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MrNice04:
have been trying to create worthwhile relationships. But you know the reality of a less privilege man is different from that of a privileged man.i really want to know how to network with the right people.Most times when you try to be friends with someone who's doing better, they think you are an opportunist. Not knowing Most times you just want to learn and make yourself better.
How can one have the right relationships? What are those things to put into perspective and how to build friendships that will propel one to heights of greatness ? Nobody got to the pinnacle of greatness or wealth without solid relationships.

Rexymania:
Yes na, you've said it all.
Which other opinion do you need again?

The right relationship is with God first. 'God' I mean the true source. Because putting your trust in man could be futile

Mariangeles:
You're right, but why did you put God in quote?

5 more?

Kobojunkie:
The very first thing you need to do in this case is start by learning who you are and how to love who you are. I am of the mind that one has to love be on his own side before he can truly get others to be on his side.

For information on how to go about there, there are psychotherapy books. Two channels on YouTube I would recommend are
➜ The School of Life
➜ Psych2Go

These give lessons on how to find yourself—emotional, mental, and social intelligence-wise—, so you can identify relationships that are worthwhile for your self-esteem and peace of mind from those that are literally weaponized against you.

MrNice04:
really appreciate bro but the issue is I don't know how to make friends with people that are better than me

MrNice04:
have been trying to create worthwhile relationships. But you know the reality of a less privilege man is different from that of a privileged man.i really want to know how to network with the right people.Most times when you try to be friends with someone who's doing better, they think you are an opportunist. Not knowing Most times you just want to learn and make yourself better.

How can one have the right relationships? What are those things to put into perspective and how to build friendships that will propel one to heights of greatness ? Nobody got to the pinnacle of greatness or wealth without solid relationships.

Karleb:
People who have resources will not just take you into their circles because you want it.

I have always been against how they preach networking in Nigeria because there's nothing for the person with resources.

For you to build the relationship, you need to come with something valuable and offer it first to them.ok bro so what's the best way to go about it when you say something valuable what could that be??

So go out there and get that thing.

MrNice04:
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