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Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by ndukwejoe(m): 12:32pm On Sep 11, 2025
Ok o so who gave birth to almajiri na south abi keep deceiving yasef
donmixc:
just say don't let southern nigerian men make you a single mother, because we northers take good care of our wives undecided
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by kiddaz: 12:34pm On Sep 11, 2025
Softmirror:
Men always running away from RESPONSIBILITY! That is the single reason why the society if filled with their own creation called single women.

We have very few RESPONSIBLE men this days.
No. The major reasons are the new breed of women. Men don't just run from responsibilities. Life is majorly hard knock in Naija so there's nothing to run from but most of you women will still tell yourself lies and try to believe them even when you really can't. A disrespectful, slothful, unrepentant, high minded, stubborn, nagging, disobedient and arrogant lady can never be with any man keen on self preservation and that's the attitude and character of a lot of women today. Y'all prefer the streets to the home, you want princess treatment when you're obviously 304s and proud at it. You must think we're fools because of the gap in-between right. But thank God men are now wiser! No amount of manipulation or pressure can make a sane man settle for that garbage that will either turn him into a vegetable, spineless man or worse dead man. Peace over all the bs and if you try the trap him with a baby crap, well we all see the evidence around us. And that's another angle they use that turns them into single moms. It's hardly the fault of the men.
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by Faposky95: 12:37pm On Sep 11, 2025
From the photo...your best letters are M and P
Men and Plick......
I lie
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by NairaLikes: 12:47pm On Sep 11, 2025
lilyheaven:
lol
It takes a sperm to fertilize an egg.
Let the men leave their sperm in the testicular gland , believe me we won’t have single mom’s
Who is responsible for opening the gates for the sperm to enter?
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by ufotunang: 12:50pm On Sep 11, 2025
oyeb15:
Single mothers everywhere nowadays. Maybe it's caused by d economic situation
.. some of those single mothers want to pin the pregnancy on the man inorder for the man to marry them and carry their burden and problems..they is why some of them allow the man to impregnate her
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by ufotunang: 12:54pm On Sep 11, 2025
Akalia:
The women are actually the cause. Don't pin the blame on men.
.. especially for those ladies that find it difficult to get married and get a husband it's better for them to have a child.. single mother..than waiting for a man that will be serious to marry her as she is ageing and getting to menopause stage
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by ufotunang: 12:55pm On Sep 11, 2025
[quote author= post=136766032]Who is responsible for opening the gates for the sperm to enter?[/quote]..the man by deceiving her with sweet talks and also that he will marry her
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by NairaLikes: 1:07pm On Sep 11, 2025
ufotunang:
..the man by deceiving her with sweet talks and also that he will marry her
So if someone sweet talk you to drink sniper you go drink? Islam and Christianity does not allow fornication.
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by ufotunang: 1:08pm On Sep 11, 2025
Softmirror:
Men always running away from RESPONSIBILITY! That is the single reason why the society if filled with their own creation called single women.

We have very few RESPONSIBLE men this days.
..many women cannot control their sexual urge..they lack self control...many of these women knows that the guy they are dating does not look serious in marrying her but they will still sleep with such a guy without condom or anything to prevent the pregnancy..all because of money and the guy to be taking care of her and be providing her needs and also some of those ladies also want to use pregnancy to tie down the guy to marry her
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by Metrofox(m): 1:08pm On Sep 11, 2025
donmixc:
just say don't let southern nigerian men make you a single mother, because we northers take good care of our wives undecided
but turning your wife's children to almajiri or what?
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by ufotunang: 1:24pm On Sep 11, 2025
[quote author= post=136766249]So if someone sweet talk you to drink sniper you go drink? Islam and Christianity does not allow fornication.[/quote].. the bible says women are weaker vessels....so they can be easily deceived..but if a man knows that he is not serious or will not like to marry her in future then the man can use condom or preventive measures inorder for the lady not to be pregnant...I know Islam and Christianity is against fornication.but nowadays is very difficult for many people to resist sexual temptation because many people lack the self discipline, self control when it comes to sexual temptation and sexual urge is high... even there are pastors that preach against fornication on the pulpit but still falls to sexual temptation and fornicate and cheat on their wives ...things have spoilt in this world
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by ViceGovernor: 1:30pm On Sep 11, 2025
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Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by ViceGovernor: 1:31pm On Sep 11, 2025
Shey na another girls you dey talk about or these ones when like penise pass their life?

Some of them boys don fork 2-3 years comot from their remaining life on earth.
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by jaycruizenbs: 1:31pm On Sep 11, 2025
Then close your legs. Guess she is a single mother looking at her.
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by Elusive001: 1:40pm On Sep 11, 2025
Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8okVS8irYtE?si=p18JNuVmZVCrpfLd
When we say that you must avoid or flee from premarital sex, una call us old school, holy pass, etc. Una go tell us to mind our business. Na our business we dey mind oooo
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by FavouriteOfGod(f): 1:45pm On Sep 11, 2025
oyeb15:
Single mothers everywhere nowadays. Maybe it's caused by d economic situation
BabyMamas and BabyPapas🤔
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by judewrites: 1:55pm On Sep 11, 2025
It takes two to tangle....👫

Don't blame a man you aren't married to for your single mum status after entrusting your delicate body to him.
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by papagiddy(m): 2:14pm On Sep 11, 2025
Natbrowny:
She's not actually advising

She's advertising..


Advising was a decoy
Oil dey ya head honestly!!!
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by Karlifate: 2:15pm On Sep 11, 2025
sweetkev:
Tinubu economy no help too. Two different couples just divorced in my street due to hardship. A neighbour is also insulting her gentle husband everyday and I already know how it will end.
😂😂
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by Auxtan(m): 2:52pm On Sep 11, 2025
It's still your gender that will want unprotected knacking from men. In my history of knacking, all the girls prefer the unprotected ones. They are the ones that will plead for a skin to skin.
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by tunapawizzy: 3:12pm On Sep 11, 2025
You opened your legs to a man that did not marry you legally, then yu turn around to say they made you a single mother- una no jus get sense.
At least let him marry you first, if he gets you preganant inside marriage and then leaves- at least you can carry your shoulder with some honour
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by tunapawizzy: 3:16pm On Sep 11, 2025
Auxtan:
It's still your gender that will want unprotected knacking from men. In my history of knacking, all the girls prefer the unprotected ones. They are the ones that will plead for a skin to skin.
the way ladies demand for this skin-to-skin ehn, you now begin to wonder, abi HIV is exaggerated ni?...abi na only me dey fear HIV for this world? abi other people get some update wey dem no share with me?
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by advanceDNA: 3:23pm On Sep 11, 2025
Everybody wants to fvck and enjoy.....but one side wants to pretend they are deceived and not responsible at all for spreading their own legs.... Lol


The side that will carry belle for 9 months, breast-feed and stop work for a while should continue expecting the side that just cvm and walk to be responsible for their chastity...

Una Welldone....


Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by Auxtan(m): 3:27pm On Sep 11, 2025
tunapawizzy:
the way ladies demand for this skin-to-skin ehn, you now begin to wonder, abi HIV is exaggerated ni?...abi na only me dey fear HIV for this world? abi other people get some update wey dem no share with me?
I don't know why they prefer the skin to skin a lot. I tell you, literally all the girls I have done this with eventually starts demanding for skin to skin.
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by lilyheaven:
advanceDNA:
U conveniently forgot to mention that both were punished for disobedience....

Everyone is responsible for their individual choices
Y'all should stop twisting scriptures.....looking for how to blame adam for eve's disobedience ....why ddnt God punish adam alone since according you, eve is not responsible for herself

U spread legs...yet u want to blame men....if u ddnt spread leg in the first place, will the man see where to chook rod...

Yet in arab countries where women are forced to act in particular ways, y'all call it barbaric and trampling on ur rights .... But when u eff up the y'all be looking for men to drag for ur actions
Eve is a weaker vessel, that is why God handed her over to Adam.
But where was Adam, when eve was misbehaving?

Just as today, these female children sleeping around , committing abortions, doing all atrocities, where are their fathers, brothers, uncle? What about married women, where are their husbands?

If you keep blaming women for these problems without taking an action, we won’t get right.

It’s not about saying “ what about them that opened their legs “
Why won’t they open legs, aren’t they supposed to obey a man’s command ?





See eeh
Every man wants a virgin to wife, but your fathers and uncles destroy them at young age, what about those that won’t help a woman except they see their pants .
The unfortunate ladies that kept their bodies but were raped because they said no sex.
There’s no female child that ever planned to be wayward from the beginning …. But what went wrong after, is a story of another day caused by one man.


This what your fellow man typed

“ Opening ur legs shouldn't be the problem

THE MAIN PROBLEM ARE THE USELESS MEN WHO PRESS HUGE MONEY FOR SOMETHING OTHERS GOT FOR FREE/LESS

IF men are not useless, this lady won't say stuffs. So lets blame the enablers n problem - MEN”


Please zip up


I Have typed plenty, I’m sure seun is happy now.
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by Barcalee: 4:03pm On Sep 11, 2025
What of the ones we have made a wife and she's struggling to become a single mother just because she can get over and pride and stupid anger
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by lilyheaven: 4:05pm On Sep 11, 2025
[quote author= post=136766032]Who is responsible for opening the gates for the sperm to enter?[/quote]This is what your fellow man typed

“ Opening ur legs shouldn't be the problem

THE MAIN PROBLEM ARE THE USELESS MEN WHO PRESS HUGE MONEY FOR SOMETHING OTHERS GOT FOR FREE/LESS

IF men are not useless, this lady won't say stuffs. So lets blame the enablers n problem - MEN”

😆
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by 3kay945(m): 4:22pm On Sep 11, 2025
There is immediate and remote cause to this.

Becos, it always started with sweet love until it later get sour.

Economy situation of the country has hand in this, invariably, hold your government accountable for a better Economy situation of the country.
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by 3kay945(m): 4:27pm On Sep 11, 2025
tunapawizzy:
the way ladies demand for this skin-to-skin ehn, you now begin to wonder, abi HIV is exaggerated ni?...abi na only me dey fear HIV for this world? abi other people get some update wey dem no share with me?
During that time, their brain dey malfunction cool
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by advanceDNA:
lilyheaven:
Eve is a weaker vessel, that is why God handed her over to Adam.
weak vessel is .the umbrella yall run under when u dont want to be responsible for your actions...when God was dishing out punishment did he exempt eve?? Did he call Eve weaker vessels and say it's not her fault??

God did not hand over eve to Adam....he created Eve as Adams helper.......that's was all the bible recorded....

lilyheaven:
But where was Adam, when eve was misbehaving?
she had free will...the helper was supposed to be with who God told her to help....she left her duty....m.she went to a secret place in the garden the way you modern women sneak to hotel to climb on top p£πis...

lilyheaven:
Just as today, these female children sleeping around , committing abortions, doing all atrocities, where are their fathers, brothers, uncle? What about married women, where are their husbands?
u are still trying to blame someone else for a woman's decision..
U can keep asking for the men......or u do the right thing by holding the women doing wrong accountable for a wrong choices...

lilyheaven:
If you keep blaming women for these problems without taking an action, we won’t get right.
there is only one action.... The owner of the v@g!na should chose a life of chastity......how can u be looking for orgasm but be blaming the men that u spread ur legs for?? Please make me understand this..

lilyheaven:
Why won’t they open legs, aren’t they supposed to obey a man’s command ?
lol grin....
Why is that u are only obeying command of spreading legs....why don't u obey command of being a virgin, being holy, being serious with your life, making money, and sharing bills with ur man...but no....u only obey fvck fvck command...lol.....
U like to fvck...but u don't want another person to be responsible for ur decision...okay ooo...

lilyheaven:
See eeh
Every man wants a virgin to wife, but your fathers and uncles destroy them at young age, what about those that won’t help a woman except they see their pants .
why do u keep going to men for help when u know they will ask for ur body?? Ask ur fellow women
...but no....u go to men..because u know that biologically men want pvsssi which will make u easily get what you want....but hey!! u then turn around to form victim....
madam...we know the game....it's just that u fail to see u are the ones the losing end....

lilyheaven:
The unfortunate ladies that kept their bodies but were raped because they said no sex
rape is the only condition where a woman is not at fault for sex...and this happens to but young boys and girls....anyone who rapes should be jailed....it's that simple.. but rape is not the context of this thread...

lilyheaven:
There’s no female child that ever planned to be wayward from the beginning ….
lol....there is a 19year old girl in front page story who gladly said she would rather make millions with her body than be in a relationship that won't make money for her...

See I like how u pretend like u are victims instead of facing the truth .....but the evidence is clear....u can only deceive ourselves...y'all choose to be wayward..>>>>start having sex as at teenage years..
why are u dating when u aint even ready for marriage ?? U stack up body count and start blaming men when u turn 26-30 years old.
..okay continue blaming men instead of educating ur fellow woman....y'all have no business having sex when u are young... If y'all close ur legs till 24/25....guys will marry early because they ain't getting sex for free...

lilyheaven:
THE MAIN PROBLEM ARE THE USELESS MEN WHO PRESS HUGE MONEY FOR SOMETHING OTHERS GOT FOR FREE/LESS
lol...this is the narrative u want because it makes u blame men.........but u forget that if cocacola ddnt make their product available no one will bring out money to buy......have u seen men present money to gracious, serious women,... Have u ever heard okojo eweala or funke akindele, say a man press huge money to sleep with them

.y'all choose to commercialize your body but turn around to blame the buyer....??
See madam....everyone wants it...but u are the one pretending to be victim after spreading legs for irresponsible men...

lilyheaven:
IF men are not useless, this lady won't say stuffs. So lets blame the enablers n problem - MEN
Please zip up
. Yes...let the person that will carry belle for 9 months blame the person that just cvm and walk and have nothing to lose....
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by lilyheaven:
advanceDNA:
weak vessel is .the umbrella yall run under when u dont want to be responsible for your actions...when God was dishing out punishment did he exempt eve?? Did he call Eve weaker vessels and say it's not her fault??

God did not hand over eve to Adam....he created Eve as Adams helper.......that's was all the bible recorded....

she had free will...the helper was supposed to be with who God told her to help....she left her duty....m.she went to a secret place in the garden the way you modern women sneak to hotel to climb on top p£πis...

u are still trying to blame someone else for a woman's decision..
U can keep asking for the men......or u do the right thing by holding the women doing wrong accountable for a wrong choices...

there is only one action.... The owner of the v@g!na should chose a life of chastity......how can u be looking for orgasm but be blaming the men that u spread ur legs for?? Please make me understand this..

lol grin....
Why is that u are only obeying command of spreading legs....why don't u obey command of being a virgin, being holy, being serious with your life, making money, and sharing bills with ur man...but no....u only obey fvck fvck command...lol.....
U like to fvck...but u don't want another person to be responsible for ur decision...okay ooo...

why do u keep going to men for help when u know they will ask for ur body?? Ask ur fellow women
...but no....u go to men..because u know that biologically men want pvsssi which will make u easily get what you want....but hey!! u then turn around to form victim....
madam...we know the game....it's just that u fail to see u are the ones the losing end....

rape is the only condition where a woman is not at fault for sex...and this happens to but young boys and girls....anyone who rapes should be jailed....it's that simple.. but rape is not the context of this thread...

lol....there is a 19year old girl in front page story who gladly said she would rather make millions with her body than be in a relationship that won't make money for her...

See I like how u pretend like u are victims instead of facing the truth .....but the evidence is clear....u can only deceive ourselves...y'all choose to be wayward..>>>>start having sex as at teenage years..
why are u dating when u aint even ready for marriage ?? U stack up body count and start blaming men when u turn 26-30 years old.
..okay continue blaming men instead of educating ur fellow woman....y'all have no business having sex when u are young... If y'all close ur legs till 24/25....guys will marry early because they ain't getting sex for free...

lol...this is the narrative u want because it makes u blame men.........but u forget that if cocacola ddnt make their product available no one will bring out money to buy......have u seen men present money to gracious, serious women,... Have u ever heard okojo eweala or funke akindele, say a man press huge money to sleep with them

.y'all choose to commercialize your body but turn around to blame the buyer....??
See madam....everyone wants it...but u are the one pretending to be victim after spreading legs for irresponsible men...

. Yes...let the person that will carry belle for 9 months blame the person that just cvm and walk and have nothing to lose....
Push as much as you can, men remains the head to take responsibility to heal the world.

Our women are the way they are because many have been pushed to the wall. Yet you say they are playing victim, they are the victims.
Men think they are wise when they sleep around , paying for sex and still calling women names,
no they are destroying values and cultural norms.
You have seen how far this wisemen has taken us to.
It’s okay if you think you are right.

Some men will still marry a virgin but will have a chick outside.
Why?
It’s a pity that something we thought was sacred is easily gotten this day, and at the evaluation table, women became the victim because she is a woman.

Man look for another thing let’s talk about.
I don tire for this talk.

Let those that want to give freely, give .

Let those that want to maintain purity, May fortress be their portion till the end.

and let those that want to sell and make money, continue.
Last last everyone will be okay.👌
Re: Don’t Let Nigerian Men Make You A Single Mother – Lady’s Advice (photos/video) by BreakingNews21: 6:18pm On Sep 11, 2025
Pretty lady and she makes very good sense. Guys should wrap it up (every time) and ladies should study and use modern day control methods.
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