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Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

colizee:
It is her choice and her loss! we do not care....we love african ladies and we will keep loving them.

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

Nnamdipapa:
I believe African men know how to take care of women, we don't split bills on outings, I wonder why this lady does not want to date African men.

Angelfrost:
This is the problem.

A lot of African men still think paying bills and doling out money are the sum total of healthy and successful relationships.

No wonder most of your ladies are comfortable collecting that money while getting their "affections" from other less financially endowed but virile young men.


Another thing she mentioned above which might have flown past your head was "having small kids around".

Most African and African-American men struggle deeply with fidelity in their relationships and marriages.

Look at Nick Cannon, Wizkid, Davido, Flavour, Ginuwine, etc (the list is quite endless).

So, maybe ladies and guys in that Black race might need to start dating outside their "gene pool".

Just maybe... That might bring some sanity to the few decent individuals among you.

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

greygoblings:
She didn't say BLACK MEN, she mentioned African Men. I believe there is a stark difference.

JovialJune:
Una tears go soon turn red 😂

I thought y'all said Nigerian men are the most sort sought-after abroad, una eyes go soon peel no worry 🤣🤣🤣

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

SeriouslySense:
No wonder American men abi black men are running to east Africa and south Africa looking for women who they think are more realistic or feminine, they blame everybody but do not take any responsibility. Look at this post, you blame blame blame. Oya, dont date the African let us rest

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

Angelfrost:
African-American men are literally among the worst set of men to even walk the face of this Earth...!

This is not a joke nor an exaggeration.

From multiple relationships which result in children that they rarely bother to cater for, to constantly being unable to hold good jobs (or any decent jobs), down to their inability to get educated...!

Yes, they would rather blame racism, immigrants, Trump, slavery, and every thing else but themselves.

SeriouslySense:
At the end of the day, we should all find a way to be kind to ourselves, respect ourselves, and avoid extreme words.

Why will a person put such on the internet, if you don't want African men, do you have to announce it to the whole world.

They just want to stirr the pot and create reactions. It seems they are not genuine but derive pleasure from denigrating others.

What it shows me, is that those women lack common sense, they lack decency, and they are not really good. They are creating a negative impression.

Angelfrost:
African-American men are literally among the worst set of men to even walk the face of this Earth...!

This is not a joke nor an exaggeration.

From multiple relationships which result in children that they rarely bother to cater for, to constantly being unable to hold good jobs (or any decent jobs), down to their inability to get educated...!

Yes, they would rather blame racism, immigrants, Trump, slavery, and every thing else but themselves.

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

Thunderfayamods:
I agree with what you said 💯 perfect, but please remove Trump. They have always been like that from generations moreover this last elections majority of them voted for Trump.
Regardless there are systematic ways thru which blacks are oppressed go and read about it

LordReed:
For me is that we don't know why. If she was not dating African men because of something she had experienced in the past or just her personal preference she would be well within her rights. I can bet you have a whole list of women you would refuse to go out with. It is when this preference starts getting in racial or bigoted reasons that we should raise an alarm.

brain54:
Everyone with the choices they make...


And what they want.

I have seen and heard black men say same thing about black women.

It's personal choice and decisions.

Nothing to see here!

Angelfrost:
You are very correct about the systemic racism... I am very well aware of this.

However, it still wouldn't hurt for average Black Americans to be more responsible, get educated, and stay legit.

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.