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Pressure To Get Married by ChizzyBuna(op): 9:49pm On Sep 04, 2025
Popsi and everyone at village has been pressuring me to marry and give them grandkids.

I'm 34 this year and still single.
I just recently moved into an apartment
So the hunt for finding a wife has begun.

How do I find a wife?
Where should I go to find a good wife?
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Kobojunkie: 9:53pm On Sep 04, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
➜Popsi and everyone at village has been pressuring me to marry and give them grandkids. I'm 34 this year and still single. I just recently moved into an apartment So the hunt for finding a wife has begun. How do I find a wife? Where should I go to find a good wife?
A 34-year-old man trying to marry a wife, not because he wants one himself, but because he is supposedly being bullied into marrying one by people who wouldn't be there to bear the ramifications of his decision. Na the woman wey go become his victim I pity pass! undecided
Re: Pressure To Get Married by ChizzyBuna(op): 9:55pm On Sep 04, 2025
Kobojunkie:
A 34-year-old man trying to marry a wife, not because he wants one himself, but because he is supposedly being bullied into marrying one by people who wouldn't be there to bear the ramifications of his decision. Na the woman wey go become his victim I pity pass! undecided
Popsi want to sponsor the upbringing of the kids. He has money
He is desperate for grandkids
Re: Pressure To Get Married by ChizzyBuna(op): 9:58pm On Sep 04, 2025
I have told him I'm not ready
He is disturbing me that he wants to see his grandkids before his time comes.
He recently started increasing the pressure due to his old age and is ready to sell bring out huge money to support my new family. But I no wan rush this kid ND thing
Re: Pressure To Get Married by sanny1(m): 10:09pm On Sep 04, 2025
Guy I know you and ur family very rich background just get marry try come ebonyi state all thy ladies na wife material virgin all through
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Talkisneeded(m): 10:13pm On Sep 04, 2025
Goodluck my bro in your search for a woman sha,Abi what do you want me to say
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Kobojunkie: 11:19pm On Sep 04, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
➜Popsi want to sponsor the upbringing of the kids. He has money He is desperate for grandkids
Your father will sponsor your marriage for you? 😶😶😶
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Merry100: 12:23am On Sep 05, 2025
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Re: Pressure To Get Married by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:45am On Sep 05, 2025
Go and make money
Re: Pressure To Get Married by koladata(m): 5:49am On Sep 05, 2025
If you are in Lagos , computer village 5pm during closing hour, stand at that round about, scout as much as you can.
Re: Pressure To Get Married by koladata(m): 5:51am On Sep 05, 2025
I have a lady in the uk , she's igbo pretty and hardworking , I could hook you up with her
ChizzyBuna:
I have told him I'm not ready
He is disturbing me that he wants to see his grandkids before his time comes.
He recently started increasing the pressure due to his old age and is ready to sell bring out huge money to support my new family. But I no wan rush this kid ND thing
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Negroid001(m): 5:54am On Sep 05, 2025
koladata:
If you are in Lagos , computer village 5pm during closing hour, stand at that round about, scout as much as you can.
Lmao. This is funny😅
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Comfortableme: 8:46am On Sep 05, 2025
koladata:
I have a lady in the uk , she's igbo pretty and hardworking , I could hook you up with her
Hello Brother, can you please link me with the lady you talked about..me am 45 and never been married, don't be surprised by that, so if truly you have someone you can link me with I will really appreciate..
Thank you and how do I reach you personally
Re: Pressure To Get Married by koladata(m): 8:57am On Sep 05, 2025
Okay i wouldn't mind but why are you not married at 45, also send me an private message request so i can forward your pictures to her , if she likes you i'll request if i can share her contact with you
Comfortableme:
Hello Brother, can you please link me with the lady you talked about..me am 45 and never been married, don't be surprised by that, so if truly you have someone you can link me with I will really appreciate..
Thank you and how do I reach you personally
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Dogalmighty17: 9:13am On Sep 05, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I just recently moved into an apartment
So the hunt for finding a wife has begun.
The fact that the monkey has learned to climb a tree doesn't automatically mean it deserves a banana.
Re: Pressure To Get Married by LoneSoldier: 9:14am On Sep 05, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
Popsi and everyone at village has been pressuring me to marry and give them grandkids.

I'm 34 this year and still single.
I just recently moved into an apartment
So the hunt for finding a wife has begun.

How do I find a wife?
Where should I go to find a good wife?
This is my whole point about marriage, they are pressuring you into marriage not that is your personal decision, but you just been pressured by family members to marry to birth them grand kids, my point is marriage should be personal not mandatory, there is no importance in marriage, if you marry you gonna suffer men..... Don't do it.... This is how they pressured me, but I told them NO.... And here I am, enjoying my money all to myself, no wife and no kids.... Just me and my money.....

Is not too late, be a man and tell them NO to there face....
Re: Pressure To Get Married by ChizzyBuna(op): 9:19am On Sep 05, 2025
LoneSoldier:
This is my whole point about marriage, they are pressuring you into marriage not that is your personal decision, but you just been pressured by family members to marry to birth them grand kids, my point is marriage should be personal not mandatory, there is no importance in marriage, if you marry you gonna suffer men..... Don't do it.... This is how they pressured me, but I told them NO.... And here I am, enjoying my money all to myself, no wife and no kids.... Just me and my money.....

Is not too late, be a man and tell them NO to there face....
Time will come when you will regret your decision not to have a family
Re: Pressure To Get Married by LoneSoldier: 9:20am On Sep 05, 2025
Marriage should not be a thing of force, you have the right to say yes or no to marriage as a man.... Why does society deems it, if you are not married at the age of 30 you are not a man.....

They go pressure you put for inside suffering promax say na good thing dey do for you......


Tell them to there old faces that you ain't getting married for your peace of mind oh .... cool
Re: Pressure To Get Married by LoneSoldier: 9:23am On Sep 05, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
Time will come when you will regret your decision not to have a family
Since you don't want to listen, is your choice man, I don't have any right to change your mind..... Do as you please.....

But don't come 7years from now in this forum crying and lamenting about divorcing your spouse...... undecided
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Talkisneeded(m): 9:35am On Sep 05, 2025
LoneSoldier:
Since you don't want to listen, is your choice man, I don't have any right to change your mind..... Do as you please.....

But don't come 7years from now in this forum crying and lamenting about divorcing your spouse...... undecided
What’s your age range again man
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Kaido: 10:31am On Sep 05, 2025
Kobojunkie:
A 34-year-old man trying to marry a wife, not because he wants one himself, but because he is supposedly being bullied into marrying one by people who wouldn't be there to bear the ramifications of his decision. Na the woman wey go become his victim I pity pass! undecided
If not for children, men no too send marriage.
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Comfortableme: 10:56am On Sep 05, 2025
koladata:
Okay i wouldn't mind but why are you not married at 45, also send me an private message request so i can forward your pictures to her , if she likes you i'll request if i can share her contact with you
Can drop me your WhatsApp or better still am email address to reach you.
Thank you
Re: Pressure To Get Married by koladata(m): 11:55am On Sep 05, 2025
koladata@gmail.com
Comfortableme:
Can drop me your WhatsApp or better still am email address to reach you.
Thank you
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Kobojunkie: 1:41pm On Sep 05, 2025
Kaido:
✓ If not for children, men no too send marriage.
Men have always been able to have kids outside of marriage since the very beginning. So, children have never really been the reason for men opting for marriage. undecided
Re: Pressure To Get Married by AKWATGOLD1(m): 3:17pm On Sep 05, 2025
Tell your popsi and everyone at village to look for a decent lady that is fertile for you in the village and give them grandchild.
ChizzyBuna:
Popsi and everyone at village has been pressuring me to marry and give them grandkids.

I'm 34 this year and still single.
I just recently moved into an apartment
So the hunt for finding a wife has begun.

How do I find a wife?
Where should I go to find a good wife?
Re: Pressure To Get Married by MrNice04(m): 4:04pm On Sep 05, 2025
koladata:
I have a lady in the uk , she's igbo pretty and hardworking , I could hook you up with her
hi bro I'm really interested can you please link me up with your friend...??
Re: Pressure To Get Married by Cum4me(m): 4:18pm On Sep 06, 2025
Comfortableme:
Can drop me your WhatsApp or better still am email address to reach you.
Thank you
please send her my email also I'm 37 I need a mature woman.... fogganderson45@gmail.com
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