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Port443:
I think it is actually the opposite. Economic hardship bring out the worst in people and this is one of them

ajalawole:
kidnapping is bad and a crime, but let be honest with ourself Yahoo isn't a crime. I know of many guys who don't force cleint to send them money, they do willingly. How will you feel you open your phone and see a white man sending you nude, those white bring this upon them self so I don't blame most guys out hustling. I have a app where some ladies in Nigeria sell nude to those Yahoo boys to work with. What should we call this too. But of them are hustling to survive.

CrownedPhoenix:
Hookup was fuelled by the fact that young men had money to waste because life was not hard then as it is now. Now that Tinubu has struck, has it not reduced drastically?

Exalting people that want to live soft life without working and earning it legit?

Why make Lagos the centre of your article when it's possibly worse in Abuja and although arguable, Port-harcourt.

The new face of Lagos youth lifestyle are Techies in Lagos doing a whole lot, and every other legit young men and women out here doing their thing, not your hookup and thieves you call yahooyahoo.

Keep your woke publications that do not in any way help the society to yourselves.

190:
Wahala!!

And i was thinking of popping in this december for detty december

Make baes chop my money

GadoosGadoo:
Can we all agree that poverty is the major driving force

Savenigeria2023:
Not sure there is a lot of difference between both vices as its same mindset. Hookup for ladies vs Yahoo/Kidnap for guys

Ishilove:
Where did you pop out from?

It's been ages. Hope you're good?

Yup been standing strong!

blesdman:
truth is that if not far yahoo in the south, armed robbery will have ravaged the south like banditry is doing in the north. Vices feeding the people since govt and politicians have failed their people only thinking about their children and themselves....nonsense people

ajalawole:
kidnapping is bad and a crime, but let be honest with ourself Yahoo isn't a crime. I know of many guys who don't force cleint to send them money, they do willingly. How will you feel you open your phone and see a white man sending you nude, those white bring this upon them self so I don't blame most guys out hustling. I have a app where some ladies in Nigeria sell nude to those Yahoo boys to work with. What should we call this too. But of them are hustling to survive.

benalvino3:
Girls with rich family still do hookup. For them it's a trendy thing that shows class.

I slept with this man that drives this car, look at all the hotel videos or photos I take. Look at me in a restaurant with a nicely made cocktail.

Crazy

Even the ones you want to take seriously will expect you to treat them like a hookher

phosky:
https://eyesoflagos.com/hookup-culture-and-the-rise-of-soft-life-in-lagos/

Chukwudi4naija:
These vices are entirely greed-moivated. This is due to emphasis on wealth acquisition by what ever means, as society no longer questions source of wealth. There has always been economic hardship, but the older generation was honourable in pursuit of livelihood. I know how my family and others managed to survive amidst biting economic hardship, but we never resorted to dubious means to gain wealth.

ajalawole:
kidnapping is bad and a crime, but let be honest with ourself Yahoo isn't a crime. I know of many guys who don't force cleint to send them money, they do willingly. How will you feel you open your phone and see a white man sending you nude, those white bring this upon them self so I don't blame most guys out hustling. I have a app where some ladies in Nigeria sell nude to those Yahoo boys to work with. What should we call this too. But of them are hustling to survive.

ajalawole:
When parent keep giving birth to kids they can't take care of that is the result. I don't really blame most ladies going into hook up, in as much they can take care of themselves and not be a threat to national security. Hook up is better then kidnapping, arm robbery and all that.

Ryda:
The hook up lifestyle is everywhere not only in Lagos. Have you had time to visit or stay in Abuja? BDSM, Scissorcing, call it any name you want. A lot is happening in Nigeria.

My advise for every man out there. Do a deep search on her background before you even ask her out.
Ask for her social media handles. Some will tell you they don't have one. Do your own research and find out. Many are wifing retired hoes and they're not aware of it.

Lastly if you're going to fornicate, have the lights tuned on. A lot of men are digging herps in the name of pleasure. You're finished especially if you're a married man.

SpecialAdviser:
It is not only Lagos oooh. Almost every part of Southern Nigeria. No thanks to socila media and influence from music and entertainment so called role models.

The youths are not even any longer interested in Religion. To teach them about Hell or Heaven is difficult. This is also escalated by rogue pastors preaching everything about prosperity. The prosperity gospel from modern day pastors are not helping Christianity at all. Again what we have are criminal politicians everywhere.

The country is where Jesus will start judgemnet
.

Love800:
I don't think its poverty. Hookup life style is not a long-term job, so no one would like to invest all his/her lively hood to it.

Na just side hustle to take get up-keep. And there are other legit and good hustles apart from hooking-up. We can indulge in those ones, but the main thing is that peeps like taking the short-cut!

3kay945:
Poverty is a major factor. Other reasons are minor.

ajalawole:
so what are they taking of.
Some girls doing hook up are actual sponsoring them self to school or there sibling. They can't just run into hook up if responsibility don't come. I once try to chat a lady on Facebook, she agree to come spend the night, only for her to ask me how much I will give her in the morning that her husband will ask for the money she make from work.... That statement alone make me block her when I sense she was married.

Ryda:
The hook up lifestyle is everywhere not only in Lagos. Have you had time to visit or stay in Abuja? BDSM, Scissorcing, call it any name you want. A lot is happening in Nigeria.

My advise for every man out there. Do a deep search on her background before you even ask her out.
Ask for her social media handles. Some will tell you they don't have one. Do your own research and find out. Many are wifing retired hoes and they're not aware of it.

Lastly if you're going to fornicate, have the lights tuned on. A lot of men are digging herps in the name of pleasure. You're finished especially if you're a married man.

Fiscus105:
If economy biter, where are they seeing the huge money throwing away for hookers?

It is supposed to reduce the hook up business, during times of economy hardship. If no money to throw at hookers, the business would die a natural death.

ajalawole:
so what are they taking of.
Some girls doing hook up are actual sponsoring them self to school or there sibling. They can't just run into hook up if responsibility don't come. I once try to chat a lady on Facebook, she agree to come spend the night, only for her to ask me how much I will give her in the morning that her husband will ask for the money she make from work.... That statement alone make me block her when I sense she was married.

SpecialAdviser:
It is not only Lagos oooh. Almost every part of Southern Nigeria. No thanks to socila media and influence from music and entertainment so called role models.

The youths are not even any longer interested in Religion. To teach them about Hell or Heaven is difficult. This is also escalated by rogue pastors preaching everything about prosperity. The prosperity gospel from modern day pastors are not helping Christianity at all. Again what we have are criminal politicians everywhere.

The country is where Jesus will start judgemnet
.

Fisher007:
Hmm
Where do i start from.
Cockroaches everywhere.

70 percent of the young ones are doing hookup.
Meaning your chance of marrying a retired hookup person is also 70 percent.

Terrible times ahead for those considering marriage. The endgame or time will be terrible for a lot.

Well we are all in this together.

Nobody is going anywhere.

yewit37486:
But.... how come you know so much?