thing I need from a woman is honesty and contentment. Any woman who chases money like a man is already damaged. They will eventually go into competition with the man and push for gender equality.

Any woman who gives you peace of mind and very content with whatever she has is gold

What does a man love more than life?
Fear more than death and mortal strife?
What the poor have and the rich require and contented men desire?
What the miser spends and the spend thrift saves and all men carry to their graves?

Being happy and content is enough fella

Lekby25:
That guy doesn't want all those things you are talking about, to him the only thing important in a marriage is money. A wife that will make him have money. Not that, that is not important, but that is not the only important thing in life. Without a good wife to give you joy and peace and happiness, even if you have billions, your billions will be meaningless

It's not about money but being resourceful. Imagine the man kpai, how the woman go take care of the kids if she's never worked or ran a business? She go go back to begging?

Pompoma:
We bring only pussiii and bweast. That's all. Anyone who don't like it should remain celibate.

Reason they will keep you as a "pet" to be used when stressed "Hot".

abbey621:
So God forbid if you kpai now, how the woman go survive and take care of the kids? She go return to begging or she go find another man to take care of things? The reason women in advanced countries advocate for self dependency is because of the many tragedies of life......Are you willing to risk the welfare of your kids on a woman that has nothing else to offer than to bear children? Reason am!

You have a good point to be honest…

And no one prays to be widowed at a young age… apart from kpai, things happen that can make one be financially weak for a while and need time to bounce back.

But do you know when some start giving up on independent women, bro I swear to you, we have seen and stilll seeing several cases where a man loses his job and the woman begins to show the man hell in the house because she’s now the bread winner. When I mean hell, like real hell

I have a friend who lost his job and the wife almost drove him to suicide even though she is working and doing well and bringing something to the table.

Let me tell you something bro, never ever pray to go down as a man, because the dead man sometimes have more peace than the living man that has lost his sources of livelihood and thinks he has a woman in his house that could have brought something to the table

I love girls like this she is direct and straight forward..... at least if u can start from beginning and guide her...she will be a right lady for u not those that have ego

Talkisneeded:
What do you expect from a student in school,do you think everyone has the ability to juggle business and schooling…
Your forefathers married full time wife,so it’s not a big deal…if it’s not your thing,abort the mission and move on,don’t come here to make it a noise

Me sef I wonder o. Men need to realize that many hustling girls are undercover hoes!

Nonexisting1:
I don't know why you are complaining. If I see a Nigerian girl that will give me all she promised you, I will marry her. She said she will bring you joy and peace, give you children, be a good wife, do her rites and obligations as wife. What else do you want a woman to offer you? Men are providers so don't expect a woman to give you money but if she does, it is okay too. Brother, if she can do all that she said, then I don't see the need for your complaint.

If ur moved by only verbal expression then I must tell u this .....u still hv a long way to go in life....people only make simple statements when they feel they r below and in need but once they are able to get their acts together then their real actions and dispositions come into full glare .....my friend don't judge people by thier words but ask them question about their acts ...... Don't fall for a woman that is promising u peace and all cause peace is an action word or a doing word ......many men hv gone to their grave bacuse of lack of this ......

Omoawoke:
You have a good point to be honest…

And no one prays to be widowed at a young age… apart from kpai, things happen that can make one be financially weak for a while and need time to bounce back.

But do you know when some start giving up on independent women, bro I swear to you, we have seen and stilll seeing several cases where a man loses his job and the woman begins to show the man hell in the house because she’s now the bread winner. When I mean hell, like real hell

I have a friend who lost his job and the wife almost drove him to suicide even though she is working and doing well and bringing something to the table.

Let me tell you something bro, never ever pray to go down as a man, because the dead man sometimes have more peace than the living man that has lost his sources of livelihood and thinks he has a woman in his house that could have brought something to the table

You're right but life happens, this is where marrying a good woman comes into play, a woman that's not afraid to spend on you when the times are good will surely not abandon you when the going gets tough! I'm not talking about all these gen nonsense women but those who are firmly rooted in God and duty.

brain54:
At least she is honest...

I give her that. She don't have anything else to offer.

That's that. Abi she go lie for you?

If she will be homely and take care of the children, it’s more than enough she can offer. Child care is not easy

Chilipepper:
Man shares a lady's response after asking what she would bring to his life if they dated.

I don't see anything wrong with her responses. She is honest, upright and sounds jovial. Nah you dey look for unrealistic high expectations wey no exist. This is a good girl who is ready to give you all the best she can offer.

She is a student, do you expect her to have side hustles so that she can be distracted from her studies? Especially since she has good family who takes care of her needs while she gets educated. When she graduates, she will get legit hustling and mature with time. She seems like someone that can be tamed, trained to be the best woman any man can have. It's left for you to bring her up to your level. Let her breathe. Nothing is wrong with her answers. Normally, what else can a woman bring to her man's life other than what she listed? If you want more from her, you will develop her and empower her to do more as she grows with you as your wife and the mom of your kids. I even like how she didn't mention sex as what she would bring to the table. Be contented with what you have.

ogascomax:
➜I like your comment. Woman wasn't original created to be competitive but to be a home builder. That is why we men should pray for God's blessings to have a good home without stressing our wives.

Stop lying about women! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Women were created with equal capacity as other human beings. Unfortunately, a society ruled by men took to training women to be lesser beings than their male counterparts, all for the glory of the menfolk, while lying to them that some god somewhere is the reason why they should not be allowed to be considered equal to men.

She seems simple, and i found nothing wrong with her comments. She definitely has potential to be a good wife.

Who does not like peace, if she really brings peace, she is the one, She said she will bring Joy and peace.

Very valid response. What else does he want? True that, only yourself can give yourself joy and peace - besides they are emotions not state of being.

It's okay for girls not to bring anything to the table. What's not okay is removing things from the table lol, like taking the Joy and peace he already claims he has. And that you can't find out via a WhatsApp convo, you find out through actions.

So having this convo in the first place is a waste of time. At least this girl is honest. Another girl would say what he wants to hear and not only bring anything but shatter the table eventually during the long term relationship.

Time that he is meant to be using to bang the poor student in the other room, he is using to ask stupid questions.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying about women! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Women were created with equal capacity as other human beings. Unfortunately, a society ruled by men took to training women to be lesser beings than their male counterparts, all for the glory of the menfolk, while lying to them that some god somewhere is the reason why they should not be allowed to be considered equal to men.

- The passion and emotion that you deploy in attacking men and masculinity on display here is really funny. Men must have shown you pepper🌶. I'm sorry, love, it's a man's world and you must get used to it.

Pompoma:
We bring only pussiii and bweast. That's all. Anyone who don't like it should remain celibate.

We know but what if u bring some brain sometimes?

PDJT:
➜- The passion and emotion that you deploy in attacking men and masculinity on display here is really funny. Men must have shown you pepper🌶. I'm sorry, love, it's a man's world and you must get used to it.

No man has shown me pepper before, though. Sorry to disappoint you there! 🥱🥱🥱

Also, I am not attacking men, but simply presenting the facts as far as the treatment of women by a society largely led by men.😐😐😐

Clairvoyancy:
From the screenshot, it shows this one is still naive and innocent (not vouching for her tho)... It's understandable if she begs for money, cos she's a student, not all students have legit side hustles...

This girl have potential of becoming a good wife, girls like this can turn 100k capital to 300k in short period.. forget the fact that she said she has nothing else to offer, her honesty alone is an asset, she just needs someone to guide her...

For me, for the fact that she begs from family and friends alone, I can risk it all and marry her and then change her orientation.... Her peers probably have side hustle (olosho), begs from their sugar daddies, or date multiple men to earn a living an live large in school.... For me oo, I still fit risk this kain girl if all is in that SS is true...

Her honesty is something I count as a good quality tho

Humanity as how?

Birthing children and raising them has no benefit for humanity?

Zonefree:
I love her honesty.


"I don't have anything else to offer"

The first woman to attest she has nothing to offer humanity.

Kobojunkie:
No man has shown me pepper before, though. Sorry to disappoint you there! 🥱🥱🥱

Also, I am not attacking men, but simply presenting the facts as far as the treatment of women by a society largely led by men.😐😐😐

- Why then do you constitute so much nuisance in threads like this one? Seeking attention?

OP wanted to shame this girl..a student whose main goal in life now is to graduate.
But his fellow men are not taking it easy with him.
He is not getting the support he expected from his guys.

This girl is serving a living God ,indeed

PDJT:
➜- Why then do you constitute so much nuisance in threads like this one? Seeking attention?

It's actually simple...freedom to say what I want and please on any thread I want. 😐😐

You should ask yourself why my freedom constitutes a nuisance to you. That is a you problem and not a me problem. 🥱🥱🥱

Chilipepper:
Man shares a lady's response after asking what she would bring to his life if they dated.

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At least she's being honest .You want her to bring u table and chair or kitchen equipments ni..which one is be intelligent there..na professor u suppose toast na.. lol

She is only trying to be honest with you, and it won't hurt if you set her up, give her something she can earn from and thereby support you, try invest in her.

Mtcheww.

A student is telling you she gets money from her mum and she begs from friends and family you are posting screenshots.

Is she not to be taken care of by her family?

Is it every student that worked or has hustle while they were in school?


Is it strange for students to collect money from parents , uncle, aunty , cousin ,every damn family member available directly or indirectly.

All these nonsense from boys who can't even provide.

Kobojunkie:
It's actually simple...freedom to say what I want and please on any thread I want. 😐😐

You should ask yourself why my freedom constitutes a nuisance to you. That is a you problem and not a me problem. 🥱🥱🥱

- You can say whatever you want because men allowed you to. It's a man's world. If you don't like it, you can checkout, yet its still a man that will prepare your body and lay your body to rest. Research shows that an average man is more useful to a woman than another woman would ever be.

- Your attention seeking here is hilarious.

Amumaigwe:
Is the pussiii chasis or fairly used? If fairly used, how many years working experience does it have?

I hope you know it’s your fellow man that you are responding to. Some of you really need to begin to understand, sarcasm. Just because it has (f) in front of its name, doesn’t make it a woman.

BTW, why do so many NL men, post with a female moniker? 🧐

PDJT:
➜You can say whatever you want because men allowed you to. It's a man's world. If you don't like it, you can checkout, yet its still a man that will prepare your body and lay your body to rest. Research shows that an average man is more useful to a woman than another woman would ever be.
➜ Your attention seeking here is hilarious.

1. As expected, you resorted to making no sense at all in a bid to sound like you have something sensible to offer as a response. WOW! 🥱🥱🥱

2. Yet a comment ago, you referred to it as a nuisance.... make up your mind there, as it seems to be all over the place and nowhere at the same time. 🥱🥱🥱