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| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Afrobasic(m): 1:48pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Nnamdipapa:Why would an African man want to date an American Black woman?  The ABW are the bottom of the barrel worst of the worst. She is literally doing African men a favour by excluding us. 3 Likes |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Angelfrost(m): 1:51pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
colizee:Her choice, not her loss...! God created all human beings on Earth... Aren't men and women no longer equal?!! Besides, cross-breeding and inter-marriage among different races is on the rise, and this won't stop anytime soon. This kinda pushes racism and discrimination down the peck. There are more Black men out there chasing after White women tbh. 1 Like |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by LOVEGINO(m): 1:52pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Nnamdipapa:d babe just buy better problem. Make I go search for Sharply. |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by 2mch(m): 1:53pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Take all this juvenile YouTube and Twitter self hatred stuff away from Nairaland. If you have to come online to announce you are looking for man, then nobody wants you in the first place. But don’t speak for anybody or bully anybody into preferring certain people. 98% Africans marry Africans. I don’t know about black people who are loudest on the internet but live and breathe self hatred. 1 Like |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by SeriouslySense(m): 1:57pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
 if you like, be running after generational trauma, who has time for that, even American men don't want such.You even have time to pay attention to such post. Many people are just looking for reactions.  |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Angelfrost(m): 1:58pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Nnamdipapa:This is the problem. A lot of African men still think paying bills and doling out money are the sum total of healthy and successful relationships. No wonder most of your ladies are comfortable collecting that money while getting their "affections" from other less financially endowed but virile young men. Another thing she mentioned above which might have flown past your head was "having small kids around". Most African and African-American men struggle deeply with fidelity in their relationships and marriages. Look at Nick Cannon, Wizkid, Davido, Flavour, Ginuwine, etc (the list is quite endless). So, maybe ladies and guys in that Black race might need to start dating outside their "gene pool". Just maybe... That might bring some sanity to the few decent individuals among you. 1 Like |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by SeriouslySense(m): 2:00pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
No wonder American men abi black men are running to east Africa and south Africa looking for women who they think are more realistic or feminine, they blame everybody but do not take any responsibility. Look at this post, you blame blame blame. Oya, dont date the African let us rest  Angelfrost: |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by greygoblings(m): 2:01pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Nnamdipapa:She didn't say BLACK MEN, she mentioned African Men. I believe there is a stark difference. |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by SeriouslySense(m): 2:02pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Its reverse phycology. greygoblings: |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by aestake: 2:03pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
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| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by jaxxy(m): 2:03pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Nnamdipapa:in dating people are allowed to have preferences. Some people don't want to date dark girls only fair skinned, Some white ladies want to date black men specifically and we don't cry foul. Let her be. 1 Like |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Angelfrost(m): 2:04pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
SeriouslySense:African-American men are literally among the worst set of men to even walk the face of this Earth...! This is not a joke nor an exaggeration. From multiple relationships which result in children that they rarely bother to cater for, to constantly being unable to hold good jobs (or any decent jobs), down to their inability to get educated...! Yes, they would rather blame racism, immigrants, Trump, slavery, and every thing else but themselves. 4 Likes |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by heracles1: 2:10pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
she is a gold digger |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Thunderfayamods: 2:11pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Nnamdipapa:Go and check her she will be one of the worst women on earth! |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Feldie: 2:12pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
What do you expect when unkempt looking guys in some village who just joined Facebook keeps toasting these females despite the fact that they have no chance of getting to those countries |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by SeriouslySense(m): 2:13pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
At the end of the day, we should all find a way to be kind to ourselves, respect ourselves, and avoid extreme words. Why will a person put such on the internet, if you don't want African men, do you have to announce it to the whole world. They just want to stirr the pot and create reactions. It seems they are not genuine but derive pleasure from denigrating others. What it shows me, is that those women lack common sense, they lack decency, and they are not really good. They are creating a negative impression. They are suffering from some kind trauma, if they are so eager to denigrate others on social media for a sense of worth, they lack grace and at best are still little immature kids. Angelfrost: |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Angelfrost(m): 2:16pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
SeriouslySense:Yeah... I agree with you. This generation has no filter and such limited emotional intelligence when it comes to social media usage. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Thunderfayamods: 2:16pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Angelfrost:I agree with what you said 💯 perfect, but please remove Trump. They have always been like that from generations moreover this last elections majority of them voted for Trump. Regardless there are systematic ways thru which blacks are oppressed go and read about it |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by LordReed(m): 2:18pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Nnamdipapa:For me is that we don't know why. If she was not dating African men because of something she had experienced in the past or just her personal preference she would be well within her rights. I can bet you have a whole list of women you would refuse to go out with. It is when this preference starts getting in racial or bigoted reasons that we should raise an alarm. 1 Like |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Angelfrost(m): 2:22pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Thunderfayamods:You are very correct about the systemic racism... I am very well aware of this. However, it still wouldn't hurt for average Black Americans to be more responsible, get educated, and stay legit. |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by SeriouslySense(m): 2:25pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Its possible she or they are suffering from a negative experience from the past, the best answer is silence, they need to go and heal. And in the future they may have it better. The best answer is to let them be. And not dwell on any negativity. When they are ready they can even marry African men. And many of them are controlling, they need to also look inwards. LordReed: |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Funflipper: 2:28pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
brain54:She didn't say black men. She specifically said African men and it was deliberate. Black Americans have begun a campaign against African migrants most especially Nigerians and this is just part of it. |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Thunderfayamods: 2:29pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Angelfrost:Exactly 💯 that is what I do tell them all the time. |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Jd1900: 2:31pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
You people need to stop being too sensitive. She also won’t date men—white, black, green, yellow, or brown—who already have small kids. There are plenty of white, black, and brown women out there who will date across any nationality and race, including Africans. Even in Africa, some women won’t date outside their own tribe. It’s probably easier for a Southern Nigerian to get an American woman than a Fulani one from Kano. Nigerians themselves discriminate against Black Americans more than they do other Africans—they call them names like Akata, mugu, miss road, or baje. A few women refuse to date you and suddenly it’s the end of the world? Get out of here, jare. 1 Like |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Mike008(m): 2:32pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Nnamdipapa:Context matters. She didn't say black men, but "African Men". So it may not necessarily be about race, but geography. |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by Nuzo1(m): 2:39pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
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| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by CorperKola: 2:40pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
What She actually doesnt want are african american men, they are the ones popular for having baby mamas Onthe other hand she may not want someone thats too foreign Whichever way, she is not really that special so no need to give her that much special attention, its just a personal reference |
| Re: Stop The Discrimination Against African Men! by dontjealousme1: 2:40pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
y hiding true representation of how we feel about bedweench? |
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