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InvertedHammer:
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Get a life. Jeeez!

Are you for real?

This is your major concern in 2025?

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capital jeeez


I just cringed

He say he no be simp. Lawd

Oh dear. If u are really done with your now ex

You can come to me let me show you true and real love.

Only if u are done with your ex. Because the way I can show true love is the one I will destroy u if u mess with my heart.

I love me a loyal man. My type of guy I want

Dzzzz:
You a SIMP bro…

Bro you beat me to posting that SIMP word. Hard to believe some guys get stuck on one babe and can't keep it moving.

Oh dear. If u are really done with your now ex

You can come to me let me show you true and real love.
Only if u are done with your ex. Because the way I can show true love is the one I will destroy u if u mess with my heart.
I love me a loyal man. My type of guy I want

He isn’t a simp. He is just properly home trained and emotionally available

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

You still come here to ask? If true, what kind of man is this for God sake? Chai I don’t have any advice to waste.

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Barbeque is Now 15k
Catfish is 10k, if She Cant Climb The , She Should Stay At Home

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

whatever you do, don't accept her back.

You shouldn't have accepted her back in the first place. Let her continue with the first guy

BreakingNews21:
Bro you beat me to posting that SIMP word. Hard to believe some guys get stuck on one babe and can't keep it moving.

The guy think na fine boy Dey keep woman..

Brahamimo:
No the guy isn't better than me. I already got details of him.

Think about anything, in all ramifications, I'm better than him. Remember, a cheat is always a cheat. You can satisfy a woman sexually, care for her, gift her, respect her, yet she would still cheat

lol. To her , the person is better than you. You’ perhaps not seeing what she saw. One thing you need to know about women is, you can’t buy nor negotiate love.

I have a lot to say, but let me just sum it up with these two tips.
1. Keep her till you find better offer, that way you’ll be able to check out physically and emotionally while you take your time to find replacement.
Even if she leaves the guy, the thought of another man pinning your girl to the bed edge will always haunt you.
2. Your new relationship; let the woman love you more… how do women love men?
Let her sacrifice for you , let her financial and emotional contributions be more than yours.
A woman will never leave or joke with her sacrifices.
Also go for women in your circle or slightly below your class. E get why.
Lastly, always have abundant mindset and not scarcity mindset..
You’ll be good. Welcome to the real world.

Give yourself time to research on why people cheat and then have a discussion with her on why she cheated. You could learn lots from the discussion.
it will help you for a future relationship. You don't have to solve it with the world. It's your personal problem.

Brahamimo:
No the guy isn't better than me. I already got details of him.

Think about anything, in all ramifications, I'm better than him. Remember, a cheat is always a cheat. You can satisfy a woman sexually, care for her, gift her, respect her, yet she would still cheat

There was something he was doing to her which she felt was worth it to warrant her not breaking up with him..

Lastly you are mouthing yourself... Why do you forgive a cheating girlfriend... A girl that has shown higher chances that she can never be contented with you...


Obviously she never rated you... Na you dey carry her matter on your head.. your ex relationship wasn't about love

Brahamimo:
No the guy isn't better than me. I already got details of him.

Think about anything, in all ramifications, I'm better than him. Remember, a cheat is always a cheat. You can satisfy a woman sexually, care for her, gift her, respect her, yet she would still cheat

my guy if dis yeye story na true, u re finished!

Una get mind to dey forgive a cheating girlfriend. Makes no sense when I think about it. You sounded more pathetic when you even asked her to choose you over another nigga, bruh. Let her go. And hit the gym to boost your testosterone you are soft in the inside.

In wicked Wike's voice... You dey smoke Igbo.

Going through all these for a lady you're atleast 6 years older than. A man must always be cool and calmly in control of the game... even if she's 10 years older.

The mistake you made was taking her back after she cheated on you , the bigger mistake was u asking her to choose between u and the guy she slept with.
Honestly man u messed up big time. Go and learn female psychology so u know how to operate with women well.

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

Why did you have to forgive her after finding out she cheated on you
You messed up big-time bro

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

you still simp bro! But in a lesser version.


The moment you find out or discover your babe is cheating! That's the very same moment you should breakup with her.

Forgive a cheating partner but never come back to her. You only forgive for your peace of mind but you should never go back to your cheating partners

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

"I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman" There was absolutely no need for this line. It's hurting you, that's why you brought it here. You're no "Alpha male" and there's no shame in that. To the topic, she's cheated, Maybe she's been cheating all the while, but you just found out about this one. Most single girls are hardly faithful. You may never get to trust her again if you continue in the relationship. Find someone else, someone better, but don't let her know (it will appear hard to do now for you). Then, last last, just know that even as a faithful single guy that you are right now, you might find yourself cheating when you eventually get married to a cheating girl who has decided to settle down and be faithful to you...this is not a rule , but oftentimes it's the Karma that occurs between girls-boys/ women-men.

Orisirisi...

If you were my descendant, I wouldn't advice you. I go jhus disown you, pursue far... Whose descendant is this?...

Chai

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

Stay firm: If she truly respected and loved you, she wouldn’t have left you with no choice but to sign out. Don’t let her incessant calls weaken your stance.

Protect your dignity: Picking her again without proof of genuine change would put you in a weaker position, and resentment would build up.

Allow space: You need time to heal, reflect, and regain your emotional balance. Even if she keeps reaching out, you don’t owe her a response right now

You acted wisely by leaving when she failed to respect your boundary. Forgiveness doesn’t mean tolerance of repeated disrespect. Stay firm, focus on your healing, and remind yourself that being loyal, faithful, and principled is not weakness — it’s strength.

I am just here to say I stopped at paragraph two. I have nothing else to say

Once a girl I am dating cheats on me, then she is a gunner. Imagine someone cheated on u and u are still telling the person to choose between you and the person she cheated on you with. Like what level of simping is that 🤣

I have just two words to tell you. Ghost her.

Brahamimo:
No the guy isn't better than me. I already got details of him.

Think about anything, in all ramifications, I'm better than him. Remember, a cheat is always a cheat. You can satisfy a woman sexually, care for her, gift her, respect her, yet she would still cheat

You blocked her on WhatsApp and FB why didn't you blacklist her number too.

Cheat don't change, if you're ready to share your woman with another man you can continue to forgive her and accept her back. She has choosed the other guy by refusing to cut him off, you're the one still holding on to the relationship. I wonder what advise do you still need.

This is a girl friend, I can't condone such with a wife talk more of a girl friend I'm not married to. The day you cheat on me and get caught I will kick you out to go be with the person you cheated with. This is my principle and my wife know this from the onset.

Note: I'm a married man(for two years plus) with a daughter.


We rise by lifting others

OP, you've done well.

Because I just dey vex as I dey read, expecting you to do the needful. But you did eventually....

tuzle:
Once a girl I am dating cheats on me, then she is a gunner. Imagine someone cheated on u and u are still telling the person to choose between you and the person she cheated on you with. Like what level of simping is that 🤣

It was not supposed to even be a debate, he should not have even told her, he should have just been banging her, then anytime she drops the marriage topic, he should then bring it up, then tell her he thought you both were not serious again, then if she push for something serious, he should tell her it's only a banging relationship you can offer her.

What did I just read nitori Olohun Eledumare??