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There is this guy in my compound have been monitoring him, I'm suspecting he is a gay.. he doesn't talk to anyone in our compound he only greets and have never seen him with any girl or friends... He stay indoors and he is always busy.. But why are some people weird like this, how is he even enjoying life chaiiiii. How can you live a life without girls, smoking, partying, watching football , no friends..??

You have become a monitoring spirit. What concerns you about someone else's life? Face your own. You have enough troubles of your own, don't add someone's issues who does not care about you to your own

Kaa4:
You have become a monitoring spirit. What concerns you about someone else's life? Face your own. You have enough troubles of your own, don't add someone's issues who does not care about you to your own

We have to be vigilant nowadays, we can't trust people easily.. I will continue monitoring him because he is not normal!!! There is something he is hiding

Onkoolos:
There is this guy in my compound have been monitoring him, I'm suspecting he is a gay.. he doesn't talk to anyone in our compound he only greets and have never seen him with any girl or friends... He stay indoors and he is always busy.. But why are some people weird like this, how is he even enjoying life chaiiiii. How can you live a life without girls, smoking, partying, watching football , no friends..??

😂 😂 😂.

U just described my pal from 2021 to 2023

Guy doesn't even greet his neighbors.

Night crawler. Na phone be him shop, doesn't like distraction. And ontop of it. F*cks the neighbors daughters on a night vigil pattern(the one in same compound and beside). He's exactly how u descibe. Once night reach. He open door keep for who dey ontop timetable and goes out fully street mode around 1am. Na osho house n clubs full that area, they really don't have AM or PM

Onkoolos:
We have to be vigilant nowadays, we can't trust people easily.. I will continue monitoring him because he is not normal!!! There is something he is hiding

I hope the day he would attend one of those churches he wouldn't be told there's a monitoring spirit around him 😆 😂 😂

Apart from the part where he doesn't greet people,I don't see any other way which you can use to qualify him as a bad person........

Personally,I'm the kind of person who doesn't like going out....... Don't smoke, don't drink...

Onkoolos:
We have to be vigilant nowadays, we can't trust people easily.. I will continue monitoring him because he is not normal!!! There is something he is hiding

Mind your business and leave him alone, having a girlfriend is not the ultimate, honestly, it is better to stay single until you are ready to marry than having Nigeria ladies as girlfriend this is because most Nigeria ladies don't deserve to be in a relationship. Imagine, you will do the whole work, cracking jokes, pay the bills and others and yet you want a guy in peace with himself to go and drag problem

When you get more mature u will understand him better.

Some people don't like minding their business in this country. You should focus on your own life and allow the guy be.

The smoking, partying and womanizing go soon tire you. Is a just a phase...

nnamdi640:
Mind your business and leave him alone, having a girlfriend is not the ultimate, honestly, it is better to stay single until you are ready to marry than having Nigeria ladies as girlfriend this is because most Nigeria ladies don't deserve to be in a relationship. Imagine, you will do the whole work, cracking jokes, pay the bills and others and yet you want a guy at peace with himself to go and drag problem

How he go cure konji?? .. Until he rape person abii. These are the kind of people will need to be monitoring... I suspect him..

T0BY:
Some people don't like minding their business in this country. You should focus on your own life and allow the guy be.

The smoking, partying and womanizing go soon tire you. Is a just a phase...

Sey smoking and partying tired baba fela before he dies.. ..

Sonnobax15:

Apart from the part where he doesn't greet people,I don't see any other way which you can use to qualify him as a bad person........

Personally,I'm the kind of person who doesn't like going out....... Don't smoke, don't drink...

but you like woman.. because it is not possible to live without those things

Onkoolos:
How he go cure konji?? .. Until he rape person abii. These are the kind of people will need to be monitoring... I suspect him..

Go and ask rev Fathers how do they cure konji. You should know that some men don't think with that thing in-between their legs, the use their brains such men are not loose men and I believe we still have such men around us.

nnamdi640:
Go and ask rev Fathers how do they cure konji. You should know that some men don't think with that thing in-between their legs, the use their brains such men are not loose men and I believe we still have such men around us.

I don't think that is possible, he will rather be masturbating which is more worse... It can leads urge for raping people

Some people are like that and there's nothing wrong with being that way. You might be thinking he is losing out by not doing those things you mentioned but he is actually living the best of life. Debauchery is not something to be proud of and those who indulge in it will later realise how futile it is.
The more sensible you are, the more you tend to reduce or overlook womanising, clubbing, partying, smoking, alcohol, noise making, etc.
Moreso, you shouldn't be disturbed by how someone chooses to live his life, people are different, and everybody is living at a certain level of consciousness and experience.

Onkoolos:
I don't think that is possible, he will rather be masturbating which is more worse... It can leads urge for raping people

speak for yourself, not because you can't do without sex doesn't mean others can't do without it.

I don't think that is possible, he will rather be masturbating which is more worse... It can leads urge for raping people

I can't vouch for anybody, but even if you think rev frs are not truly celibate, what about monks, celibacy is older than Christianity and do you think those men who adopt it as a permanent lifestyle are just deceiving themselves

Natbrowny:
😂 😂 😂.

U just described my pal from 2021 to 2023

Guy doesn't even greet his neighbors.

Night crawler. Na phone be him shop, doesn't like distraction. And ontop of it. F*cks the neighbors daughters on a night vigil pattern(the one in same compound and beside). He's exactly how u descibe. Once night reach. He open door keep for who dey ontop timetable and goes out fully street mode around 1am. Na osho house n clubs full that area, they really don't have AM or PM

Na pH the guy bin dey?

Onkoolos:
There is this guy in my compound have been monitoring him, I'm suspecting he is a gay.. he doesn't talk to anyone in our compound he only greets and have never seen him with any girl or friends... He stay indoors and he is always busy.. But why are some people weird like this, how is he even enjoying life chaiiiii. How can you live a life without girls, smoking, partying, watching football , no friends..??

How many years old are you? You found someone you should emulate his lifestyle in order to discover peace of mind, rather you are suspecting him. Indeed many Nigerians need mental overhauling. It is someone like you that will travel abroad and tarnish our image with your crude thinking and behavior.

If you see him different girls now..you will tag him a womanizer and an unfocused man.

[quote author= post=136772893]How many years old are you? You found someone you should emulate his lifestyle in order to discover peace of mind, rather you are suspecting him. Indeed many Nigerians need mental overhauling. It is someone like you that will travel abroad and tarnish our image with your crude thinking and behavior.[/quote]Joblessness is the Devil's workshop; ignorance his merchandise!
See how the guy give Op a tedious job(community service) without pay?
If he offers his CCTV monitoring service to Malls, Banks, Hotels, Estates etc won't he be cashing out big time?
The fact that Op takes pride in his idleness is my major concern - someone that has to nurture any kinda business to earn in this economy won't have time to mimic a Monitor Lizard!

I don't see how he's weird in all of these.

Some people are introverts and live their best life when they're alone. I love being indoors more than anything. Neighbours, the few I know, always ask me if I've travelled. That's because I am hardly visible. I can stay indoors for a week without stepping out of my apartment. I don't even have friends, my siblings are my friends.

If you have an Internet connection, electricity and the house is stocked with food, Biko, wetin dey outside wey you dey find?

You see a gentleman that has sense enough to survive this country now but you without sense instead of studying and copying him, are here calling him weird.

placeofallure:
I don't see how he's weird in all of these.

Some people are introverts and live their best life when they're alone. I love being indoors more than anything. Neighbours, the few I know, always ask me if I've travelled. That's because I am hardly visible. I can stay indoors for a week without stepping out of my apartment. I don't even have friends, my siblings are my friends.

If you have an Internet connection, electricity and the house is stocked with food, Biko, wetin dey outside wey you dey find?

The bolded is me add working online.

However darkage dinosaurs and people who share 2by2 room with 6 occupants will want to project their miserable life on everyone.

A Man especially, who can't survive by himself, is afraid to meditate in the dark, can't draw ideas and creativity from his inner mind and always seeking validation from others is an empty barrel.
This is the reasons why Billionaires lives in quiet area and great mind -scientist, innovators, pioneer all draw inspiration from introspection!

What do people really want??

That you're on koolos, doesn't mean another person will be on koolos.

Have you become that jobless that you now monitor people living their life?

I'm the topic of their conversation. Some kind nosy and insecure people love poking into ones life.

I love my lowkey life. My Neighbor and his wife always monitoring my life back-to-back. If I flush my WC they will talk, if I drink water and the pure water nylon make a sound inside my trash bin for my apartment they will be like e just drink water finish and giggle

Rexymania:
Na pH the guy bin dey?

Nah. Makurdi