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Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by bluefilm: 7:25pm On Sep 09, 2025
Puss360:
Relationship is not meant for the weak abi, until you kee person that's when Ur eyes will clear...
Nothing like weak or strong in relationships. Once love fades better seperate or divorce...
There's nothing in the things he mentioned that will kii pesin

Relationship is a choice

What I like about all what the guy stated is that the rules of engagement is clearly spelt out

You either engage or disengage!

Case closed
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Threedoorsdown: 7:26pm On Sep 09, 2025
Samantha125:
Another GBV sympathiser...😢😢😢
Your tears just started
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by SAMBARRY: 7:38pm On Sep 09, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
At least he's being real......But unfortunately,most Nigerian bannies will never want to date a guy like him...They prefer who they can easily manipulate and turn to their puppets to dating an alpha male who will highlight his principles to her .....

By the way, why's the commenter right before me angry with the poster?
that is not being real. That is being animalistic, controlling and narcissistic. I can never support any bad behaviour from any gender.but I know pickmeshas wey no get sense full nigeria. Them go wan chook head thinking that they can change him until them collect hot breakfast and join the baby mama que. Infact na woman wey them don swear for go gree live with am
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Gbadebo19(m): 8:09pm On Sep 09, 2025
Samantha125:
Why should I point out something that is obviously normalised there? If you can't see it, then there's no need for me to point it out.

You guys are the same people complaining of how the law favours your women abroad, making it difficult for you to be using GBV to control them... That alone speaks volumes.
If you can't prove a point you claim is existing, then it is pure gibberish. Since you say We can't see it, then show it to us!!!!!!!! except you can't see it too!!!!!!!! If both parties can't see it, then it simply isn't there.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by jojothaiv(m): 8:19pm On Sep 09, 2025
Let him be.

The woman draw their standards every now and then and the world didn't stop to catch a break so let the young man bring out his own standard doesnt matter if it doesn't sit well with others, his life his choices.

P.S:
The goal of a nigga is to draw the logical nests and they are falling for it, so many shalayes go full this thread.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Afriifa(m): 8:24pm On Sep 09, 2025
Sonnobax15:
. His principles !!!!! If you can't adhere to them,steer clear from him angry. That's not too difficult to comprehend nahhh angry. BTW,I don't understand your point,of him being abusive when everything he just stated can simply be rejected by a manipulative woman by simply not dating him undecided
Women always find a way of playing the victim
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Azazyel: 8:55pm On Sep 09, 2025
adamkkk:
d man will go to lab to construct his perfect woman.


Cos even my friend that was a Major back then in 2018, received hot slap from his wife and Las Las na him still go apologise.

Being a pacifist doesn't make u a weak man.
Oga nor vex. That your friend na simp. Na that woman go send am 6feet below

Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Samantha125(f): 9:12pm On Sep 09, 2025
It's not my duty to be showing grown men like yourselves the difference between right and wrong... If your parents couldn't teach you from a young age, then who am I to try?

And tomorrow you'll be blaming your leaders for your failures when you're birds of the same feathers.
Gbadebo19:
If you can't prove a point you claim is existing, then it is pure gibberish. Since you say We can't see it, then show it to us!!!!!!!! except you can't see it too!!!!!!!! If both parties can't see it, then it simply isn't there.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by hahn(m): 9:20pm On Sep 09, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Really? But when the police come to investigate these same people, na their social media dem been dey get evidence or clues of their potential crimes from? huh huh
Another angle.

What's up? Long time
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 9:44pm On Sep 09, 2025
SAMBARRY:
that is not being real. That is being animalistic, controlling and narcissistic. I can never support any bad behaviour from any gender. but I know pickmeshas wey no get sense full nigeria. Them go wan chook head thinking that they can change him until them collect hot breakfast and join the baby mama que. Infact na woman wey them don swear for go gree live with am
. In a sense, these women were raised by society at large to become robots for these narcissistic individuals to prey on. I kind of don't blame them at all; I do blame their parents, particularly the mothers who keep throwing them out there as fodder for these predators. undecided
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 9:44pm On Sep 09, 2025
hahn:
Another angle. What's up? Long time
I dey o! smiley
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Gbadebo19(m): 10:37pm On Sep 09, 2025
Samantha125:
It's not my duty to be showing grown men like yourselves the difference between right and wrong... If your parents couldn't teach you from a young age, then who am I to try?

And tomorrow you'll be blaming your leaders for your failures when you're birds of the same feathers.
Okay then 👇👇

Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Metrofox(m):
Samantha125:
Wow... So GBV is regarded as a principle in Nigeria and not an offence punishable by law?

No wonder we hardly hear any GBV related cases from there despite your ladies getting unalived by their men... It's never regarded as GBV... Wow! This explains why some of them end up reporting their husbands to the authorities upon getting abroad.
Stop projecting your values on us here, Nigerian women are not victims of GBV , and they enjoy some of the best male privileges compared to any other women in the world. Your sisters can attest to what Nigerian women enjoy. We don't rape and kill women like SA or India
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 10:50pm On Sep 09, 2025
Metrofox:
➜Stop protecting your values on us here, Nigerian women are not victims of GBV ,
➜ and they enjoy some of the best male privileges compared to any other women in the world. Your sisters can attest to what Nigerian women enjoy. We don't rape and kill women like SA or India
1. Stop lying! Gender-based violence is commonplace in Nigeria, where in parts of the country, the rape of women is considered an acceptable punishment and not necessarily a crime. undecided

2. Nigerian women enjoy some of the best male privileges? Is it not even a female privilege but a male privilege? Do you even know what a privilege is? huh
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by SonOfWords(m): 12:00am On Sep 10, 2025
Samantha125:
What's there to discuss when your response already says it all?

Your actions alone have proved my point... And this is what your ladies have to endure on a daily basis.
Wee you keep kwayet grin?! Gender based violence kee you there!
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Dizzyyish: 2:04am On Sep 10, 2025
isyourboy:
Exactly! Real! Because omg imagine a man claiming he will beat his woman cuz her food isn’t good enough omg. I can’t even breath omg I’m literally shaking rn like omg like literally omg 😦
Guuuuy! Of all the comments here, your own just dey scatter my head.

Lwkmd grin
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by SAMBARRY: 5:13am On Sep 10, 2025
Kobojunkie:
. In a sense, these women were raised by society at large to become robots for these narcissistic individuals to prey on. I kind of don't blame them at all; I do blame their parents, particularly the mothers who keep throwing them out there as fodder for these predators. undecided
person come out with his full chest tell social media people he has full scale narcissism tendencies with all that ridiculous demands/expectations but as usual pickmeshas and religious women will see a walking danger and say what God cannot do doesn't exist. Of course I know God is limitless but he gave us a brain,intuition and acess to knowledge and the bible so that we can recognise devils in human form and avoid it but religious women will see someone showing signs of psychopathy, violence, and mentally unstable personality and say ",I'll pray for him" him mama no pray for am ,na you wan pray for werey alawoku under the guilt tripping of it rains everywhere, nobody is perfect etc.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Omalicious1: 6:22am On Sep 10, 2025
Chilipepper:
Man causes stir on social media after he shared the "disadvantages" of dating him
These are his standards, and why it causes a stir is because society doesn't encourage men to have standards, so it's always shocking to them to see a man with standards
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Omowale2023(m): 6:42am On Sep 10, 2025
Kobojunkie:
This here is the reason why so many women continue to fall prey to toxic men. undecided

A man literally promised to be abusive to any woman he ever gets into a relationship with, but here you are playing down his threats. For what? So you can see women damaged and possibly unalived by him later on, only for you to then switch up and state that he did warn them beforehand? undecided
What threat?
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Yvngex(m): 6:43am On Sep 10, 2025
Samantha125:
The man just announced to the entire world how he's physically abusive towards women and you don't see anything wrong there?

It's like you guys have normalised GBV over there to a point that a man can even comfortably brag about it publicly without any fear of repercussions.
Tell me the 15 likes on your comment are bots
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Omowale2023(m): 6:43am On Sep 10, 2025
Samantha125:
The man just announced to the entire world how he's physically abusive towards women and you don't see anything wrong there?

It's like you guys have normalised GBV over there to a point that a man can even comfortably brag about it publicly without any fear of repercussions.
Really?
Why do women think the way they think?
I think I need to ask God.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Samantha125(f): 7:31am On Sep 10, 2025
You guys are the same people capable of abducting almost an entire village ladies with an intention of violating them, but of course, such cases never get reported because rape victims tend to get stigmatized in your country.

SA on the other hand is very vocal in fighting against GBV, hence we're free to speak up without any fear.
Metrofox:
Stop projecting your values on us here, Nigerian women are not victims of GBV , and they enjoy some of the best male privileges compared to any other women in the world. Your sisters can attest to what Nigerian women enjoy. We don't rape and kill women like SA or India
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Samantha125(f): 7:33am On Sep 10, 2025
I know a guilty person when I see one... grin grin grin
Gbadebo19:
Okay then 👇👇
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Gbadebo19(m): 7:51am On Sep 10, 2025
Samantha125:
I know a guilty person when I see one... grin grin grin
It ended with the fact that you didn't prove anything. Just ramblings......
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Ishilove: 8:17am On Sep 10, 2025
Believe this, you'll believe anything. All na mouth. They blow hot air online, but offline they wash their women's clothes because in their heart of hearts, they are lover boys putting a macho act on social media
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Samantha125(f): 8:25am On Sep 10, 2025
Your attitude alone proves what I've been saying, it screams guilty conscience.

Gbadebo19:
It ended with the fact that you didn't prove anything. Just ramblings......
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Puss360(f): 9:02am On Sep 10, 2025
bluefilm:
There's nothing in the things he mentioned that will kii pesin

Relationship is a choice

What I like about all what the guy stated is that the rules of engagement is clearly spelt out

You either engage or disengage!

Case closed
....engage or disengaged... Lol easier said than done...
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